FabSwingers.com forum: What would make you give up fab and swinging ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People change over the years . ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ever you left Jo....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If herself got preggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone incredibly special

Can't wait for the 'swinging police ' to clock it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i met the right women who was not into swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I can no longer brace for impact..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If I met someone incredibly special

Can't wait for the 'swinging police ' to clock it

Neeeeeeeee Nawwwwwwwwww Neeeeeeee Nawwwwwww

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Nuclear Armageddon or zombie apocalypse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If ever you left Jo....

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lol oooooooo you charmer you would miss my bad spelling I know xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing at the mo, but you never know whats around the corner

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fab I could give up as soon as it ceased to be useful.

Swinging is a lifetime commitment.

Even if a belief can't be practised it is still a belief.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

When my hips give way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If ever you left Jo....

lol oooooooo you charmer you would miss my bad spelling I know xx

Trust me.... It isnt your spelling I'd miss...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone. "

very rare qualitys indead....respect

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone. "

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

very rare qualitys indead....respect

Not as rare as you think. It depends on the type of person you attach yourself to.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

very rare qualitys indead....respect

Not as rare as you think. It depends on the type of person you attach yourself to."

yep I agree.........thats why I no longer trust my own judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i met someone i liked enough to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to..."

Yep same here

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

me 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

very rare qualitys indead....respect

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?"

I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met the man of my dreams and he wasn't a swinger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here"

Thought you were a couple

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?

I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere."

spooky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?

I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.

spooky

Why spooky?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If the OH didn't want to swing anymore.

If I didn't want to swing anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think I've already given enough questions on that one, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if et landed

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"If I met the man of my dreams and he wasn't a swinger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here

Thought you were a couple

Fwb

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

If I met someone....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?

I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.

spooky

Why spooky? "

cos thats what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If either one of us decided we wanted to stop We both would or if it got to a point where we were finding it tedious or taking over our normal life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?

I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.

spooky

Why spooky?

cos thats what I was thinking "

Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?

I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.

spooky

Why spooky?

cos thats what I was thinking

Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky

tuts

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

If my hubby asked me to I would. Also, if I decided I didn't want any more obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When either of you don't want to do it we've stopped swinging for now but couldn't give up fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone very special then I'd leave. I could never lie or cheat on anyone.

What if they were a swinger on FAB ?

I'd still want time away from Fab to see if the relationship was going anywhere.

spooky

Why spooky?

cos thats what I was thinking

Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky

That's a given....

You could spirit me away, anytime....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my tinkle fell off.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Nuclear Armageddon or zombie apocalypse

what if the zombies joined fab ?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If my tinkle fell off.

why can it ??? shit !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have given up, been doing it since the 90s and since hubby started his own business 8 years ago we took time out for a year and since them we have met fewer and fewer, not met anyone for about 18 month now, we still come on here as we like the crack, and at times we can still be naughty if someone caught our eye,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here

Thought you were a couple

Fwb

Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??

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By * control youMan
over a year ago

swindon

If I went on a meet nd it turned out to be my ex wife would give this up along with life in general lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here

Thought you were a couple

Fwb

Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ?? "

No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"spooky

Why spooky?

cos thats what I was thinking

Oh lol thought you meant I was spooky

That's a given....

You could spirit me away, anytime....

lol I'm a Welsh Witch really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here

Thought you were a couple

Fwb

Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??

No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x"

Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We will leave if we have kids.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

When casual sex no longer appeals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here

Thought you were a couple

Fwb

Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??

No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x

Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile

We have been together five years and are good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone special and have a relationship with her, I can give up this lifestyle and walk away easy.

Would be happy to swap all the fun I had for one person to spend rest of my life happy.

Only swing because I am single, like to have fun and have some sex aswell meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here

Thought you were a couple

Fwb

Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??

No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x

Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile

We have been together five years and are good friends

Ahhhh .. I had no idea it doesn't mention that. Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone i liked enough to...

Yep same here

Thought you were a couple

Fwb

Im confused lol.. you mean you would leave if you met a friend with benefits ??

No we are fwb if I met someone who wasn't into swinging then I would stop to concentrate on the relationship x

Ohhhhh I presumed you were married because of your profile

We have been together five years and are good friends

Ahhhh .. I had no idea it doesn't mention that. Ooops "

Its fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here because of my situation I can't have a conventional relationship

If I was to meet someone I really liked I wouldn't have the time to see if it developed because I have only about 8/9 times a year I have any free time.

So when the time is right and the situation changes I will leave here ....

Dont all cry at once and that will about 6/7 years down the line too

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I went on a meet nd it turned out to be my ex wife would give this up along with life in general lol

pmsl.....yep same here god just the thought shudder

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

We're teetering on the brink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on here because of my situation I can't have a conventional relationship

If I was to meet someone I really liked I wouldn't have the time to see if it developed because I have only about 8/9 times a year I have any free time.

So when the time is right and the situation changes I will leave here ....

Dont all cry at once and that will about 6/7 years down the line too

That's ages off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone incredibly special

Can't wait for the 'swinging police ' to clock it

same here, im not after a relationship but who knows how i may feel in a few years, i wouldn't want a swinging relationship so would pack up for the right guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I went on a meet nd it turned out to be my ex wife would give this up along with life in general lol

pmsl.....yep same here god just the thought shudder "

Thonk there would be murder if that happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself. "

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came here on a whim, could leave the same way. NSA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my partner told asked me to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't be monogamous.. not for anyone.. so guess nothing as it's part of who I am.

If I ever got with someone in a serious way again.. they would have to accept me how I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on here because of my situation I can't have a conventional relationship

If I was to meet someone I really liked I wouldn't have the time to see if it developed because I have only about 8/9 times a year I have any free time.

So when the time is right and the situation changes I will leave here ....

Dont all cry at once and that will about 6/7 years down the line too

That's ages off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ... "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I couldn't be monogamous.. not for anyone.. so guess nothing as it's part of who I am.

If I ever got with someone in a serious way again.. they would have to accept me how I am. "

can't ask for more honest than that

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By * control youMan
over a year ago

swindon

Ffs blade dont say u know my ex aswell lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

I couldn't agree more well duble standerds I no but I could share a fem with a feb but not a male. I expect to get jumped on for that but heyho im honest at least an even then if it wasn't her thing it would be no biggie to leave that. I think the main thing is how deeply you love the said persan an how secure in that you both are..........waits for size 10s

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ffs blade dont say u know my ex aswell lol "

well its wasn't only me an by fooook shes 1 filthy bitch when your at work lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

I have size 8s

It is double standards

Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would make you give up fab and swinging ? . ?

Me Ma sending me a wink haha

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

I have size 8s

It is double standards

Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking "

so long as she does yes but as I said its no be all an end all. whats would be more impotant is shes happy with it. its a kink an its easy left behind if needed........hope that makes sence an yes before its said I couldn't share with a male due to my own insecurities an thats why id never push it

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By * control youMan
over a year ago

swindon

I will ave u know blade she has only been fucked twice once by me once by kent

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

Thing is you're a single bloke looking for single women. If you were looking for couples it would put some off, but not all.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

Thing is you're a single bloke looking for single women. If you were looking for couples it would put some off, but not all."

paint taken but then iv not always been single an iv had my share of bi fems

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

totally agree with all the above when i was married took breaks from the scene for various reasons kept telling my ex to give it up but he kept on wi it saying you cant give it up that was b4 he left me for someone we met thru swinging.

so after the way he treated me feel cant trust men ,was seeing a guy last year he didnt know i was into this so now im all alone again here i am for now back to swinging

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

I have size 8s

It is double standards

Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking

Hmmm...would you expect to join in though?!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I will ave u know blade she has only been fucked twice once by me once by kent "

yes but have blade will travel lolol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself.

Thats not controversial thats how you feel

I wouldn't either ...

I have size 8s

It is double standards

Im not going to jump on it though as the majority of men I think think the same way. So you get pleasure from watching her with a woman so its ok ??? Just asking

Hmmm...would you expect to join in though?!! "

id expect nothing an rules ever way would be clear as glass before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I met someone special and we fell in Love. Weather on fab or not.

Bit controversial but I couldn't share him or myself. "

This

or when it bores me, which it sometimes does, but I soon get past that

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