FabSwingers.com forum: Turn offs

By *neformany95 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Loughborough

So what your biggest turn off

For me its feet...

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By *naswingdressWoman
38 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

People constantly puffing themselves up. The cherry on the turd sundae is when they also screech about virtue signalling

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
38 weeks ago

Scotland

Anyone referring to themselves as “daddy” in a sexual relationship 🤢

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Gaping arseholes/vaginas

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By *emonochromeMan
38 weeks ago

peterborough

Anything gaping, reform voters, cigarette breath…

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By *rown.studMan
38 weeks ago

Eccles

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas"

This and bad smell

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Funny cos that used to the case for me but D has the first feet I’ve found nice. I pay for her pedicures of course

I wouldn’t go as far as cumming on her feet but I have nibbled her toe while boning her deep.

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

Lack of transparency.

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By *anderingArtistMan
38 weeks ago

an abstract world

1) Not being able to string a sentence together/have a conversation - I need a mental connection as well as a physical one.

2)Poor hygiene.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
38 weeks ago

Manchester

No personality/unable to hold a decent conversation

Bad hygiene/teeth

Men who think because they've made one woman cum they've cracked a secret code and know exactly what to do, won't accept feedback or communication about what you actually like.

People who start using honourifics in opening messages

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By *anus7Man
38 weeks ago

Chester

"So what your biggest turn off

For me its feet..."

I'm ashamed of my feet - discoloured nails,flaky skin underneath, dry cracked heels..and this,despite having a daily foot care regime..

Methinks I need to get to the chiropodist?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Chichester

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas"

Myra but that’s just part of territory when you get bummed

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
38 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

No sense of humour

Calling me hun or babe

Jaffa cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas

Myra but that’s just part of territory when you get bummed

Its not gaping when its filled 🤣😈

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By *ustitutesMan
38 weeks ago

blackpool

Nothing worse. Huge Ick

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Talking about themselves or making a conversation about themselves 🙄

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By *ilverfox for youMan
38 weeks ago

Hull

When someone calls you mate or buddy on first message !!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Chichester

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas

Myra but that’s just part of territory when you get bummed

Its not gaping when its filled 🤣😈"

It’s the pull out stroke my lovely

. When you bum me eventually. Just thinking it like I am winking at you from the old brown eye. It’s like my psychic eye

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
38 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

Gaping anything ha.

Bad hygiene.

Inconsiderate.

Arrogant.

Rude.

Pushy.

Lack of conversational skills.

There are many things that turn me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas

Myra but that’s just part of territory when you get bummed

Its not gaping when its filled 🤣😈

It’s the pull out stroke my lovely

. When you bum me eventually. Just thinking it like I am winking at you from the old brown eye. It’s like my psychic eye

Id put the blindfold on for the pullout sorry you have a gorgeous bottom but not even for you will i stare the gape in the eye 😈

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Anyone calling me “daddy”

Anyone who messages with “hi”, or “hi mate/ buddy”. We don’t know each other, so learn how to start a conversation. Also, when you message someone, say more than just “hi”. Try putting in some effort.

Bad smells, blue hair, bad personality. The list grows ever longer.

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By *ambertMan
38 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"daddy" makes me gag.

Eating in bed.

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By *luebell888Woman
38 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Men in womens underwear. Sorry, but not for me.x

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
38 weeks ago

Niche

Humiliation play or slut shaming dirty talk during sex.

Too agressive a vibe and too close to all the Tate talk and misogynistic attitudes.

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By *ister1Man
38 weeks ago

north west

There are some good replies here

Which I can agree with x

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Food stuck in teeth

Bad breath

Dirty bums

Toe jam

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By *r SensualMan
38 weeks ago

London

-Race play or race fetishisation

-Narcissism

-Demonstrating a superior complex

-Entitlement

- Attention and validation seeking

- purposely playing “hard to get”

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By *ottsladredMan
38 weeks ago

Hucknall

Arrogance, non-conversational, self centred, 2 faced, judgmental (politeness and humility are so underrated and becoming such a rarity in modern society)

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire

We met a couple a while ago. Their photos were, at a guess, about 15 years younger than they were in the flesh.

Huge turn off. Why do people think its acceptable to behave like that?

We're not super models & we aren't looking for perfection. We actually prefer real, but come on, honesty in photos is the most basic thing, surely?

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Bad teeth

Nasty attitudes.

Entitlement

Toesnails that look like quavers.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
38 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

"We met a couple a while ago. Their photos were, at a guess, about 15 years younger than they were in the flesh.

Huge turn off. Why do people think its acceptable to behave like that?

We're not super models & we aren't looking for perfection. We actually prefer real, but come on, honesty in photos is the most basic thing, surely?"

It's very bizarre to me, I suppose they're hoping people won't care ha I am unsure. If you're meeting people surely you need to he honest about such a basic thing like photos. I've had it happen too and it's incredibly disappointing. If they can't be honest about what they look like then what else are they lieing about. Attraction is important.

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By *valanche1001Man
38 weeks ago

Leeds

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas"

⬆️ this!

🤢

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By *lderLover69Man
38 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Bad breath...

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
38 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Feet. Especially when they smell 🤢

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By *CExeCouple
38 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Politics. I don't care which side of the aisle you sit, keep it in the politics thread and stop boring the rest of us with your virtue signalling bigotry. A real turn off.

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By *arc PolarisMan
38 weeks ago

Birmingham

In the first instance inconsistent communication

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas

⬆️ this!

🤢"

Agree and the word 'Daddy'... just why 🤣

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Chichester

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas

Myra but that’s just part of territory when you get bummed

Its not gaping when its filled 🤣😈

It’s the pull out stroke my lovely

. When you bum me eventually. Just thinking it like I am winking at you from the old brown eye. It’s like my psychic eye

Id put the blindfold on for the pullout sorry you have a gorgeous bottom but not even for you will i stare the gape in the eye 😈"

Oh you kinky kungfu master going at blind. Tbh if you stroke your chin and laugh at same time I’ll melt

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

Guys who speal a load of crap about what they want to do sexually to you via inbox when they haven't even seen your face nor bothered to ask what you like, or said hello for that matter.

Also

Gaping arseholes, Gaping Vagina, cock pics.

Mrs

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Chichester

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas

⬆️ this!

🤢

Agree and the word 'Daddy'... just why 🤣"

I get called daddy alot by women in sex

I find it quite odd they call me that

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By *imi_RougeWoman
38 weeks ago

Hampshire

Self proclaimed alpha/dominant men.

People who turn up for even just a social without having made the slightest effort with their appearance.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
38 weeks ago

Utero

ABB UniGear ZS1 VCBs are a big turn-off…

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Any illegal or 'grey area' kinks - raceplay, ageplay, cnc, etc. Anything that could be harmful either physically or psychologically to someone, and which tries to justify horrible behaviour

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
38 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Being too keen or pushy!

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By *nglishGent47Man
38 weeks ago

Leicester

Bad hygiene no effort

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
38 weeks ago

Reading

Disinterest

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Round the bend

Dishonesty

Gaping bumholes

Jizz pics

Bad hygiene

Lack of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

People that use the words alpha/sigma 🤢

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By *ace400Man
38 weeks ago

near knock

"Dishonesty

Gaping bumholes

Jizz pics

Bad hygiene

Lack of humour "

All of the above also

Thinking they are better than others.

I know we can’t turn everyone on but showing respect to the people we don’t fancy as being rejected is not good all the time. xx

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By *arriedfun69Man
38 weeks ago

Bedford

Poor hygiene

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By *eandthebossCouple
38 weeks ago

Walsall

"Gaping arseholes/vaginas"
absolutely 💯

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
38 weeks ago

belfast

Blonde hair

Pumped up lips

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
38 weeks ago

Didcot

" Politics. I don't care which side of the aisle you sit, keep it in the politics thread and stop boring the rest of us with your virtue signalling bigotry. A real turn off.

Absolutely agree we get enough of it on TV and the mainstream social media sites.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
38 weeks ago

Scotland

First messages that lead with phrases like “I’m going to ruin your pussy” “Hey slut I want to fill all your holes” 🤢

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

Drawn on eyebrows.

The mr

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

Central

"So what your biggest turn off

For me its feet...

I'm ashamed of my feet - discoloured nails,flaky skin underneath, dry cracked heels..and this,despite having a daily foot care regime..

Methinks I need to get to the chiropodist? "

There are some foot exfoliation treatments that may help - typically, you enclose each foot with it, for an hour or so and the feet discard the outer parts, over a week or so.

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By *pthillMan
38 weeks ago

st shithole

Old hairy men ( like me.

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No but old men in knickers,, just noooooo

And words like

“DADDY” ,, fucking hate that its sick

“Gloryhole” ,, just horrible

“Cum tributes”

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By *ucyLicks51Woman
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

Entitled people

Peoples starfish

Arrogance

Feet 🤢

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By *he AlternativesCouple
38 weeks ago

Swingington

Cum tributes 🤢. Men referring to themselves as bulls. Text speak..

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By *issMeKate2Woman
38 weeks ago

near the river medway

"Anything gaping, reform voters, cigarette breath… "

Marriage quality right there

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Dingleberries on the butt hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

People who can't strong a sintence togever....

Oh shit, that's me

Have a good day all

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By *mily36CWoman
38 weeks ago

Burnley (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Weird shaped willy, or too much foreskin

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By *indy SometimesTV/TS
38 weeks ago

BoxHill

Pictures of willies hanging over toilet bowls 🤢

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
38 weeks ago

Newport

Sending a first message with an incoherent fk boy attitude. " U like it up tha arse?" "Wen u Wana fk?". Just shows lack of effort and personality.

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By *egnMaxCouple
38 weeks ago

East Midlands

Virtue signalling.

Two word grunted messages.

Breadcrumbing.

Lack of humour.

And bizarrely - poor punc;Tua-tion” ang spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Hair loss, bad eye-sight and lack of personality… wait a minute… Doh! 🤦‍♂️😆

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By *007ManMan
38 weeks ago

Worthing

Women who drink too much.

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By *ad NannaWoman
38 weeks ago

East London

No compassion, empathy, integrity.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
38 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

A old dry shite

Calling me babe

Sending dick pics.... come on more of a game if I gotta ask

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By *uriousscouserWoman
38 weeks ago

Wirral

I have a new one, straight in at the top of the list for me.

Last night he was playing music while we were going hard. He had Spotify with ads and I now know that listening to a betterhelp advert while he pulled my hair and called me his dirty slut was confusing as fuck and completely killed the mood.

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By *arahmantonTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Leicester

Besides body odour and bad breath...only one.Tight foreskin.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Poor hygiene & bad manners...!

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By *heelerMan
38 weeks ago

Northants

The tv with the rubbish on it

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By *tannersMan
38 weeks ago

stanley

Arrogance, poor manners, lack of respect

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By *itgingermanMan
38 weeks ago

Rotherham

Walked into a house once and the amount on the floor was that bad I thought it was an assault course

Sorry no hour should be that untidy where you can’t see the carpet

Time to leave 😬🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Unwashed penis🤢

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By *partharmonyCouple
38 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Close-up genital photos. If I want that I'll open a biology text book.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

A d*unk woman

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
38 weeks ago

Niche

"In the first instance inconsistent communication"

This is my most common reason for binning chats. I have a really short attention span in the early stages. I simply cannot be arsed resuscitating enthusiasm.

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By *uri00620Woman
38 weeks ago

Croydon

"Talking about themselves or making a conversation about themselves 🙄"

Oh I think that's a bit like me 😆 I've been in the Sahara of conversations on dates where I'm having to do all the talking. My job often involves this too, there can easily be one way communication so I guess that spills over into everyday life!

I don't like over usage of compliments. It's just awkward, particularly if i don't really know you...or even if I do for that matter. Not keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Small c conservatives. YUCK.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Folk who act all superior on a site that is predominately for casual sex.

“You show your minge?!” *gasp, horror*

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Physical stuff? I’d say bitten fingernails.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Folk who act all superior on a site that is predominately for casual sex.

“You show your minge?!” *gasp, horror*

I wish you showed your minge.

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By *egnMaxCouple
38 weeks ago

East Midlands

"Folk who act all superior on a site that is predominately for casual sex.

“You show your minge?!” *gasp, horror*

I wish you showed your minge. "

That’s blatant Pickles…. And seconded. Max

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By *he Happy ManMan
38 weeks ago

Merseyside

Being called Daddy or being asked to call her baby girl.

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By *ebauchayMan
38 weeks ago

swindon

Excessive drugs or drink.

And poor tea making skills

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Rationed communication and avoidant style

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Arrogance

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By *enda83Man
38 weeks ago

north

Smoking cigars in bed

Using the bog with the door open

Cock bigger than mine

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

When people say one thing in public but then are guilty of the same thing themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"When people say one thing in public but then are guilty of the same thing themselves

Related. People that preach honesty and then lie, thinking that you won't notice that lie unwinding right in front of your eyes.

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By *ike341Man
4 days ago

Crewe

Bunions.

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By *lack King DomMan
4 days ago

London

1.) One way conversations

2.) Empty profile

3.) Ppl being Loud and rude

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By *ilf EnthusiastMan
4 days ago

Highgate

Long reply times

Not getting to the point

Wanting me to play with their husband when it says straight on my profile

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By *etterdays2021Man
4 days ago

PETERBOROUGH

Shallow people

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By (user no longer on site)
4 days ago

Grim forum posts by the same people with grim usernames.

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By *carlettsWoman
4 days ago

Harpenden

Dirty ears, nose hair, bad teeth/breath, body odour, sore looking parts and manky feet. Not too much really

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By *pthillMan
2 days ago

st shithole

Yes ,, feet

And injected duck lips

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By *pthillMan
2 days ago

st shithole

"Grim forum posts by the same people with grim usernames. "

Hahaha

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 days ago

someplace

Stingy men

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 days ago

London

Entitlement. Delusions of grandeur or importance. Arrogance.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 days ago

Herts/Leeds

Hypocrisy.

Bad temper.

Ego.

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 days ago

Leeds

"Entitlement. Delusions of grandeur or importance. Arrogance."

100% this

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By *iver78Man
2 days ago

barton upon humber

"Stingy men"

Greedy women lol

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By *layfullsamMan
2 days ago

Solihull

Drama, high maintenance, thinks the world revolves around them, lack of compassion, no soh, won’t put their ph down in company, rudeness to staff ie waiters

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 days ago

Bristol

"Stingy men

Greedy women lol "

👏

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 days ago

someplace

"Stingy men

Greedy women lol "

Sorry you have no money lol?

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 days ago

someplace

Men that call women gold diggers but they have no gold to dig 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 days ago

Carlisle usually

Wow. You're gonna struggle to find many people without feet OP.

Uh, the list is huge but usually requires context. Not being my people is pretty much it 💜

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Why can be a turn off with one person can be a turn on with another. I don’t really have a list

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