FabSwingers.com forum: What’s your favourite way to break the ice when meeting another couple or single for the first time?

By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

Wonder if there’s any interesting ones

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By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's usually already broken after the first social. If you're talking about the first social then it's already broken after weeks/months of messaging and talking on the phone.

Failing that a Gin usually lubricates the inhibitions.

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By *tannersMan
29 weeks ago

stanley

Do you wanna see my elephant impression??

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
29 weeks ago

Brum

Gin.

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By *ace400Man
29 weeks ago

my back yard

Coffee ☕️

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By *ugmesqueezemeMan
29 weeks ago

Nuneaton

I send them a pre meet questionnaire.. that way I can use the answers to spark the conversation. 😂😂😂🤓

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By *aven RedWoman
29 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

Usually already got a good rapport going from messaging first but if it was a club for the first time, I'm a chatterbox and have been told I put people at ease x

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By *cottish guy 555Man
29 weeks ago

London

Ask them do they know what happened to the elephant at the south pole? When they answer in the negative, I say neither do I, but it definitely broke the ice.

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By *entlemanG8orgeMan
29 weeks ago

Nearby

Arrived with a bulge in my pants!

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Round the bend

A big hug

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By *hefabtrioCouple
29 weeks ago

Carlisle

Meet for a social coffee or a drink

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By *uke_silverMan
29 weeks ago

London

You heard about Pluto? That's messed up, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

....⚽️

Can you kick it back?

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
29 weeks ago

Debauchery

I’m usually such a bag of nerves and will end up making a tit of myself by tripping over my own feet or rambling really fast until the nerves subside 😂. It always makes them feel better

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By *egnMaxCouple
29 weeks ago

East Midlands

"I’m usually such a bag of nerves and will end up making a tit of myself by tripping over my own feet or rambling really fast until the nerves subside 😂. It always makes them feel better "

We’d find that utterly charming and would probably be falling over ourselves whilst you were picking yourself up.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
29 weeks ago

East Lincs

If we’ve already met for a social and the next step is to meet for sexy time then C is usually on her knees 😋

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
29 weeks ago

Debauchery

"I’m usually such a bag of nerves and will end up making a tit of myself by tripping over my own feet or rambling really fast until the nerves subside 😂. It always makes them feel better

We’d find that utterly charming and would probably be falling over ourselves whilst you were picking yourself up. "

😀😀 well as long as you didn’t think I was a complete numpty. Nerves are great though and if I can make people laugh by my nervousness I’m ok with that

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By *tlanshiaWoman
29 weeks ago

Chatham

Oh... My aunt taught me this.

She said you sashay over, take an ice cube out of your drink, place it on a surface, smash it then say "that's broke the ice, let's fuck."

Results may vary.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
29 weeks ago

Telford

I'm quite a warm and friendly person. I am usually not very shy or nervous when meeting new people.

I have some sort of rapport already established but I can be a little if I really fancy someone haha.

It may come out by me stumbling over words or tripping over

I can laugh at myself though it's not been a negative so far ha.

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By *he MinionMan
29 weeks ago

I tend to insist that all face to face meets take place whilst wearing fancy dress.

Usually creates a fun interaction and plenty of conversation

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By *xydadbodMan
29 weeks ago

towcester

Just be myself.. sooner or later they are gonna realised im weird anyway so may as well let them see that naturally 😅🤣🤣🤣

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
29 weeks ago

newcastle

Kissing. See if there's a connection xx

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By *uperS77Man
29 weeks ago

Gloucester

Gotta get the message through to the single person first!

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By *unguy2429Man
29 weeks ago

worthing

Have gd banter chat keeping conversation flowing.

Flirt

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By *p for fun2019Couple
29 weeks ago

Bournemouth j

If Sall likes who we've met she normally flashes her pussy and asks if they'd like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

That’s not forward lol

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By *WB85Man
29 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I tell them the stories of my swinger journey....its always a good laugh.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
29 weeks ago

kent

Usually a kiss. After messaging for a while, a lingering kiss is great way to say hello for the first time 😘

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By *otlovefun42Couple
29 weeks ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Just walk up and say "Polar Bear". Come on, they break ice every day.

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
29 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"It's usually already broken after the first social. If you're talking about the first social then it's already broken after weeks/months of messaging and talking on the phone.

Failing that a Gin usually lubricates the inhibitions."

All of this, but replace the gin with a vodka

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

What does gin actually taste like?

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By *om WxmMan
29 weeks ago

Wrexham

"I send them a pre meet questionnaire.. that way I can use the answers to spark the conversation. 😂😂😂🤓"

Never done this but it sounds a good idea to get them talking.

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By *urplevanmanMan
29 weeks ago

Salford

"Do you wanna see my elephant impression??"

Mines similar but I do a helicopter 😊

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By *enk15Man
29 weeks ago

Evesham

"We have to be Quick, I've got a meeting with my parole officer"

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