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Going on a date...shitting myself.

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By *oobaa OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Sth Tyne

Met a really nice Lady(through a friend) and we are going out tonight for the first time on a date ,as she put it.

We ve got on really well through texting and now its the next level.

Iam shitting it tbh lol

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By *eadpool-ishMan
28 weeks ago

Horam

Top tip, don't shit it on the date

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Chichester


"Met a really nice Lady(through a friend) and we are going out tonight for the first time on a date ,as she put it.

We ve got on really well through texting and now its the next level.

Iam shitting it tbh lol"

Just be yourself don’t try too hard to impress. Things will either connect or they don’t either enjoy the experience as it’s all knowledge to enjoy learn from

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By *he milf next doorWoman
28 weeks ago

bluebell woods

You’ll be fine just be your self but don’t do anything knobish enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Two imodium tablets will help!

😃

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By *eroLondonMan
28 weeks ago

Mayfair

You'll be fine, OP. Brilliant news about the date. Enjoy yourself! 🙂

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
28 weeks ago

Swansea

Hi OP,

Just think of it as a few hours out chatting with a friend. Don't put pressure on yourself or read too much into the meaning or purpose of the evening. Just enjoy someone else's company and put your online conversation into an in person natter.

Enjoy

Mrs S&N

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By *ensuallover1000Man
28 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I hope you have a great time OP 😃👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

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By *akedMMan
28 weeks ago

Witney

Good luck 🤞

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Remember to make a safe word

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By *idnightcowboy69Man
28 weeks ago

cirencester

Have a wank before you leave the house

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By *otterabzMan
28 weeks ago

Ellon

Just try to relax and don’t pressure yourself

Do you need one of us to phone you at some point, in case you need a get out?

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By *oobaa OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Sth Tyne

not a good time..wont be seeing her again.

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By *andadbodMan
28 weeks ago

Liverpool


"not a good time..wont be seeing her again."

did you shit yourself? or tell her as much as you love pussy, youre quite fond of cock too and that put her off?

Details pal we need details, what happened?

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By *ynamite500Man
28 weeks ago

Angus

Yeah, we need to know what happened?? 🤔

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By *cots99Man
28 weeks ago

London

Do tell...

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By *ink vixenCouple
28 weeks ago

Medway


"not a good time..wont be seeing her again."

That’s a shame.

Don’t let it put you off trying again.

When I started “dating” again after several years I started writing little cue cards for myself to keep the conversations going.

I found though that with the women that I

liked I never needed them.

Still handy to have to save the fear of the rabbit in the headlights moment.

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By *he milf next doorWoman
28 weeks ago

bluebell woods


"not a good time..wont be seeing her again."
ah but perhaps the experience will prepare you for your next date don’t give up

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By *oobaa OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Sth Tyne

Well she was 35 mins late to start off with. I sent her 2 messages in that time just saying what table number i was at and to let me know when she was 5 mins away and I d get her a drink...no reply.

When she did arrive there was no conversation for 5 mins while she fucked around on her phone.

I would/should have walked but didnt want to leave her in a bar on her own, so stuck it out for about 20 more mins then just said it wasnt working so calling it a night....not good. never mind.

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By *iddle ManMan
28 weeks ago

Walsall


"Met a really nice Lady(through a friend) and we are going out tonight for the first time on a date ,as she put it.

We ve got on really well through texting and now its the next level.

Iam shitting it tbh lol"

Good luck with your date.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Well she was 35 mins late to start off with. I sent her 2 messages in that time just saying what table number i was at and to let me know when she was 5 mins away and I d get her a drink...no reply.

When she did arrive there was no conversation for 5 mins while she fucked around on her phone.

I would/should have walked but didnt want to leave her in a bar on her own, so stuck it out for about 20 more mins then just said it wasnt working so calling it a night....not good. never mind. "

Oh well. Fair play for going through with the date & being honest/walking.

Onto the next date for you x

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By *ellhungvweMan
28 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Well she was 35 mins late to start off with. I sent her 2 messages in that time just saying what table number i was at and to let me know when she was 5 mins away and I d get her a drink...no reply.

When she did arrive there was no conversation for 5 mins while she fucked around on her phone.

I would/should have walked but didnt want to leave her in a bar on her own, so stuck it out for about 20 more mins then just said it wasnt working so calling it a night....not good. never mind. "

I think you made the right choice. It is always hard to walk away from something that isn’t working but good on you for giving her a chance.

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By *tu.xMan
28 weeks ago

around


"Well she was 35 mins late to start off with. I sent her 2 messages in that time just saying what table number i was at and to let me know when she was 5 mins away and I d get her a drink...no reply.

When she did arrive there was no conversation for 5 mins while she fucked around on her phone.

I would/should have walked but didnt want to leave her in a bar on her own, so stuck it out for about 20 more mins then just said it wasnt working so calling it a night....not good. never mind. "

im invested come on fella what did she say did you tell her hey you texted her or was there just nothing

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By *est-Yorkshire-GentMan
28 weeks ago

Leeds

Sounds like it wasn’t the best experience but good on you for putting yourself out there! And then for walking away when there wasn’t a connection. Both take a bit of bravery! Onwards and upwards

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Cannes, France and not in

Sounds like she was in the middle of some drama that she was going through and didn’t know how to be honest about it

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By *heelerMan
28 weeks ago

Northants


"Well she was 35 mins late to start off with. I sent her 2 messages in that time just saying what table number i was at and to let me know when she was 5 mins away and I d get her a drink...no reply.

When she did arrive there was no conversation for 5 mins while she fucked around on her phone.

I would/should have walked but didnt want to leave her in a bar on her own, so stuck it out for about 20 more mins then just said it wasnt working so calling it a night....not good. never mind. "

It happens most of us have experienced that scenario .Chin up and move on .

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