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"A little at the moment. Messaging a guy who lives nearly an hour away for ages, he's been wanting to meet, from the on set I have said distance is the main obstacle along with the limited time I have available; family work etc. so didn't reckon it was ever going to happen in reality. Just been sent a message from him that I'm making a mockery! If I have been clear from on set and being truthful why has his comment really annoyed me? My situation that I can see is all in my profile, which I will go back and double check! " some people have selective amnesia and selective reading. I have on my profile that I am not meeting, hasn't stopped me getting asked. Have told new contacts that I can not and wont be meeting for a while, some seem to think they will be able to convince me lol. I wouldn't worry about it. Just ignore, block and move on to the next | |||
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"Welcome to the site. I am confused tho as maybe the guy is. You have a single fem profile and in the initialinformation your looking for 1 on 1 or. 3some with your hubby. That equates to me as a couple not a single lady x" He knew my situation from on set. Through hubby's work we have done it that way x | |||
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"The time to block him was somewhere way back BUT, as they say, there's no time like the present. Send him a little note saying why you're doing it and then just block him. Problem solved. Unless, of course, you do really want to meet him ?" He seemed interesting and sweet to be honest but have always maintained that it would probably not happen, for reasons stated. I'm not a time waster but he's made me feel like one | |||
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"A little at the moment. Messaging a guy who lives nearly an hour away for ages, he's been wanting to meet, from the on set I have said distance is the main obstacle along with the limited time I have available; family work etc. so didn't reckon it was ever going to happen in reality. Just been sent a message from him that I'm making a mockery! If I have been clear from on set and being truthful why has his comment really annoyed me? My situation that I can see is all in my profile, which I will go back and double check! " Your profile looks good to me. Im not looking for couples but just thought Id give my opinion. You cover everything and yes your family has to come first. I cant just up and go straight out for meets on same day either and have had to say no to that before, but never been told im making a mockery. some guys just cant read I guess. You had some nice meets from the sound of it so ignore him. | |||
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"The time to block him was somewhere way back BUT, as they say, there's no time like the present. Send him a little note saying why you're doing it and then just block him. Problem solved. Unless, of course, you do really want to meet him ? He seemed interesting and sweet to be honest but have always maintained that it would probably not happen, for reasons stated. I'm not a time waster but he's made me feel like one " If you told him from the off about the travel problems/time constraints what have you, then I don't personally feel that you are a time waster. Don't fret too much about it, just do what They Come in Three's has said, drop him a little note saying why you are blocking him and voilà, jobs a goodun' | |||
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"Yes suppose your right lol X " Maybe his expectations were different to yours. Yes, he knew your situation but probably also lived in hope that it might change. It has probably just dawned on him that you meant what you said at the outset. I wouldnt worry about it and just move on. | |||
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"A little at the moment. Messaging a guy who lives nearly an hour away for ages, he's been wanting to meet, from the on set I have said distance is the main obstacle along with the limited time I have available; family work etc. so didn't reckon it was ever going to happen in reality. Just been sent a message from him that I'm making a mockery! If I have been clear from on set and being truthful why has his comment really annoyed me? My situation that I can see is all in my profile, which I will go back and double check! Your profile looks good to me. Im not looking for couples but just thought Id give my opinion. You cover everything and yes your family has to come first. I cant just up and go straight out for meets on same day either and have had to say no to that before, but never been told im making a mockery. some guys just cant read I guess. You had some nice meets from the sound of it so ignore him. " Thank you. I always teply to messages even if to say no thanks, it's only fair I believe. Here to make friends like minded. Thanks | |||
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"The time to block him was somewhere way back BUT, as they say, there's no time like the present. Send him a little note saying why you're doing it and then just block him. Problem solved. Unless, of course, you do really want to meet him ? He seemed interesting and sweet to be honest but have always maintained that it would probably not happen, for reasons stated. I'm not a time waster but he's made me feel like one If you told him from the off about the travel problems/time constraints what have you, then I don't personally feel that you are a time waster. Don't fret too much about it, just do what They Come in Three's has said, drop him a little note saying why you are blocking him and voilà, jobs a goodun' " he's probably blocked me | |||
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"Yes suppose your right lol X Maybe his expectations were different to yours. Yes, he knew your situation but probably also lived in hope that it might change. It has probably just dawned on him that you meant what you said at the outset. I wouldnt worry about it and just move on. " Thanks | |||
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"Welcome to the site. I am confused tho as maybe the guy is. You have a single fem profile and in the initialinformation your looking for 1 on 1 or. 3some with your hubby. That equates to me as a couple not a single lady x" Some married people are on as singles because partners don't want to be on the net. Or they don't know the wife or hubby is playing. | |||
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"He seemed interesting and sweet to be honest but have always maintained that it would probably not happen, for reasons stated. I'm not a time waster but he's made me feel like one " Don't buy into his guilt trip - he's just passing on his negative energy to you, and it's not fair. I've had someone try it and I never commit to a meet until i know the time and place, and that they are right for me. You've been great how you've handled it, but I'd encourage you to wish him well and make clear your intentions that it's not for you now. Take it easy on yourself. There are many who will try to dump their baggage onto you, and it's grossly unfair. And you're obviously worth much more than that. | |||
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"He seemed interesting and sweet to be honest but have always maintained that it would probably not happen, for reasons stated. I'm not a time waster but he's made me feel like one Don't buy into his guilt trip - he's just passing on his negative energy to you, and it's not fair. I've had someone try it and I never commit to a meet until i know the time and place, and that they are right for me. You've been great how you've handled it, but I'd encourage you to wish him well and make clear your intentions that it's not for you now. Take it easy on yourself. There are many who will try to dump their baggage onto you, and it's grossly unfair. And you're obviously worth much more than that." thank you. | |||
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"Block him there are plenty of people on here who won't give you any stress after all your here for fun and games not hassle and stress. Move on and enjoy. " Very true. Some people take the NSA out of it all But I went to send a message, yes it is I who have been the blocked Moving on. Just to say thank you for replying everyone. I don't very often post but nice to be part of a friendly group | |||
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"Block him there are plenty of people on here who won't give you any stress after all your here for fun and games not hassle and stress. Move on and enjoy. Very true. Some people take the NSA out of it all But I went to send a message, yes it is I who have been the blocked Moving on. Just to say thank you for replying everyone. I don't very often post but nice to be part of a friendly group " You can still block him tho. He can remove his block and contact you at his will under the current arrangement. If you go to 'MY ACCOUNT', then 'BLOCK LIST', you can type his profile name into the space provided and block him. It prevents him from contacting you at his will in future | |||
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"Just to say thank you for replying everyone. I don't very often post but nice to be part of a friendly group " You are most welcome. We look out for each other | |||
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"Welcome to the site. I am confused tho as maybe the guy is. You have a single fem profile and in the initialinformation your looking for 1 on 1 or. 3some with your hubby. That equates to me as a couple not a single lady x Some married people are on as singles because partners don't want to be on the net. Or they don't know the wife or hubby is playing. " The lady said in her profile it will either be her and a single guy meeting or her and her hubby as in a 3some. Therefore she will be playing as a couple if her hubby is there at the meet. Apologies for making a point again but if any lady is taking her husband with her to participate then they should have a couples profile. She can also play without hubby on a couples profile for 1 to 1 meets. But if husband is attebding then it should be a couples profile not a single one x | |||
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"P.S. has anyone noticed Granny-Crumpet's hat" nope. What hat???? | |||
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"To me an hour away is local... I'll drive an hour to go shopping without batting an eyelid.... but we all have our own ideas about what is and isn't close. I appreciate people have lives and can't meet at the drop of a hat, but if I am honest there comes a point where I just can't be arsed waiting anymore. No matter how much they say they want to meet if it's been weeks and no sign of an arrangement being made then their actions (or lack of them) start to speak louder than words. If I really want something to happen, I make it happen. Agreeing to meet is a two way deal.... when it all becomes one sided and only on the terms of the other person, which includes holding on until they have nothing else to do... I'd call it quits and forget it." you said what I think. | |||
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