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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do ladies get accused of being a cocktease when they maybe take an interest in someone on the site and maybe flirt, while trying to get to know the person before moving onto the next step?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Only by guys who either think they are God's gift or that this is insta-shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only by guys who either think they are God's gift or that this is insta-shag"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been accused of that and I do love flirting - all part of it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never been accused of that. i dont flirt, i just say if i like their pictures.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I wouldn't care if that's what someone said about me. I do what works for me. I don't owe strangers anything. I owe the people I chatter to my attention to get to know them so I can make an informed choice on whether I want to delve deeper. If I choose not to them I choose not to, I haven't done anything wrong. I can take rejection, why do they assume they shouldn't be rejected? If there's no spark then there's no spark. It's no-ones fault, it just is what it is.

I've waffled again... what was the question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only by guys who either think they are God's gift or that this is insta-shag"

There's always those who believe so about themselves. Patience and seducing doesn't always clock with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never been accused of that and I do love flirting - all part of it for me "

Must be lucky or just met the right people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"never been accused of that. i dont flirt, i just say if i like their pictures."

Well for some they may assume otherwise but I guess you liked those that happened to be mature enough to accept the compliment.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Do ladies get accused of being a cocktease when they maybe take an interest in someone on the site and maybe flirt, while trying to get to know the person before moving onto the next step? "

Not a cock tease - but I have been called a time waster after chatting to a guy and then deciding he actually was not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't care if that's what someone said about me. I do what works for me. I don't owe strangers anything. I owe the people I chatter to my attention to get to know them so I can make an informed choice on whether I want to delve deeper. If I choose not to them I choose not to, I haven't done anything wrong. I can take rejection, why do they assume they shouldn't be rejected? If there's no spark then there's no spark. It's no-ones fault, it just is what it is.

I've waffled again... what was the question? "

Good to hear. Sometimes on this site, one does need a thick skin and an optimistic perspective to actually just have fun. Some people do and can take things in the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do ladies get accused of being a cocktease when they maybe take an interest in someone on the site and maybe flirt, while trying to get to know the person before moving onto the next step?

Not a cock tease - but I have been called a time waster after chatting to a guy and then deciding he actually was not for me. "

Lol. Rejection does funny things to people.

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Yes ive been called a time waster and even been deleted from friends list all because i wont meet..

sorry just because i become your friend its not a 100% guarantee that ill meet you never mind play with you..

so ill flirt and banter if i want to - i dont owe anyone anything on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes ive been called a time waster and even been deleted from friends list all because i wont meet..

sorry just because i become your friend its not a 100% guarantee that ill meet you never mind play with you..

so ill flirt and banter if i want to - i dont owe anyone anything on here "

Flirting and a bit of banter should be the norm even for this site. I guess for some, because this is an adult site, they expect that once you're on their friends list that there's the automatic guarantee of playing.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I've been called a cock-tease for lending a guy a lighter and then refusing to sleep with him.

- Amy. x

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

well thats their mistake not mine...

i play when i want and when im ready...

and i never have one offs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been called a cock-tease for lending a guy a lighter and then refusing to sleep with him.

- Amy. x"

Well that escalated quickly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well thats their mistake not mine...

i play when i want and when im ready...

and i never have one offs

"

Some read flirts and signals the wrong way.

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Yes ive been called a time waster and even been deleted from friends list all because i wont meet..

sorry just because i become your friend its not a 100% guarantee that ill meet you never mind play with you..

so ill flirt and banter if i want to - i dont owe anyone anything on here

Flirting and a bit of banter should be the norm even for this site. I guess for some, because this is an adult site, they expect that once you're on their friends list that there's the automatic guarantee of playing. "

You would have thought that people come on to an adult site to behave like adults.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes ive been called a time waster and even been deleted from friends list all because i wont meet..

sorry just because i become your friend its not a 100% guarantee that ill meet you never mind play with you..

so ill flirt and banter if i want to - i dont owe anyone anything on here

Flirting and a bit of banter should be the norm even for this site. I guess for some, because this is an adult site, they expect that once you're on their friends list that there's the automatic guarantee of playing.

You would have thought that people come on to an adult site to behave like adults."

Sometimes the big brain goes on hiatus and the little brain takes over and makes a dick of itself.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


" Well that escalated quickly!"

My thoughts exactly, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't flirt or string people along, and have never been called a time-waster or a cocktease.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Well that escalated quickly!

My thoughts exactly, lol"

He must have been pretty wound up from being blue balled prior to meeting you by chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't flirt or string people along, and have never been called a time-waster or a cocktease.

"

You seem to be one of the exception to the rule.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't flirt or string people along, and have never been called a time-waster or a cocktease.

You seem to be one of the exception to the rule."

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I am not normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here."

Femmes version of cock teasing would be to run her teeth over your cock as your tied down and you not knowing if you've pissed her off enough for her to bite down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't flirt or string people along, and have never been called a time-waster or a cocktease.

You seem to be one of the exception to the rule.

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I am not normal. "

In a good way

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Femmes version of cock teasing would be to run her teeth over your cock as your tied down and you not knowing if you've pissed her off enough for her to bite down "
I've never tied anyone down in my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't care if that's what someone said about me. I do what works for me. I don't owe strangers anything. I owe the people I chatter to my attention to get to know them so I can make an informed choice on whether I want to delve deeper. If I choose not to them I choose not to, I haven't done anything wrong. I can take rejection, why do they assume they shouldn't be rejected? If there's no spark then there's no spark. It's no-ones fault, it just is what it is.

I've waffled again... what was the question? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Femmes version of cock teasing would be to run her teeth over your cock as your tied down and you not knowing if you've pissed her off enough for her to bite down I've never tied anyone down in my life! "

Did the police believe that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here."

Well flirting can be different online than in person. Non verbal language is hard to read when not face to face.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Femmes version of cock teasing would be to run her teeth over your cock as your tied down and you not knowing if you've pissed her off enough for her to bite down I've never tied anyone down in my life!

Did the police believe that lol"
It wasn't a real policeman....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Well flirting can be different online than in person. Non verbal language is hard to read when not face to face."
It is, my understanding of a cock tease is someone who leads you to believe they will have sex with you- different to flirting in my eyes, but hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Femmes version of cock teasing would be to run her teeth over your cock as your tied down and you not knowing if you've pissed her off enough for her to bite down "

That scenario just made me wince. Teeth and cock does not sound like a good combination in such a case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tease and I flirt but in a nice way.. Never been called a cocktease.. Its just a bit of banter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Well flirting can be different online than in person. Non verbal language is hard to read when not face to face.It is, my understanding of a cock tease is someone who leads you to believe they will have sex with you- different to flirting in my eyes, but hey ho."

That's true, but not everyone can tell the difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tease and I flirt but in a nice way.. Never been called a cocktease.. Its just a bit of banter "

Your royal title may lead others to believe otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tease and I flirt but in a nice way.. Never been called a cocktease.. Its just a bit of banter

Your royal title may lead others to believe otherwise "

Because I'm good @ it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Well flirting can be different online than in person. Non verbal language is hard to read when not face to face.It is, my understanding of a cock tease is someone who leads you to believe they will have sex with you- different to flirting in my eyes, but hey ho.

That's true, but not everyone can tell the difference. "
By everyone I assume you mean the teaser and the teased? Or not as the case maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tease and I flirt but in a nice way.. Never been called a cocktease.. Its just a bit of banter

Your royal title may lead others to believe otherwise

Because I'm good @ it "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen plenty of cock teasers at Swingers clubs, it does happen but I don't think flirting is the same thing, especially on here.

Well flirting can be different online than in person. Non verbal language is hard to read when not face to face.It is, my understanding of a cock tease is someone who leads you to believe they will have sex with you- different to flirting in my eyes, but hey ho.

That's true, but not everyone can tell the difference. By everyone I assume you mean the teaser and the teased? Or not as the case maybe?"

Sometimes both but often the teased.

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