FabSwingers.com forum: How old were you??

By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 and considered an "old" mother!!!!

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

I was 32.

One and only.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I was 18

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "

25 for my son

28 for my daughter

Hunnie, there is no age to have babies!!!

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol"

lol my number is 34...thats next year I better find sperm lol...

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"27 and considered an "old" mother!!!!

My mum was 43....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 22 ..married and in love ..and I was 32 when I had my last child. .still married and in love back then

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I was 25 when I had daughter 28 when I had the son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 22 and got a double whammy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

26. Just the right age for me.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I was 22 and got a double whammy "

I bet that was a shocker lol

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

26 for 1st, 29 for 2nd 33 for 3rd........and last !!!

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

See I got pregnant at 30...but it was not meant to be... I thought it was the right age etc.. Its funny how life works out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 when i did it again...my mum was 42 when she had my sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol

lol my number is 34...thats next year I better find sperm lol..."

Finding sperm is easy. Finding a responsible, caring loving donor is the hard part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"27 and considered an "old" mother!!!!

My mum was 43....lol

at the time it was apparently "old" to be having a first child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 22 and got a double whammy

I bet that was a shocker lol "

It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol

lol my number is 34...thats next year I better find sperm lol...

Finding sperm is easy. Finding a responsible, caring loving donor is the hard part. "

True....

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I was 18 when I had my daughter, I remember people having a gossip about it etc. But I think me and the ex hubby coped well. My daughter was well mannered, did well at school and collage. She's nearly 28 now a mother herself, I couldn't be any more prouder of her.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I was 22 and got a double whammy

I bet that was a shocker lol

It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol"

You are gorgeous nothing run down about you...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"See I got pregnant at 30...but it was not meant to be... I thought it was the right age etc.. Its funny how life works out..

I am a great believer that things in life happen for a reason...It will happen if it is meant to!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've always been of the opinion that a woman should wait until she's a fully responsible, mature adult before bringing sprogs into the world...therefore, I shall possibly be looking at IVF sometime in the 2040's when I'm grown up enough

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 22 and got a double whammy

I bet that was a shocker lol

It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol

You are gorgeous nothing run down about you...

When one didn't sleep for longer than 2 hours in 9 months believe me there was lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 and had tried for 7 years

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"26 and had tried for 7 years

Wow I bet that was a moment when you found out..Doctors told me I'd never have kids due to injuries caused in a violent relationship I was in...after 7 months with someone I fell pregnant it was a surreal experience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im the eldest of my brothers n sisters...sis has 5, others have a cpl each

approaching 40 and I know I'm missing out.Tired of jetsetting around the world..meeting playboy centrefolds..milehigh gangbangs.

so I do indeed..very much...and mostly the pivotal role in my life , would be for me to have a

HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuggggE yacht

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "

17 and yes id do it all over again xx

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"26 and had tried for 7 years

to you both

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Haven't had a child as such but became a mother aged 30 which for me was late as I always wanted children young but it wasn't meant to be. Looking back I'm glad it didn't I was far too selfish when I was younger!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First boy at 31, 2nd at 36 and 3rd at 37 snip at 38 ... mum is 10 years younger than me. Didn't realise how young she was when having our first born till I put it down in writing.

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

29 and my one regret i left it to late to want another

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Haven't had a child as such but became a mother aged 30 which for me was late as I always wanted children young but it wasn't meant to be. Looking back I'm glad it didn't I was far too selfish when I was younger!!"

Good for you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"26 and had tried for 7 years

I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"26 and had tried for 7 years

I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x

Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

24 for first, 26 for second and 34 for last (no, it wasn't a "mistake").

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im the eldest of my brothers n sisters...sis has 5, others have a cpl each

approaching 40 and I know I'm missing out.Tired of jetsetting around the world..meeting playboy centrefolds..milehigh gangbangs.

so I do indeed..very much...and mostly the pivotal role in my life , would be for me to have a

HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuggggE yacht "

Keping it real as always!!!!!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"26 and had tried for 7 years

I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x

Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx"

Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

My boy is now 20 years old, 6ft 7, beautiful and a good person...

but i am a strict mother

hes been compared to Ben Affleck and Cristiano Rinaldo in the looks department

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"26 and had tried for 7 years

I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x

Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx

Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx"

good for you!! Glad a child got a loving home!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my daughter at 24. She's 9 in July and she thinks I'm an OAP.

You've loads of time my dear, no rush.

I wish you well on your "sperm search" though

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I was 21 when my first son was born had the snip after my second ..but then my daughter came along so I got done again .. so I'm definitely firing blanks now

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.

I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol

lol my number is 34...thats next year I better find sperm lol..."

more than happy to make a donation

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx

Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx

good for you!! Glad a child got a loving home!! xx"

Just a shame more people wont consider it. I now work with looked after children and there's so many kids needing homes. It breaks my heart when the gorgeous kids i work with are left needing forever mummies

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.

I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.

Had all of that when I had the miscarriage they said everything was in working order... that the injuries had not had a long term impact...

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx

Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx

good for you!! Glad a child got a loving home!! xx

Sadly I can't adopt due to circumstances.... It is sad to see x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Thought I was giving birth this morning. I'm not expecting the same issue tomorrow.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Thought I was giving birth this morning. I'm not expecting the same issue tomorrow. "

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Thought I was giving birth this morning. I'm not expecting the same issue tomorrow. "

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By *andF_funCouple
over a year ago

Philly PA area

27 first child

30 when I had twins

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Big hugs cheeky xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.

I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.

Had all of that when I had the miscarriage they said everything was in working order... that the injuries had not had a long term impact... "

Check what your bloods say on hormones and that you've got plenty of eggs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 ... was a shock. been a single mum from day one. get my down days but most of the time its all fun and games with us. i think she's my double x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "

Told you I'll send you my sperm in a Turkey bastor

21 when my son was born

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 18 and would do it again in a heartbeat if I could. Sadly he is to be my one and only child, but I am very grateful and feel truly blessed that I have a son. He was 14 yesterday

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

31 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 26 when my daughter was born, 28 for my son

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

33 when my lttle girl was born shes now 13 and taller than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 17,19,21,24 and they're the best. All grown up and Beautiful with Children of their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 17,19,21,24 and they're the best. All grown up and Beautiful with Children of their own

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making most of the fun now then isit

i got 5kids so know wot its like lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 17,19,21,24 and they're the best. All grown up and Beautiful with Children of their own

making most of the fun now then isit

i got 5kids so know wot its like lol x"

Feck me neither of you 2 have tv's lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 17,19,21,24 and they're the best. All grown up and Beautiful with Children of their own

making most of the fun now then isit

i got 5kids so know wot its like lol x

Feck me neither of you 2 have tv's lol

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just love sex n lots of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 23

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.

I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.

I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.

I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.

I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family. "
never give up hun, wish i could help ppl like u who want a child x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 20 then 21 then 25. Im done with having kids. My three are my world. But my body is tired and battered from pregnancy and birth i feel much older than i am

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I was 23 when I had my first daughter, when she was only 8 or so weeks old I was told by my GP that I was pregnant, he didn't know whether to congratulate me or not! 11 month age gap...it was interesting, but wouldn't change it for the world, as they are so close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 23 when I had my first daughter, when she was only 8 or so weeks old I was told by my GP that I was pregnant, he didn't know whether to congratulate me or not! 11 month age gap...it was interesting, but wouldn't change it for the world, as they are so close."

Wow that is close...i have 18 months between my two eldest and found it great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 19 he is an only child, my mum had me when i was 38, i was an accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.

I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.

I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family. never give up hun, wish i could help ppl like u who want a child x"

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I count myself blessed that I have never had any. I prefer to have dogs!

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

I was 26 when I had my son having been told the previous year after tests that there was very little chance of getting pregnant due to a blocked tube and the other one very badly scarred - my now ex husband thought by saying we would try would keep me happy as he had 2 from first marriage (he didn't want anymore) - he was shocked when I got pregnant on first attempt. My son is 19 later this week and I love him so much and so proud of him. When I left my first husband, he thought that 'letting me try for another child' would make me stay.....no way! Decided not to try with my 2nd husband as we already had a child each and looking back, I'm glad we made that decision as we aren't together now. I don't want anymore as at 45, I feel I'm getting too old and want to enjoy my partner's grandkids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30. And I should point out that it was actually the ex who had him, it being currently biologically impossible for me to have done it.

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

"Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.

I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.

Had all of that when I had the miscarriage they said everything was in working order... that the injuries had not had a long term impact...

Check what your bloods say on hormones and that you've got plenty of eggs."

I second this. Hubby & I wanted to be sensible and wait until we were married to start trying. 2 years into trying, we find out i'm early menopause (through follicle scan & bloods). 2 years, 1 unsucessful and 1 successful (but miscarried) IVF later, i'm showing signs of that early menopause starting. I'm 33 also.

We'll have 1 more go at IVF but it's probably too late for me. I wish we'd known that 10 years ago.

I would always encourage a woman to go and get checked - even if you're not sure just yet. I know i'm a rare case but leave it thinking it's OK, and you may not be left with a choice. There really is nothing worse than having than choice taken away from you.

*Her*

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had any.

Won't ever have any.

I shall take my cluckyness out on other peoples children

That way I can give em back if they get a bit too challenging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That may av sounded a tad insensitive so apolgies if it did.

My ex mrs was pregnant with twins, which we lost.

Afterwards, they unfortunately had to take away her ability to bear children and it was at that point that I kinda resigned myself to being a fantastic uncle instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "

I was 21 and just moved into my bf's student house and well two more children since and a lot of changes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 17,19,21,24 and they're the best. All grown up and Beautiful with Children of their own

making most of the fun now then isit

i got 5kids so know wot its like lol x

Feck me neither of you 2 have tv's lol

I have 4 Beautiful Daughters and Nope we didn't have Tv's in those days lol xx

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"That may av sounded a tad insensitive so apolgies if it did.

My ex mrs was pregnant with twins, which we lost.

Afterwards, they unfortunately had to take away her ability to bear children and it was at that point that I kinda resigned myself to being a fantastic uncle instead

Aw that is such a shame...

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.

I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.

I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family. "

Adoption??? More than one way to have a family and hugs to you x

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am sure my time will come just puts things into perspective for me..

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

20. But I think these days people wait longer because things like buying their first home etc isn't as easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pregnant at 18, miscarried at 16 weeks.

With my fertility problems, and lack of a proper relationship its looking increasingly like I'll never have kids.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Pregnant at 18, miscarried at 16 weeks.

With my fertility problems, and lack of a proper relationship its looking increasingly like I'll never have kids.

Never say never...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love number 2, but guess im grateful to have 1

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By *ICEFITMan
over a year ago

dundee

Denise at 19 Kirsten at 22, done dusted and thankfully all grown up now

never again haha.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I was 19. Only had one. She's now 31 and has no plans for a baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 21 for my first & 29 for my 2nd the age gap has put me off having anymore lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" She's now 31 and has no plans for a baby."

My oldest sister is 37 and has no plans.

Prob never will now, because I think 37 is possibly a bit late.

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

27. My wife was 26 . We were considered a bit old. Then a big gap and 35 and 34 for next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was 25 and had 2 girls who are now 18 and 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to run down mum of 2 lol"

Aww, big hugs to all the run down mums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 for my first, 31 with my second and now 33 and currently pregnant with my 3rd and final baby x

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over a year ago

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

28 for our first after 8 years of trying, medical intervention was necessary, loads of different types of drugs and having to jab myself in the arse with a javelin sized needle

And 34 for the 2nd, after a further 4 years of drugs and needles. Love them both to bits and they were worth every minute of stress and worry I had.

I still mean it at the end of Half-Term week

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

" She's now 31 and has no plans for a baby.

My oldest sister is 37 and has no plans.

Prob never will now, because I think 37 is possibly a bit late."

Many women I know have had children later than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 for my first and 28 for my last. Just about right for me. I had no desire to be a mother before then and I'm still young enough to be having fun now they're not so dependant on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really young, id had 2 kids by the time I was 18. It was very hard work and always encouraged my girls to wait till they wad older, on the up side my girls are now 18 and 20 and at 38 i have my life back while im still young enough to enjoy it, i know plenty of women my age still depend on baby sitters to go out and still doing the school run, its swings and roundabouts really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23, 2nd at 27

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23.

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

33 x

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"I was 22 and got a double whammy

I bet that was a shocker lol

It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol

You are gorgeous nothing run down about you...

When one didn't sleep for longer than 2 hours in 9 months believe me there was lol"
thats how me and my ex was when we had ours 18 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never phyisically given birth but gained my girls aged 25 and they were 11 and 7 xx and i met my now husband, now the 11 year old is 23 and has her own son aged 3 and another on the way xx

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Had my first at 24 and my 4th (last!!) at 37 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried for 6yrs then had my son at 30, I lost twins a year later and then went on to have two daughters at 36 and 38.......

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I had just turned 36 when I had my one and only child. Older mums weren't as common place as they are now. He was worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am having my first before im 30

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

41 and not had a baby so think I've had it !

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"When you had your first child?? "

Either never or I don't know lol

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"I was really young, id had 2 kids by the time I was 18. It was very hard work and always encouraged my girls to wait till they wad older, on the up side my girls are now 18 and 20 and at 38 i have my life back while im still young enough to enjoy it, i know plenty of women my age still depend on baby sitters to go out and still doing the school run, its swings and roundabouts really "

2 kids by the age of 18, now they've 18 and 20 years younger? Do you have a time warp in your house or more than 2 kids? lol

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I had my first at 18 my fourth when I was 21 and a ooops at 28 guess I've done my bit for the population lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 30 ,32,34,35 and 39

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more interesting question about age is not when you had your child, but are you still with the father?? I'll bet a higher percentage of the younger ones aren't. As you get older you learn what you want from life so are more likely to pick a partner you'll stay with

(Yes there'll be exceptions so don't get your knickers in a twist, folks!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "

I don't have kids so class my dogs are them so ad my 1st dog when I left home and was 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 having my first .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my one and only baby When I was 31. For me it was the right decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Late 20s,

oldest is now 22 and youngest 17, girl and boy, brought them up on my own for the last 12yrs, well with me mums help, but have two rare diamonds, youngest will still give me a kiss on the cheek when saying he's off out even in front of his mate's

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