FabSwingers.com forum: Affair.....

By *eenALongTime..... OP Man
47 weeks ago

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Have you had one, do you want one, do you want your other half to have one??

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By *irthyAsianMan
47 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"Have you had one, do you want one, do you want your other half to have one??"

Wanting to find a woman who’s wants a discreet affair, prefer married and in similar situation but they seem to be rare on here

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By *KS88Man
47 weeks ago

Lancaster

Few wives recently 🤫

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By *eenALongTime..... OP Man
47 weeks ago

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Or is it an affair if you're allowed to play??

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By *sWyldWoman
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes I have.

Wouldn't recommend

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Or is it an affair if you're allowed to play??"
good point, and to tell your partner everything

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
47 weeks ago

Next Door

Affairs cause lots of pain for the innocent party.

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By *unguy2429Man
47 weeks ago

worthing

Had a few married woman. And loved every moment

What a great thrill they have keeping a great secret

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By *luebell888Woman
47 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Can't think of anything worse than being someone's bit on the side.

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By *nnandElleCouple
47 weeks ago

Piran Meadows

We're not looking for affairs, but a couple of semi-regular fuckbuddies for Elle would be ideal.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
47 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

No I haven't, I have been on the receiving end of my then husband having one though. The one who didn't want to swing ffs, he is my ex now obviously.

So I would say it's pretty hurtful to the ones who have no idea.

So I wouldn't engage with one knowingly.

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By *carlettsWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Can't think of anything worse than being someone's bit on the side."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

No, no and not an issue.

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By *evious daveMan
47 weeks ago

cheshire

yes i have,,, not a good idea

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By *issmorganWoman
47 weeks ago

Yorks

No, no & not an affair. He's here too and free to meet others alone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Been with a few Ladies who were married, who's husbands where completely horrible to them !

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By *rankie bricksMan
47 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Hub here interested in/looking for chat about my wife

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By *parkle1974Woman
47 weeks ago

Garden of Eden

Cheating is not swinging!

How anyone can do that to someone they are suppose to love etc is despicable, there are no reasons to cheat...just excuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

No, no and no

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
47 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I have been involved in one, but only because he was so incredibly neglectful of his family that for over a year of being available whenever I asked and going away for nights regularly I had no clue, until his wife showed up screaming on my doorstep.

I certainly don't want one or to be involved in anything of the sort.

I value honesty, and so I don't want to have partners who think that's appropriate behaviour 💜

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple
47 weeks ago

Manchester

Unfortunately I have been involved in this and it caused pain, trauma and a lot of damage.

Affairs and cheating are not swinging.

The key point in swinging is the ethical aspect; ensuring that no one is emotionally or physically harmed by what we do, honesty and openness is the heart of that.

Affairs and cheating is the absolute opposite of that

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By *endall_IronbridgeMan
47 weeks ago

Shropshire

Had one once love one again now no strings just lust

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Yes, no and no.

I was single (and a lot younger!) when I had one with a married chap I’d met in a pub on my first night out after the loss of a family member I thought the world of. I was extremely vulnerable at that time. That is not an excuse, just an explanation.

I thought I was in love with him, but looking back with the eyes of maturity and common sense, I wasn’t. I look back at that time with annoyance. At the time I wasted on him, that I was so foolish as to get involved with a married man to start with, and it made me not like myself for a very long time after I ended it.

For those who believe in karma, a subsequent fella of mine attempted to cheat on me. So I guess I got my comeuppance.

But I would never ever knowingly get involved in a relationship with a married man ever again. It isn’t sexy, thrilling or whatever. It makes you miserable eventually and you start to hate yourself. It’s also a waste of time that you can’t get back, ever.

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By *ife NinjaMan
47 weeks ago

Leeds

No and no 🤓🥷

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By *jm1983Man
47 weeks ago

Ballyclare

Affairs are for cheating scumbags if ur not happy just leave why put sumone ur supposed to love through all that pain

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Unfortunately I have been involved in this and it caused pain, trauma and a lot of damage.

Affairs and cheating are not swinging.

The key point in swinging is the ethical aspect; ensuring that no one is emotionally or physically harmed by what we do, honesty and openness is the heart of that.

Affairs and cheating is the absolute opposite of that"

This front and centre.

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By *m8591Couple (MM)
47 weeks ago

chatham

I had a married woman for 5 years her husband didn’t have a clue I got her to make him wear protection if she had to have sex with him and I always sent her home to him full bruises and used ! But before anyone judged me, that is what she loved remember I was single

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By *urry BlokeMan
47 weeks ago

I've never had one

I wouldn't want one

I can get my head round physical infidelity

Emotional infidelity is a huge line for me

The curtains would be drawn on anyone who crossed it

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By *m8591Couple (MM)
47 weeks ago

chatham

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I've never had one

I wouldn't want one

I can get my head round physical infidelity

Emotional infidelity is a huge line for me

The curtains would be drawn on anyone who crossed it

This

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
47 weeks ago

Midlands

No, no and no.

Katie

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By *idethestormMan
47 weeks ago

northants

Nope never been unfaithful never intend to be either, the ex did play with other guys but only as a threesome and with full knowledge. Wouldn't want to be involved with someone that was in a relationship either,unless again it was part of a known fully aware thing for fun

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By *2thomMan
47 weeks ago

Prefer Hotwives where the man isnt present rather than affairs. I guess if discretion is maintained then it’s workable.

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By *eenALongTime..... OP Man
47 weeks ago

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Great comments so far!

I do find that some people here are turned on my the thought of their partner playing away.

I never have and never could- the guilt would break me.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
47 weeks ago

Niche

No, no and no.

If the main partner is aware and part of the decision, if they encourage it? Well that's swinging isn't it, not cheating.

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By *carlettsWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Hub here interested in/looking for chat about my wife "

What's wrong with your wife, does she know your chatting about her?

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By *007ManMan
47 weeks ago

Worthing

No to all.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester

"Have you had one, do you want one, do you want your other half to have one??"

In every relationship I've ever been in, I've had an affair, this marriage is the result of an affair

We've been together 24yrs and I've been faithful and he's given me his consent to have an extra man in my life

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