FabSwingers.com forum: "Labels"

By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

Do you think labels are important or anyone can cosplay as straight?

"cosplay as a straight man and fantasize about men while you are creating a future single mom?"

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By *tlanshiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Chatham

Labels aren't important being honest is.

Pretending to be in love with anyone, creating a life together only to leave when the stress of pretending to be something your not gets to much to bare. Especially if you were always on doing it to appear 'normal' to bigoted family members.

Luckily I don't think it happens as much now the world is more open

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
35 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

I think people are really too complex to label sufficiently.

I think being honest is important though, you shouldn't be disingenuous.

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By *ellinever70Woman
35 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think they are a very useful starting point

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By *sWyldWoman
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I really dislike labels in my life if honest. I'm just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I don’t agree with labels, we’re all unique in our own ways. As long as there’s honesty, I don’t see the need

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By *uffhoundMan
35 weeks ago

Bourne, Lincolnshire

As long as there are labels people will never be treated equally.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
35 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I hate the word label in this context. You are what you are but i’d still prefer to know. I’m bi. It’s what I am, I don’t feel labelled. My daughter has special needs, it’s important it’s known in certain situations. It’s not a label it’s what we are.

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By *issmorganWoman
35 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I think people are really too complex to label sufficiently.

I think being honest is important though, you shouldn't be disingenuous. "

This. It's one of my bug bears when people aren't upfront and state they're one thing, when they really aren't.

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By *uzyjonesxTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

They’re only important if they’re important to you

But not for me, people like me have too many labels thrown at us I just want a quiet easy life lol xx

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By *om and JennieCouple
35 weeks ago

Chams or Socials

I love labels they are a very important part of life for example when i come to fuel my car up i need to know which is the right pump to pick up if they were all the same with no labels it would be pot luck.

Similarly if i have a food allergy when i walk into a supermarket and everything is in plain generic packaging how do i know which foods to avoid?

I can see why it frustrates some people but not everyone and everything is exactly the same.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
35 weeks ago

Walsall

Labels help people make choices.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester

Sounds like you've got a bee in your bonnet about certain men, OP?

I don't like being labelled in a sexual context, as what I like and enjoy varies, and I feel like my sexuality is fluid and changing in many different aspects. I don't like being pigeonholed into a category.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Sounds like you've got a bee in your bonnet about certain men, OP?

Not at all, I like them. These are not my words, I'm just curious what other people think. I like to read different views

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By *smiaTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I personally dont like labels as they reduce people down to certain qualities. Everyone has so many unique and individual characteristics that fall outside of what labels can define. As long as you are happy in yourself thats all that matters. Life is way too short to try and define every single thing

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By *arc PolarisMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm not really a fan of labels if someone can explain in a way I understand. Though sometimes its easier if they can signpost something for me.

It has taken me some while to understand myself and yes I've put a label on my bio bc it helps explain things more than I could do myself

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

People are so weird about this topic.

As someone mentioned above, having a medical diagnosis and therefore a label helps with the support people get from a medical point of view which can lead to further support in school or at work (not to mention the I'm assuming enormous relief to the actual person/their friends/family at having validation/understanding). So I can't imagine anyone disagreeing that those labels are important?

In terms of sexuality, I felt like a part of me was missing or unexplained until I came across the labels I use to describe my sexuality. It helps me.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
35 weeks ago

Didcot

The right to wear those labels, LGBT were hard earned, getting to a point where we were not persecuted by everyone, including the media and gaining some sort of equal rights was a long and hard battle especially through the 1970s and 1980s where many, me included were closeted through fear, some didn't make it through. So yeah, I've earned my label and am bloody proud of it.

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