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By (user no longer on site) OP   
28 weeks ago

It amazes me how many young lads are virgins on here between 18-22. And are using this platform to lose it.

Sign of the times they can't socialise?

Or something different?

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

Cheshire


"It amazes me how many young lads are virgins on here between 18-22. And are using this platform to lose it.

Sign of the times they can't socialise?

Or something different?"

These lads have spent their teenage years gaming when we were out experimenting.

They have enormous thumbs though.

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By *olgateMan
28 weeks ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

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By *naswingdressWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think people were just less aware of them in the past.

At least these kids have other outlets.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
28 weeks ago

Central

A lot of younger men are awkward socially and quite isolated.

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By *rafter69Man
28 weeks ago

upminster

We have more means of communication nowadays and people struggle to communicate.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
28 weeks ago

Didcot


"A lot of younger men are awkward socially and quite isolated. "

That's not new though, I was like that, especially where girls were concerned, I got to 32 years old without even kissing a girl/woman let alone doing anything else.

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By *offeeLoverMan
28 weeks ago

Cheltenham

A lot of social events have closed down since Covid and rising drink prices mean more young people don't go out. I'm sure you know how hard it is as a single guy on here no different on any other app🤷‍♂️ more young people on are online happens to heavily favour women.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
28 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹 "

How quickly could a witch sniff one out?

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By *vaRoseWoman
28 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

If by signs of the times you are taking into account Covid restrictions that extended well into ‘21 and ‘22 then indeed it’s not surprising that so many are inexperienced.

From closed schools/colleges/universities to being unable to meet others and when restrictions were lifted those important connections hadn’t been made. The opportunities and confidence in social relationships just didn’t happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"It amazes me how many young lads are virgins on here between 18-22. And are using this platform to lose it.

Sign of the times they can't socialise?

Or something different?"

How many are there? How do you know? Have you done a survey or something?

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
28 weeks ago

South Wales


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹

How quickly could a witch sniff one out?"

Instantly, depending on the radius

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By *offeeLoverMan
28 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹 "

So it's not just the broomstick witches ride?

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

The fine art of fingering was replaced with gameing

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
28 weeks ago

Reading

Gen z aren't fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

What a waste, the girls are probably playing with themselves too

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
28 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹

How quickly could a witch sniff one out?

Instantly, depending on the radius"

Lock up your virgins! 🧙

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
28 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹

So it's not just the broomstick witches ride? "

🤭

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By *offeeLoverMan
28 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹

So it's not just the broomstick witches ride?

🤭 "

Time to go out Halloween

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By *ichaelsmyMan
28 weeks ago

douglas


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹 "

here on the isle of man we have nastier things than witches.

Moddey Dhoo

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By *uke02Man
28 weeks ago

Waterford City

I only lost my virginity this year. I struggle a lot with social anxiety and in general have social skill issues. I find it hard to connect to connect with people and in general to fit in

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
28 weeks ago

South Wales


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹

How quickly could a witch sniff one out?

Instantly, depending on the radius

Lock up your virgins! 🧙 "

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
28 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire


"If by signs of the times you are taking into account Covid restrictions that extended well into ‘21 and ‘22 then indeed it’s not surprising that so many are inexperienced.

From closed schools/colleges/universities to being unable to meet others and when restrictions were lifted those important connections hadn’t been made. The opportunities and confidence in social relationships just didn’t happen."

Yes, although I think that there are other longer term factors (dependence on the internet generally and on the IT on telephones in particular., changing patterns of work and socialising, etc.) involved too the repressive effects of largely futile and often socially and educationally (and even medically) destructive ‘covid fascism’ seems to have done a huge amount of harm to a lot of people’s lives, especially among the young.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I think a big part of it is the digitalisation of social spheres and also access to work.

Another aspect is how can you you accommodate?

Rent is sky high once you leave uni.

Getting a house is very hard

For many a car is hard to aquire.

So suddenly, you are reliant on someone being able to host you, and that's a huge statistical killer.

Saying this as a younger millennial who is currently house hunting and back at my folks- bloody soul crushing.

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By *roublemaker2Man
28 weeks ago

Colchester


"It amazes me how many young lads are virgins on here between 18-22. And are using this platform to lose it.

Sign of the times they can't socialise?

Or something different?

These lads have spent their teenage years gaming when we were out experimenting.

They have enormous thumbs though."

Literally was going to say this the Xbox generation has really affected who people socialise and they are scared to approach anyone

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By *oeBeansMan
28 weeks ago

Derby

Young people have lost 2 years of their development due to Covid in addition to most office workers now working from home

Social media has set unrealistic expectations for both men and women

Going out is far more expensive so you're less likely to socialise

If you look at social media, guys are told they are creeps for even looking in a woman's direction (there was literally a viral trend of women picking a bear over a man to run into in the woods), so men are naturally deciding that trying their luck just isn't worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Young people have lost 2 years of their development due to Covid in addition to most office workers now working from home

Social media has set unrealistic expectations for both men and women

Going out is far more expensive so you're less likely to socialise

If you look at social media, guys are told they are creeps for even looking in a woman's direction (there was literally a viral trend of women picking a bear over a man to run into in the woods), so men are naturally deciding that trying their luck just isn't worth it."

God yeah, I remember the bear thing, absolutely fucking ridiculous 🤦🏻‍♂️

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By *usie pTV/TS
28 weeks ago

taunton

They should look into joining their local Young Farmers Club, don't need to be involved in farming, might be a bit of a treck if you live inner city though.

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By *usie pTV/TS
28 weeks ago

taunton

P,S, there is an upper age limit used to be 25.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
28 weeks ago

Reading


"What? Virgin’s you say?!

They should lock themselves away for Halloween. The witches will sniff them out 🧹

here on the isle of man we have nastier things than witches.

Moddey Dhoo"

What like billionaire tax Dodgers? Very nasty and indeed.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
28 weeks ago

Reading


"Young people have lost 2 years of their development due to Covid in addition to most office workers now working from home

Social media has set unrealistic expectations for both men and women

Going out is far more expensive so you're less likely to socialise

If you look at social media, guys are told they are creeps for even looking in a woman's direction (there was literally a viral trend of women picking a bear over a man to run into in the woods), so men are naturally deciding that trying their luck just isn't worth it."

Such a shame that men have been demonised. Men are much more likely to be assaulted than women but media loves to make us live in fear, the vast majority of men pose absolutely no risk to women and are more likely to intervene than hurt us.

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