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By *icklover OP   Man
over a year ago

Devizes

Put looks to one side and go for confidence and personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as I see beauty as the whole package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure as some people who dont look so good have got a chip on their shoulder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do quite often to be honest.. Pretty hard to find the whole package. Would sooner meet someone who's entertaining and Charismatic and not 100% my type than someone pretty who bores me to tears

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By *icklover OP   Man
over a year ago

Devizes


"not sure as some people who dont look so good have got a chip on their shoulder."

I have no chips !!! Lol x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"not sure as some people who dont look so good have got a chip on their shoulder."

Or as I saw posted yesterday, a jacket potato

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do quite often to be honest.. Pretty hard to find the whole package. Would sooner meet someone who's entertaining and Charismatic and not 100% my type than someone pretty who bores me to tears "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do quite often to be honest.. Pretty hard to find the whole package. Would sooner meet someone who's entertaining and Charismatic and not 100% my type than someone pretty who bores me to tears "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Seeing as I'm not exactly an oil painting myself I would happily meet the less conventionally attractive. I am also drawn towards people who are 'weird' looking so I guess so.

Having said that, I wouldn't turn down an Adonis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do quite often to be honest.. Pretty hard to find the whole package. Would sooner meet someone who's entertaining and Charismatic and not 100% my type than someone pretty who bores me to tears "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure as some people who dont look so good have got a chip on their shoulder.

Or as I saw posted yesterday, a jacket potato "

a jacket potato

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for swinging meets, I choose men I am only instantly attracted to.

If I was contemplating a life partner, looks would not be so high on my agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes looks aren't the be all and end all I prefer personality and a good sense of humour (miss d)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no!

I've met many a person via here (and particularly the forums) that wouldn't necessarily have caught my eye immediately in a face to face environment and had some fantastic, fun filled times!

That said - in a pub/club/real world environment you don't know someone's personality just by sight - and human nature will tend to guide our eyes to those that are attractive to us and who meet any preferences or 'tastes' that we may have!

So it's very hard to give a straight yes or no!

I am however a great believer in confidence, personality and humour - looking good will only ever keep my interest for as long as we're naked - if there's no personality it'll be a purely physical interaction with little more to follow!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"not sure as some people who dont look so good have got a chip on their shoulder.

Or as I saw posted yesterday, a jacket potato

a jacket potato "

I'm guessing because its bigger than a really big chip.

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By *icklover OP   Man
over a year ago

Devizes


"Seeing as I'm not exactly an oil painting myself I would happily meet the less conventionally attractive. I am also drawn towards people who are 'weird' looking so I guess so.

Having said that, I wouldn't turn down an Adonis. "

Not an oil painting ?? I'd choose you over a van gogh any day !!! And thanks for putting the pic up of the back of your basque, really helped me out !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get initially attracted by the look - all of us do , but they have to have the personality to keep my interest

Ive met some stunning men but they have had sawdust between their ears and ego's the size of a country. That can soon turn a handsome man/ pretty woman ugly in my eyes.

There has to be the full package for me the looks that Im attracted to and of course what is inside

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

All wrapped into one Queen, Obi and Floro have expressed my feelings and how I would have liked to be able to answer that question. Thank you and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i have and will

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Yes absolutely, much prefer inner beauty to the surface. Of course attraction is required but that is often determined by the full package. Nothing worse than so called 'perfect' ones that want to call all the shots and think they are doing you a favour

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By *icklover OP   Man
over a year ago

Devizes

Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though. "

Please don't take it the wrong way - but everytime I see your avatar in the forums in my head I see the bear from Bo Selecta!

May just be my sad, mad brain of course!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though.

Please don't take it the wrong way - but everytime I see your avatar in the forums in my head I see the bear from Bo Selecta!

May just be my sad, mad brain of course! "

yea it does

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By *icklover OP   Man
over a year ago

Devizes


"Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though.

Please don't take it the wrong way - but everytime I see your avatar in the forums in my head I see the bear from Bo Selecta!

May just be my sad, mad brain of course! "

Ermn. Wtf are you talking about?

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I have to be physically attracted to someone to be able to have sex with them, and on a site like this, a photograph is all that we initially have to go on.

But, if that person does not have a good personality or is a bore etc, I wouldnt just meet them for the sake of it. I need to be attracted to them and to connect with them too. It has to be both for me, not one or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though.

Please don't take it the wrong way - but everytime I see your avatar in the forums in my head I see the bear from Bo Selecta!

May just be my sad, mad brain of course!

Ermn. Wtf are you talking about? "

It doesn't when you enlarge the photo but as a small avatar icon the way the light is on the wall behind you makes it look like a bear hat!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though.

Please don't take it the wrong way - but everytime I see your avatar in the forums in my head I see the bear from Bo Selecta!

May just be my sad, mad brain of course!

Ermn. Wtf are you talking about?

It doesn't when you enlarge the photo but as a small avatar icon the way the light is on the wall behind you makes it look like a bear hat! "

I thought that earlier. Didn't bother enlarging it as I knew the hat comp was on so assumed it was for that!! Haha. X

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By *ausage and sizzleCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

It is the whole package that counts, so yes personality is important, but you've got to find the other person attractive in the first place. However an imaginative naughty streak helps too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is just as important as looks for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put looks to one side and go for confidence and personality? "

I have little choice in the matter....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah without doubt. Looking back at my ex gfs i would say they all had a better in the personality department

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

For me I have to be visually attracted to someone before I would even consider meeting. However, what I find attractive others may not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aesthetics is part of the package, therefore, there has to be some physical attraction in order for me to be interested in meeting the person.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though. "

Why don't you take off the lousy photo and put a non lousy one up?

Personality and a brain make someone attractive for me. The looks thing always comes second.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Thank you, some of you have restored my faith in human kind , it's still a pity that so many people can judge somebody on one lousy photograph though. "

Though oddly if you had asked how many would meet someone without seeing a photo, you may have had a different response.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I find that even if a person is not "the one that stands out from the crowd", generally the more you come face to face with them, the more you appreciate their inner beauty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and confidence are what primarily keep an attraction and interest going. A person can be porn star quality hot but if they have the the personality of a turd then all beauty is lost..

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