FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging other fabs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same? "
Never approach for what reason?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Only realise my mistake once I see face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to, don't know which pub they use until after we have messaged them

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous? "

Why thank you....

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes but only to reply and be polite.

Now depend of the content of the message. In a club I can chat to someone even if she is not my type of lady, just like here. It is a way of socialising. Would I want to shag here someone I will not think of sleeping with in a night club??? NO...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous? "

I hope so, but I fear not

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"Only realise my mistake once I esee face pics

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Yes I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk to anyone on here or in a club i never make the first move to lead to a date or meet as such in either.

I always think if they like me they will ask and im sometimes pleasantly surprised if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same? "

Nope.

If I wouldn't approach them in a club I wouldn't message them here.

I've literally messaged 6 people off here and met 2.

I'm as fussy here as I am off it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, I can't hear a bloody thing in a club.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes . I private message sometimes if I agree and do not want to comment in forum. Not all messages have to be excuse me can I shag you babe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous? "

No I mean fugly people lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous?

No I mean fugly people lol

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Not all the people I message I want to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same? "

I would say I'm not guilty of that I tend to mail people I like in the same way I would approach people I like in a club. If there is an attraction I will say hello but my ego isn't precious the worst they can say is no thanks and I can live with that equally on here or in a club.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous?

I hope so, but I fear not"

Knowing these forums I don't think it will be positive.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous?

No I mean fugly people lol

Quelle...surprise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous?

No I mean fugly people lol

Not all the people I message I want to fuck.

Thats it some think on here you cant speak to people with out wanting to have sex with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message people .. not just because I want to jump into bed with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive made some mistakes here in replying to messages even though they havent sent a face pic as per my request, have gone on what i read in msg and profile, then found face pic was just well not nice. But then im sure its been same in reverse once they see mine, dont always hear back again

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous?

No I mean fugly people lol

You're admitting to being that desperate are you??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same? "

I never found clubs conducive to meeting anyway, I was always keener on dancing. Pubs tended to be with groups of friends anyway so a bit insular. The huge advantage of here is that most people already have something in common and are looking for the same thing. Also, now I'm 40's I can perve profiles and message from the sofa, with a nice cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh I sometimes mail invisible people in the hope they are drop dead gorgeous and they reply... never happens though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've had a message from a cut n paste johnny with someone elses name in it. It was either desperation or laziness or sympathy, or all 3 more than likely.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same? "

I am certain that you would not look twice at me in a pub, yet on Fabs you'd quite happily f**k me if you were given half a chance. Oh the irony

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By *picenicelyCouple
over a year ago

third star on the right

"You mean as in the stunningly gorgeous?

No I mean fugly people lol

The last few days there have been threads about compliments, surely you don't tell these people 'well your fugly but I would'

And people wonder why people don't believe in complements given on here.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone I chat to, wouldn't be seen dead with me socially/nilla then they can do one and not attempt to bend me over

Because whilst I use lots of salt on here, er no ta.

I email people I am interested in sexually and socially but would never email someone I thought 'fugly' for sex but no friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same?

I am certain that you would not look twice at me in a pub, yet on Fabs you'd quite happily f**k me if you were given half a chance. Oh the irony

That's is why Fab is a wonderful ego boost for some women, nothing wrong with that, as long as they know it's created by the Fab dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone I chat to, wouldn't be seen dead with me socially/nilla then they can do one and not attempt to bend me over

Because whilst I use lots of salt on here, er no ta.

I email people I am interested in sexually and socially but would never email someone I thought 'fugly' for sex but no friendship

NSA sex doesn't require friendship, sadly for some it doesn't even require attraction.

False compliments in order to have quick no strings sex wasn't invented on Fab, just ask any women who only gets chatted up at 2am in a nightclub!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Must admit, I find myself messaging people on fab who I would never approach in club/pub. Anyone else do the same?

I am certain that you would not look twice at me in a pub, yet on Fabs you'd quite happily f**k me if you were given half a chance. Oh the irony

That's is why Fab is a wonderful ego boost for some women, nothing wrong with that, as long as they know it's created by the Fab dynamic. "

Sadly a lot of women use Fab as an ego boost, they post as much: and let the pseudo flattery go to their heads!

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By * control youMan
over a year ago

swindon

I talk to anyone don't care if they ave a pic or not ain't tried to bed anyone nd wont do till I think its the rite time for both of us

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