FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi just wondered if you guys could give me some help

I've been on here now for 3 weeks and still haven't managed to meet anyone :-/ has anyone got any tips please?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Can I ask, exactly what your expectations were? As most seem to think it is instashag.com

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

your straight but a veri from a tv/ts, short profile that says nothing about what you can offer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is as long as your forum post

You're straight but want to meet tv's

You can't accommodate.

If you view the introduction forum You will get lots of tips on there.

Good luck

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

"your straight but a veri from a tv/ts, short profile that says nothing about what you can offer... "
hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not really expecting anything just someone friendly to chat too everyone seems to jump straight to conclusions just because I say hi does not mean I want to shag you, I joined this site as I want to build my sexual experience (which I'm sure many do) however when you are having no luck at all I need some advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahhh I didn't realise thank you for your help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask, exactly what your expectations were? As most seem to think it is instashag.com

I was wondering who couldn't resist this thread

Its a little unknown fact that week 11 is likely to be a new members most successful week for new meets !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks is nothing.

It's all about patience, and building up contact with people on the site.

It's not, in most part, join up, get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, if it is, I, and most other guys, are doing something very wrong!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Get out to socials in your local area..be polite accept that you are not going to be everyones cup of tea but most of all be yourself....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for all your advice I'm sorry if I've irritated people with my lack Of knowledge towards working this site your help is appreciated x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Thank you for all your advice I'm sorry if I've irritated people with my lack Of knowledge towards working this site your help is appreciated x"

It don't take much to irritate some..lol start using the forums it can be a great meeting tool...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will do thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all your advice I'm sorry if I've irritated people with my lack Of knowledge towards working this site your help is appreciated x

It don't take much to irritate some..lol start using the forums it can be a great meeting tool...

Very true. Op just join in...I'm not even looking or making an effort but joining in has led to a few strangers messaging to say hello or share a few thoughts. All joking aside, don't take it too seriously and enjoy

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thank you for all your advice I'm sorry if I've irritated people with my lack Of knowledge towards working this site your help is appreciated x"

Listen, we're not having a dig (well, trying not to!) But look at your profile and think, is it really attracting people? And if not why not?

It's your shop window, to attract what you are looking for and what you can offer!

Two sentences will not make people want to get in touch, so you need to make more effort, that is all, it shouldn't really be rocket science

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

my tip would be to avoid newbies and profiles that have highly choreographed (model) pictures. Both of these types of profiles get spammed up wither by multiple guys or repeat messages so they rarely get back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your firm but helpful input x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've re wrote my profile can someone have a look at it for me ease with opinions thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi just wondered if you guys could give me some help

I've been on here now for 3 weeks and still haven't managed to meet anyone :-/ has anyone got any tips please?"

always a struggle on here

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I've re wrote my profile can someone have a look at it for me ease with opinions thanks x"

Much better than it was! A refreshing change for someone to listen and take on board advise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm here to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks ok. Good luck and enjoy

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