FabSwingers.com forum: What do you see in yourself ?

By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

So many comment about what they 'see' in others e.g. single men, couples , women etc...... generally hypercritical.

Never see a comment about what they see in themselves.

So .. Good or Not so Good..... what do you see in yourself ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
40 weeks ago

Leeds

Someone on a thread yesterday says he has an inner monkey.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"Someone on a thread yesterday says he has an inner monkey. "

What do YOU have an 'inner' of Sally ? What do you see when you look in there...

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By *og and MuseCouple
40 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We’re kinda playful and fun , got our shit together mentally which I think helps me others. We take risks, but we also manage them well. We won’t get too attached and boil your pet bunnies.

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By *ife NinjaMan
40 weeks ago

Leeds

Interesting thread.

I like to think I'm a reasonable guy, who's intelligent and fun to be with. I have kids and a grandchild, I'm employed in a senior job, and for that I feel very lucky.

Am I God's gift? No. I feel frequently ugly and that nobody wants to touch me etc. My ex probably did that to me, so I have some confidence issues around personal relationships 🤓🥷

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I see pride. I see power.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I'm both incredibly immature and very responsible, it doesn't go together well.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I see strength, resilience, bit of a damaged soul but a bloody good soul.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

"I see pride. I see power. "

😂😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Someone on a thread yesterday says he has an inner monkey.

What do YOU have an 'inner' of Sally ? What do you see when you look in there..."

I have an inner tummy button.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
40 weeks ago

Ipswich

Damaged Goods

Scrapped ages ago

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I see myself as really hyperactive. Not sure about the rest.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
40 weeks ago

Maidstone

A mess.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

And is what you see in yourself ...... what you think others see in you ?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
40 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

A ‘striver’, if there is such a word, do I always achieve my aims, of course not, but whatever the reason for that, it won’t be for lack of trying.

In fact, now I think of it, people are always saying that I’m very trying

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"Someone on a thread yesterday says he has an inner monkey.

What do YOU have an 'inner' of Sally ? What do you see when you look in there...

I have an inner tummy button.

That's an inny ......... does your inny affect the way you live your daily life and form relationships ?

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
40 weeks ago

Shefford

I see nothing special at all, which i assume is what everyone else sees too

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By *inchwillyMan
40 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

I hate myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I see a bit of an idiot.

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By *og and MuseCouple
40 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"And is what you see in yourself ...... what you think others see in you ?"

Mostly - everybody has an Open Area, Blind Spot, Hidden Area & Unknown Area. People will see the open area & the blindspots. We will see the open area and the hidden area no one sees the unknown area.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"A ‘striver’, if there is such a word, do I always achieve my aims, of course not, but whatever the reason for that, it won’t be for lack of trying.

In fact, now I think of it, people are always saying that I’m very trying

Definitely a word, a common one. Means to endeavour or persist in effort to get something done or self improve ..... e.g. Strife.... a conflict to be conqeured but mostly used for inner conflict these days.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
40 weeks ago

Ipswich

"And is what you see in yourself ...... what you think others see in you ?"

Others see a scruffy exterior try to keep people at arms length my friends that know me and I have helped and still help from time to time see something else

Can’t see it myself but hey ho

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Its taken me a long time but I know I'm a good person . I know in the right company I'm fun, playful and adventurous.

I communicate. I say what I want and what I don't. I'm fussy abome might think I'm too much. I like being that way.

Oh and I've got epic boobs

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
40 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Feels like I’m about to re-write my bio.

I’m a good down to earth bloke, and a damn loyal friend if I see us that way.

I have a great sense of humour( this doesn’t mean I think I’m funny, but I can see the humour in life without wanting everything cancelled Karen!😉)

I see I’m pretty handsome and younger looking and quite fit when around people my age.

I’m good with giving advice and seeing things from other people viewpoints, but I’m terrible at taking good advice. 🙂‍↕️

Ta.

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
40 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I see someone who had/has the potential to be the best version of himself he has nit yet achieved and is sure one day he will. I also see an emptiness there that I don't think will ever be filled.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
40 weeks ago

Niche

I'm self-aware and self-critical.

Probably too self-aware in some ways. I think anyone who has had a challenged life gets to know themselves really well.

It's a double edged sword. I question and push myself really hard. It can make me have unrealistically high expectations of others too. Which isn't necessarily fair to them but I see it as fair to me. Bit of a conflict accepting people as they are, not asking or expecting them to change and yet always a tiny part hoping/wanting for them to meet me where I am.

It's made me resilient. I fall over, same as the next person, but I get back up again.

Always.

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By *outherngent74Man
40 weeks ago

Hampshire

These days, or at my age

I do have self-acceptance of my strengths and weaknesses.

Or though I know I could do better, and I'm way too laid back, I'm comfortable.

So I don't do much self criticising, and just try not to be a Cockwomble.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
40 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Someone on a thread yesterday says he has an inner monkey. "

Was that Robbie Williams?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Someone on a thread yesterday says he has an inner monkey.

What do YOU have an 'inner' of Sally ? What do you see when you look in there...

I have an inner tummy button.

That's an inny ......... does your inny affect the way you live your daily life and form relationships ?

No doybt I compensate for the 'inny' by being extrovert. Where is Freud when you need him? (dead, i know)

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By *unguy2429Man
40 weeks ago

worthing

I see my self living life to max. Life is so short and u never know what’s round the corner.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
40 weeks ago

Hampshire

I've very self aware.

I know my strengths and weaknesses and play to them accordingly.

I love my resilience, and try to give gratitude every day, but I recognise when I'm not coping and dig deep to find and use the tools I've learned over the years.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
40 weeks ago

East Sussex

I see someone who doesn't want to reveal too much of themselves on the www.

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By *utterfly manMan
40 weeks ago

Dorset & Hampshire

As of today

I wouldn’t mind getting so High…

Going into a Deep Sleep and not waking up…

Tomorrow is another better day I hope

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By *estructionDollyWoman
40 weeks ago

Manchester

Introverted, thoughtful, empathetic, hedonistic, hyper-self-critical, humorous, jaded, cynical, broken.

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By *ookie46Woman
40 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Right now someone who over cares, over loves with their heart on their sleeve to their own detriment

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Resilient, creative, self aware.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Great answers........ Lot's of variety too ....

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By *carlettsWoman
40 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Someone on a thread yesterday says he has an inner monkey. "

Bet he spanks it

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By *cottish guy 555Man
40 weeks ago

London

"And is what you see in yourself ...... what you think others see in you ?"

Absolutely not. Others see the best. I'm never convinced they're correct.

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By *carlettsWoman
40 weeks ago

Harpenden

Cheeky for sure, but loyal, true to myself. What you see is what you get and if a dear friend needs me I'm there

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