FabSwingers.com forum: Intercourse or intimate play

By *xxx OP Man
29 weeks ago

Bedfordshire & Chester

Does anyone else find themselves more drawn and enticed by intimate play rather than just intercourse? I find myself leaning towards the endless possibilities and more arousing elements of what some describe as foreplay. I understand that some may want a good hard fuck, or cum and go, and I'm not judging, especially if one leads to another then great.

Anyway just curious...

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Loads of foreplay please.

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By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Mayfair

In my experience the "good hard fuck" or any form of pleasurable intromission is often the culmination from foreplay and other exploratory sensations. They both go hand in hand.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
29 weeks ago

South Wales

I kind of like both x 😄

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Doesn't one eventually lead to the other 🤷🤷

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

We probably have more foreplay than the actual sex.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

"Doesn't one eventually lead to the other 🤷🤷"

No, why should it?

Mrs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I don't mind either or , as long as it's good and gets me going 🤣

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By *heelerMan
29 weeks ago

Northants

Yes love lots of foreplay

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By *herry77Woman
29 weeks ago

North West

"Does anyone else find themselves more drawn and enticed by intimate play rather than just intercourse? I find myself leaning towards the endless possibilities and more arousing elements of what some describe as foreplay. I understand that some may want a good hard fuck, or cum and go, and I'm not judging, especially if one leads to another then great.

Anyway just curious..."

Have you heard of the Erotic Blueprint theory? There are different blueprints but have a look at the bit I’ve got on my profile, you might find it resonates

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By *egnMaxCouple
29 weeks ago

East Midlands

Foreplay and non-PiV meets only for us.

So much fun to be had in so many other ways.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
29 weeks ago

East Lincs

That’s pretty much what our meets involve - relaxed play where you take your time to enjoy each others bodies properly.

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By *IXEN200Woman
29 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I've got to have lots of foreplay it's the main attraction for me, then it makes the rest more pleasurable

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By *onny PetersonMan
29 weeks ago

Harrogate

I love both but ideally lots of foreplay leading to a good fuck.

I was in a relationship with a girl who was either one or the other. Some times it was a demand for a hard fuck with no foreplay, kissing or intimacy. Should woukd aggressively demand 'harder' if she wasn't satisfied.

Other times it was pure intimacy- sexy underwear, kissing, massage, oral, masturbation but no intercourse.

There was never any cross over it was one or the other.

Never found out why she was like that.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
29 weeks ago

someplace

Yeah, I prefer foreplay tbh

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By *umfun24Man
29 weeks ago

wilmslow

For me, the build up is absolutely the attraction. Even before a meet, the escalating messages, and then at a meet, that quietly checking each other out, the interest peaking and initiating the physical. Reserved at first, but once the kissing starts and the chemistry flows, every touch feels electric. Minds racing, that first skin on skin touch, heart thumping, breathing becomes short. Every sense tingling with anticipation.

Or is that just me?

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By *1ghtmareTw1stedWoman
29 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

I enjoy the build up... the foreplay... the pictures before actually meeting... all goes in with the fun... before cock goes in me.... then again i do hit points where i do beg for the cock to be inside me haha xx

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
29 weeks ago

Shefford

Think in preference, id choose the intimate play option. In reality, as long as my partner enjoys themselves thats all that matters

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By *vaRoseWoman
29 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Sex to me isn’t just penetration, what others call foreplay is just part of the whole experience. It can and often is as satisfying as penis in vagina

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
29 weeks ago

Reading

I like both

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Sometimes foreplay meets can be better than actual penetritive meets. Its all about the company you are in 😁

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By *rchie300Man
29 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Intimate play with someone you feel for is the best for me ….. anything else is just a fuck which means less and more about your own satisfaction….. that might sound harsh but I’ve had meets which i enjoyed but felt something was missing …. Hope that made sense

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By *llfingersandtongueMan
29 weeks ago

Aylesbury

Anyway just curious..."

100% Love an intermate playmate and just super sensual foreplay.

I consider it my personal kink!

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By * aime la biteWoman
29 weeks ago

wonderland

I like lots of teasing, then foreplay and then intercourse

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
29 weeks ago

Norwich

I love foreplay too. I'll happily have both though.

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By *xxx OP Man
29 weeks ago

Bedfordshire & Chester

"Doesn't one eventually lead to the other 🤷🤷

No, why should it?

Mrs "

I am totally of the opinion that it doesn't have to lead to anything. In fact I would argue that intimate play or call it what you like can result in much more resonating pleasure for all involved.

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By *as1373Couple
29 weeks ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

All depends on situation, if with others, lots of intimate play, then back to each other for the fucking. It’s what we like.

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By *hyKentGuyMan
29 weeks ago

sheerness

Anyway just curious...

Have you heard of the Erotic Blueprint theory? There are different blueprints but have a look at the bit I’ve got on my profile, you might find it resonates

Absolutely spot on! Never seen that before but that does resonate with me!xxx

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By *xxx OP Man
29 weeks ago

Bedfordshire & Chester

Anyway just curious...

Have you heard of the Erotic Blueprint theory? There are different blueprints but have a look at the bit I’ve got on my profile, you might find it resonates

I hadn't heard of this before now, but after reading your profile I certainly want to know more. Thanks for sharing

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
29 weeks ago

Telford

I want both really.

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By *ayRyuMan
29 weeks ago

Harrogate

"I want both really.

Greedy

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By *WB85Man
29 weeks ago

Staffordshire

For me foreplay and the build up is the most exciting part.

Dont get me wrong, penetration is amazing, but its only part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Mutuals with my ex were fantastic

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By *iltsguy38Man
29 weeks ago

swindon

Intimate play for me. I obviously love intercourse but exploring bodies and oral is so much fun

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
29 weeks ago

Bliss

Soft play is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I think I’m more about the penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

The rub of his cock up and down my clit, the anticipation of whats coming, when is it going to enter me 🥵

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By *unguy2429Man
29 weeks ago

worthing

Teasing is fun

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By *sm265Woman
29 weeks ago

Perthshire

Love foreplay and the build up but think I'd potentially feel shortchanged if it didn't lead to more.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
29 weeks ago

Surrey

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By *aramel.desiresMan
29 weeks ago

Surrey

I'm definitely a giver in the bedroom. Flirty messages to set the scene, a variety of foreplay activities to relax and arouse and if all goes well some sex at the end.

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Cheshire

Read it on your profile & absolutely love it. It's a really good theory.

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