FabSwingers.com forum: Usernames

By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

Do people judge based off usernames?

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
28 weeks ago

Bliss

Yes. I like it when people put effort into choosing their usernames.

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By *naswingdressWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes. Not always. Usually when it's notably bad (explicit, particularly violent, or makes someone sound up themselves)

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By *abulincsCouple
28 weeks ago

pe129 area

Definitely so

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By *eys00Man
28 weeks ago

have boots will travel

I actually do, while at the same time having the most pointless generic username myself. So hypocritical 🙈😂

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By *ust want fun 888Man
28 weeks ago

nearby

Well, mine is simple, it says exactly what’s on the tin

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By *AYENCouple
28 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We know that daddydoms, milfhunters, BWC's and BBC's plus quite a few others are not what we're looking for, so yes, we do.

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By *yrdsisWoman
28 weeks ago

Gleam Street

Sometimes ... some are just so awful I can't help running away screaming

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Massively. I judge their username before I even look at their boobies...I mean pics

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
28 weeks ago

Reading

Some user names act as red flags on their own, it can be helpful as a quick filter that the person isn’t what I’m looking for. Anything with daddy, bbc, make you squirt etc are just not for me.

After that it can be a good conversation topic talking about the story or lack of story behind the user name/

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
28 weeks ago

South Wales

Yes. People think I shag dildos.

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By *olo180Man
28 weeks ago

Greater London

Absolutely

I can’t abide crass usernames!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
28 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Overly explicit names I tend to ignore

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By *onochromosMan
28 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"Yes. People think I shag dildos."

I personally rate your username highly 👏🏼

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By *rsMxCouple
28 weeks ago

Glasgow

I try not to be a judgy shrew, but sadly yes...if we get a message from an overly vulgar or crass username, is an instant delete for me im afraid 😒

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By *usurrusCouple
28 weeks ago

North West

Guilty. So yes, we do.

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By *enelope2UWoman
28 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Not strictly but YES its the start..

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By *oughmanMan
28 weeks ago

Sunderland

Hey, mines just a physical description.

. But no I don't judge on the user name.

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By *obilebottomMan
28 weeks ago

All over

Yes they think I live in a motorhome

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Absolutely

I can’t abide crass usernames!

We would never know 🤣🤭

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Yes I do. Can’t help it. Especially if it’s written in all caps as well

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Yes im not a fan of very descriptive sexual names

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By *hinstrapMan
28 weeks ago

sheffield

Some are just way cooler. Than others. wouldn't say no to a meet if there username was normal though

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By *obilebottomMan
28 weeks ago

All over

"Yes im not a fan of very descriptive sexual names "

Lovely thighs

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By *anky_PankyWoman
28 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Do people judge based off usernames? "

Well yours would lead me to think you are a serial yo-yoer on fab.

I also have never been overly keen on fab names that are along the lines of 'RipUrBackOut' and 'FannySmasher'. Not sure why, I mean they sound so appealing!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I need to get rid of mine.

Anyone want it?

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Some usernames i do yes... however, people prefer mine to my real name 😂

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By *anky_PankyWoman
28 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I need to get rid of mine.

Anyone want it?"

Are you changing to 'He's_a_very_naughty_boy'?! 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 29/10/25 20:56:03]

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By *ornucopiaMan
28 weeks ago

Bexley

"Yes they think I live in a motorhome

So, it isn't anything to do with shoving an old pre smartphobe Nokia up there?

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
28 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

They can be a little off putting yes if they are of a descriptive nature

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"I need to get rid of mine.

Anyone want it?

Are you changing to 'He's_a_very_naughty_boy'?! 😂"

Nope as I don't get to miss behave

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By *obilebottomMan
28 weeks ago

All over

"Yes they think I live in a motorhome

So, it isn't anything to do with shoving an old pre smartphobe Nokia up there?"

Nah

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
28 weeks ago

South Wales

"Do people judge based off usernames?

Well yours would lead me to think you are a serial yo-yoer on fab.

I also have never been overly keen on fab names that are along the lines of 'RipUrBackOut' and 'FannySmasher'. Not sure why, I mean they sound so appealing!

I had an offer the other day of 'blowing my back out'..didn't sound very sexy. My poor back!

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By *olo180Man
28 weeks ago

Greater London

"Absolutely

I can’t abide crass usernames!

We would never know 🤣🤭"

Has it been changed yet? 🤣

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By *eys00Man
28 weeks ago

have boots will travel

"I had an offer the other day of 'blowing my back out'..didn't sound very sexy. My poor back!"

😂😂😂😂

Since I hit mid 30s I have blown my own back out just getting out of bed or sleeping funny, I certainly won’t be offering to do it to someone here! Way too painful 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Yes im not a fan of very descriptive sexual names

Lovely thighs

Fabs best bum 🍑

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By *otBunsHunWoman
28 weeks ago

The North where we do what we want

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By *obilebottomMan
28 weeks ago

All over

"Yes im not a fan of very descriptive sexual names

Lovely thighs

Fabs best bum 🍑"

Forgot about that. You see, din't go to my head

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

Round the bend

Yep. If it's sexually graphic, a little bit of sick comes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Yes. People think I shag dildos."

What, and you don't ??

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
28 weeks ago

Cardiff

Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass"

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔"

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

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By *emonochromeMan
28 weeks ago

peterborough

I was going to say no but then if the name was holegaper69 that would put me off

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Dosent really bother us much

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣"

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

If the person is cute, then the username is like a clear plastic wrapper! If not so cute, then somehow it has to become enticing glittery foil packaging….

If your name is defining you then I guess pick wisely?

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

Round the bend

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣"

Your secrets safe with us Daddy 🤪

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣

Your secrets safe with us Daddy 🤪"

I owe you one 🙏

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
28 weeks ago

North West

Yes - bonus judgement if their spelling is atrocious!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣"

Hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣

Hahahahahaha "

😤 meany

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By *dible_KinkCouple
28 weeks ago

Aberdeen

We definitely judge usernames. Any messages from a profile with anything we dont want to meet being included in it and it's straight to delete - no point missing the first most obvious red flag when it's staring you in the face!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣

Hahahahahaha

😤 meany"

Ah you know i like you really 🤫

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣

Hahahahahaha

😤 meany

Ah you know i like you really 🤫 "

You like me? ☺️

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By *adyBugsWoman
28 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

Yes

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
28 weeks ago

Merseyside

It can defo be off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣

Hahahahahaha

😤 meany

Ah you know i like you really 🤫

You like me? ☺️"

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Shouldn't judge a book by its cover but anyone with a username that includes destroyer, slayer, breeder is getting a hard pass

So BreederDestroyer is out of the question? 🤔

Your old username was questionable 🤣🤣🤣

I really didn't think that one through properly 🫣

Hahahahahaha

😤 meany

Ah you know i like you really 🤫

You like me? ☺️

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"I try not to be a judgy shrew, but sadly yes...if we get a message from an overly vulgar or crass username, is an instant delete for me im afraid 😒"

I love this.

If I need a name change, I'm going with Judgey Shrew.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
28 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"I need to get rid of mine.

Anyone want it?"

...at least wait til Christmas 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"I need to get rid of mine.

Anyone want it?

...at least wait til Christmas 😉"

Why?

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
28 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"I need to get rid of mine.

Anyone want it?

...at least wait til Christmas 😉

Why?"

so you can choose a Christmassy one before you give this one away!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

How’s ours?

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
28 weeks ago

Niche

Of course it matters! It's a reflection of the person.

Gross, offensive, grim, childish teenage boy?

No thank you.

Zero sexy points.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"I need to get rid of mine.

Anyone want it?

...at least wait til Christmas 😉

Why?

so you can choose a Christmassy one before you give this one away!"
it's cancelled

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By *warf with a mullet.Man
28 weeks ago

cardiff

Definitely, far too many usernames that try to be funny, its just embarrassing

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By *adagastMan
28 weeks ago

Rotherham

Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you.

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By *ude LawMan
28 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you."

If your mansion house needs haunting, just call.....

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By *adagastMan
28 weeks ago

Rotherham

"Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you.

If your mansion house needs haunting, just call....."

Thank you.

Radagast the Brown was a wizard and companion to Gandalf.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
28 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Do people judge based off usernames?

Well yours would lead me to think you are a serial yo-yoer on fab.

I also have never been overly keen on fab names that are along the lines of 'RipUrBackOut' and 'FannySmasher'. Not sure why, I mean they sound so appealing!

I had an offer the other day of 'blowing my back out'..didn't sound very sexy. My poor back!"

Its scary that the person sending it obv thought it appropriate 🙈🤣

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By *olo180Man
28 weeks ago

Greater London

"Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you.

If your mansion house needs haunting, just call....."

👏🏻

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
28 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"so you can choose a Christmassy one before you give this one away! it's cancelled "

Scruge then?!

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By *arc PolarisMan
28 weeks ago

Birmingham

I really hope so, it took me quite a while to come up with mine

And yes they would put me off even viewing a profile

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
28 weeks ago

Niche

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
28 weeks ago

Niche

"Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you."

Are you radical and aghast?

Radically aghast?

A radiator man shocked at the price of oil?

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By *entlemanrogueMan
28 weeks ago

Motherwell

I try not to but some people's usernames are very off-putting.

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By *insBadMan
28 weeks ago

& around

Love Hotwife or cuckold in a user name as it's exactly what I'm looking for

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By *adagastMan
28 weeks ago

Rotherham

"Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you.

Are you radical and aghast?

Radically aghast?

A radiator man shocked at the price of oil?"

An interesting take! Thank you.

Radagast was a wizard and I've always loved the work of J R R Tolkien.

Nothing to do with radiators. Sorry.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
28 weeks ago

Durham

Yes.

Usernames such as cumdump or pussy smasher, or anything else vulgar puts us straight off.

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By *ex HolesMan
28 weeks ago

Up North

"Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you."

Fantastic bobbies helmet dude

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By *adagastMan
28 weeks ago

Rotherham

"Opinions on my user name, please. I would be very interested to hear. Thank you.

Fantastic bobbies helmet dude "

Thank you.

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By *ENW coupleCouple
28 weeks ago

west lancs

North east north west couple

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Do people judge based off usernames? "

They definitely do. I think I made a bad decision choosing mine 😂

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By *orthern StarsCouple
28 weeks ago

Durham

"Do people judge based off usernames?

They definitely do. I think I made a bad decision choosing mine 😂"

You can change your username.

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
28 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

I hate mine, it was chosen in haste. I want my old one back.

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By *orbidden eastMan
28 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think so, possibly. I like my one it makes you think

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By *eys00Man
28 weeks ago

have boots will travel

You can change your username."

Oh for god sake why am I only finding this out now!? 😂🙈

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Do people judge based off usernames?

They definitely do. I think I made a bad decision choosing mine 😂

You can change your username."
oh can you? I didn’t realise. Thanks for letting me know

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By *aven RedWoman
28 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

The name is have now is my 3rd fab name. First 2 got changed to this after maybe a month. Quite happy with this one x

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By *aven RedWoman
28 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

I try not to judge but some do make me think WTF x

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Guess I thought there was a kink for married men. I can confirm that isn’t the case 😂

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By *eroLondonMan
28 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Judge" probably not, but I have an aversion to garishly crass ones: "Miss_Semen_Swallower" etc.

If you're going to be unimaginative with your username name I'll foolishly presume you're going to be equally unimaginative between the sheets.

P.S. apologies to anyone with "Semen Swallower" in their name.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
28 weeks ago

Durham

You can change your username.

Oh for god sake why am I only finding this out now!? 😂🙈"

😂 If you go to 'account' and then 'change username', it lets you change it.

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By *eroLondonMan
28 weeks ago

Mayfair

"... ...Radagast was a wizard and I've always loved the work of J R R Tolkien."

•

When I joined I seriously considered using either Alatar or Pallando (the fourth and fifth Middle-Earth wizards).

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I do yes.

If its off putting,it's an instant turn off before it's even begun 🤦‍♀️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
28 weeks ago

Central

Yes, it's natural that people will, as the user has picked it to represent themselves

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By *hilloutMan
28 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

They absolutely do. For better or worse.

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By *adagastMan
28 weeks ago

Rotherham

"... ...Radagast was a wizard and I've always loved the work of J R R Tolkien.

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When I joined I seriously considered using either Alatar or Pallando (the fourth and fifth Middle-Earth wizards)."

I thought about the Blue Wizards too, but I always rather liked old Radagast the Brown.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
28 weeks ago

Home

No not at all

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