FabSwingers.com forum: Waste of time

By *eavycummer1000 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Why do people think it’s acceptable to waste peoples time been chatting all week at the hotel now and then get (we can’t make it tonight )

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By *rasshopper201Man
35 weeks ago

kendal

What do you mean at the hotel were you waiting for them there

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some people find it entertaining, unfortunately

Other people have lives and stuff comes up.

Granted, with a new person the former is more likely than the latter.

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By *earditallWoman
35 weeks ago

Lancaster

I've had this a few times in the last few weeks.

I've been asked to meet up made arrangements and then twice in the space of 4 weeks they have just stopped talking about an hour before an arranged meet up that they persued

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By *iam_matthewMan
35 weeks ago

Bicester

"I've had this a few times in the last few weeks.

I've been asked to meet up made arrangements and then twice in the space of 4 weeks they have just stopped talking about an hour before an arranged meet up that they persued

exact same as me, i was in their town and ghosted. was a rough drive back

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By *tlanshiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Chatham

Without more context it is impossible to say, only you and them know what happened.

I had a meet planned and arranged, we had discussed limits, and I cancelled an hour before because he kept pushing about bare when I'd said no. So I decided last minute that I didn't feel comfortable.

Pretty sure he called me a time waster for that. I think the important thing to remember on here is that anyone can change they're mind at any time for any reason..it sucks and it's rude but I wouldn't book hotels unless it's someone you have met a few times and trust to show up

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By *007ManMan
35 weeks ago

Worthing

Give them one more chance.

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By *ateNightTrouble .x2.Couple
35 weeks ago

Manchester

Super frustrating I know. But everyone involved has the right to cancel at any time. Could be a number or reasons some has nothing to do with you or a change of heart but more out of their control like family issues

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By *earditallWoman
35 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Super frustrating I know. But everyone involved has the right to cancel at any time. Could be a number or reasons some has nothing to do with you or a change of heart but more out of their control like family issues "

Totally get that and I'd never mind for whatever reason but I'd always drop them a message to let them know if I wasn't going to go.

I think sometimes it's down to pure nerves

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By *eavycummer1000 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Haha and now they’ve blocked me

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By *nthony50069Man
35 weeks ago

yesh near oldham

"I've had this a few times in the last few weeks.

I've been asked to meet up made arrangements and then twice in the space of 4 weeks they have just stopped talking about an hour before an arranged meet up that they persued

I’d never let you down

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By *ateNightTrouble .x2.Couple
35 weeks ago

Manchester

Absolutely communication is key in this game x us personally like the nerves it adds to the excitement

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By *issmorganWoman
35 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's not great op, but maybe something has genuinely come up.

We can't help illness or a family problem like childcare etc.We're all only human after all.

At least they let you know though and you can decide if you think it was a real cancellation or they were stringing you along.

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By *alm_one4Man
35 weeks ago

Close To The Edge, Down Bi The River

Seriously! Hang them upside down and flog them, that’s what I say

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
35 weeks ago

belfast

"Seriously! Hang them upside down and flog them, that’s what I say"

Theres one topuc this might have been slightly humorous on and you didnt post there.

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By *avej500Man
35 weeks ago

Stevenage

Had one this week 45 minutes drive got about 10 minutes out start asking me to buy

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By *avej500Man
35 weeks ago

Stevenage

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By *avej500Man
35 weeks ago

Stevenage

Had one this week 45 minutes drive got about 10 minutes out start asking me to buy c.ok

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By *cFlirtyMan
35 weeks ago

midhurst

Unfortunately this is very common! After chatting to a fair few people it seems probably only 10% of people here are not time wasters

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By *izandpaulCouple
35 weeks ago

merseyside

That's why we very rarely use this site for 121 meets, find other sites much better.

Not that there isn't genuine people on here but its far too much effort to sift through the timewasters, dreamers the delusional and nutters.

We stick to parties, clubs and holidays where everyone attending has made an effort 👌

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