FabSwingers.com forum: advice needed.

By *paceballs76 OP Man
28 weeks ago

withywood

I'm a gay guy, and there is a gay forum on fabguys (a gay site). How do you stop bisexual and "straight" men from talking about women sexually on a gay site?

I know this sounds a bit stupid or an offensive thing to say, but any feedback at all would help.

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By *eroLondonMan
28 weeks ago

Mayfair

"How do you stop bisexual and "straight" men from talking about women sexually on a gay site... ...?"

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... ...for what purpose? For what objective? How do you stop them... because...they are doing what exactly, other than talking about women, OP? 🩶

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By *iking_WitchWoman
28 weeks ago

Hinckley

I'm not sure you can really. If the site it for gay cis men only and forbids bi and straight men and talking about cis women then report.

You could try blocking the accounts of those who talk about things you dont like but I am unsure of the accuracy of efficiency.

Unfortunately I think it's just a scroll by situation

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By *eadpool-ishMan
28 weeks ago

Horam

I would suggest, you can't... it's just the nature of things, that site is not the preserve of gay only

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By *paceballs76 OP Man
28 weeks ago

withywood

Yes, I begin to realise that. I just find him disrespectful, talking graphically about women on a gay site.

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By *dmit-itMan
28 weeks ago

Bristol

Fabguys is for gay and Bi, if you are looking for just gay there are other sites

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By *eroLondonMan
28 weeks ago

Mayfair

"You could try blocking the accounts of those who talk about things you dont like but I am unsure of the accuracy of efficiency."

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But that won't stop people from talking about women on the 'gay' forums. Hence my initial poorly-executed request for clarification.

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By *eadpool-ishMan
28 weeks ago

Horam

"Yes, I begin to realise that. I just find him disrespectful, talking graphically about women on a gay site. "

But, it's not a gay site... ergo

The same could be said about gay / bi men hitting on straight guys here (of which there are regular threads) ... perhaps just a "disrespectful", yet it happens

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By *paceballs76 OP Man
28 weeks ago

withywood

"Fabguys is for gay and Bi, if you are looking for just gay there are other sites"
Yes I know, it's for gay and Bis. As it's a site for guys, surely they could have some respect and not talk about women in graphic detail.

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By *eroLondonMan
28 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Yes, I begin to realise that. I just find him disrespectful, talking graphically about women on a gay site. "

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"him"...? Who are you talking about? Is there a particular person in question here, OP?

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By *eadpool-ishMan
28 weeks ago

Horam

If they're remaining within the rules of the site, there's cock all you can do about it (no pun intended

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
28 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"I'm a gay guy, and there is a gay forum on fabguys (a gay site). How do you stop bisexual and "straight" men from talking about women sexually on a gay site?

I know this sounds a bit stupid or an offensive thing to say, but any feedback at all would help. "

I don't think you can to be honest, just scroll past

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By *oobaaMan
28 weeks ago

Sth Tyne

sounds like youve a Bee in your bonnet about one particular poster..as far as Iam aware you can block him but you will still see his posts on the forum

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By *ove2LurveCouple
28 weeks ago

Dartford

"Yes, I begin to realise that. I just find him disrespectful, talking graphically about women on a gay site.

But, it's not a gay site... ergo

The same could be said about gay / bi men hitting on straight guys here (of which there are regular threads) ... perhaps just a "disrespectful", yet it happens"

Not to mention the 'straight' men who contact bi or bi-curious men wanting some action... IMO there should be another option of being 'Fab Straight' for those guys

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

If he is breaking any site specific rule then report. Otherwise I’d just try and avoid his posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

You just have to try and learn to switch off to the noise...!

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By *izandpaulCouple
28 weeks ago

merseyside

"I'm a gay guy, and there is a gay forum on fabguys (a gay site). How do you stop bisexual and "straight" men from talking about women sexually on a gay site?

I know this sounds a bit stupid or an offensive thing to say, but any feedback at all would help. "

Why?

What's your issue with men on FABGUYS talking about women or anyone else who is not 100% gay, in a sexual way.

If it bothers you, just ignore it and move to a post that doesn't mention women.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I don’t know why you’d want to? If it’s what people want to talk about? I know gay people who talk non stop about women in a sexual way…. Maybe a different site or room?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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28 weeks ago

Central

If it's unpleasant, bordering on hate, them I'd report. The forum concept is fairly open discussion and we can't really force it on a specific direction.

If people are hijacking discussions and bringing negativity then it's possible to report to Admin

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By *irthandgirthMan
28 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I'm a gay guy, and there is a gay forum on fabguys (a gay site). How do you stop bisexual and "straight" men from talking about women sexually on a gay site?

I know this sounds a bit stupid or an offensive thing to say, but any feedback at all would help. "

Unfortunately, there is this pesky thing called 'free speech' on what are effectively 'public platforms'. Your taking offense is a *you* problem, not a *them* problem.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
28 weeks ago

andover

If it was direct messages sent to you, I would see how that is offensive if your gay.

The best advice I could give, just don’t read it if you dont like it?

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By *ove2LurveCouple
28 weeks ago

Dartford

"Yes, I begin to realise that. I just find him disrespectful, talking graphically about women on a gay site.

But, it's not a gay site... ergo

The same could be said about gay / bi men hitting on straight guys here (of which there are regular threads) ... perhaps just a "disrespectful", yet it happens"

Not to mention the 'straight' men who contact bi or bi-curious men wanting some action... IMO there should be another option of being 'Fab Straight' for those guys

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
28 weeks ago

Stoke

"I'm a gay guy, and there is a gay forum on fabguys (a gay site). How do you stop bisexual and "straight" men from talking about women sexually on a gay site?

I know this sounds a bit stupid or an offensive thing to say, but any feedback at all would help. "

That's not very inclusive is it?

Mr F.

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By *andadbodMan
28 weeks ago

Liverpool

just scroll past the topics that don’t appeal to you, like on here 👍🏻

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
28 weeks ago

Niche

Why are you of the opinion it's a THEM problem?

Maybe do a little bit of self reflection and work on why you find women so offensive a topic. Then perhaps when others exercise their right to free speech YOU won't be so easily offended.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
28 weeks ago

Telford

I tend to just bypass things that I don't like, disagree with.

You can't stop anyone saying what to want to say.

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By *im le2Man
28 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

If str8 guys are on a gay site there not str8.

I've had guys wanting to talk about woman I just tell them I'm not interested.

Gay bi or str8 there all on a gay site looking for cock.

When you join you can class yourself as many couple or tv/ts etc. and men that only show themselves in woman's clothes annoy me move over to the tv section.

We all like different things and can't really complain while there sucking my cock. .

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By *enial PandaMan
28 weeks ago

Globetrotting

You can't.

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By *ellhungvweMan
28 weeks ago

Cheltenham

OP have you asked this question on Fabguys? I think they would probably have a better idea on how to manage their forums than we would.

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