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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago

How do you get over it when you get it?

I’ve asked before but I’ve forgotten

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By *arlo56Man
30 weeks ago

Newcastle

Never had it for a long time.

Life is to short for it.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

What he said

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
30 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

I just ask her to share the packet of biscuits with me.

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By *adyNyxWoman
30 weeks ago

Crawley

Work with it.

What comes up for you?

Where do you feel it?

What’s the trigger underneath?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"Work with it.

What comes up for you?

Where do you feel it?

What’s the trigger underneath?"

How will that help me get over it though

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Work out exactly what you're jealous of and why 💜

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"Work out exactly what you're jealous of and why 💜"

Ok then what’s the next step 🥲

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
30 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I dont do jealousy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"I dont do jealousy"

🥳 congratulations

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ignore it, self flagellation, make myself busy to distract myself, self flagellation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"Ignore it, self flagellation, make myself busy to distract myself, self flagellation "

Swing, I hate my brain.

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By *rchie300Man
30 weeks ago

Hamworthy

I’ve got under control , I get very jealous when I’m into someone…. I try not to let it be a negative and keep it in …. When it rears its head I use humour and make a joke about …… what did the chicken say to the egg 😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"I’ve got under control , I get very jealous when I’m into someone…. I try not to let it be a negative and keep it in …. When it rears its head I use humour and make a joke about …… what did the chicken say to the egg 😂"

I don’t think it’s something that should impact your relationships so well done on not exactly letting it. But I don’t like feeling it.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
30 weeks ago

someplace

It’s normal to feel jealous, as long as you don’t let it control you...I should take this advice myself lol

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By *verageHoesCouple
30 weeks ago

Bessacarr

Poke it a bit to see if the cause is their behaviour or my personal insecurities, then decide what I want to do about it. If it's their behaviour I cut and run. If it's my insecurity I work on being my own safe space and think soothing thoughts and ride the wave until it subsides.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ignore it, self flagellation, make myself busy to distract myself, self flagellation

Swing, I hate my brain. "

Would you rather have mine?

That's a rhetorical question btw

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By *urry BlokeMan
30 weeks ago

Be honest and open about it

Both to yourself and towards whatever situation is causing it

I am not afraid or ashamed to admit my jealousy

It's a far bigger demon when bottled

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By *CExeCouple
30 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

Understand where it's coming from, try not to let it control you and ultimately use it to better yourself if you can.

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By *adyNyxWoman
30 weeks ago

Crawley


"Work with it.

What comes up for you?

Where do you feel it?

What’s the trigger underneath?

How will that help me get over it though "

It’s there for a reason, and knowing what that is, where it originates, can help move through it.

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By *yrdsisWoman
30 weeks ago

Gleam Street

Why are you jealous? What triggers that response?

If you don't know that, there's no help.

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By *urry BlokeMan
30 weeks ago


"Be honest and open about it

Both to yourself and towards whatever situation is causing it

I am not afraid or ashamed to admit my jealousy

It's a far bigger demon when bottled"

I should probably clarify, I am, in general, not jealous

Certain situations do bring it out in me though

I don't shy away from it when I feel it approaching

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
30 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

Have a wank

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Work out exactly what you're jealous of and why 💜

Ok then what’s the next step 🥲"

Is the reason one that's it's rational to be upset about?

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
30 weeks ago

Niche

Jealousy comes in many forms and happens for many reasons.

Some are simple and nothing important. Have a joke, kiss and sex eachother up til you're back on an even keel.

But other forms of jealousy are toxic and stem from more serious relationship problems and/or internal personal problems.

If you're feeling jealous, why are you?

Are you not getting what you need from your partner? Time? Affection? Words of affirmation?

Are you not occupying the position you need to in their life?

Or are you never satisfied?

Do you need to control and own?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"Work out exactly what you're jealous of and why 💜

Ok then what’s the next step 🥲

Is the reason one that's it's rational to be upset about?"

When is it ever rational haha.

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By *arlo56Man
30 weeks ago

Newcastle

Is the jealousy you feel over a woman you are close or was vlose to ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Work out exactly what you're jealous of and why 💜

Ok then what’s the next step 🥲

Is the reason one that's it's rational to be upset about?

When is it ever rational haha. "

When agreements are broken or when you are deliberately and specifically being left out 💜

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By *IXEN200Woman
30 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I don't have a jealous bone in my body, whether that's down to not finding the right one for me who knows 🤷‍♀️

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By *he MinionMan
30 weeks ago

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I take a reality check look at myself and realise i'm being a knob

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By *ittlebirdWoman
30 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Depends if it’s rational or irrational. Rational then sort out whatever the problem is with the other person.

If it’s irrational then it’s a you problem.

Only you will know either way

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By *he MinionMan
30 weeks ago

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"Depends if it’s rational or irrational. Rational then sort out whatever the problem is with the other person.

If it’s irrational then it’s a you problem.

Only you will know either way "

Wise words

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Tell myself it's a normal human emotion and there are no invalid emotions, but it's what you do with it that counts.

And that's why I have tantrum and thrown all of my toys out of the pram.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"Tell myself it's a normal human emotion and there are no invalid emotions, but it's what you do with it that counts.

And that's why I have tantrum and thrown all of my toys out of the pram."
this speaks to me

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tell myself it's a normal human emotion and there are no invalid emotions, but it's what you do with it that counts.

And that's why I have tantrum and thrown all of my toys out of the pram."

I throw soft things at walls in private 🤣

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Tell myself it's a normal human emotion and there are no invalid emotions, but it's what you do with it that counts.

And that's why I have tantrum and thrown all of my toys out of the pram.

I throw soft things at walls in private 🤣"

See now that's smarter than a decades supply of instant polyfilla - where's my receipt gone?

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By *on_20Couple
1 week ago

Manchester and Cardiff

I’m only jealous when I’m fertile. As I have resurrected this zombie thread you can tell that I’m currently fertile and feeling the jealousy (k)

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By *utsackerMan
1 week ago

north east

Only really get it when I’m out with the kids and see all the proper families sometimes it feels like you the only single dad there ha, occasionally ehen have the nights where feel like will be alone forever I do get it for those I know that seem to have everything perfect, they all think it must me great being single but is it fuck ha it is good at times but nowt compared to having someone

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By *a LunaWoman
1 week ago

Wales


"Only really get it when I’m out with the kids and see all the proper families sometimes it feels like you the only single dad there ha, occasionally ehen have the nights where feel like will be alone forever I do get it for those I know that seem to have everything perfect, they all think it must me great being single but is it fuck ha it is good at times but nowt compared to having someone "

I can relate. I’m fine and dandy being single until I watch a period drama with romance in it and then I feel a bit 🥺

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By *utsackerMan
1 week ago

north east


"Only really get it when I’m out with the kids and see all the proper families sometimes it feels like you the only single dad there ha, occasionally ehen have the nights where feel like will be alone forever I do get it for those I know that seem to have everything perfect, they all think it must me great being single but is it fuck ha it is good at times but nowt compared to having someone

I can relate. I’m fine and dandy being single until I watch a period drama with romance in it and then I feel a bit 🥺"

It’s shit isn’t it I get the same when see it on the telly as well ha

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By *arierWoman
1 week ago

birmingham

I get a sick feeling when my husband is out with other women but i also find it a massive turn on. Reconnection sex is always so good after 🥵

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By *carlettsWoman
1 week ago

Harpenden

I'm not a jealous person. I do see a lot of jealous people on here though

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