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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?"

8 - only in a sexual way

9 - ditto (occasionally)

10 - Part 1 - most of the time, part 2 - do me damndest not to have

I've read a few of those "are you a socio/psychopath type tests and I hit more of the points than not - will I turn into Dexter? Probably not (although my other personalities may disagree, and there's a bit of a smell coming out of the cellar)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do sometimes read profiles or forum posts and I often think that some people are sociopaths and are lacking something.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?

8 - only in a sexual way

9 - ditto (occasionally)

10 - Part 1 - most of the time, part 2 - do me damndest not to have

I've read a few of those "are you a socio/psychopath type tests and I hit more of the points than not - will I turn into Dexter? Probably not (although my other personalities may disagree, and there's a bit of a smell coming out of the cellar) "

It was written about the workplace. There was a report a few years ago about board members having the same traits as psychopaths.

I just thought it could apply here too.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You forgot the bit about killing small animals as a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can apply 6 of these to me and half the last one, what does this say about me? Am i sociopathic, no, am I good in the sack hell yea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a swiping statement. Not sure you can apply this to work and swinging. Would you not say top sports people can fit these rules?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"You forgot the bit about killing small animals as a child."

She didn't have that in her quiz.

What is it if you killed really big animals?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Bit of a swiping statement. Not sure you can apply this to work and swinging. Would you not say top sports people can fit these rules? "

Of course it's a sweeping statement. It was in the Standard and is a confessions book. I just thought I'd sweep swingers with it too.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"You forgot the bit about killing small animals as a child.

She didn't have that in her quiz.

What is it if you killed really big animals?"

A safari?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol..i just realised i'm not looking for a dominant...its a sociopath i'm after!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

1. Charm to get others to do things

Sometimes Yes

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

Yes

3. Strategic and canny

Yes

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

Yes

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

Yes

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

Yes

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

Not always

8. Like to ruin people

Sometimes

9. Hungry for power

No

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

No

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, definitely more than 5 on that list. That and all those caravanners who had "unfortunate carbon monoxide poisoning".

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Yep, definitely more than 5 on that list. That and all those caravanners who had "unfortunate carbon monoxide poisoning"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them... Lmao

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Yep, definitely more than 5 on that list. That and all those caravanners who had "unfortunate carbon monoxide poisoning"."

Note to self: Next caravanning holiday is not to be anywhere near Inverness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?"

I can apply them all to myself!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?

I can apply them all to myself!"

We have a winner!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?

I can apply them all to myself!

We have a winner!"

Off thread, but love the new avatar MrWho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?

I can apply them all to myself!

We have a winner!

Off thread, but love the new avatar MrWho "

Thanks..

It is rather awesome isn't it (narcissism can now be added to the list).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True swingers the antithesis sociopaths.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"The Evening Standard has an article on working with sociopaths. There is a little quiz to see if you could be a sociopath.

It sounds like a players charter.

It's from a book by M.E. Thomas (not her real name), Confessions of a Sociopath. An edit of the quiz:

1. Charm to get others to do things

2. Free of entangling and irrational emotions

3. Strategic and canny

4. Unfazed by uninterrupted eye contact

5. Ambivalent about morality at times lacking remorse or guilt

6. Crave stimulation and easily bored

7. Have to succeed/be competitive

8. Like to ruin people

9. Hungry for power

10. Exude confidence and have an inflated view of self

See what I mean. Can you apply 5 or more of these to yourself?

I can apply them all to myself!

We have a winner!

Off thread, but love the new avatar MrWho

Thanks..

It is rather awesome isn't it (narcissism can now be added to the list)."

Yeah, but not as awesomely amazing as my pics...modesty can now be added on too

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"True swingers the antithesis sociopaths. "

What characteristics do true swingers have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand the need people have to put themselves or others in boxes. Granted it can be amusing to read but isn't it more fun to be an individual. I don't really see myself as a sociopath, swinger non swinger or any such other label. I am pretty happy being me and not fitting in a box.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I never understand the need people have to put themselves or others in boxes. Granted it can be amusing to read but isn't it more fun to be an individual. I don't really see myself as a sociopath, swinger non swinger or any such other label. I am pretty happy being me and not fitting in a box. "

Are you happy to fit into a loose saggy bag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only say yes to a couple of them. I'm going to have to leave the site.

Good bye... au revoir... farewell... toodle pip...

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I can only say yes to a couple of them. I'm going to have to leave the site.

Good bye... au revoir... farewell... toodle pip...

"

No, you have to stay so that the sociopaths have someone do charm and ruin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand the need people have to put themselves or others in boxes. Granted it can be amusing to read but isn't it more fun to be an individual. I don't really see myself as a sociopath, swinger non swinger or any such other label. I am pretty happy being me and not fitting in a box.

Are you happy to fit into a loose saggy bag?"

Why would I want to fit into a bag and god forbid a saggy one who ever she may be I would never refer to shekind as that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only say yes to a couple of them. I'm going to have to leave the site.

Good bye... au revoir... farewell... toodle pip...

No, you have to stay so that the sociopaths have someone do charm and ruin."

Oh go on then I'll stay.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Number 4 for me(Risky). We had a bloke turn up at my place of work every so often. He had mental health issues. He wouldn't leave so I out stared him. He left shaking his head...

Lol

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