FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

Ladies! wich one is worse?

If he cheated on you with a woman or with a man?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
32 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Man

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By *ora the explorerWoman
32 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Be interesting to see the answers the other way round. Men which is worse? 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Woman.

A man offers something different.

Another woman? Open up more questions.

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By *uttercupWoman
32 weeks ago

Borders

Do either is a cunts game!!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
32 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Don't care. Man, woman, or anything in between, cheating is cheating, and they can get in the bin 💜

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

"Be interesting to see the answers the other way round. Men which is worse? 😊"

Im pretty sure they would be turned on if their wives cheated on them with a woman! 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Woman.

A man offers something different.

Another woman? Open up more questions."

And to clarify, I wouldn’t be chuffed or forgive their cheating with either sex. Just if they cheated with a man I could understand if it was because they wanted the cock.

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
32 weeks ago

Lancaster

Depends if they were openly bi if so then both as bad as eachother

If not then definitely the man as it would be a lie from the start

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

"Depends if they were openly bi if so then both as bad as eachother

If not then definitely the man as it would be a lie from the start

That's so true!

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By *partharmonyCouple
32 weeks ago

Tonbridge

"Be interesting to see the answers the other way round. Men which is worse? 😊"

If Hannah went off with another woman I wouldn't class it as cheating. I'd positively encourage it (in fact I do).

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

It's just bad news period, matters not what gender because infidelity disrupts the most important form of commitment: the knowledge, knowing, living, and understanding that each person in a couple is a team and has the back of the other.

"Satan said to the good scholar: "grades are bread and butter on your table! If you don't cheat you won't eat as good!"

Temptation is a fucker, only the strong can resist.

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By *r X46Man
32 weeks ago

Liverpool

This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men.

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By *issMeKate2Woman
32 weeks ago

near the river medway

My bf is bi so it really wouldn’t matter what sex, but the fact he decided to conceal it rather than say, would be far more hurtful.

That said he just prefers me, so we make it work. Technically I cheat on him, but he knows when I meet, and realises I need it.

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By *eroLondonMan
32 weeks ago

Mayfair

"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men. "

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I agree. Misers the lot of them. Some men are soooo tight.

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By *r X46Man
32 weeks ago

Liverpool

"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men.

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I agree. Misers the lot of them. Some men are soooo tight. "

I really hate my fat fingers sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men.

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I agree. Misers the lot of them. Some men are soooo tight. "

Lube

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

...and let's not discrimate since all genders are far from pure, we are but human and some are weak and others are strong (it's as simple as that, i.e. some can resist temptation of lust and stay true to love).

Not saying it's easy but none of us are really ever innocent, there's good and bad in all of us.

I've yet to find love, not been so lucky in life to have ever experienced true love.

If I did, I'd know not to cheat.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
32 weeks ago

andover

Cheating is cheating regardless, but there is no need to cheat so long as we get each others permission 🙂

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
32 weeks ago

Bliss

Woman. With a man it's just sex. But with a woman it's emotional cheating as well as physical cheating.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Chichester

"Don't care. Man, woman, or anything in between, cheating is cheating, and they can get in the bin 💜"

Based

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Chichester

One of my close has had this discussion in our group. 4 women 1 man and 1 trans woman (me)

Amazingly to my surprise all of them said if their partner cheated on them with a trans person would be the worse as they would find it very conflicting in terms of rivalry/ jealousy / reasoning why / competitive.

Found it interesting answer

My take is cheating is cheating and you are excommunicated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

"One of my close has had this discussion in our group. 4 women 1 man and 1 trans woman (me)

Found it interesting answer

My take is cheating is cheating and you are excommunicated

Interesting

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By *kibirdWoman
32 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)

In my mind they’re all as bad as each other but it’s interesting to read people thinking cheating with a trans person is worst of all. So much to unpack with that statement , it’s easy to have a knee jerk reaction to that as transphobia but I wonder is something deeper is going on there ?

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By *carlettsWoman
32 weeks ago

Harpenden

Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more

living a lie

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Chichester

"In my mind they’re all as bad as each other but it’s interesting to read people thinking cheating with a trans person is worst of all. So much to unpack with that statement , it’s easy to have a knee jerk reaction to that as transphobia but I wonder is something deeper is going on there ? "

Yes I did try get my friend group to elaborate more but they all clammed up abit I think incase they offended me or something. I told them I am mental leviathan of not getting emotional over things as I like black white / logic answers but I guess they felt awkward

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Chichester

"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more

living a lie"

Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway

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By *eadymade31Man
32 weeks ago

northumberland

Ive been cheated on in the past a few times first time i never found out until i caught them in the act when getting home from work. second time it was just messaging but in my opinion and this is both ways if your open to let another man/woman become inimate or talk in secret behind your partners back thats still cheating and worst of it all it fucking sucks

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By *carlettsWoman
32 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more

living a lie

Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway "

One time, two times...I feel a fugee song coming on

If being honest I would hope they could say hey I once tried it with a guy wasn't for me. It's nothing to be ashamed of but honesty is the best policy worse when it comes out later down the line

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Chichester

"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more

living a lie

Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway

One time, two times...I feel a fugee song coming on

If being honest I would hope they could say hey I once tried it with a guy wasn't for me. It's nothing to be ashamed of but honesty is the best policy worse when it comes out later down the line"

Deception is never a good thing I agree. X

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By *issmorganWoman
32 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Part of me thinks woman, as I couldn't give him some of the things another man can obviously.

Where as with a woman, it'd feel like I wasn't enough. If that makes sense.

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By *he milf next doorWoman
32 weeks ago

bluebell woods

Man

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By *agic.MMan
32 weeks ago

Kent/London

"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more

living a lie

Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway "

Does it matter though if it was a one off? How long have these cravings and urges to sleep with another man been going on? Months? Years? Because that don't happen overnight...and the reality is that you will be second guessing if you made him feel like he wasn't able to trust you with this secret. There's also the social stigma of being the woman that "turned him gay" - as silly as that sounds, there will be people in your social circles that will think that. I think it would be much harder for a woman to come to terms with him cheating with another man.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
32 weeks ago

Cumbria

I think cheating with either would hurt me the same way. It would break me.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
32 weeks ago

cardiff

Cheating is cheating is cheating is cheating, whatever the sex. So both.

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By *andC1000Couple
32 weeks ago

ashford

Doesn’t matter what sex it’s with. Cheating lying and deceitful it’s not the act that hurts, it’s the lies

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By *naswingdressWoman
32 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The same

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By *an SummersMan
32 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Cheating is cheating, as many have said, but as mad if a female partner cheated with another female. I know it shouldn’t matter, but it would.

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By *ABflirtyWoman
32 weeks ago

Norfolk

Both ........

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By *Silver-Man
32 weeks ago

North Wales

"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men. "

Its also full of wives who cheat

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By *ABflirtyWoman
32 weeks ago

Norfolk

"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men.

Its also full of wives who cheat"
I say no married men or woman as would of hated it done to me. But some here are good at lying.

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By *andC1000Couple
32 weeks ago

ashford

"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men.

Its also full of wives who cheat I say no married men or woman as would have hated it done to me. But some here are good at lying."

Too many find it easier to lie than tell the truth sadly

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By *enelope2UWoman
32 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Ladies! wich one is worse?

If he cheated on you with a woman or with a man?"

Equally..but I'd probably be less hurt if it was a man.. good riddance

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By *oughmanMan
32 weeks ago

Sunderland

Cheating is cheating. Doesn't matter who it's with, it's a shitty thing to do.

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