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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Than never to have loved at all?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Than to have married and discovered the true horror!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

At one time I'd have said yes!

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Than to have married and discovered the true horror!"

Love and marriage do not always go hand in hand it seems.

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

and if you cant be with the one you love

love the one you're with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some cases yes, others NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Love is lovely .. I love love

I fall in love all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, tho to lust is a great runner up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, tho to lust is a great runner up! "

Lust love lust love

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Each relationship that you get involved in shapes you as a person. Love, hurt and pain to name but a few makes you into the person, good or bad.

There has been times in my life that I choose to forget and other times that bring a warmth to my soul that could light a thousand fires.

Regret not the things you have done, but the things you have not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Of course the alternative is chocolate and that always comes to an end.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Than to have married and discovered the true horror!"
so TRUE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes yes yes and...... Yessss!!!!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Than never to have loved at all?"

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Than never to have loved at all?

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit..."

I hear you... but I refuse to allow someone else's bad behavior to shatter my illusions. I'm holding onto the belief that someday, I'll meet someone who has the capacity not to be a total cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely.

Look back on all those previous relationships. The break up was the best thing that happened to you!!

But you have some good memories of the time together.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Yes but it takes time to realise after the pain subsides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so .

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Noooooo because it hurts too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Than never to have loved at all?"
not sure as the pain stay with you and can drive you mad .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Than never to have loved at all?"
not sure as the pain stay with you and can drive you mad .

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Than never to have loved at all?not sure as the pain stay with you and can drive you mad ."

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms


"Than never to have loved at all?

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit..."

100% agree, couldn't have put it better myself

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Than never to have loved at all?

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit...

I hear you... but I refuse to allow someone else's bad behavior to shatter my illusions. I'm holding onto the belief that someday, I'll meet someone who has the capacity not to be a total cock! "

It isn't other people's bad behaviour, ultimately I cannot trust my own judgement to know what true love is....I got it wrong.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup to the original question.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Than never to have loved at all?

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit...

I hear you... but I refuse to allow someone else's bad behavior to shatter my illusions. I'm holding onto the belief that someday, I'll meet someone who has the capacity not to be a total cock!

It isn't other people's bad behaviour, ultimately I cannot trust my own judgement to know what true love is....I got it wrong....."

I'm not even going down that road. I'm going to believe that I didn't get it wrong. If I believe that I did I'd never trust anyone ever again. I know exactly where you're at... I just can't allow myself to think that. I knew what I felt, it was real for me and that's what's important to me. I hope you figure it out, it sucks ass thinking its a crock of shit. x

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Yes, yes and yes - had some great times and some pretty shitty endings. Rather like bi-polar sufferers - mostly they love the ups and don't want to be 'cured'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but it takes time to realise after the pain subsides.

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This

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By *riggsboy123Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

They say its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. But if you sit down and count the cost of all those loses then theres no profit at all.

c. Del amitri off waking hours ~1989.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Than never to have loved at all?

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit...

I hear you... but I refuse to allow someone else's bad behavior to shatter my illusions. I'm holding onto the belief that someday, I'll meet someone who has the capacity not to be a total cock!

It isn't other people's bad behaviour, ultimately I cannot trust my own judgement to know what true love is....I got it wrong.....

I'm not even going down that road. I'm going to believe that I didn't get it wrong. If I believe that I did I'd never trust anyone ever again. I know exactly where you're at... I just can't allow myself to think that. I knew what I felt, it was real for me and that's what's important to me. I hope you figure it out, it sucks ass thinking its a crock of shit. x"

Not really...I am genuinely happy....I love my life and am doing things I never thought I would. I have no one to answer to and I make my own decisions. I can happily live without a partner or love....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Than never to have loved at all?

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit...

I hear you... but I refuse to allow someone else's bad behavior to shatter my illusions. I'm holding onto the belief that someday, I'll meet someone who has the capacity not to be a total cock!

It isn't other people's bad behaviour, ultimately I cannot trust my own judgement to know what true love is....I got it wrong.....

I'm not even going down that road. I'm going to believe that I didn't get it wrong. If I believe that I did I'd never trust anyone ever again. I know exactly where you're at... I just can't allow myself to think that. I knew what I felt, it was real for me and that's what's important to me. I hope you figure it out, it sucks ass thinking its a crock of shit. x

Not really...I am genuinely happy....I love my life and am doing things I never thought I would. I have no one to answer to and I make my own decisions. I can happily live without a partner or love...."

That's really cool then. I'm not unhappy with my life and I don't need a bloke in it to make me feel whole... a whole lot of sex would fill that gap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Not really...I am genuinely happy....I love my life and am doing things I never thought I would. I have no one to answer to and I make my own decisions. I can happily live without a partner or love...."

This!

Oh - and I love Lamp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hurts ... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger and idealistic, I would have said yes.

Then I aged, became a cynical old git and realised it's better to be the 'losee' rather than the 'loser'...

Ted

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


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Not really...I am genuinely happy....I love my life and am doing things I never thought I would. I have no one to answer to and I make my own decisions. I can happily live without a partner or love....

This!

Oh - and I love Lamp! "

Lamp????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romantically, I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Than never to have loved at all?

Not in my case. Had I not loved and lost perhaps I would still believe in the concept of love instead of thinking it is a crock of old shit...

I hear you... but I refuse to allow someone else's bad behavior to shatter my illusions. I'm holding onto the belief that someday, I'll meet someone who has the capacity not to be a total cock! "

Same here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the song title goes "love hurts"

Yes for the few time's i've been in love. I felt complete like my life has meaning. But the bitter side to love can be the hurt. The complete emptiness your left with after your heart is broken.

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