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By *unguy2429 OP   Man
30 weeks ago

worthing

I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets

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By *eorge AtazderMan
30 weeks ago

Exeter


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets with me

"

FTFY

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By *ealitybitesMan
30 weeks ago

Belfast

Where does it say in the small print that anyone has to meet through fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets

"

Definitely become more about the pretty pics and vids over the last decade. A lot of people are on here purely for the dopamine hit...or to get traction for their other pages.

There are still plenty of exceptions to that in terms of meets but agree with your comment.

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By *sWyldWoman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I disagree. I've met more people recently than I ever have

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
30 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"I disagree. I've met more people recently than I ever have "

I agree. (with your disagree. You're right)

It can still be fruitful to those who know how to pick fruit. Some people may not want their fruit picking and are here to just enjoy wandering through the orchard looking at fruit - and that's fine too OP, don't berate them for it. What I can't fathom is the mentality that there is no fruit in the orchard!

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By *TaR105Man
30 weeks ago

Birkenhead


"I disagree. I've met more people recently than I ever have

I agree. (with your disagree. You're right)

It can still be fruitful to those who know how to pick fruit. Some people may not want their fruit picking and are here to just enjoy wandering through the orchard looking at fruit - and that's fine too OP, don't berate them for it. What I can't fathom is the mentality that there is no fruit in the orchard!"

Im looking to be picked from the tree

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By *en_Dover79Man
30 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle


"I disagree. I've met more people recently than I ever have "

Your inbox will be full in no time now I bet 😉

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
30 weeks ago

newcastle

I come here to chat. It's usually good. Maybe ill meet someone but my choice!! Maybe too pushy and dont handle rejection but I think this is brilliant xxx. Ps more so for us women xxx

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
30 weeks ago

Next Door

I wouldnt say its changed, there are more users, so filtering out what you are wanting takes longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

If I can meet someone on here, then anybody can. I have on past profile.

It's just time and effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I think it’s lost some of v colourful characters almost at once … they seem to have evaporated !

Where’s the wisdom of Granny ?

Mobile bottom , flat caps etc etc

Topics like SDI’s etc and sexual advise and information seem to have dried up too ( Perhaps it’s the penicillin)

I do miss the humour too although the above comment this not funny !

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By *AYENCouple
30 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets

"

It's certainly changed, and doesn't offer many possibilities to meet.

I've just looked at Men Online - from the first 30:

11 of them are Flashers showing off their cocks

2 of them are 'Daddys'

1 of them is a sex addict

1 has already taken two loads today and it's looking for a third (he must be an early riser)

1 wants all his holes used and abused by a hung 'straight' man in gym gear.

4 have their cocks buried in women

5 are silhouette profiles

1 is on his knees ready to suck someone dry.

4 are black, tall, big, tattooed and/or bearded - attributes that are perhaps attractive to some, but not enough in themselves to get my wife's fanny fluttering.

We would love to meet, but none of the above works for us. Perhaps your criticism of the 'pervs that don't meet' is misdirected . . . .

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By *sm265Woman
30 weeks ago

Perthshire

Hmm, pretty sure there has always been an abundance of pervs on here, certainly encountered plenty over the years.

Ive not really noticed a dramatic reduction in the number of people wanting to meet. The quality of the opportunities can be a bit questionable though.

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By *luebell888Woman
30 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets

"

Just look at profiles and you will find hundreds of people meet on fab. Are you just moaning cos nobody is meeting you?.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
30 weeks ago

Durham

We do ok for meeting people. Maybe look at your method of meeting people if you feel you're not having much interaction.

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By *ENW coupleCouple
30 weeks ago

west lancs

Can’t comment on it changing as we haven’t been on here that long. But it works just fine for what we want.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
30 weeks ago

Tamworth


"I wouldnt say its changed, there are more users, so filtering out what you are wanting takes longer.

"

I think this is spot on. More people overall means more people just wanting pics, more people just wanting to chat and more people looking to meet.

Loving the new name by the way.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
30 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets

"

And when did you stop meeting and decide to scroll n perve the pics n vids instead ?

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By *ife NinjaMan
30 weeks ago

Dunfermline

It was certainly easier to meet up, but my age probably doesn't help now 🤓🥷

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By *each needs some creamWoman
30 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I have to arrange with you op.

And I know from taking to others they feel the same. The number of people especially couples that meet for swinging is rapidly going down.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been here since 2018, and people have been saying this consistently since at least then.

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By *aitonelMan
30 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs"

I mean... It always has been. That description never has changed.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets

"

Guilty. 😁🌈

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

Central


"I swear fab is now just full of pervs that just scroll and look at pics/vids.

And don’t do meets

"

Of course they meet. But your own mutual compatibly can change over time, with who's around. You may be wanted more or less. Did you go from dad bod to buff charmer, as the direction of interest was for younger men with extra pounds, etc? Have you kept your profile up to date?

How much effort have you invested in getting to know the people who want exactly what you are?

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By *hades Of GreyMan
30 weeks ago

Leeds

I've had meets from Fab and enjoyed them all. These days I use Fab to see what's going on in the local clubs and saunas and find it very useful.

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By *etwife8230Couple
30 weeks ago

Newport

Guilty at scrolling ,perving but then thats how I find my next victim 🤣

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Guilty at scrolling ,perving but then thats how I find my next victim 🤣"

Yup same

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

O o O oo


"It has changed....

Only fans "actress's looking for customers....

"Professionals" selling services...

"

Report this please

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

O o O oo


"I've been here since 2018, and people have been saying this consistently since at least then."

Yup

Been seeing it since 2008 or so

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By *urry BlokeMan
30 weeks ago

It has changed

Then again, so have I

I guess that makes us equal

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