FabSwingers.com forum: Pregnant or another kid

By (user no longer on site) OP
27 weeks ago

If you was 40-50 years old and you had or have adult kids. Would you have another?

Or do you?

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By *orphia2003Woman
27 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'm 52. Never had kids. Certainly no intention of having one now

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By *sWyldWoman
27 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely not!I've more than done my bit for the human race

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
27 weeks ago

Swansea

I am 51 and have 2 kids (29 & 18). I would NOT want a child at this age. Thankfully a hysterectomy 10 years ago has helped guarantee that for me.

Mrs S&N

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

East Sussex

I was faced with this dilemma at 46 years old when I discovered I was pregnant. It was a dreadful shock which called for much soul searching.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
27 weeks ago

Swansea

OP keep comments to the forums not our inbox.

For your information the 10 year age gap was due to my infertility problems.

Mrs

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
27 weeks ago

South Wales

Absolutely not! Done it twice and wouldn’t want to do it again! Xx 😄

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By *ilmissleopardprintWoman
27 weeks ago

Shrewsbury, West Midlands. not wales!!

Hell no can't think of anything worse , for myself. X

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By *viatrixWoman
27 weeks ago

Gatwick

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I see all these families with tiny kids sighing and lugging all the prams, toys, kids paraphernalia and I pat myself on the back that all that is done and dusted for me.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Years ago I was being fucked and I said to the guy, I hope you don't make me pregnant. It amused me more than it did him....

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
27 weeks ago

kent

We were in our early 40s when our child was born. Every day is a joy, and becoming parents has been the best thing that’s ever happened to us. Our only wish is that our first child was still here x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Chichester

If I was with the right person. At this point it’s something I’d consider j guess.

The big issue is me being transgender and the outside discrimination and pressure on others that comes with dating / being with a person like me in this current climate .

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
27 weeks ago

Midlands

Not a chance. I've had friends who have had 'happy accidents' (their words) in their early to mid 40s and I don't envy them one bit. I love the freedom we have now that all of ours have grown up.

Katie

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By *vaRoseWoman
27 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

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By *iss DevilWoman
27 weeks ago

Hiding

No kids for me, thank you. I made my choice years ago and stick to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Absolutely not! I have big age gaps between my children.

Char

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By *aytimers NECouple
27 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham

Hell no! I can't think of anything worse!

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
27 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I did it at 37 after having my eldest at 26. I wouldn’t change anything but it’s not been easy and if I did it all again I wouldn’t have that age gap. Definitely not 40-50!

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By *og and MuseCouple
27 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"We were in our early 40s when our child was born. Every day is a joy, and becoming parents has been the best thing that’s ever happened to us. Our only wish is that our first child was still here x"

I (Mr) loved / still love every part of being a parent , I had 3 girls & my only regrets in life is not having more children. We talked about adopting & surrogacy but it’s unlikely to happen now. I think we’ve left it a little bit late.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
27 weeks ago

Carlisle

"If you was 40-50 years old and you had or have adult kids. Would you have another?

Or do you?

No, I wouldn't.

I have done the baby stage and enjoyed my kids as they've grown up. I couldn't go back to waking up to screaming and crying, breast feeding through the day/night becoming more of a zombie than I already do. The clingy following you to the bathroom as they HAVE to be in your presence 24/7. I've done that, it was stressful at times, but I loved all that. Now though, that has passed and I want to enjoy the next stages of my life and my kids' lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"If you was 40-50 years old and you had or have adult kids. Would you have another?

Or do you?

Difficult one! I was seeing a younger woman not long ago and getting quite serious, and I could tell I would have been holding her back because I’ve done the kid thing and she was getting to the stage where she needed to crack on if she was going to have one of her own. Don’t get me wrong, being a dad is the best thing ever, best thing that’s ever happened to me, but as you get older you just don’t have the energy to do it all again with the enthusiasm, innocence and commitment any new child deserves. I think too many parents become parents for the wrong reasons or sometimes it’s forced upon them, and children are too precious fuck up…

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

No thank you. My two are 13 and 15 as it is, still quite young!

I couldn’t cope with the lack of sleep now. It’s brutal.

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No kids, but no thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

East Sussex

"If you was 40-50 years old and you had or have adult kids. Would you have another?

Or do you?

I wish more people had this attitude instead of the 'kids are resilient, they cope with things' way of thinking

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By *weetiepie99Woman
27 weeks ago

cardiff

No, i don't think i would.

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By *he milf next doorWoman
27 weeks ago

bluebell woods

To go back to sleepless nights & sh*tty nappies no chance

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By *partharmonyCouple
27 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Two out of my three are teenagers. I wouldn't have any more. Luke

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
27 weeks ago

Voldsøy

It's a no from me. Four and done!

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By *earditallWoman
27 weeks ago

Lancaster

Ha ha I did 44 wasn't planned but he's ace

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By *earditallWoman
27 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Ha ha I did 44 wasn't planned but he's ace "

And I have a 24 year age gap.between him and my older boys and a 15 year between him and my girl but definitely will not be having anymore.

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By *elvet RopeMan
27 weeks ago

by the big field

I’m rarely influenced by advertising, but I stand firmly with the mantra in the Persil adverts- Always keep away from children!

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By *rchie300Man
27 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Yes I would ….

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
27 weeks ago

Telford

I can't have anymore not that I want anymore anyway.

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By *itter78Couple
27 weeks ago

Spennymoor

Mine is 19 now, and we'll start trying for a second early next year

Not quite in our 40s, but very much looking forward to doing it all again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
27 weeks ago

Interesting answers

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By *issFussyWoman
27 weeks ago

hitchin

Definitely not I wouldn't have the patience now

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By *aretobareCouple
27 weeks ago

Central Portugal

We have 4 between us and there is no chance we will have another but we understand what a difficult decision it must be for those that have to make it x

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By *tu.xMan
27 weeks ago

around

No i definitely wouldn't choose to..absolutely love my grandchildrens visits visits being the key word 😁

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By (user no longer on site) OP
27 weeks ago

"We have 4 between us and there is no chance we will have another but we understand what a difficult decision it must be for those that have to make it x"

5 would be a mission

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

48yo. trying to get my fwb pregnant x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
27 weeks ago

"48yo. trying to get my fwb pregnant x"

There's more to this story haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

East Sussex

"48yo. trying to get my fwb pregnant x"

Who's 48 and does she want to get pregnant ?

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
27 weeks ago

Carlisle

OP you have already been told to keep comments to the thread and not our inbox.

Your messages where neither requested or appropriate.

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By *earditallWoman
27 weeks ago

Lancaster

"OP you have already been told to keep comments to the thread and not our inbox.

Your messages where neither requested or appropriate."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
26 weeks ago

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By *atinaChica54Woman
26 weeks ago

Marlborough

"Absolutely not!I've more than done my bit for the human race "

This⬆️for me!

Quite happy being a Grandma now, thank you very much!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

31 one with a 5 year old

I've wanted another kid pretty much straight after the first was born

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By *li LuckWoman
26 weeks ago

North devon

I have 5 kids between 19 and 8. And the answer is no.

I'm well and truly done. I love kids but wouldn't have anymore. As I am enjoying getting time to myself again.

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By *riskyfunsterMan
26 weeks ago

Nantwich

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By *riskyfunsterMan
26 weeks ago

Nantwich

Nope getting on with my life I've got hobbies and everything

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"If you was 40-50 years old and you had or have adult kids. Would you have another?

Or do you?

Hell no!! Only just get my life back....

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Grandad now. I have three wonderful children....or young adults. I've had the ✂️, so all done for me 🤓🥷

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By *rLucky777Man
26 weeks ago

Leeds

I want 5 kids. I want to still be having kids when I’m in my 70s with a fit lady half my age.

Ageing doesn’t mean growing weak. I plan to be strong and fit into my 80s, 90s and beyond.

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By *urious-Couple-123Couple
26 weeks ago

Cumbria

Mr is booked in for the ✂️ 😂

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
26 weeks ago

North West

Well I’m grateful my mum did. She was 40 when she had me, my older brother is 20 years older than me, my sister 10 years older.

Her & my dad had ‘the conversation’ & she decided to go ahead with the pregnancy, for which I will remain eternally grateful. The fact she lost a previous child in infancy, her second child, another older brother of mine, might have had something to do with that decision.

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

"Well I’m grateful my mum did. She was 40 when she had me, my older brother is 20 years older than me, my sister 10 years older.

Mr."

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
25 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

If circumstances were right, Yes 🤷🏽‍♂️

I had a partner who I loved

Financially stable etc etc

I never wanted children. But when I did, it turned out to not be the horrible experience I feared it to be.

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By *londeAndBubblyKate7Woman
25 weeks ago

near the river medway

Very interesting that most of the men would be quite happy

Whereas most of the woman say hello no

Wonder what that says ? About societal expectations ?

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By *ellinever70Woman
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I want 5 kids. I want to still be having kids when I’m in my 70s with a fit lady half my age.

Ageing doesn’t mean growing weak. I plan to be strong and fit into my 80s, 90s and beyond. "

You'll need to be very lucky for that to happen

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By *reastloverWoman
24 weeks ago

kent

I’d love a baby… I don’t have any and I’m single so probably won’t be happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Categorically no I would not have another baby in midlife. Now is my time to chill and enjoy life I’ve done my bit for world population.

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By *ser.meMan
24 weeks ago

Near you

Yes kids are amazing.

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By *utsackerMan
24 weeks ago

north east

No fuck that

I would have liked a crack at having kids with someone who wasn’t a cunt and didn’t already have kids but that’s not enough to make me want to again, I came out of it all pretty good having had full custody of my son since we split and my daughter just over half the time and planning to move in with me at some point so can’t complain really

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By *ad NannaWoman
24 weeks ago

East London

Yes. I was a grandmother at 34. I was almost a mother again, but sadly, it wasn't meant to be.

Being a mother puts every other aspect of my life in the shade.

I'm now a great grandmother and struggling a bit but every day with them is a blessing.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
24 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

No, i had my son at 25 i got divorced but decided at 32 there would be too big an age gap even if I met someone else.

I was lucky all my partners I had either didnt have children or their children where over 18 and that suited me perfectly.

One of.my close friends got pregnant at 45 her one and only child. We are all a generation ahead of her as we are all grandparents

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