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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

ssshhhhhhhh, don't let funky see this thread..

*tiptoes out of the room*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ssshhhhhhhh, don't let funky see this thread..

*tiptoes out of the room*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, pet hate of mine too. "thinking about leaving the site"

Just do it, nobody cares......

Just a variation on the vague Facebook post to elicit a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im leaving this site hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im leaving this site hahaha

"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im leaving this site hahaha

"
I. Often think about it but don't .when I did leave once I did post a goodbye before I deleted our profile.you do get people talking to you that haven't messaged for ages so it is nice to tie up any loose ends there .i don't have a problem with it,poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with it either.

If it is attention - they stay!

If it is to say goodbye, they leave- or are convinced by friends to have a break.

Most of us come back sooner or later! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all think about... Have done it twice and you come back and realise nothing's changed. However ! I think its a little sad. We all poke fun, but actually its a sad indictment that those people want the attention of relative strangers.

Only you can decide if you want to leave, and yes message a few friends if need be, but announce it to the forums ? No thanks, ill just quitely slip away until the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a problem with it either.

If it is attention - they stay!

If it is to say goodbye, they leave- or are convinced by friends to have a break.

Most of us come back sooner or later! Lol "

Nah that's an urban myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im leaving this site hahaha

Me too "

Me three - a threesome

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?"

I think less people do this than the other tactics used to get attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im leaving this site hahaha

Me too

Me three - a threesome "

Make it a four

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im leaving this site hahaha

Me too

Me three - a threesome "

Me 4, a good time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oooooh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" We all think about... Have done it twice and you come back and realise nothing's changed. However ! I think its a little sad. We all poke fun, but actually its a sad indictment that those people want the attention of relative strangers.

Only you can decide if you want to leave, and yes message a few friends if need be, but announce it to the forums ? No thanks, ill just quitely slip away until the next time. "
I didn't put it in the forums just on my status update an hour before I left .poppyxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?"

My thought are I don't really care. They can do what they like. Leave, come back, leave again inasmuch as they want. They can shout it from the highest hill, even tell the golden daffodils (wonder how many will guess that sing lol) it makes no difference to me whatsoever.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" actually its a sad indictment that those people want the attention of relative strangers.

"

^^^^^This!

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

It's the 1's that say there going then oh our friends have talked us into stopping then a week later friends clear out and again this site is a waste if time So were leaving oh our friends have talked us into staying with all the clear outs and threats they would not have friends to stop them leaving but funny to see on certain profiles all the time ha ha

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

We're leaving this site now......

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im leaving this site hahaha

Me too

Me three - a threesome

Me 4, a good time "

Me 5 , just to keep it alive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a problem with it either.

If it is attention - they stay!

If it is to say goodbye, they leave- or are convinced by friends to have a break.

Most of us come back sooner or later! Lol

Nah that's an urban myth "

See you on the other side!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am never leaving the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh there's always a few on my friends list that do this - along with other crap and ' woe is me' status messages

The women do it because they want more attention and the men do it because they get no attention

I have woken up cynical this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like quite a few of us are here for the long term. It would be interesting to know the longest serving members.

Me, I've no intention of leaving - having too much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been thinking of leaving the forums for a while now. If I did, I would put. post up to say goodbye go the friends I have made on here. I don't see the problem with that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been thinking of leaving the forums for a while now. If I did, I would put. post up to say goodbye go the friends I have made on here. I don't see the problem with that?!"

No problem with that as you're informing people you know, not just making a random statement for the attention of no one in particular.

Then again why are any if us that bothered about what others do on this site as it won't affet us in any way ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been thinking of leaving the forums for a while now. If I did, I would put. post up to say goodbye go the friends I have made on here. I don't see the problem with that?!"

You would need therapy if you left the forums so nah bad idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

announcing leaving the site is ok..nothing against it..

announcing ur leaving the site through shit reasons like

"this site is full of timewasters'"

then the return profile says..

"been here before, we know the score" etc etc

the volley of capitals begins, big bold do's n donts..

and the cycle continues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im leaving this site hahaha

Me too

Me three - a threesome

Me 4, a good time

Me 5 , just to keep it alive x "

Me 6 this is turning into a orgy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't this site have a motto ? Along the lines of live and let live ? Surely we all get irked by something and if all the irksome foibles were alleviated, what would be left to discuss on the forums ?

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By *ustMyselfWoman
over a year ago

At the end of a cracked Rainbow


"I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?

My thought are I don't really care. They can do what they like. Leave, come back, leave again inasmuch as they want. They can shout it from the highest hill, even tell the golden daffodils (wonder how many will guess that sing lol) it makes no difference to me whatsoever. "

Have to agree

Do you have a secret love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"announcing leaving the site is ok..nothing against it..

announcing ur leaving the site through shit reasons like

"this site is full of timewasters'"

then the return profile says..

"been here before, we know the score" etc etc

the volley of capitals begins, big bold do's n donts..

and the cycle continues"

They are tenacious in the face of adversity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shouldn't this site have a motto ? Along the lines of live and let live ? Surely we all get irked by something and if all the irksome foibles were alleviated, what would be left to discuss on the forums ? "

... Fun, free, fabulous!

( the motto)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive said a couple of times thinking of leaving but am one of the guilty ones who doesnt carry it out. Addicted to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funky has been announcing it for years!!!

I don't mind if anyone wants to announce that they are leaving.... It's up to them, and it gives their friends a chance to say goodbye

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I've been thinking of leaving the forums for a while now. If I did, I would put. post up to say goodbye go the friends I have made on here. I don't see the problem with that?!"

I agree it is how it is done which is the key thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed "

.. Ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

.. Ahem "

Well another lady did, but she left too

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I once thought about leaving, but after mistakenly posting a fulsome "Thanks for the amazing, kinky sex everyone" message on my Facebook wall decided I'd better stop as I've now no friends left

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps we could all start announcing AFK too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed "

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name. "

crikey I got worried then thinking you knew who I was in real life ! Ahhh yes I remember you I'm just nobody trawling the forums miss Moody cow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?

My thought are I don't really care. They can do what they like. Leave, come back, leave again inasmuch as they want. They can shout it from the highest hill, even tell the golden daffodils (wonder how many will guess that sing lol) it makes no difference to me whatsoever.

Have to agree

Do you have a secret love "

Calamity Jane. My mums favourite film.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?"

Can't stand it

If your leaving then go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name.

crikey I got worried then thinking you knew who I was in real life ! Ahhh yes I remember you I'm just nobody trawling the forums miss Moody cow. "

I actually cackled!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we are leaving..been saying that for last 2 years tho and still re-new lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name.

crikey I got worried then thinking you knew who I was in real life ! Ahhh yes I remember you I'm just nobody trawling the forums miss Moody cow.

I actually cackled!! "

You have a twisted sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name.

crikey I got worried then thinking you knew who I was in real life ! Ahhh yes I remember you I'm just nobody trawling the forums miss Moody cow. "

Ahhh that's not fair you remembered my old name which I only had to change because of Ryan's Jedi mind tricks , go on tell me yours. Won't tell anyone honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl!!

.. Exit stage left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name.

crikey I got worried then thinking you knew who I was in real life ! Ahhh yes I remember you I'm just nobody trawling the forums miss Moody cow.

Ahhh that's not fair you remembered my old name which I only had to change because of Ryan's Jedi mind tricks , go on tell me yours. Won't tell anyone honest. "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name.

crikey I got worried then thinking you knew who I was in real life ! Ahhh yes I remember you I'm just nobody trawling the forums miss Moody cow.

Ahhh that's not fair you remembered my old name which I only had to change because of Ryan's Jedi mind tricks , go on tell me yours. Won't tell anyone honest.

I know "

Go on go on go on go on go on pweasssssssse

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Perhaps we could all start announcing AFK too "

Never knew he had another brother !

You name dropper you xx

This had been G.C. SOTK! NLT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just bitter and twisted I've left twice and noone noticed

You know when you know you know someone but can't work out why , well I know I know you from here but can't remember your old name.

crikey I got worried then thinking you knew who I was in real life ! Ahhh yes I remember you I'm just nobody trawling the forums miss Moody cow.

Ahhh that's not fair you remembered my old name which I only had to change because of Ryan's Jedi mind tricks , go on tell me yours. Won't tell anyone honest.

I know "

Bloody hell that's it I'm growing a beard and wearing a dress as a disguise, there's no privacy around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me laugh when I see it someone's status. It's usually a relatively new member and Im always tempted to message 'well just go then!'

But then they've got the attention they must crave...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've already left.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....in one way or another don't most people seek some form of attention on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the first people I spoke to on Fab has deleted her profile and come back 3x in the 8 months I have been on here.

Same pics and profile saying if we met before can you verify me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i think you'd all have a hell of a party if i left...

But sometimes i do wonder... if it to say goodbye to friends I don't have an issue... Its the ones who use is as some sort of threat and desperation are the folks who perturb me...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i think you'd all have a hell of a party if i left...

But sometimes i do wonder... if it to say goodbye to friends I don't have an issue... Its the ones who use is as some sort of threat and desperation are the folks who perturb me..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes me laugh when I see it someone's status. It's usually a relatively new member and Im always tempted to message 'well just go then!'

But then they've got the attention they must crave..."

I saw this once and messaged the user.. "go on, i dare you"

.. He left.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

But sometimes i do wonder... if it to say goodbye to friends I don't have an issue... Its the ones who use is as some sort of threat and desperation are the folks who perturb me..."

if people want friends to know...message them....No need to announce it in forums!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?"

Agree with your thoughts on it being about attention seeking. Like the child in the playground "I'm not playing with you anymore" routine.

We have left the site and returned a couple of times, but never felt the need to announce it. I don't think anyone notices or cares so why announce it unless you want someone to beg you to reconsider ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume that some do it to inform their friends, but the cynic in my thinks that some do it for the attention.

I often see them come back too.

Thoughts?"

If they feel its the right thing for them then I have no problem with it. Attention or seeking it well aren't all threads even this one that in some way?

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