FabSwingers.com forum: Is it reasonable to ask visits to contribute towards room?

By *ikki.newcastle OP TV/TS
26 weeks ago

washingon newcastle

If I book a hotel and offer my mouth and ass is it fair / reasonable to ask them to chip In 10 or so towards covering cost of room or do you think that’s cheeky? I will obviously ask them before they arrived x

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By *azmar62Couple
26 weeks ago

Hinckley

It’s only right that we all contribute.

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By *eorgesdad69Man
26 weeks ago

Long Eaton

If you agree to meet a particular guy at a hotel then yes 50 50 on room cost But if you rent a room to invite random men to come for BJnetc then NO 👌

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By *allipygousMan
26 weeks ago

Leicester

Up to what percentage of the room cost? What are you willing to pay to potentially suck and fuck all these men? What happens if all your contributions add up to more than the total cost of the room? Are the men technically paying for sex? So many questions 🤔

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By *airyboxMan
26 weeks ago

sheffield

"If I book a hotel and offer my mouth and ass is it fair / reasonable to ask them to chip In 10 or so towards covering cost of room or do you think that’s cheeky? I will obviously ask them before they arrived x"

Don’t think that’s cheeky at all. Just split the room between you

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By *exyScientistsCouple
26 weeks ago

Castlebar

We'd always play half if neither can accommodate

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By *allySlinkyWoman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

"We'd always play half if neither can accommodate "

If you were with a single person would you pay two thirds ?

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By *he MinionMan
26 weeks ago

What if a couple have a room booked already and ask me to join them.

Should i be offering to contribute towards the room ?

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By *ikki.newcastle OP TV/TS
26 weeks ago

washingon newcastle

Thanks for contributions but I didn’t mean just 1 man / visitor lol

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
26 weeks ago

Scotland

"What if a couple have a room booked already and ask me to join them.

Should i be offering to contribute towards the room ?"

We wouldn’t expect any contribution towards the room. We only meet in hotels and we pay the whole thing as we are staying the whole night whereas in most cases our guest is there for a couple of hours generally at our request

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By *carlettsWoman
26 weeks ago

Harpenden

It depends on the situation if planning a meet then yes happy to contribute. If someone says I've got a room care to join then no. I might bring muffins?

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By *orba69Man
26 weeks ago

Doncaster

I’d happily & possibly even pay for it all

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By *allipygousMan
26 weeks ago

Leicester

You're all replying to a one visitor scenario. The OP is asking if multiple men are visiting...

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By *carlettsWoman
26 weeks ago

Harpenden

"You're all replying to a one visitor scenario. The OP is asking if multiple men are visiting..."

Why is this different if I'm the one who is away, or booked the room?

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By *oo xWoman
26 weeks ago

In my own world usually...

Depends who invited who to said room.

If it's my invitation- i'd pay and not ask for anything.

Other way round , then they could pay, but I'd still arrive with something like snacks and drinks as a gesture.

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By *allipygousMan
26 weeks ago

Leicester

"You're all replying to a one visitor scenario. The OP is asking if multiple men are visiting...

Why is this different if I'm the one who is away, or booked the room?"

The OP is asking if she should ask multiple men to contribute to the room she is booking for her pleasure, and theirs, obviously. As far as I can tell you've not actually answered that question.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

Practical question. How would you intend to get their tenner? They arrive and give you the money?

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By *carlettsWoman
26 weeks ago

Harpenden

"You're all replying to a one visitor scenario. The OP is asking if multiple men are visiting...

Why is this different if I'm the one who is away, or booked the room?

The OP is asking if she should ask multiple men to contribute to the room she is booking for her pleasure, and theirs, obviously. As far as I can tell you've not actually answered that question. "

How have I not answered the question by my reply? It's almost like you are saying the OP is pimping herself out?

I've said if pre arranging, plannimg then yes why not ask to contribute, if booked room then decided want company no if people then want to give you a contribution then great.

I gave my opinion? Might be different to yours ce la vie

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By *ackformore100Man
26 weeks ago

Tin town

Depends how much they/you think a come and go encounter is worth.

Share the room. Share the costs.

But Use the room for a business proposition... No.

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think there are practical ways to solve these issues, although in group settings I know it's more likely the powers that be will look on it as profiteering or similar.

I've been fortunate that my group stuff has been hosted. One on one, I've tended to have a split of something like I get the food, he gets the room.

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By *he MinionMan
26 weeks ago

"It depends on the situation if planning a meet then yes happy to contribute. If someone says I've got a room care to join then no. I might bring muffins?"

Muffins huh...

Noted 😉

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By *ad NannaWoman
26 weeks ago

East London

If you know how many are turning up them split it equally between everyone.

How many do you think would turn up?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Put a collection tin at the doorway.

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By *oping for funMan
26 weeks ago

Newport - Shropshire

If its a genuine meet, then I would happly ocntribute towards the room cost.

Its not cheeky just a shared need as obviously neither can host at home for ahtever reason ... so needs must!

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By *ndPsAdventuresCouple
26 weeks ago

Northumberland

As a couple meeting single ladies, we always book the room x

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Motherwell

If a hotel room is required it's a 50/50 split. Once he leaves then whatever happens in the hotel room next is just using the facilities and between me and the guys who visit, but no money is ever exchanged as the hotel room is already paid for by me and my original meet. Mx

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By *heonixrising500Man
26 weeks ago

Barnsley

I allways offer to ho halfs

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By *TWboyMan
26 weeks ago

kings Lynn

Usually I split the cost 50/50 - I’ve never had to broach the question they always offer -perhaps I’ve just been lucky and met nice people….

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By *od ThrusterMan
26 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

It's a case by case basis for me.

I've visited couples in their room and not been asked to (nor offered to) contribute, but then I've also agreed before booking to split with a couple.

The communication beforehand generally leads to a mutually acceptable solution.

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By * is the magic number FFMCouple
26 weeks ago

sheffield

"As a couple meeting single ladies, we always book the room x "

This^

I just put it all down to the adventure. It’s never entered my head really to even think about asking to split it.

We did get stung once when they didn’t show, but still went on to have our own fun.

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By *ikki.newcastle OP TV/TS
26 weeks ago

washingon newcastle

Interesting range of responses x

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By *ikki.newcastle OP TV/TS
26 weeks ago

washingon newcastle

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By *carlettsWoman
26 weeks ago

Harpenden

"It depends on the situation if planning a meet then yes happy to contribute. If someone says I've got a room care to join then no. I might bring muffins?

Muffins huh...

Noted 😉"

Not always muffins sometimes I used to mix it up cheese board, bottle of wine

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By *TWboyMan
26 weeks ago

kings Lynn

In fact I always bring cheese, fruit and wine to my hotel meets. It’s nice to have a break halfway through….

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By *igD299Man
26 weeks ago

leicester

Yes, everyone should at the very least contribute. I’ve met couples in rooms and had fun and left the room to have their re coupling after and I’ll pay for the room. I’m happy with that and we’ve all had a great time. I think it’s fare, yes

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By *igD299Man
26 weeks ago

leicester

"It depends on the situation if planning a meet then yes happy to contribute. If someone says I've got a room care to join then no. I might bring muffins?

Muffins huh...

Noted 😉

Not always muffins sometimes I used to mix it up cheese board, bottle of wine"

I’m going to the wrong meets, I love cheese and wine lol

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
1 week ago

Nowhere

These days I get a professional make up artist and a nice girls room so I'm looking my best for visitors and they are in a nice environment so I look at the contribution like they are buying me a couple of drinks at the bar ? Is that wrong ?

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By *carlettsWoman
1 week ago

Harpenden

Absolutely unless you are already using that room as in away for work, or you planned a night away but then fancy some company

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"It depends on the situation if planning a meet then yes happy to contribute. If someone says I've got a room care to join then no. I might bring muffins?"

Is that what you call the 'girls'?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

If it's something you believe is right you should make it clear very early on BEFORE any meeting is arranged.

If I turned up somewhere and was asked on the spot and i'd had no idea before hand i'd feel I was being fleeced or it would at least cause ill feeling and could spoil a meet.

Be upfront ....

By the way ....... No idea what you mean by ' I am offering my ass and mouth' ...... The other person/people are there too. They are also contributing to what takes place.

Not just you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

There should be a law against resurrecting threads.......

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find it interesting that this thread keeps being resurrected.

It makes me wonder if people want to know "how close to profiteering can I get without being reported". It's kind of gross.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
1 week ago

pink panther territory

Yes and you really shouldn't have to ask

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

I think if you have to ask for a contribution, it says a lot about the person you're meeting.

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