FabSwingers.com forum: Politeness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is being to polite a bad thing on here ?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Is being to polite a bad thing on here ? "

Please don't say what I fear you may do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being to polite a bad thing on here ?

Please don't say what I fear you may do!"

Lol which is ?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I love charming nice men ......... I hate nasty nude people with big mouths.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so."

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer being rude

Politeness is sooo tiring

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no I love charming nice men ......... I hate nasty nude people with big mouths."

Good x and thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer being rude

Politeness is sooo tiring "

But does it work lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x"

Ah - I stand corrected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x

Ah - I stand corrected."
Lol I used to get pee'd off with the lack of replies but come to terms with it now knowing the amount of messages that women and couples get x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x"
and what has that got to do with being polite ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x and what has that got to do with being polite ?"
It just seems that cause I don't talk about fucking all the time they think I'm not up for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't waiver from being polite chris, it's always gonna put ppl off cos your not telling them what they want to hear (ive a huge cock , im a sex god...yadda yadda)..but you will end up meeting much nicer people in the long run!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"don't waiver from being polite chris, it's always gonna put ppl off cos your not telling them what they want to hear (ive a huge cock , im a sex god...yadda yadda)..but you will end up meeting much nicer people in the long run!!!"
Yeah that's what I believe too , was just wondering if that's what other people wanna hear though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x and what has that got to do with being polite ?It just seems that cause I don't talk about fucking all the time they think I'm not up for it x"
we would have thought that would people off talking like that, well you learn something new everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just seems that cause I don't talk about fucking all the time they think I'm not up for it x"

Are you certain thats the reason?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

People actually want to hear that stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading my mails today .... being polite is rare

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It just seems that cause I don't talk about fucking all the time they think I'm not up for it x

Are you certain thats the reason? "

Don't know that's why I'm asking you guys and gals x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After reading my mails today .... being polite is rare"

Well I'm always polite x like to guy a good first impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After reading my mails today .... being polite is rare

Well I'm always polite x like to guy a good first impression "

Give even lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After reading my mails today .... being polite is rare

Well I'm always polite x like to guy a good first impression

Give even lol"

You didn't mail me so it wasn't you .. and no that isn't a sign for you to mail me

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x and what has that got to do with being polite ?It just seems that cause I don't talk about fucking all the time they think I'm not up for it x"

Horses for courses, it happens. Some people like and expect the dirty talk and disappear if you don't deliver it. It's happened to me plenty of times. I would say the majority (in my experience) don't though. Don't worry about it and move on and chat to someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like polite messages, especially to start with. The high I've a big cock you will want to fuck it and I will make you cum over and over first messages don't grab me.

Nice guys don't always cum last lol and I usually find that nice polite guys are usually quite nawty on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite is good and we find dirty talk off putting tbh. Maybe you're taking too long to suggest meeting up which is why people go off the boil? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like polite messages, especially to start with. The high I've a big cock you will want to fuck it and I will make you cum over and over first messages don't grab me.

Nice guys don't always cum last lol and I usually find that nice polite guys are usually quite nawty on a meet

I do like to think that my action speak louder than words

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Ps I think it's because you have taken your pics in a public toilet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Polite is good and we find dirty talk off putting tbh. Maybe you're taking too long to suggest meeting up which is why people go off the boil? Just a thought."

Yeah could be x just didn't wanna be pushy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like polite messages, especially to start with. The high I've a big cock you will want to fuck it and I will make you cum over and over first messages don't grab me.

Nice guys don't always cum last lol and I usually find that nice polite guys are usually quite nawty on a meet

I do like to think that my action speak louder than words

I bet they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ps I think it's because you have taken your pics in a public toilet

Lol it does look like that

but they where at work in my depot

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I enjoy polite and funny men, with a little bit of filth thrown in when the mood is right !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like polite messages, especially to start with. The high I've a big cock you will want to fuck it and I will make you cum over and over first messages don't grab me.

Nice guys don't always cum last lol and I usually find that nice polite guys are usually quite nawty on a meet

I do like to think that my action speak louder than words

I bet they do"
well I do try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being to polite a bad thing on here ? "

hell no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I enjoy polite and funny men, with a little bit of filth thrown in when the mood is right !!!

A"
Lol I can do filth aswell lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being to polite a bad thing on here ?

hell no"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like polite messages, especially to start with. The high I've a big cock you will want to fuck it and I will make you cum over and over first messages don't grab me.

Nice guys don't always cum last lol and I usually find that nice polite guys are usually quite nawty on a meet

I do like to think that my action speak louder than words

I bet they do"
luv to chat more

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Is being to polite a bad thing on here ?

Please don't say what I fear you may do!"

Optimist!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x"

Oooh, I was wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite is good and we find dirty talk off putting tbh. Maybe you're taking too long to suggest meeting up which is why people go off the boil? Just a thought.

Yeah could be x just didn't wanna be pushy x"

It is a fine line between being positive and being pushy plus some people like to chat loads before meeting and others don't. The approach we've used when we've chatted a bit to people we like the sound and look of is to say fairly early on that we're interested in taking things further but no rush and see if they feel the same or if they want to chat a bit more.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

It just seems that cause I don't talk about fucking all the time they think I'm not up for it x

Are you certain thats the reason?

Don't know that's why I'm asking you guys and gals x"

Bottom line, we don't know the content of your messages. Sometimes messages just fizzle out. I doubt your lack of explicit messages is the reason, it's just the reason you've told yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer being rude

Politeness is sooo tiring

But does it work lol"

Treat em mean.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It just seems that cause I don't talk about fucking all the time they think I'm not up for it x

Are you certain thats the reason?

Don't know that's why I'm asking you guys and gals x

Bottom line, we don't know the content of your messages. Sometimes messages just fizzle out. I doubt your lack of explicit messages is the reason, it's just the reason you've told yourself."
yeah it could be that x just wondering

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer being rude

Politeness is sooo tiring

But does it work lol

Treat em mean.....

But are they keen ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be polite. It would be rude not to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always be polite. It would be rude not to."

My thoughts exactly

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x"

you've had meets so your messages and conversation must be just fine ! plenty of ppl not had any meets so your ahead of the curve .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x

you've had meets so your messages and conversation must be just fine ! plenty of ppl not had any meets so your ahead of the curve .

Yeah I know x but it's nearly a year since the last one feels like I'm doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good manners are always appreciated, IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good manners are always appreciated, IMHO.

Yeah manners cost nothing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being to polite a bad thing on here ? "
no not at all you only need to treat people the way you would like to be treated if they are rude in there response perhaps they not worth meeting anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly so Antony, treat others as you wish to be treated, be true to yourself and you can't go far wrong. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly so Antony, treat others as you wish to be treated, be true to yourself and you can't go far wrong. xx"
great minds think alike xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being to polite a bad thing on here ? no not at all you only need to treat people the way you would like to be treated if they are rude in there response perhaps they not worth meeting anyways

That's exactly what I want , treat people with same respect I'd wanna be treated with

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x"

That's often the case even in clubs . You can overcook it , some folk are happier to fuck and go . Too much chat and familiarity are not part of the fun for all of us .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That no one responds to your messages and that they are rude to do so.

Not at all wasn't going to say that was going to say that when I do chat with either couples or females they seem to go off the idea of meeting up the more I chat to them x

That's often the case even in clubs . You can overcook it , some folk are happier to fuck and go . Too much chat and familiarity are not part of the fun for all of us ."
and I respect that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably fall of my chair in shock if I received a polite message as its such a rarity on here...

Be who you are, like others have said, you'll meet a better class of ppl keeping to your true self!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd probably fall of my chair in shock if I received a polite message as its such a rarity on here...

Be who you are, like others have said, you'll meet a better class of ppl keeping to your true self!

Yeah going to keep my messages the same and be myself

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