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I mean when I find someone who seems attractive, sane and fancies me back, they either don’t take me seriously or our diaries never seem to match up! 
What’s broken with fab lately? Is there some new secret weaponry that I don’t know about since I was last on, or am I just getting too old for this shit, or is the pool getting smaller as everyone shuffles over to other well known apps?m that must not be mentioned?
I mean, I’ll even travel a fair distance too! What more can a girl ask for from a guy? So I need to get some body decorations, scented candles or flashing light or summat?
Anyone have any thoughts or tips? Anyone fancy putting up with me for an evening sometime?   
Lots of love and have a wonderful day all Xx | |||
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"Fab...... completed it mate. " I’ve literally done it half a dozen times now and once I even defeated the hairy balled giant caveman who flys down after the bit where most people think is the end… | |||
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"Cant really hold fab responsible if you cant meet due to diary issues. " I’ve always had a diary, it’s actually less busy these days…. ….I can blame fab for the shitty weather outside if it’s easier? Bloody fab! | |||
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"You remind me of someone who is a serial leaver too… I just forgot his name. If people don’t find you attractive, they won’t want to meet you. People can blame the pandemic, Trump, that Fab is a website and not an app with no swiping, etc etc, but bottom line is if people don’t fancy you they will not want to meet. It is very simple. I just remembered the name. Brucey! " Missed my point, it’s not about the fancying. I’m talking about people who clearly fancy each other but still not being able to fix up meets. It’s defo different, maybe people are getting more comfortable with text va flesh, idk?  | |||
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"Requirements of most are getting more stringent, lists of tick boxes are getting longer by the day. The more choice available, the pickier people become. If you don’t meet those requirements or tick ALL those boxes you won’t get given the time of day. Mind you, one could have all of those AND STILL you’d get a thanks but no thanks 🤷🏾♂️ I just stay on here now for the forums, the pics, event guest lists and to keep in touch with those I’ve either met at, or wish to meet at events " Agreed! It’s like peoples energy all goes into their presentation, but then when it comes to the fun bit we’re all too busy taking pics and faffing each other around on telespam? | |||
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"You only joined 4wks ago OP, have some patience, ditch the diary " Patience smatience, this is a long stint for me! | |||
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"Requirements of most are getting more stringent, lists of tick boxes are getting longer by the day. The more choice available, the pickier people become. If you don’t meet those requirements or tick ALL those boxes you won’t get given the time of day. Mind you, one could have all of those AND STILL you’d get a thanks but no thanks 🤷🏾♂️ I just stay on here now for the forums, the pics, event guest lists and to keep in touch with those I’ve either met at, or wish to meet at events " The last paragraph is pretty much why we stay on here. Keep in touch and learn of/advertise upcoming events. | |||
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"Requirements of most are getting more stringent, lists of tick boxes are getting longer by the day. The more choice available, the pickier people become. If you don’t meet those requirements or tick ALL those boxes you won’t get given the time of day. Mind you, one could have all of those AND STILL you’d get a thanks but no thanks 🤷🏾♂️ I just stay on here now for the forums, the pics, event guest lists and to keep in touch with those I’ve either met at, or wish to meet at events Agreed! It’s like peoples energy all goes into their presentation, but then when it comes to the fun bit we’re all too busy taking pics and faffing each other around on telespam? "A LOT of clout chasers, thankfully they’re pretty easy to spot 😅 | |||
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"Requirements of most are getting more stringent, lists of tick boxes are getting longer by the day. The more choice available, the pickier people become. If you don’t meet those requirements or tick ALL those boxes you won’t get given the time of day. Mind you, one could have all of those AND STILL you’d get a thanks but no thanks 🤷🏾♂️ I just stay on here now for the forums, the pics, event guest lists and to keep in touch with those I’ve either met at, or wish to meet at events The last paragraph is pretty much why we stay on here. Keep in touch and learn of/advertise upcoming events." I walk into a club and I feel on top of the world like a million dollars & I’m welcomed with open arms in some cases, come back on here and it’s back to being a small fish in a big pond. I’ll just continue to go where I’m celebrated as opposed to staying where I just feel “tolerated” | |||
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"You only joined 4wks ago OP ... " Amazing that he got that user name. Surprising that it was not snapped up years ago! | |||
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"You only joined 4wks ago OP ... Amazing that he got that user name. Surprising that it was not snapped up years ago!" | |||
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This is really sad to read, Op, hopefully things pick up for you soon. 🩷 | |||
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"You remind me of someone who is a serial leaver too… I just forgot his name. If people don’t find you attractive, they won’t want to meet you. People can blame the pandemic, Trump, that Fab is a website and not an app with no swiping, etc etc, but bottom line is if people don’t fancy you they will not want to meet. It is very simple. I just remembered the name. Brucey! " • In fairness Brucey never struggled to get meets, despite his self-perpetuated debunking. His dance card had more stamps on it than the entire ensemble of Bridgerton. He only returns to Fab when he needs a break and to create dorky 'horn dog' threads. | |||
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"I know, I know! Fab as always been a struggle for blokes - ratios, attitudes, people’s ridiculous prejudices with regard to toilet lid open, pants round ankles, sweaty cock pics etc… BUT!!!! I’m really struggling to find someone to meet!
I mean when I find someone who seems attractive, sane and fancies me back, they either don’t take me seriously or our diaries never seem to match up!
What’s broken with fab lately? Is there some new secret weaponry that I don’t know about since I was last on, or am I just getting too old for this shit, or is the pool getting smaller as everyone shuffles over to other well known apps?m that must not be mentioned?
I mean, I’ll even travel a fair distance too! What more can a girl ask for from a guy? So I need to get some body decorations, scented candles or flashing light or summat?
Anyone have any thoughts or tips? Anyone fancy putting up with me for an evening sometime?
Lots of love and have a wonderful day all Xx"Looking at your profile, there is one pic which shows very little, no interests on there at all and hardly any bio. It is of little suprise that you are not getting very far | |||
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" This is really sad to read, Op, hopefully things pick up for you soon. 🩷"Alright my lover
Missed you too! Xx | |||
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"Yeah it’s all about secret weapons and stuff Secrets as fuck it is , you only get to know the secret after a secret amount of time determined by the fab secret society of secret keepers . Then you get the thing that makes all your most desired fabbers come flying in , flapping their undies in gay (and bi as well as straight ) abandon ! You didn’t hear this from me though ! 🥷 " I reckon you could be on to something fella! A fab clique!!! | |||
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"Its too cold to get naked OP..maybe that's it "Omg, the kids these days! You’re never too cold to get naked!  | |||
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"I know, I know! Fab as always been a struggle for blokes - ratios, attitudes, people’s ridiculous prejudices with regard to toilet lid open, pants round ankles, sweaty cock pics etc… BUT!!!! I’m really struggling to find someone to meet!
I mean when I find someone who seems attractive, sane and fancies me back, they either don’t take me seriously or our diaries never seem to match up!
What’s broken with fab lately? Is there some new secret weaponry that I don’t know about since I was last on, or am I just getting too old for this shit, or is the pool getting smaller as everyone shuffles over to other well known apps?m that must not be mentioned?
I mean, I’ll even travel a fair distance too! What more can a girl ask for from a guy? So I need to get some body decorations, scented candles or flashing light or summat?
Anyone have any thoughts or tips? Anyone fancy putting up with me for an evening sometime?
Lots of love and have a wonderful day all Xx"Not sure what your looking for, personally it's no strings attached sex for me | |||
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"You remind me of someone who is a serial leaver too… I just forgot his name. If people don’t find you attractive, they won’t want to meet you. People can blame the pandemic, Trump, that Fab is a website and not an app with no swiping, etc etc, but bottom line is if people don’t fancy you they will not want to meet. It is very simple. I just remembered the name. Brucey! • In fairness Brucey never struggled to get meets, despite his self-perpetuated debunking. His dance card had more stamps on it than the entire ensemble of Bridgerton. He only returns to Fab when he needs a break and to create dorky 'horn dog' threads." Yeah I know- I never managed to make it to his dance card and we’re like 4 miles away. 🥺 I mean OP reminded me to him in writing style haha x | |||
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"You remind me of someone who is a serial leaver too… I just forgot his name. If people don’t find you attractive, they won’t want to meet you. People can blame the pandemic, Trump, that Fab is a website and not an app with no swiping, etc etc, but bottom line is if people don’t fancy you they will not want to meet. It is very simple. I just remembered the name. Brucey! • In fairness Brucey never struggled to get meets, despite his self-perpetuated debunking. His dance card had more stamps on it than the entire ensemble of Bridgerton. He only returns to Fab when he needs a break and to create dorky 'horn dog' threads. Yeah I know- I never managed to make it to his dance card and we’re like 4 miles away. 🥺 I mean OP reminded me to him in writing style haha x " ^reminded me OF him | |||
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"You remind me of someone who is a serial leaver too… I just forgot his name. If people don’t find you attractive, they won’t want to meet you. People can blame the pandemic, Trump, that Fab is a website and not an app with no swiping, etc etc, but bottom line is if people don’t fancy you they will not want to meet. It is very simple. I just remembered the name. Brucey! • In fairness Brucey never struggled to get meets, despite his self-perpetuated debunking. His dance card had more stamps on it than the entire ensemble of Bridgerton. He only returns to Fab when he needs a break and to create dorky 'horn dog' threads. Yeah I know- I never managed to make it to his dance card and we’re like 4 miles away. 🥺 I mean OP reminded me to him in writing style haha x ^reminded me OF him" Not Brucey | |||
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"... It’s like peoples energy all goes into their presentation, but then when it comes to the fun bit we’re all too busy taking pics and faffing each other around on telespam? "I know all MY energy goes into my presentation. I'm very busy getting the right look and posing for my pics (it's pretty exhausting rushing into position in the 10s delay that the phone camera timer uses). Who's got time to meet? Plus then I'm have to spend ages douching, and actually have to do The Sex (ick). 🧛🏻♀️ | |||
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