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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this comes up a lot but not happened to me yet!

I have a message (on this a/c) from someone I have known for over 10 years and he has a couple account, I also know his OH.

He is my nephews godfather, I am not sure whether to respond or not!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respond !!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If it were me I would steer clear. Too close to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Julie ... if he already knows its you, you got nothing to lose by responding - then on the moral ground make a judgement at that time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it were me I would steer clear. Too close to home."

Yes although they haven't managed to clearly identify me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey xx I have had this happen to me in the past. Im guessing he dosnt know its you? .. I blocked the account and didnt respond. It was the only thing I could think of at the time.Tho getting the images out of my mind has been a tad harder !! !!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"If it were me I would steer clear. Too close to home.

Yes although they haven't managed to clearly identify me. "

If I knew you, im sure I would recognise you from your pics.....

Respond, but dont take it anywhere, as has been said...too close to home...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey xx I have had this happen to me in the past. Im guessing he dosnt know its you? .. I blocked the account and didnt respond. It was the only thing I could think of at the time.Tho getting the images out of my mind has been a tad harder !! !! "

Well they are not 100% sure it is me and apologised if not me, seems odd they have found me after a year being on the site and we only saw them in November last!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it were me I would steer clear. Too close to home.

Yes although they haven't managed to clearly identify me.

If I knew you, im sure I would recognise you from your pics.....

Respond, but dont take it anywhere, as has been said...too close to home..."

Odd thing is they don't live near here at all...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it were me I would steer clear. Too close to home.

Yes although they haven't managed to clearly identify me.

If I knew you, im sure I would recognise you from your pics.....

Respond, but dont take it anywhere, as has been said...too close to home..."

Oh and from my hat picture yes more recognisable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what ever is best for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate asked me what a dilemma was?

So I said, "Imagine you're naked and in a big bed.

A beautiful woman on one side and a gay man on the other.

"Who you going to turn your back on?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My mate asked me what a dilemma was?

So I said, "Imagine you're naked and in a big bed.

A beautiful woman on one side and a gay man on the other.

"Who you going to turn your back on?""

Is the answer neither?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id say respond."

Decided might be best to just not sure what to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id say respond.

Decided might be best to just not sure what to say!"

Fancy seeing you here.....do you come here often....think id say something witty....or hello could work...hahaha.....good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why all my personal details on swing sites are slightly adjusted and I don't post pictures that can identify me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is why all my personal details on swing sites are slightly adjusted and I don't post pictures that can identify me "

To be fair though they are now in the same situation eg I know they are on here and unless you knew me you would not identify me from my account, likewise I thought what you did however if is easy to find anyone or anything out on the Internet these days.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If you don't respond it will probably confirm their suspicions. Looks like you may have to shag him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don't respond it will probably confirm their suspicions. Looks like you may have to shag him "

Nope but she did make a pass at me years ago and I said I am not like that

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Id say respond."

Me too, it doesn't have to go any further than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm....your nephews godfather...it's hardly immediate relations is it?

Ok they know members of your family, but they are hardly likely to blab stuff like "I was innocently browsing the web the other day when I came across a perverts site with pics of your Julie with her norks out and covered in spaff. Obviously I had to innocently sign up to the site to see them but I made my excuses and left."

Are they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ummm....your nephews godfather...it's hardly immediate relations is it?

Ok they know members of your family, but they are hardly likely to blab stuff like "I was innocently browsing the web the other day when I came across a perverts site with pics of your Julie with her norks out and covered in spaff. Obviously I had to innocently sign up to the site to see them but I made my excuses and left."

Are they?"

I doubt it no lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Completely off topic but your photos are really nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Completely off topic but your photos are really nice. "

Thank you

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I would respond but make it clear no anal or kissing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would respond but make it clear no anal or kissing."

Or scary avatars

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I fund my extravagant lifestyle by blackmail. If there's any chance of extortion, I would respond!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fund my extravagant lifestyle by blackmail. If there's any chance of extortion, I would respond! "

not sure that is the answer but thanks

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Say hello and wish them well in their swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't yet addressed the most important question which is....would you do them/him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You haven't yet addressed the most important question which is....would you do them/him? "

It is something I have never thought of before so I would have to think about it, almost a bit like incest to me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Say hello and wish them well in their swinging."

I have and we have reached an understanding, they have been in the scene for a number of years so I might even learn something new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You haven't yet addressed the most important question which is....would you do them/him?

It is something I have never thought of before so I would have to think about it, almost a bit like incest to me lol "

But without being anything like incest as they are not related to you! Could brighten up future family get togethers?...

"Lets remember not to serve anything with cheese as it brings on Uncle Erics gas, and we need to keep Mum and Auntie Hilda apart because of what she said about our Sharon 20 years ago. And don't forget we're shagging that couple in the paddling pool later so make sure all the kids toys are out of it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You haven't yet addressed the most important question which is....would you do them/him?

It is something I have never thought of before so I would have to think about it, almost a bit like incest to me lol

But without being anything like incest as they are not related to you! Could brighten up future family get togethers?...

"Lets remember not to serve anything with cheese as it brings on Uncle Erics gas, and we need to keep Mum and Auntie Hilda apart because of what she said about our Sharon 20 years ago. And don't forget we're shagging that couple in the paddling pool later so make sure all the kids toys are out of it.""

Lol no not related but I look at the M as like a brother to me and he always has been, so difficult not to think any other way tbh.

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