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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh.....NO you have done it here...

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up."

My question is, if a woman is large and under happy, what are they unhappy about? Is it because they do not meet what the media says is the size to be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont understand how lady feels she can speak for everyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how one* lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh.....NO you have done it here... "

I think there may be a misunderstanding. I disagree with her.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up."

That's alongside Kate Moss saying 'nothing tastes as good as skinny feels'. Utter tosh. Bigger people are MADE to feel unhappy about their size by the expectations of society.

Naturally, if someone is unhealthy - as I was - then losing weight makes sense. But if you are pretty fit, active and healthy, your body shape is irrelevant.

And it is rather arrogant of someone to say another MUST be unhappy because of their size. If they are unhappy it is because of brainless and insensitive comments about their size from people who probably know nothing about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.

That's alongside Kate Moss saying 'nothing tastes as good as skinny feels'. Utter tosh. Bigger people are MADE to feel unhappy about their size by the expectations of society.

Naturally, if someone is unhealthy - as I was - then losing weight makes sense. But if you are pretty fit, active and healthy, your body shape is irrelevant.

And it is rather arrogant of someone to say another MUST be unhappy because of their size. If they are unhappy it is because of brainless and insensitive comments about their size from people who probably know nothing about them."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.

My question is, if a woman is large and under happy, what are they unhappy about? Is it because they do not meet what the media says is the size to be ?"

I think her point was based on the whole media idea of slim is happy and beautiful. Half of what the media is portraying is fake anyways, so kind of an oxymoron.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont understand how lady feels she can speak for everyone else? "

Yeah. She came across as rather self entitled and did speak down to the other woman on the show with her, just because she was a little bit more curvy.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Oh.....NO you have done it here...

I think there may be a misunderstanding. I disagree with her."

no Its just every week there is a thread about size,weight etc and it just goes on and on....so i shall remove myself from this thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance is way more ugly than fat in my opinion.

Signed

An unarrogant fattie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost 3 stone 2 years mainly through stress and was the most miserable ive ever been in my life. Now im.back to my old fat self im the happiest ive been in years...but its more that the thougjt of being smaller reminds.me.of the shit at the time. So to me fat is happy

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By *adkatWoman
over a year ago

Alfreton

I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.

That's alongside Kate Moss saying 'nothing tastes as good as skinny feels'. Utter tosh. Bigger people are MADE to feel unhappy about their size by the expectations of society.

Naturally, if someone is unhealthy - as I was - then losing weight makes sense. But if you are pretty fit, active and healthy, your body shape is irrelevant.

And it is rather arrogant of someone to say another MUST be unhappy because of their size. If they are unhappy it is because of brainless and insensitive comments about their size from people who probably know nothing about them."

The body has a natural weight and shape that is different from person to person. Being judged as unhealthy or unhappy just because of you're not of the societal ideal, means that they have a rather shallow and obscure view on what it means to be happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh.....NO you have done it here...

I think there may be a misunderstanding. I disagree with her.

no Its just every week there is a thread about size,weight etc and it just goes on and on....so i shall remove myself from this thread... "

Lol, I've read a few of them myself but this one did get on my nerves a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Arrogance is way more ugly than fat in my opinion.

Signed

An unarrogant fattie!"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape"

My bp was tremendously high (not simply as a result of weight, though it was a contributing factor) and my cholesterol was up too. I had to change my life or lose it. I was a serious stroke risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape"

Normal people have normal problems. The media seems to love to show otherwise and want to add drama where it's not needed.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Oh.....NO you have done it here...

I think there may be a misunderstanding. I disagree with her.

no Its just every week there is a thread about size,weight etc and it just goes on and on....so i shall remove myself from this thread...

Lol, I've read a few of them myself but this one did get on my nerves a bit. "

Well some people don't know what they are talking about or talking out their bum hole....(the woman not you)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape

My bp was tremendously high (not simply as a result of weight, though it was a contributing factor) and my cholesterol was up too. I had to change my life or lose it. I was a serious stroke risk."

Well I'm glad that you are well now and hopefully enjoying life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up."
she was full of shit

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape

My bp was tremendously high (not simply as a result of weight, though it was a contributing factor) and my cholesterol was up too. I had to change my life or lose it. I was a serious stroke risk.

Well I'm glad that you are well now and hopefully enjoying life. "

I'm fine now, healthy eating, plenty of exercise and a great sex life! What more can I ask for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh.....NO you have done it here...

I think there may be a misunderstanding. I disagree with her.

no Its just every week there is a thread about size,weight etc and it just goes on and on....so i shall remove myself from this thread... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh.....NO you have done it here...

I think there may be a misunderstanding. I disagree with her.

no Its just every week there is a thread about size,weight etc and it just goes on and on....so i shall remove myself from this thread...

Lol, I've read a few of them myself but this one did get on my nerves a bit.

Well some people don't know what they are talking about or talking out their bum hole....(the woman not you)"

Casting judgement of people who you know nothing of and assuming hat you know better gets on my nerves. I did want to reach across the screen and shake the heck out of her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape

My bp was tremendously high (not simply as a result of weight, though it was a contributing factor) and my cholesterol was up too. I had to change my life or lose it. I was a serious stroke risk.

Well I'm glad that you are well now and hopefully enjoying life.

I'm fine now, healthy eating, plenty of exercise and a great sex life! What more can I ask for! "

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape

My bp was tremendously high (not simply as a result of weight, though it was a contributing factor) and my cholesterol was up too. I had to change my life or lose it. I was a serious stroke risk."

When you are overweight your risk of getting high BP, heart issues, diabetes etc is increased. It does not mean you WILL get any of these issues, just means you have a high risk of getting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.she was full of shit"

That she was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful is beautiful!

Size has sod all to do with it!

Anyone for a cake?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I'm larger I have low blood pressure, low cholesterol and four dogs to walk so fairly healthy only thing makes me unhappy is my twot of an ex not my size or shape

My bp was tremendously high (not simply as a result of weight, though it was a contributing factor) and my cholesterol was up too. I had to change my life or lose it. I was a serious stroke risk.

When you are overweight your risk of getting high BP, heart issues, diabetes etc is increased. It does not mean you WILL get any of these issues, just means you have a high risk of getting."

Yes, I know. Family history plays a part too. High cholesterol is in the family, along with diabetes, high bp, strokes and angina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up."

I think everyone would change something about themselves so nobody is truly happy. Not just bigger women. However, when meeting people, I do think in general, bigger women have more hang ups about their looks

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.

I think everyone would change something about themselves so nobody is truly happy. Not just bigger women. However, when meeting people, I do think in general, bigger women have more hang ups about their looks "

Because they are made to feel that way. My ex was a Muslim. When I was carrying some weight a lot of the women were envious of me and especially loved my rounded face. They thought it made me look prettier. My sister-in-law was naturally skinny and hated herself for it. She would eat and eat, but was so active she simply burned it all off.

Our society, through media, send very very strong messages about what is deemed 'attractive'. If you don't fit this then you may be made to feel unhappy about your body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beautiful is beautiful!

Size has sod all to do with it!

Anyone for a cake? "

Me! cheesecake please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.

I think everyone would change something about themselves so nobody is truly happy. Not just bigger women. However, when meeting people, I do think in general, bigger women have more hang ups about their looks "

Well naturally being human means you nit pick at minor thing. Some do have hang ups but not through their own doing. Constantly being told you need to look a certain way, to be able to live a certain way does get to people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I happened to overhear on this morning show a discussion about body sizes. I heard a woman say that just because you are a little on the curvy side and happy with your size, you aren't truly happy unless you are slim. She did come across as highly opinionated and stuck up.

I think everyone would change something about themselves so nobody is truly happy. Not just bigger women. However, when meeting people, I do think in general, bigger women have more hang ups about their looks

Because they are made to feel that way. My ex was a Muslim. When I was carrying some weight a lot of the women were envious of me and especially loved my rounded face. They thought it made me look prettier. My sister-in-law was naturally skinny and hated herself for it. She would eat and eat, but was so active she simply burned it all off.

Our society, through media, send very very strong messages about what is deemed 'attractive'. If you don't fit this then you may be made to feel unhappy about your body."

Also true, certain cultures do have the opposite view and opinions go in reverse.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Beautiful is beautiful!

Size has sod all to do with it!

Anyone for a cake? "

Can I get a burger on that cake?

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beautiful is beautiful!

Size has sod all to do with it!

Anyone for a cake?

Me! cheesecake please "

Nothing better than a raspberry and blueberry cheesecake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beautiful is beautiful!

Size has sod all to do with it!

Anyone for a cake?

Can I get a burger on that cake?

- Amy. x"

What kind of burger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

media contradicts itself alot when comes to weight.

they slag peeps off if skinny or big. yet go on about diets etc also.

when someone gains weight papers slate them, then when they loose it they still slate them! no win situation!

everyone is ment be different shapes and sizes..and in my oppinion if u have to go to the gym every day to look a certain way..then ur body aint ment look like that!

all shapes and sizes are beautiful as we all see things differently as too whats attractive and what isnt. so in reality...no matter body or shape we all attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beautiful is beautiful!

Size has sod all to do with it!

Anyone for a cake? "

Victoria sandwich for me please !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"media contradicts itself alot when comes to weight.

they slag peeps off if skinny or big. yet go on about diets etc also.

when someone gains weight papers slate them, then when they loose it they still slate them! no win situation!

everyone is ment be different shapes and sizes..and in my oppinion if u have to go to the gym every day to look a certain way..then ur body aint ment look like that!

all shapes and sizes are beautiful as we all see things differently as too whats attractive and what isnt. so in reality...no matter body or shape we all attractive! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being slim makes you happy because its one less thing for you to worry about.

theres probably more good things about being slim than there are bad things.

when i was in my twenties i was slim,

i still worried about what i looked like though. i know people who are slim and they still lack confidence, you could be miserable because you cant eat what you like.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"What kind of burger?"

Hmm, a 6oz grilled rare beef burger with cheedar cheese, bacon, salsa, lettuce, tomato, fried onions, pickles and a toasted bun, please!

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of burger?

Hmm, a 6oz grilled rare beef burger with cheedar cheese, bacon, salsa, lettuce, tomato, fried onions, pickles and a toasted bun, please!

- Amy. x"

And the cake?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"being slim makes you happy because its one less thing for you to worry about.

"

But we only worry about it because of society's perceptions. Slim people in other cultures are more unhappy because there they value being bigger! So being bigger makes you happy because it is one less thing to worry about in some cultures!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"being slim makes you happy because its one less thing for you to worry about.

theres probably more good things about being slim than there are bad things.

when i was in my twenties i was slim,

i still worried about what i looked like though. i know people who are slim and they still lack confidence, you could be miserable because you cant eat what you like.

"

A bit yes and no. I'm slim too but was always wanting to be a bit bigger due to being teased about it. Only now I don't give a damn and realised that it's my body and just have to be happy with it.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"And the cake? "

Costco's double chocolate fudge cake with vanilla ice cream, of course.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the cake?

Costco's double chocolate fudge cake with vanilla ice cream, of course.

- Amy. x"

It'll probably melt before I get to Watford and be a sticky gooey mess!

*and the cake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What kind of burger?

Hmm, a 6oz grilled rare beef burger with cheedar cheese, bacon, salsa, lettuce, tomato, fried onions, pickles and a toasted bun, please!

- Amy. x"

Sounds delectable.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"It'll probably melt before I get to Watford and be a sticky gooey mess!

*and the cake! "

That's fine, I can just rub it all over my body ...for no apparent reason...

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im naturaly a skinny thing..which as a guy i hate i have to admit!

yet when all dolled up and i go out clubbing i always get compliments from Women saying i want ur legs and ass, and great figure!

and have to say...there are many ways people can loose weight and clubs to join..even peeps have that band thingy done.

ye what is out there for skinny peeps who want put weight on? they nothing like weight wachers..even doctors dissmiss it, as i seen mine about weight some years back and there attitude is..ur skinny be happy!

so being skinny/slim aint all that and no matter a persons size we can all get down about it sometimes....now wheres those pies haha i need fattening up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some cultures i'm worth 5 cows,3 goats and half a dozen chickens!!! ...i'm pretty happy about that!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It'll probably melt before I get to Watford and be a sticky gooey mess!

*and the cake!

That's fine, I can just rub it all over my body ...for no apparent reason...

- Amy. x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im naturaly a skinny thing..which as a guy i hate i have to admit!

yet when all dolled up and i go out clubbing i always get compliments from Women saying i want ur legs and ass, and great figure!

and have to say...there are many ways people can loose weight and clubs to join..even peeps have that band thingy done.

ye what is out there for skinny peeps who want put weight on? they nothing like weight wachers..even doctors dissmiss it, as i seen mine about weight some years back and there attitude is..ur skinny be happy!

so being skinny/slim aint all that and no matter a persons size we can all get down about it sometimes....now wheres those pies haha i need fattening up "

Yeah. People will always have issues that will bring them down no matter their size.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"In some cultures i'm worth 5 cows,3 goats and half a dozen chickens!!! ...i'm pretty happy about that!!! "

Wonder what I'm worth?

I've listened to my mother tell me 'you'd be stunning if you were thin' for the last 20 years... you'd think she'd have got the message by now but I'm pretty convinced that she thinks I'm single because I'm a lardy arse. It's not just media that are responsible for the impression people seem to be under about weight issues... sometimes it starts closer to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll probably melt before I get to Watford and be a sticky gooey mess!

*and the cake!

That's fine, I can just rub it all over my body ...for no apparent reason...

- Amy. x"

Why is there no CostCo near me....why damn you......why!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In some cultures i'm worth 5 cows,3 goats and half a dozen chickens!!! ...i'm pretty happy about that!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In some cultures i'm worth 5 cows,3 goats and half a dozen chickens!!! ...i'm pretty happy about that!!!

Wonder what I'm worth?

I've listened to my mother tell me 'you'd be stunning if you were thin' for the last 20 years... you'd think she'd have got the message by now but I'm pretty convinced that she thinks I'm single because I'm a lardy arse. It's not just media that are responsible for the impression people seem to be under about weight issues... sometimes it starts closer to home. "

I was told i was gorgeous and beautiful all through my teenager years by family and friends ( i was a size 14 then when all my mates were size 8/10)...this is probably why i think/know i am now ...all about confidence whatever your size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In some cultures i'm worth 5 cows,3 goats and half a dozen chickens!!! ...i'm pretty happy about that!!! "

id be worth nothing...id be turned upside down and made into a mop or broom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In some cultures i'm worth 5 cows,3 goats and half a dozen chickens!!! ...i'm pretty happy about that!!!

Wonder what I'm worth?

I've listened to my mother tell me 'you'd be stunning if you were thin' for the last 20 years... you'd think she'd have got the message by now but I'm pretty convinced that she thinks I'm single because I'm a lardy arse. It's not just media that are responsible for the impression people seem to be under about weight issues... sometimes it starts closer to home. "

Yup. The hardest hitting ones are from home. Used to get it from my dad but decided to just develop a thick skin and just enjoy my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big is beautiful ......... I hope woman see men like this too ......As i see all the men saying to woman its fine to be big here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Big is beautiful ......... I hope woman see men like this too ......As i see all the men saying to woman its fine to be big here ."

That's a good point. The discussion does always seem to be focused on women, rarely have I heard about the mens' side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big is beautiful ......... I hope woman see men like this too ......As i see all the men saying to woman its fine to be big here .

That's a good point. The discussion does always seem to be focused on women, rarely have I heard about the mens' side."
lets put this way a beer tummy on a lady here is fab and on a man is yukk , lol should be same but its not ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Big is beautiful ......... I hope woman see men like this too ......As i see all the men saying to woman its fine to be big here .

That's a good point. The discussion does always seem to be focused on women, rarely have I heard about the mens' side.lets put this way a beer tummy on a lady here is fab and on a man is yukk , lol should be same but its not ,"

Yeah. There are some double standards going about. Maybe on the man it is less appealing when they are quite hairy, only reason that comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh.....NO you have done it here... "

This belongs in one of the other sections surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets not go overboard with it people.

I'm happy that 'BBW' are happy within themselves but big isn't always beautiful. Infact, it often isn't. But the same applies to skinny as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just read about the article you mention on mail online, they were saying how nasty the slim lady was to the bigger lady.

i thought the big woman was as attractive as the slim woman.

i dont think there was any need for her to be so nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh.....NO you have done it here...

This belongs in one of the other sections surely? "

It might, but I just wanted to see what other people thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont understand how lady feels she can speak for everyone else? "

exactley!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lets not go overboard with it people.

I'm happy that 'BBW' are happy within themselves but big isn't always beautiful. Infact, it often isn't. But the same applies to skinny as well"

This wasn't more on the bbw aspect, but rather the whole slightly large to larger body image and how one person's opinions and thoughts, meant that unless you are slim you may a well be lying to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i just read about the article you mention on mail online, they were saying how nasty the slim lady was to the bigger lady.

i thought the big woman was as attractive as the slim woman.

i dont think there was any need for her to be so nasty."

Exactly. And the way she referred to her through body language and the comments did make me angry with her. So narrow minded and a shame that she gets to tell others how to live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent been slim since i was 16.. for a fat lass i do alright for myself though

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I havent been slim since i was 16.. for a fat lass i do alright for myself though "

I would not call you fat, more sexy, curvy and so so lusty mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I havent been slim since i was 16.. for a fat lass i do alright for myself though

I would not call you fat, more sexy, curvy and so so lusty mmmm"

im a dress size 26.. thats bigger than a heffer not quite a whale. but im cool with it. i just breathe in a lot and am greatful for massive tits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I havent been slim since i was 16.. for a fat lass i do alright for myself though

I would not call you fat, more sexy, curvy and so so lusty mmmm

im a dress size 26.. thats bigger than a heffer not quite a whale. but im cool with it. i just breathe in a lot and am greatful for massive tits "

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I havent been slim since i was 16.. for a fat lass i do alright for myself though

I would not call you fat, more sexy, curvy and so so lusty mmmm

im a dress size 26.. thats bigger than a heffer not quite a whale. but im cool with it. i just breathe in a lot and am greatful for massive tits "

Sounds pretty perfect to me yum

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Lets not go overboard with it people.

I'm happy that 'BBW' are happy within themselves but big isn't always beautiful. Infact, it often isn't. But the same applies to skinny as well"

Oh God!!! Finally someone speaks some sense!!! Thank you x x x

There are beautiful people of all shapes and sizes, there are average people of all shapes and sizes and there are ugly people of all shapes and sizes. So what if they all want to say they are beautiful. Who are we to dictate?? Live and let live people!!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

That woman on This Morning is one of the most odious people I have heard. She has been on breakfast tv before spouting her views on child care or something similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think if your the kind of person who's unhappy with yourself you will be no matter what you look like

Ive never rated myself, I don't like my body, im your classic yo yo dieter my weights up and down all the time, no matter wether im a size 10 or a size 20+, and I have been both and all sizes inbetween several times thro out my life, im still never happy with myself

My sister has the figure most women would pay for, I look at her and see perfection, she's slim, toned, tall, no stretch marks etc but she's not happy with herself

Yet I have a friend whos a big lass and does not give to hoots about it, I have known her years and in all that time have never heard her comment about her weight, its not even something that seems to be a issue to her, she's very outgoing and confidant

I really don't think confidance and happiness comes down to your body shape, some people just are content some arnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer women to bounce not rattle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I havent been slim since i was 16.. for a fat lass i do alright for myself though

I would not call you fat, more sexy, curvy and so so lusty mmmm

im a dress size 26.. thats bigger than a heffer not quite a whale. but im cool with it. i just breathe in a lot and am greatful for massive tits "

I love this .. !!! I need bigger tits then I wouldn't look so abnormal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was happy 2 years ago when I lost 4 stone, taking me from 16 stone to 12 stone and a size 12/14. 2 years on have put it back on clothes dont fit and am miserable because of that and am convinced that it is cause of no meets. am rejoining slimming club monday as that is the only way I can lose weight, plus will be going swimming again but taking it slower this time

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am plus size however funnily enough had an eating disorder which left me under 9 stones and an obsessive wreck..I'd rather be my size and not have to worry about when I need to vomit or can I eat a tube of cottage cheese or what not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was happy 2 years ago when I lost 4 stone, taking me from 16 stone to 12 stone and a size 12/14. 2 years on have put it back on clothes dont fit and am miserable because of that and am convinced that it is cause of no meets. am rejoining slimming club monday as that is the only way I can lose weight, plus will be going swimming again but taking it slower this time"

I don't think being big is the reason for not getting meets

And hear me out before everyone jumps on me for saying this as im speaking for myself too

I think when it is is when your bigger you get as may offers just not from the type of guys you want offering so you turn more down

ok im ready for the firing squad

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I was happy 2 years ago when I lost 4 stone, taking me from 16 stone to 12 stone and a size 12/14. 2 years on have put it back on clothes dont fit and am miserable because of that and am convinced that it is cause of no meets. am rejoining slimming club monday as that is the only way I can lose weight, plus will be going swimming again but taking it slower this time"

Maybe it is a cause but it's not the reason. You don't like being big so you won't be comfortable in yourself which translates on site any in any convo you have.

I am much heavier than you were before you lost weight and even though I don't meet guys anymore I still get lots of messages from both guys I have met before and haven't spoken to before. The difference is that I am confident in my looks and don't let's my flab get in the way (ok sometimes it gets in the way but I just lift it up and we carry up )

There are other reasons that don't help you but they aren't related to this thread and have been discussed before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was happy 2 years ago when I lost 4 stone, taking me from 16 stone to 12 stone and a size 12/14. 2 years on have put it back on clothes dont fit and am miserable because of that and am convinced that it is cause of no meets. am rejoining slimming club monday as that is the only way I can lose weight, plus will be going swimming again but taking it slower this time

Maybe it is a cause but it's not the reason. You don't like being big so you won't be comfortable in yourself which translates on site any in any convo you have.

I am much heavier than you were before you lost weight and even though I don't meet guys anymore I still get lots of messages from both guys I have met before and haven't spoken to before. The difference is that I am confident in my looks and don't let's my flab get in the way (ok sometimes it gets in the way but I just lift it up and we carry up )

There are other reasons that don't help you but they aren't related to this thread and have been discussed before. "
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love food, and my size reflects that I am not a fan of rabbit or bird foods.

My weight has been steady for the past few years, and all the clothes still fit, so I am happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was big and said I was happy but I hated it. I had aches and pains and felt like crap. I lost weight and now I'm happier. I have big friends that pretend they are happy but they are miserable as hell. So yes, sometimes it is true.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I was happy 2 years ago when I lost 4 stone, taking me from 16 stone to 12 stone and a size 12/14. 2 years on have put it back on clothes dont fit and am miserable because of that and am convinced that it is cause of no meets. am rejoining slimming club monday as that is the only way I can lose weight, plus will be going swimming again but

taking it slower this time"

wish you all the best in your quest and whilst I'm sure it wont be easy .. once your into a routine I hope you begin to enjoy it and reap the benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think if your the kind of person who's unhappy with yourself you will be no matter what you look like

Ive never rated myself, I don't like my body, im your classic yo yo dieter my weights up and down all the time, no matter wether im a size 10 or a size 20+, and I have been both and all sizes inbetween several times thro out my life, im still never happy with myself

My sister has the figure most women would pay for, I look at her and see perfection, she's slim, toned, tall, no stretch marks etc but she's not happy with herself

Yet I have a friend whos a big lass and does not give to hoots about it, I have known her years and in all that time have never heard her comment about her weight, its not even something that seems to be a issue to her, she's very outgoing and confidant

I really don't think confidance and happiness comes down to your body shape, some people just are content some arnt "

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

I really don't think confidance and happiness comes down to your body shape, some people just are content some arnt

"

indeed .. never been over 7 stone in my life and whilst some people like my body shape others don't.. I look like a prepubescent boy but some women envy me for it which is very strange

however whilst I would change things if I could the simple fact is that I cant so I tend not to dwell on it and just get on with what lot I was handed .. worse things happen at sea as they say !

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

not even going to post on this thread .... oh bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not even going to post on this thread .... oh bollocks "

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I dislike the whole idea that all thin people are happy and all fat people are miserable.

I'm not miserable (all the time) and I'm sure as not happy all the time.

My slimmer sister is far from happy, as is my fatter sister (Naff all to do with weight).

People have different personalities and weight may be or may not be a contributing factor. It is a load of bollocks.

Some big ladies may be beautiful, but there are some damn ugly ones the same as slimmer ladies, some are beautiful and some a ugly too.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

perfect quote from Sarah Millican on C4 right now

i have accepted my flaws and anyone who doesn't can fuck off!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"perfect quote from Sarah Millican on C4 right now

i have accepted my flaws and anyone who doesn't can fuck off!!! "

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By *now_white_suicideWoman
over a year ago

mansfield


"Beautiful is beautiful!

Size has sod all to do with it!

Anyone for a cake? "

Is it chocolate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tweaked my profile in accordance with being a heffer

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"perfect quote from Sarah Millican on C4 right now

i have accepted my flaws and anyone who doesn't can fuck off!!! "

the woman is a legend !!

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