FabSwingers.com forum: Spot the swingers

By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Me and my wife sometimes like to see if we can spot swingers out and about in vanilla life and we will let each other know with a code word just in case there's people/ younger ears listening.

The code word is golfers does anyone else do something like this.

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By *he MinionMan
31 weeks ago

Surrey

Kind of when out with friends in the lifestyle. But we dont use a code word we just wonder if they are. Some, even wish they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Not really, I just assume if there is a couple with a loud d*unk lady showing more cleavage than me and heckling the men to “get yer trousers off” and the hubs doesn’t look murderous, then they MAY be into swingers fun.

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By *he MinionMan
31 weeks ago

Surrey

Hah this type of behaviour is often a clue 🤣

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Nice one bet it's fun overhearing chats between people in the lifestyle if your not. Hanging on there every word ha

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Ha ha I get that.

my wife's very quiet and very shy with what she's thinking and doesn't really drink but her cleavage is out alot sometimes and I don't mind guys looking so we may fly under the radar

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
31 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"Me and my wife sometimes like to see if we can spot swingers out and about in vanilla life and we will let each other know with a code word just in case there's people/ younger ears listening.

The code word is golfers does anyone else do something like this."

I find it's the plus fours and sun visors that generally give it away. Just ask them if they like visiting clubs and whether they fancy a foursome.

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By *ellhungvweMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If I am out on a social or with swinging friends then we will often try and work out who else might be swingers. I reckon they are the types you don’t expect so you will never guess.

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
31 weeks ago

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Kind of- I look at couples wishing they are and that they'd approach me for my services

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I like to look and see who's nearby then play who does the penis belong to.

Mrs

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

It's just something we do when doing normal day to day stuff shopping or days out with family and friends we wouldn't have the bottle to approach someone in public even if we was in the mood for a meet

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

I get that I don't think anyone would suspect us.

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

That Might happen one day for you finger's crossed

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Ha we need to try that sounds fun

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By *maginitivemindMan
31 weeks ago

notts

"It's just something we do when doing normal day to day stuff shopping or days out with family and friends we wouldn't have the bottle to approach someone in public even if we was in the mood for a meet "

Do it!!!!

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By *ellhungvweMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Do it!!!!"

Don't approach anyone in public. Ever.

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By *ermithimCouple
31 weeks ago

christchurch

"I like to look and see who's nearby then play who does the penis belong to.

Mrs "

Lol ! We have done this too !

I also now suspect anyone who announces they own a campervan

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By *ife NinjaMan
31 weeks ago

Dunfermline/Leeds

"Ha ha I get that.

my wife's very quiet and very shy with what she's thinking and doesn't really drink but her cleavage is out alot sometimes and I don't mind guys looking so we may fly under the radar "

She does have a lovely figure 🤓🤷‍♂️

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Yes definitely agree with the campervan ha

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By *ude LawMan
31 weeks ago

There's one.

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By *ude LawMan
31 weeks ago

"There's one."

And there's another.

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By *ude LawMan
31 weeks ago

"There's one.

And there's another."

Blimey. There's loads here.

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By *igerFiestaMan
31 weeks ago

Huddersfield

When she wears a necklace with a shiny metal cock ring dangling from it.

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By *aandLoCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton

Viewing a house to buy and the estate agent referred to a cupboard as a "glory hole." 😲

J and I gave each other a knowing glance.

Expecting to see Mr Estate Agent at a club near us soon. 🤣

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By *outherngent74Man
31 weeks ago

Hampshire

If you see a couple, and he’s wearing an upside down pineapple on a tee shirt, and she’s got ( It’s not cheating if my husband watches ) on hers.

Think possible swingers !!

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

ha ha glory hole I would of seen who's near by bet he's on fab

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Ha ha my wife loves wearing pineapple clothing knickers bra dresses

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By *aandLoCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton

"ha ha glory hole I would of seen who's near by bet he's on fab "

🤣🤣 Bet he is.

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By *orny IrishMan
31 weeks ago

North Wiltshire

I often have that thought especially when out in the local town and more so on a Saturday when the Swinging club is open.

Normally I am out in a vanilla night out so I only chat with myself in my head.

If I have been out on a social then I have done this with other swingers.

Good fun game.

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By *ackandsallyCouple
31 weeks ago

Ireland

We play this game all the time lol love it

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By *ambs MikeMan
31 weeks ago

Cambridge

It was fun on the flight to Gran Canaria to work out who may be in the lifestyle

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Yes it good fun. We see the world in a different light after been in the lifestyle. Everyone is a potential swingers or something to do with the lifestyle

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By *entleman JayMan
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I’ve met a lot of Fabbers over the years. From my experience it’s impossible to tell.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds

"Yes it good fun. We see the world in a different light after been in the lifestyle. Everyone is a potential swingers or something to do with the lifestyle "

If you click reply and quote we know which comment you are replying to

Mrs

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By *T2022Man
30 weeks ago

Manchester

its sometimes interesting to imagine if a couple are .

or to see if you csn see a tat or a leg necklace.

but at parties ive been to you sometimes think i would of never guessed if i saw them at the shopping centre

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By *T2022Man
30 weeks ago

Manchester

its sometimes interesting to imagine if a couple are .

or to see if you csn see a tat or a leg necklace.

but at parties ive been to you sometimes think i would of never guessed if i saw them at the shopping centre

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By *liff77Man
30 weeks ago

chelmsford

Checking for pineapple logos these days ! 😀

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

My husband looks at there feet to see if he can see a hot wife charm. We found one once but had our children with us so couldnt take any further.

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By *eo PublicMan
30 weeks ago

Lincoln

"Viewing a house to buy and the estate agent referred to a cupboard as a "glory hole." 😲

J and I gave each other a knowing glance.

Expecting to see Mr Estate Agent at a club near us soon. 🤣"

I think that usage of the term glory hole probably dates back further than the one you're thinking of.

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
30 weeks ago

cleckheaton

"Yes it good fun. We see the world in a different light after been in the lifestyle. Everyone is a potential swingers or something to do with the lifestyle

If you click reply and quote we know which comment you are replying to

Mrs "
thank you for letting me know. This is my 2nd time using the feature and I messed it up last time 👍

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
30 weeks ago

cleckheaton

"Checking for pineapple logos these days ! 😀"
yes we are always looking for things with pineapples on it

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
30 weeks ago

cleckheaton

"My husband looks at there feet to see if he can see a hot wife charm. We found one once but had our children with us so couldnt take any further."
never heard of that. What is the charm. Pineapple? Or is that obvious of me to think it would be there

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By *obsrocketMan
30 weeks ago

Loughborough

I did the opposite in October at a swingers social in a hotel. There was also a wedding reception there. It was fun playing wedding guest or swinger at breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"My husband looks at there feet to see if he can see a hot wife charm. We found one once but had our children with us so couldnt take any further. never heard of that. What is the charm. Pineapple? Or is that obvious of me to think it would be there "

It is a charm that is worn on a braclet around the foot. Lots of women have them on with charms on but the hotwife charm means exactly that. She is a swinging hot wife

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By *rAndMrsW8793 OP Couple
30 weeks ago

cleckheaton

"I did the opposite in October at a swingers social in a hotel. There was also a wedding reception there. It was fun playing wedding guest or swinger at breakfast."
yes that does sound like a fun game to play 👍

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