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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago

Why are people, men and women, so interested in the tightness of a someone’s vag when it comes to sex?

I’ve had women ask me if they’re tight? Like… why?

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a thing we're told is desirable?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Chichester


"Why are people, men and women, so interested in the tightness of a someone’s vag when it comes to sex?

I’ve had women ask me if they’re tight? Like… why? "

Just say yes if asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"It's a thing we're told is desirable?"

Is that why men are obsessed with the size of their cocks? I dunno I think we all agree that’s annoying too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Why are people, men and women, so interested in the tightness of a someone’s vag when it comes to sex?

I’ve had women ask me if they’re tight? Like… why?

Just say yes if asked "

😭

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Because women are conditioned to believe a pissy that isn't tight enough is worthless, like men thinking only bigger is better when it comes to penis size and being less than 10 inches means they're not a real man.

Realistically, most women are happiest with an average penis. A pussy that genuinely wants you inside it will be more lubricated and more relaxed and so feel less tight.

It is what it is. No amount of logic or knowledge will change something that's been hammered into someone for years. Just try not to add to their worries about it 💜

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Because women are conditioned to believe a pissy that isn't tight enough is worthless, like men thinking only bigger is better when it comes to penis size and being less than 10 inches means they're not a real man.

Realistically, most women are happiest with an average penis. A pussy that genuinely wants you inside it will be more lubricated and more relaxed and so feel less tight.

It is what it is. No amount of logic or knowledge will change something that's been hammered into someone for years. Just try not to add to their worries about it 💜"

TLDR

should I tell her she’s got a tight one or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Its not something im bothered about, only time its been brought up is when some fems explain they are and why they dont want big cocks and prefer avg size.

My ex wife felt she lost her tightness after giving birth to our first son who was 10lb 8oz

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
48 weeks ago

edinburgh

I’m on the opposite end as I prefer a huge slack pussy as it feels much better

Love that feeling as your cock falls in

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By *oelMan
48 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

I think because some men say they prefer it, it is desired by some men. Personally I find it annoying, too tight a pussy makes it uncomfortable for the woman after a period of time. Yeah things loosen up, but I want to enjoy myself.

It's Better wet, and juicy

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By *unguy2429Man
48 weeks ago

worthing

I like a pussy that gets excited

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By *og and MuseCouple
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I can’t say I’ve ever given it thought.

It’s another one of those things gleaned from porn right?

So you tell her she’s tight? I she’s asked the question, give answer.

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By *cLovin2Man
48 weeks ago

London

I've had both tight and very loose, tight is better for me. It's because a tight vagina hits many more of the sensitive parts of the penis during penetration. It feels better, more exciting.

That's not to say a loose one is no good. On the contrary, I saw a lady with a very loose one for over 6 months. It just took a bit of extra work for me to enjoy myself that's all. It can happen after women have had kids.

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By *WB85Man
48 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Is there a scale of measuring tightness? Lol.

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By *og and MuseCouple
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Because women are conditioned to believe a pissy that isn't tight enough is worthless, like men thinking only bigger is better when it comes to penis size and being less than 10 inches means they're not a real man.

Realistically, most women are happiest with an average penis. A pussy that genuinely wants you inside it will be more lubricated and more relaxed and so feel less tight.

It is what it is. No amount of logic or knowledge will change something that's been hammered into someone for years. Just try not to add to their worries about it 💜"

You are right but maybe it’s another example of gender inequality; vag tightness /looseness isn’t looked on as conversation worthy ir even tasteful talk on here but there’s millions of posts about cock size and the women often join in all those.

Or maybe women are just less obsessed with their vaginal characteristics, or a bit embarrassed to discuss ? but then they often make threads about tits.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
48 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s not something I’ve ever even thought about let alone ask someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

For me any pussy is good pussy as been a while since had any. I do enjoy going down on a lassie as enjoy making them cum

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"Is there a scale of measuring tightness? Lol.

"

Maybe a variation of Fahrenheit ?

Fannytight

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By *WB85Man
48 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Is there a scale of measuring tightness? Lol.

Maybe a variation of Fahrenheit ?

Fannytight"

I like it!!

If the thermometer drops....Theres a serious issue lol.

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By *ambertMan
48 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Ultimately I don't think it matters

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"

My ex wife felt she lost her tightness after giving birth to our first son who was 10lb 8oz "

The largest part of a baby to delivery vaginally is its head and if full term they don't vary greatly in size

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By *estructionDollyWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester

We are constantly told a woman's worth is measured on her ability to please men. Tight is better right? That's why men valorise virgins so much? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

If it's too tight you ain't doing it right......

We do know it widens with arousal right?

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

48 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If it's too tight you ain't doing it right......

We do know it widens with arousal right?

Mrs "

If they haven't worked that out maybe they haven't experienced it.

Reminds me of the old 'Alas Smith and Jones' sketch.

One of them was imitating the noises a woman having an orgasm makes.

The other shakes his head

and says

"Nah mate, I've been married 15 years and I've never heard anything like that"

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By *morousCouple8Couple
48 weeks ago

Cumbria

Just say yes. I wouldn’t want to hear no if I asked that.

I think penis size is more only discussed because you can physically measure and see. Vag tightness is subjective surely.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
48 weeks ago

Cumbria

Only = openly

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

But just say yes....

Mrs

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By *agic.MMan
48 weeks ago

Kent/London


"Just say yes. I wouldn’t want to hear no if I asked that.

I think penis size is more only discussed because you can physically measure and see. Vag tightness is subjective surely. "

Why ask in the first place 😅...there's always the chance some guy might not thing it's "tight" enough...you'd be forcing them to be dishonest 👀

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

I find that popping two or three tampons in first makes mine a nice tight fit for a penis

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By *ing8435Man
48 weeks ago

Pershore

I don't think it has anything to do with tightness. it's more about wetness.

an ex was what I would deem average. but when she was wet, she was over wet, and simply couldn't feel anything to friction against.

tightness is a stupid question.🤣🤣

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By *enny100Man
48 weeks ago

City

Was chatting to a lady in early twenties recently and she kept saying you’d love my tight pussy.. it actually made me uncomfortable as I thought she was saying it because I was older and it felt wrong to go with it …

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds


" simply couldn't feel anything to friction against.

"

Was it you or her that couldn't feel anything ?

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By *og and MuseCouple
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I guess it makes absolutely no difference same as girth . No woman ever liked a girthy cock , they much prefer a pencil dick ✏️

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


" simply couldn't feel anything to friction against.

Was it you or her that couldn't feel anything ?"

🤣🤣🤣

Waterboarding couldn't get "I couldn't feel anything" out of me

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By *og and MuseCouple
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"If it's too tight you ain't doing it right......

We do know it widens with arousal right?

Mrs "

You do know people have very different anatomies! And it takes two people to make sex tight or loose.

Such a stupid debate when all the guys predictably pretend to prefer bucket fannies because they are so sex starved

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

48 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I find that popping two or three tampons in first makes mine a nice tight fit for a penis "

, .

If you use an applicator leave that on for extra sensation

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
48 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Because women are conditioned to believe a pissy that isn't tight enough is worthless, like men thinking only bigger is better when it comes to penis size and being less than 10 inches means they're not a real man.

Realistically, most women are happiest with an average penis. A pussy that genuinely wants you inside it will be more lubricated and more relaxed and so feel less tight.

It is what it is. No amount of logic or knowledge will change something that's been hammered into someone for years. Just try not to add to their worries about it 💜"

Excellent response. Well said.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

The first time I had sex my pussy was so tight it cut off the blood flow to my boyfriend's penis. I then had to rub his cock vigorously for hours until he assured me the circulation was back as it had finally stopped producing the intermittent spurts of white slimy 'dead blood cells' that had kept coming out every five or ten minutes

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By *morousCouple8Couple
48 weeks ago

Cumbria


"Just say yes. I wouldn’t want to hear no if I asked that.

I think penis size is more only discussed because you can physically measure and see. Vag tightness is subjective surely.

Why ask in the first place 😅...there's always the chance some guy might not thing it's "tight" enough...you'd be forcing them to be dishonest 👀"

Oh I’m not recommending asking either. 🤣🤣

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By *ad NannaWoman
48 weeks ago

East London

It's supposed to be for the men to get more pleasure.

For some it is important as they talk about it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
48 weeks ago

East London

Vaginas have muscles that you can squeeze. With a penis inside them, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"It's supposed to be for the men to get more pleasure.

For some it is important as they talk about it.

"

Ain’t shit pleasurable to me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"If it's too tight you ain't doing it right......

We do know it widens with arousal right?

Mrs

You do know people have very different anatomies! And it takes two people to make sex tight or loose.

Such a stupid debate when all the guys predictably pretend to prefer bucket fannies because they are so sex starved "

Guys would pretend to like anything because they're sex starved.....

Mrs

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By *valanche1001Man
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"Why are people, men and women, so interested in the tightness of a someone’s vag when it comes to sex?

I’ve had women ask me if they’re tight? Like… why?

Just say yes if asked "

Exactly! It’s like being asked ‘does

My bum look big in this?’

Although that said, I’m not sure what the response is supposed to be these days

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By *he Silver FuxMan
48 weeks ago

Utero

Gents.

If you say anything other than ‘I love your pussy, it’s perfect’

You’re an idiot and deserve to be alone

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By *he Silver FuxMan
48 weeks ago

Utero


"Vaginas have muscles that you can squeeze. With a penis inside them, too."

When they pull that cute face, wrinkling their noses, straining and doin the kegels 😻

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I’d say 90% of women on this site mention that they want minimum 8 inches 😂

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By *eroLondonMan
48 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I’ve had women ask me if they’re tight? Like… why? "

I suspect these particular women refuse to go 'dutch', let alone foot the bill. Confound these pesky creatures!

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By *he Silver FuxMan
48 weeks ago

Utero


"I’d say 90% of women on this site mention that they want minimum 8 inches 😂"

98% of statistics quoted on Fab are the result of male insecurity, paranoia and bias

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"I’d say 90% of women on this site mention that they want minimum 8 inches 😂"

I'd say they don't.....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"I’d say 90% of women on this site mention that they want minimum 8 inches 😂

98% of statistics quoted on Fab are the result of male insecurity, paranoia and bias"

Now this is a statistic I'll agree with 😂

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I’d say 90% of women on this site mention that they want minimum 8 inches 😂

98% of statistics quoted on Fab are the result of male insecurity, paranoia and bias"

Ooh. A made up statistic I can get behind 💜

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I mean I'd think that if a lady's vagina is loose it wouldn't feel good or you wouldn't feel anything so wanting someone tight is better no? Unless someone enjoys slack vaginas that could be a thing I guess🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Same reason women like a bigger cock

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
48 weeks ago

South Wales

It's kind of like dirty talk isn't it? 'oooh your pussy is so tight, your cock is so big' etc etc

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
48 weeks ago

South Wales

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By *enny100Man
48 weeks ago

City


"It's kind of like dirty talk isn't it? 'oooh your pussy is so tight, your cock is so big' etc etc"

Think you hit the nail on the head so to speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Same reason women like a bigger cock "

Which is? 📝

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Same reason women like a bigger cock

Which is? 📝 "

Some women like their cervix bashed some like to feel full or stretched

There's no set answer really

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Why are people, men and women, so interested in the tightness of a someone’s vag when it comes to sex?

I’ve had women ask me if they’re tight? Like… why? "

We like to know if he has enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Why are people, men and women, so interested in the tightness of a someone’s vag when it comes to sex?

I’ve had women ask me if they’re tight? Like… why?

We like to know if he has enjoyed it "

📝📝

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By *aldybobMan
48 weeks ago

northeast

Something that doesn’t really bother me if tight or loose same as being shaved and unshaved

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By *ornucopiaMan
48 weeks ago

Bexley


"Is there a scale of measuring tightness? Lol.

"

The Tichter Scale.

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By *ornucopiaMan
48 weeks ago

Bexley


"I guess it makes absolutely no difference same as girth . No woman ever liked a girthy cock , they much prefer a pencil dick ✏️"

Oh,come on now. Couldn't you find an emoji to illustrate girth? !!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"Is there a scale of measuring tightness? Lol.

The Tichter Scale."

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By *ornucopiaMan
48 weeks ago

Bexley


"Is there a scale of measuring tightness? Lol.

The Tichter Scale.

"

Adds new meaning to "Did the earth move for you?"

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