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"who actually have partners and who wont play without them even if the bloke just sits in the corner watching!? not single then are you! gets my goat. why dont you have a couples profile. who finds this as annoying as we do? " I would. | |||
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"not intimidated. just feel that they should change it to a couples profile as thats what they are. " Agreed | |||
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"I am very honest that this profile is just for the forums and talking to friends. I don't play without my OH there. " wish more people were honest like that.would save a lot of wasted time and confusion | |||
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"I am very honest that this profile is just for the forums and talking to friends. I don't play without my OH there. wish more people were honest like that.would save a lot of wasted time and confusion" I have to agree with Archangel, you sound very angry about it. Maybe you need to have a better,early conversation with with women you are contacting. | |||
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"Lots of couples have 3 profiles, their couples one for meeting as a couple and they have single ones each for going into the chat and cam rooms. " Granted Laine. Nothing wrong with that. BUT...... singles who then produce a partner when it's meet time shouldn't do so under a singles profile. If I was chatting away to a 'single' bloke and making arrangements and he suddenly pulled a lady friend out of the woodwork that he just HAS to bring along. I'd be right pissed. | |||
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"Me to . Just get a couples prof and put the other 1/2 likes to watch " | |||
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"Lots of couples have 3 profiles, their couples one for meeting as a couple and they have single ones each for going into the chat and cam rooms. Granted Laine. Nothing wrong with that. BUT...... singles who then produce a partner when it's meet time shouldn't do so under a singles profile. If I was chatting away to a 'single' bloke and making arrangements and he suddenly pulled a lady friend out of the woodwork that he just HAS to bring along. I'd be right pissed. " see! thanks guys. this is what i mean. as for a certain someone. I will not rise to it. glad some people know what im talking about.lol. | |||
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"Lots of couples have 3 profiles, their couples one for meeting as a couple and they have single ones each for going into the chat and cam rooms. Granted Laine. Nothing wrong with that. BUT...... singles who then produce a partner when it's meet time shouldn't do so under a singles profile. If I was chatting away to a 'single' bloke and making arrangements and he suddenly pulled a lady friend out of the woodwork that he just HAS to bring along. I'd be right pissed. " Ahhhh the light dawns  ... would piss me off too.
I prefer to see mention on their profile of partners and couples profiles if they are not solo swingers. | |||
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"Have to agree , if a single profile suddenly decides they add another person they should state on their profile or have a couples profile for meets, it's not just a single fem thing though your find couples profiles where only the man will contact and play as the oh isn't at present ( yeah like we haven't heard that one before ) unfortunately people on the Internet lie about all sorts of things if they think it will get them what they want ( or a better chance at it). You just need to take the good with the bad on any site and if you don't want to meet them don't "yea we don't then as its not what we thought it would be. so we leave it and move on.  | |||
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"Note to self *** put on profile will only meet with single guy in tow, after all I need someone to top up the drinkies. "Ah but your profile says you only meet men so your NOT ALLOWED to meet couples as it doesn't say so on your profile | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. " You CAN'T MEET couples either as it clearly doesn't state it on your profile! The profile inspectors will fine you! | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. You CAN'T MEET couples either as it clearly doesn't state it on your profile! The profile inspectors will fine you! "I chose not to in the main as they are difficult but its not that I never do. This is another big issue for me people trying to tell me what I can or can't do its my profile my life I can do as I choose! | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. You CAN'T MEET couples either as it clearly doesn't state it on your profile! The profile inspectors will fine you!
I chose not to in the main as they are difficult but its not that I never do. This is another big issue for me people trying to tell me what I can or can't do its my profile my life I can do as I choose! "I like the line couples are difficult. High five to that!! | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. " not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. | |||
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"I didn't read past chips, I'm bloody starving, who's got chips? " Not here but I could just eat a big with bits on and lots of salt and vinegar. | |||
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"Note to self *** put on profile will only meet with single guy in tow, after all I need someone to top up the drinkies.
Ah but your profile says you only meet men so your NOT ALLOWED to meet couples as it doesn't say so on your profile "Shhhhhhhh ........ I do meet with couples but only regular ones now, not new ones. | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. " Yes you are and I can do what I like with my profile and say what I like on it within the rules and change it on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't have a couples profile if you can't accommodate! You will probably find that the woman in question does meet alone and told you she didn't as you come across as aggressive and it has to be your way. and that's a massive turn off.  | |||
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" Lol you have all the chips and a fella sat in the corner that you can't cope with. " Ha haaaa!!!! Made me actually laugh out loud!!!!! " Another one for you. People who can't accommodative are often seen by single females as cheaters it goes for single men and couples of cheaters playing together. " What he is saying is there are lots of pretend couples on here where Mr Smith from Xtown and Mrs Black from Ytown create a couples profile as they are both cheating on their partners and can't accommodate in case Mrs Smith or Mr Black find out about it. I am part of a couple but we only have this single profile as it is me who does all of the messaging, it's me who goes on the socials and it is generally me who plays. Sometimes we both fancy an mmf so check which of our playmates would fancy it but most often our playmates ask for mmf so we will consider that too when the request is made. There is nothing wrong with couples having a single profile if they are happy to play as a single or make it clear before a meet that their other half is involved in any play. If they get turned on by building the tension then springing it on you BEFORE the meet there's no problem - that's how they play. No different to any single female chatting on for ages talking about taking anal then in a message saying "actually I don't want penetrative sex"..... Nobody has any right to criticise that, it's their decision and their game. It's only a problem if you're not told then its sprung on you in the hotel room so that your expectations are set properly. You do sound irate though - if you're not maybe you should think a bit more about your writing style as Archangel said, maybe your unintended aggressiveness made her uneasy. | |||
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"Note to self *** put on profile will only meet with single guy in tow, after all I need someone to top up the drinkies.
Ah but your profile says you only meet men so your NOT ALLOWED to meet couples as it doesn't say so on your profile
Shhhhhhhh ........ I do meet with couples but only regular ones now, not new ones. "Ah but your not allowed as it doesn't say it on your profile | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. You CAN'T MEET couples either as it clearly doesn't state it on your profile! The profile inspectors will fine you!
I chose not to in the main as they are difficult but its not that I never do. This is another big issue for me people trying to tell me what I can or can't do its my profile my life I can do as I choose! "No no no you can't couples choices trump single females | |||
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"Not here but I could just eat a big with bits on and lots of salt and vinegar. "Now you're talking! | |||
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"Lots of couples have 3 profiles, their couples one for meeting as a couple and they have single ones each for going into the chat and cam rooms. Granted Laine. Nothing wrong with that. BUT...... singles who then produce a partner when it's meet time shouldn't do so under a singles profile. If I was chatting away to a 'single' bloke and making arrangements and he suddenly pulled a lady friend out of the woodwork that he just HAS to bring along. I'd be right pissed. see! thanks guys. this is what i mean. as for a certain someone. I will not rise to it. glad some people know what im talking about.lol." You should have thought about not rising to it before you did rise to it...lol | |||
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"Lots of couples have 3 profiles, their couples one for meeting as a couple and they have single ones each for going into the chat and cam rooms. " We have just one .. I could never cope with 2 . | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. Yes you are and I can do what I like with my profile and say what I like on it within the rules and change it on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't have a couples profile if you can't accommodate! You will probably find that the woman in question does meet alone and told you she didn't as you come across as aggressive and it has to be your way. and that's a massive turn off.
And how do i not come across as aggresive? people take "text" the way they see it regardless of how its meant. "As they do face to face with words or body gestures. Reading thorough your comments here I wouldn't entertain you at all as you are so pedantic and don't listen to other viewpoints. It clearly points as to what you are like. | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. Yes you are and I can do what I like with my profile and say what I like on it within the rules and change it on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't have a couples profile if you can't accommodate! You will probably find that the woman in question does meet alone and told you she didn't as you come across as aggressive and it has to be your way. and that's a massive turn off.
And how do i not come across as aggresive? people take "text" the way they see it regardless of how its meant. "You really don't come across as aggressive. You are right that others read their own natures into what you have said. I'd stop defending yourself too. There's no one to answer to. | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. Yes you are and I can do what I like with my profile and say what I like on it within the rules and change it on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't have a couples profile if you can't accommodate! You will probably find that the woman in question does meet alone and told you she didn't as you come across as aggressive and it has to be your way. and that's a massive turn off.
And how do i not come across as aggresive? people take "text" the way they see it regardless of how its meant. "oh and she suggested meeting and we do not in any way force anyone to say or do anything they dont want to. Iwas a single fem on here so know what its like. and why should we not have a couples profile if we cant accom? makes no sense at all? | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. Yes you are and I can do what I like with my profile and say what I like on it within the rules and change it on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't have a couples profile if you can't accommodate! You will probably find that the woman in question does meet alone and told you she didn't as you come across as aggressive and it has to be your way. and that's a massive turn off.
And how do i not come across as aggresive? people take "text" the way they see it regardless of how its meant.
You really don't come across as aggressive.
You are right that others read their own natures into what you have said.
I'd stop defending yourself too.
There's no one to answer to."yea your right. lol. | |||
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"I'm a great believer in clarity! If you're a single - have a single profile - if a couple have a couples profile. If those in a couple want additional single profiles to chat/use the forums or play seperately, then that's also fine. If a single want's a profile to chat/use the forums but not play - also fine. If a couple want a profile and only meet as a couple but only one of them plays - the other watches/takes pics/knits in the corner - no worries! If a single or a couple only meet people when there's a 'z' in the month, a full moon and it's a leap year - also fine. If two singles join up and want a couples profile to play together on occasion, also no problems there! If a single or couple just want to watch/play on cam but never meet - cool beans! If you're going to San Fransisco - be sure to wear a flower in your hair! Hope that clears up my view on this! Do what you want - just be open and clear about it and evryone will be as happy as an abandoned puppy at Battersea when the little girl rocks up and takes him home! Clarity is not just a hydrogen powered car made by Honda! "Can you repeat that I didnt quite catch what you were saying  | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. Yes you are and I can do what I like with my profile and say what I like on it within the rules and change it on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't have a couples profile if you can't accommodate! You will probably find that the woman in question does meet alone and told you she didn't as you come across as aggressive and it has to be your way. and that's a massive turn off.
And how do i not come across as aggresive? people take "text" the way they see it regardless of how its meant.
oh and she suggested meeting and we do not in any way force anyone to say or do anything they dont want to. Iwas a single fem on here so know what its like. and why should we not have a couples profile if we cant accom? makes no sense at all? "So a couple met and play together through swinging not a couple who live together? | |||
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"Phew i enjoyed all that x" How come ? It was Toastie Free ! | |||
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"Phew i enjoyed all that x How come ? It was Toastie Free !" I am letting the toastie one go now lol x | |||
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"I am not single but do have my own profile. I have a couples profile also. I will play on my own with hubby's permission. I will always make it clear the conditions of play with hubby there or not which I totally agree is what you should do. I have spoke to other women before on here and your right they will pipe up about their partners so I tell them to message on my couples profile. X" There is nothing wrong with that you are entitled to both. I know a lot who do the same I guess no matter what you have some won't be happy. | |||
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"Phew i enjoyed all that x" Some people could start an argument with themselves in a phone booth!
Op, I get what you're saying. If you see a profile by a single female, you expect to be meeting a single female. You don't then expect, oh, and my partner will join us...that's a couple and I don't know why people can't see that.
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" If I was talking to a single man and he then said his wife would be present I wouldn't be amused either! "Bingo! | |||
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"not intimidated. just feel that they should change it to a couples profile as thats what they are. " I agree. If they are playing as a couple Admin expect them to have a couples profile...I would report the profile
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"not intimidated. just feel that they should change it to a couples profile as thats what they are. I agree. If they are playing as a couple Admin expect them to have a couples profile...I would report the profile
Obviously having a couples profile AND a single profile is fine as long as you play singly too or just use the second profile to chat or use the forum "this is what I think as we'll , but I would add I don't know why the female 1/2 can't use the couples prof to chat , why do they need to pretend to be a single girl . | |||
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"not intimidated. just feel that they should change it to a couples profile as thats what they are. I agree. If they are playing as a couple Admin expect them to have a couples profile...I would report the profile
Obviously having a couples profile AND a single profile is fine as long as you play singly too or just use the second profile to chat or use the forum this is what I think as we'll , but I would add I don't know why the female 1/2 can't use the couples prof to chat , why do they need to pretend to be a single girl . "If they are playing alone too or had a single profile before joining up with someone else and have it on their profile so are not deceiving anyone then I think thats ok....BUT it would make them come up in the wrong searches and that does annoy people. | |||
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"not intimidated. just feel that they should change it to a couples profile as thats what they are. I agree. If they are playing as a couple Admin expect them to have a couples profile...I would report the profile
Obviously having a couples profile AND a single profile is fine as long as you play singly too or just use the second profile to chat or use the forum this is what I think as we'll , but I would add I don't know why the female 1/2 can't use the couples prof to chat , why do they need to pretend to be a single girl . "If both male and female want to chat separately or go into different rooms they have to have two profiles. It's not like old chat where both could chat from the one profile. | |||
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"not intimidated. just feel that they should change it to a couples profile as thats what they are. I agree. If they are playing as a couple Admin expect them to have a couples profile...I would report the profile
Obviously having a couples profile AND a single profile is fine as long as you play singly too or just use the second profile to chat or use the forum this is what I think as we'll , but I would add I don't know why the female 1/2 can't use the couples prof to chat , why do they need to pretend to be a single girl .
If both male and female want to chat separately or go into different rooms they have to have two profiles. It's not like old chat where both could chat from the one profile. "I think she means why do they have single instead of two couples ones | |||
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"Phew i enjoyed all that x Some people could start an argument with themselves in a phone booth!
Op, I get what you're saying. If you see a profile by a single female, you expect to be meeting a single female. You don't then expect, oh, and my partner will join us...that's a couple and I don't know why people can't see that.
If I was talking to a single man and he then said his wife would be present I wouldn't be amused either! "I totally agree x | |||
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"not intimidated. just feel that they should change it to a couples profile as thats what they are. I agree. If they are playing as a couple Admin expect them to have a couples profile...I would report the profile
Obviously having a couples profile AND a single profile is fine as long as you play singly too or just use the second profile to chat or use the forum this is what I think as we'll , but I would add I don't know why the female 1/2 can't use the couples prof to chat , why do they need to pretend to be a single girl .
If both male and female want to chat separately or go into different rooms they have to have two profiles. It's not like old chat where both could chat from the one profile.
I think she means why do they have single instead of two couples ones "I didn't know you can't any more . But as said . If your a couple and only meet as a couple then both should have couple profs . Your not single and you don't play as single so no need for single prof other than to miss lead people . It's the same as a single guy using a couples prof , but right at the bottem of the pro text saying my wife will not be joining me on meets | |||
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"Well I wouldn't meet a couple alone who can't accommodate. So many people cheating on here both fake couples and singles. To the op you meet couples whats your issue and why the aggression it does nothing for how you come across. not being aggressive. asive said before. just dont have a single profile and then say you never meet anyone alone. cause your not single then are you. thats all. nothing more. Yes you are and I can do what I like with my profile and say what I like on it within the rules and change it on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't have a couples profile if you can't accommodate! You will probably find that the woman in question does meet alone and told you she didn't as you come across as aggressive and it has to be your way. and that's a massive turn off.
And how do i not come across as aggresive? people take "text" the way they see it regardless of how its meant.
oh and she suggested meeting and we do not in any way force anyone to say or do anything they dont want to. Iwas a single fem on here so know what its like. and why should we not have a couples profile if we cant accom? makes no sense at all?
So a couple met and play together through swinging not a couple who live together? "we live together. have children, hence we wont accom as we dont feel my teenage daughter needs to know what we do. we would never accom with children present.very rare we can so better to say we don't. | |||
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"I am very honest that this profile is just for the forums and talking to friends. I don't play without my OH there. " Same here I'm here for chat only I'm not meeting | |||
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"Op, I get what you're saying. If you see a profile by a single female, you expect to be meeting a single female. You don't then expect, oh, and my partner will join us...that's a couple and I don't know why people can't see that. If I was talking to a single man and he then said his wife would be present I wouldn't be amused either! "I couldn't agree more, single = single profile, couple/not single = couples profile. I know one lady on here who has 3 or 4 different profiles  | |||
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