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By *rey Bear OP   Man
35 weeks ago

kaer morhen

What is something that makes you want to message a person first?

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By *issEmmWoman
35 weeks ago

Bournemouth

If they have made me laugh

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair


"If they have made me laugh "

How could they make you laugh if you're the one sending initial message? 🙂🩶

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By *carlettsWoman
35 weeks ago

Harpenden


"If they have made me laugh

How could they make you laugh if you're the one sending initial message? 🙂🩶"

Maybe something funny they have said in a forum thread or maybe on their profile text perhaps?

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair


"If they have made me laugh

How could they make you laugh if you're the one sending initial message? 🙂🩶

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Maybe something funny they have said in a forum thread or maybe on their profile text perhaps? "

Waaiiit! Women read profiles?!?

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By *carlettsWoman
35 weeks ago

Harpenden


"If they have made me laugh

How could they make you laugh if you're the one sending initial message? 🙂🩶

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Maybe something funny they have said in a forum thread or maybe on their profile text perhaps?

Waaiiit! Women read profiles?!? "

Lol well some do

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By *carlettsWoman
35 weeks ago

Harpenden


"If they have made me laugh

How could they make you laugh if you're the one sending initial message? 🙂🩶

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Maybe something funny they have said in a forum thread or maybe on their profile text perhaps?

Waaiiit! Women read profiles?!? "

Yours maybe not, too much scrolling

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By *viatrixCouple
35 weeks ago

Gatwick

It is really, reallly rare that I message first. They’d have to be exactly my type and my type isn’t around often.

Or sometimes I’m not my type’s type 😂

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair


"It is really, reallly rare that I message first. They’d have to be exactly my type and my type isn’t around often.

Or sometimes I’m not my type’s type 😂"

Have you tried Helvetica? My favourite type. 🩶

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
35 weeks ago

Bliss

An attractive to me face pic

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By *otMediterraneanWoman
35 weeks ago

MK

They have to be bisexual females

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

I don't.

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By *earditallWoman
35 weeks ago

Lancaster

Good profile and good pics.

If their profile has something I'm interested in

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By *arleycplWoman
35 weeks ago

Frodsham


"If they have made me laugh

How could they make you laugh if you're the one sending initial message? 🙂🩶

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Maybe something funny they have said in a forum thread or maybe on their profile text perhaps?

Waaiiit! Women read profiles?!? "

Far more than men do

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By *luebell888Woman
35 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"If they have made me laugh

How could they make you laugh if you're the one sending initial message? 🙂🩶"

They could have a witty profile.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
35 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

Just something about their profile or maybe their photos that ignites an intital interest.

I do like a witty profile, a taste of their personality within it.

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By *arleycplWoman
35 weeks ago

Frodsham

An attraction, be it a well written profile, a funny or interesting forum post, or even the good old physical attraction

Marie

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By *sm265Woman
35 weeks ago

Perthshire


"An attraction, be it a well written profile, a funny or interesting forum post, or even the good old physical attraction

Marie "

Pretty much this. Most often it's because they've said something on the forums or in a status update that has intrigued me enough to go look at their profile, if their profile captures my interest further then I will message them.

My most successful and enjoyable meets have been as a result of me messaging first.

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By *ASAnerdWoman
35 weeks ago

Chester

I don't, I think I've only ever sent the first message twice - that was because I was looking for something specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"What is something that makes you want to message a person first?"

If they're big enough...

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