FabSwingers.com forum: Do you say what you want

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or do you say what you think and know others want to hear ....

Yes I know everyone will say

' I only say what I want yaddda yaddda etc etc' but I have to wonder with some things I read ...

Always one for a little controversy

Be nice and respectful and above all honest

For the record I say ' yes you look wonderful' to people with pizza round their faces

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Depends on the person and depends on the situation and depends if my comment will tip that person over the edge...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the person and depends on the situation and depends if my comment will tip that person over the edge... "

ooOOooo so its a bit of a yes and a bit of a no

Right in the middle - play safe

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Depends on the person and depends on the situation and depends if my comment will tip that person over the edge...

ooOOooo so its a bit of a yes and a bit of a no

Right in the middle - play safe

lol...I have too as usually I say what I think and it aint always the right thing to say....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I say what I think because if I varied from that and someone asked me again then I'd never remember what I said in the first place.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I try and be diplomatically honest. I'm not very good though lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the person and depends on the situation and depends if my comment will tip that person over the edge...

ooOOooo so its a bit of a yes and a bit of a no

Right in the middle - play safe

lol...I have too as usually I say what I think and it aint always the right thing to say...."

Ahhh constructive - I understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I say what I want gets me in trouble at work and socially, I am told I am sometimes too truthful. Well thats the way I am I say what I think or Feel so then at least theres no lies or twisting or bitching you know where your at.

Must get it from my old Mam because Im almost 30 now and I am still sh*t scared to ask her opinion

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I try and put things politely, and not shout someone down.

As I said on another thread, I have learned a lot and have reflected on things, so feel a lot more chilled about stuff.

I don't think I have ever 'sucked up' to someone. As Roy Walker used to say "Say what you see" and that sums me up. Although I may have been a lil bit sarky on one or two posts, but I can't help it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I say what I think because if I varied from that and someone asked me again then I'd never remember what I said in the first place.

Ah thats the same with lying - Id be bloody useless because I don't even remember what day of the week it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I try and be diplomatically honest. I'm not very good though lol"

So you are useless at being diplomatic

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

most of the time to mybown down fall I always say what I think. although I do try not to hurt ppl but Im 1 of the strange peaple that cant lie. guess you better shoot me

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I say what I think because if I varied from that and someone asked me again then I'd never remember what I said in the first place.

Ah thats the same with lying - Id be bloody useless because I don't even remember what day of the week it is"

Exactly... I'm way too honest for my own good!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah I say what I want gets me in trouble at work and socially, I am told I am sometimes too truthful. Well thats the way I am I say what I think or Feel so then at least theres no lies or twisting or bitching you know where your at.

Must get it from my old Mam because Im almost 30 now and I am still sh*t scared to ask her opinion"

Hmmmm interesting thank you

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wonder how many men would say they could last all night if a really attractive woman stated this is what she wanted

How many women say they ADORE blow jobs .. but deep down can't stand them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen. "

Yea I get it ... diplomacy is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be honest and say what I think, but sometimes that gets me in trouble.

I can also say what I think peoe want to hear, specially if it's for my personal gain, and I'm on about professionally and personal life here.

So I guess I'm guilty on both counts me Lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would have to be honest and say I could give you about 6 minutes, and work my way to longer sessions through the night lol

Or tell her I have enough blueys in my pocket to water rock hard

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I may have gotten muddled up with the question sorry!

Yes, I say what I want. And sometimes I even say the right answer to the correct question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only the past 5 years I have started to say what I want rather than what I think people want to hear..... very liberating

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's only the past 5 years I have started to say what I want rather than what I think people want to hear..... very liberating"

liberating an how it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tell it how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only the past 5 years I have started to say what I want rather than what I think people want to hear..... very liberating

liberating an how it should be

Thanks... I know that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell it how I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen.

Yea I get it ... diplomacy is good "

Diplomacy isn't always good - but it sometimes necessary!!

I'm often guilty of being quite blunt in certain aspects of my life - I don't pussy foot around at work and definately don't suffer fools gladly - in day to day life or on here.

But i'd like to think i'm a reasonably good judge of character and give people the benefit of the doubt - til that's no longer justified at which point i'll often have to bite my tongue quite hard.

I've learnt - particularly when it comes to the forums, not to rise to certain posts. It's taken a while and i've had my fair share of penalties. But the one thing I won't do is compromise my beliefs or opinions, whether they're in line with the general consensus or not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I say what I like or wish but not necessarily all up front a little bit of tact and diplomacy goes a long way. But that doesn't mean you have to say something you don't believe in or wish to happen.

Yea I get it ... diplomacy is good

Diplomacy isn't always good - but it sometimes necessary!!

I'm often guilty of being quite blunt in certain aspects of my life - I don't pussy foot around at work and definately don't suffer fools gladly - in day to day life or on here.

But i'd like to think i'm a reasonably good judge of character and give people the benefit of the doubt - til that's no longer justified at which point i'll often have to bite my tongue quite hard.

Its never a good thing if someone compromises their own beliefs in order to pacify someone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I may have gotten muddled up with the question sorry!

Yes, I say what I want. And sometimes I even say the right answer to the correct question

Hahaha excellent ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy, well it is sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say something if its helpful and constructive.

And....

If I have nothing nice to say I say nothing. Not because I'm too scared to. Its the way I was brought up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I say something if its helpful and constructive.

And....

If I have nothing nice to say I say nothing. Not because I'm too scared to. Its the way I was brought up.

Thats a good way to be brought up though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say what I see

and the trouble I get into sometimes because if it is bonkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little

Honesty got a pan bent over my head

It seems my answer to how do I look wasn't the one she wanted.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to avoid controversy and I'm often guilty of refraining from giving my own opinion for fear of it not being popular. I tend to wait and see what others think and go along with the majority so that I fit in."

I don't believe you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little

Bendable truth .... hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its seem though lots of people say less than they want to in the fear they may upset others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends what the subject is and who im talking to

sometimes I can be blunt, other times I think opinions are best kept to ones self

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little

Bendable truth .... hahaha

I pressed send before I finished ... its true though lots bend the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little

Bendable truth .... hahaha

no oh well sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honesty is the best policy but sometimes you have to bend it a little

Bendable truth .... hahaha

I pressed send before I finished ... its true though lots bend the truth "

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't believe you

I don't believe most of the 'I'll say it coz it looks good' bollox people post on here... but hey, what can you do.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I got the impression you were quite reserved. Don't worry, you will soon come out of your shell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"depends what the subject is and who im talking to

sometimes I can be blunt, other times I think opinions are best kept to ones self "

Same here, I have learnt over the years that its ok to not say anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were to say something, it would be my honest opinion and view.

I can be brutally direct and blunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bwahahahahaaa..!!!!

Fotsrotflmfao.....!!! Oops, a bit of wee came out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do tend to stop and think before I say something maybe sometimes I'm just too nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say what I see

and the trouble I get into sometimes because if it is bonkers.

"
say what you see, you watch Catchphrase too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love that game

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bwahahahahaaa..!!!!

Fotsrotflmfao.....!!! Oops, a bit of wee came out....

Ewwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)

Ooo the police got you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are you trying to kid???!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)

Ooo the police got you

....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)

Ooo the police got you

....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully...

Don't think so, as I have had 2 x 48h ban for the same issue myself in the past couple of years!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I'll try and put this as politely as I can but WTF have you done to Polo?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)

Ooo the police got you

....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully...

I have no idea - Im very good

and havent been posting that long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a propensity towards saying what I want.....hence having served 2 bans to date from the forums! (sorry admin)

Ooo the police got you

....do they run on a 3 strikes and you're out rule??....i'd better tread carefully...

I have no idea - Im very good

and havent been posting that long

lol.....give it time Floro....they'll get ya!!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I don't believe you

I don't believe most of the 'I'll say it coz it looks good' bollox people post on here... but hey, what can you do. "

Ahhhh there she is

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