FabSwingers.com forum: Niebour

By *ud3253 OP Man
30 weeks ago

alloa

My neighbours daughter was messaging me on here then blanked me. I messaged her on fb said I had a hard on for her. Her dad saw message confronted me now we don’t speech how do I sort this without telling him about his daughters secret. I’m now all that’s bad. Help.

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't keep pursuing this.

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By *ellinever70Woman
30 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Get some sleep

Things will look better in the cold light of day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

You shouldn't have messaged on Facebook.

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By *outhLondonSmileMan
30 weeks ago

London

You stop. End of.

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By *mantofuckMan
30 weeks ago

durham

Step away from the situation and dont go back!

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
30 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

How old's the daughter!?!

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By * byattMan
30 weeks ago

belfast

Deleted everything and move on

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By *uddlyguy2025Man
30 weeks ago

Dumfries

Delete and block

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By *oeBeansMan
30 weeks ago

Derby

Should've taken the hint when she blanked you on here rather than double down on a site not designed for your sexual fantasies.

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By *ou only live onceMan
30 weeks ago

London

You'd better move house.

Failing that, say and do nothing more.

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By *vaRoseWoman
30 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

So you engaged with a member here and then when they changed their mind you decided to message them explicit messages on another social media app? Is that right?

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
30 weeks ago

Willenhall

Neighbours, everybody needs good neighbours...

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By *andadbodMan
30 weeks ago

Liverpool

low morals pal and zero thought for anyone else 😳

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
30 weeks ago

someplace

Oh jesus 😳

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Op, you made a mistake, Accept and learn from it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

The old saying...

No means no

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By *abido83Man
30 weeks ago

Chester

Your in for a penny in for a pound now..go full hog..write your undying love for her on the pavement outside her house, hire an aeroplane and get a banner made. I can't see it failing!

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By *athomMan
30 weeks ago

South Coast

"Your in for a penny in for a pound now..go full hog..write your undying love for her on the pavement outside her house, hire an aeroplane and get a banner made. I can't see it failing! "

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *im le2Man
30 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

"My neighbours daughter was messaging me on here then blanked me. I messaged her on fb said I had a hard on for her. Her dad saw message confronted me now we don’t speech how do I sort this without telling him about his daughters secret. I’m now all that’s bad. Help. "

Seriously what did you expect.

More fool you for messaging once she blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Someone's been watching too much porn and got an active imagination methinks...

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By *carlettsWoman
30 weeks ago

Harpenden

Move on, why would you make things worse by telling the dad his daughters on here. Just sounds like nasty revenge and won't end well.

Accept you cocked up ( no pun intended)

and move on. I am wondering how old she is tho if her dad is checking her fb account!?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Mate, the fact that you are asking for guidance here is a bad sign.

You need to walk away and don't persue this.

No good will come of telling him his daughter is on a sex site, and could land you in even more hot water.

You missed so many signs, you need Specsavers.

Neighbour, daughter, blanked should have been sufficient.

Choose your next step wisely.

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

You messaged someone on another platform about fab without there permission because they blanked you , you deserve everything you get , it’s as bad as them people that say something to people off here when they meet in the street , it’s almost stalking

What’s on fab stays on fab ONLY

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"You messaged someone on another platform about fab without there permission because they blanked you , you deserve everything you get , it’s as bad as them people that say something to people off here when they meet in the street , it’s almost stalking

What’s on fab stays on fab ONLY"
100%

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds

Anyone else smell that ?

The mr

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By *WANDTGCouple
30 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Is this for real or a pilot for Jeremy Kyle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Anyone else smell that ?

The mr "

Yup. But it's got the profile views and interactions so job done I guess.

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By *ud3253 OP Man
30 weeks ago

alloa

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By *ud3253 OP Man
30 weeks ago

alloa

This is not a girl she is a mother and 42 year old woman. And after first time she then comes back messaging again with same sex talk. And now she’s back again dosing the same thing. I’m not going there thanks for all the advise from people.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Why the fuck is a 60+ year old man reading his 40+ daughters Facebook messages?

Anyway. Leave well alone OP.

And next time someone blanks you on here, do _not_ contact them via any other means they haven't expressly said that you can contact them on 💜

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By *ife NinjaMan
30 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Why the fuck is a 60+ year old man reading his 40+ daughters Facebook messages?

Anyway. Leave well alone OP.

And next time someone blanks you on here, do _not_ contact them via any other means they haven't expressly said that you can contact them on 💜"

Facebook stalking is not cool 😕🤓🥷

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
30 weeks ago

Telford

Facebook message wasn't a good idea, leave it well alone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Why the fuck is a 60+ year old man reading his 40+ daughters Facebook messages?

Anyway. Leave well alone OP.

And next time someone blanks you on here, do _not_ contact them via any other means they haven't expressly said that you can contact them on 💜"

I thought the same then wondered if it was posted on her public page.

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By *carlettsWoman
30 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Why the fuck is a 60+ year old man reading his 40+ daughters Facebook messages?

Anyway. Leave well alone OP.

And next time someone blanks you on here, do _not_ contact them via any other means they haven't expressly said that you can contact them on 💜

I thought the same then wondered if it was posted on her public page.

Even worse if that's the case

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Why the fuck is a 60+ year old man reading his 40+ daughters Facebook messages?

Anyway. Leave well alone OP.

And next time someone blanks you on here, do _not_ contact them via any other means they haven't expressly said that you can contact them on 💜

I thought the same then wondered if it was posted on her public page.

You know, I had the same thought, but didn't want to jump to conclusions.

OP, either was a terrible choice, but one is infinitely worse 💜

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Why the fuck is a 60+ year old man reading his 40+ daughters Facebook messages?

Anyway. Leave well alone OP.

And next time someone blanks you on here, do _not_ contact them via any other means they haven't expressly said that you can contact them on 💜

I thought the same then wondered if it was posted on her public page.

You know, I had the same thought, but didn't want to jump to conclusions.

OP, either was a terrible choice, but one is infinitely worse 💜"

I didn't want v to jump to conclusions either.

Tangentially I have a friend whose father believes it's acceptable to look at her private correspondence including opening sealed mail from her bank. She's 59

I've also known people who will stir up drama for the sake of it and when it seems to be dying down throw another firework in the mix

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
30 weeks ago

Coventry

It boils my piss when people can't respect the boundaries of the swinger world and drag this world into peoples vanilla world without consent. It bang out of order. Personally if I were her dad I wouldn't care she's on here but I'd be absolutely fuming a man is not respecting her privacy or her sense of safety and being inappropriate on vanilla social media to her.

There no fixing it, listen to what she is telling you by her silence and stop harassing her. If someone has stopped engaging with you it's because they no longer want to and that is totally OK to change your mind. It may be something you said, it maybe a simple as they got a little carried away (as folk do) but in reality not for them. Anyway the reason why don't matter what matters is they don't want to. I know you must have been over the moon thinking you're going to get your end away with some young lady. I get how disappointing it must be. But accept the fact its not happening because it ain't. Stop thinking with your dick and prioritise the feeling of this lady. Just leave her well alone now. Simple as.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
30 weeks ago

Coventry

"This is not a girl she is a mother and 42 year old woman. And after first time she then comes back messaging again with same sex talk. And now she’s back again dosing the same thing. I’m not going there thanks for all the advise from people. "

And if she does keep running hot and cold with you on here then don't stand for that mess around. She could be bored or just a bit of a fucker. All indication are its not going to happen in reality. So have some sense, stop thinking with all the will in the world with your dick. Simply block her on here and stop contacting her via other ways. If I'm wrong and she's actually totally gagging for it I'm sure she come to you. If she don't you have your answer.

And again totally not cool dragging this world into peoples vanilla world without consent.

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By *issmorganWoman
30 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You need to leave it op.

You over stepped the mark sending that type of message on FB in my opinion.

We don't know why she blanked you, but take the hint.

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