FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the ladies. What small things men do that turn you on instantly?

By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

We’ve heard what the men want. But what do women want?

Other than the obvious smiles and hand holding. I love it when a man holds my face when we kiss, or pulls me closer than I thought possible.

Tell us all what gets you turned on and minds racing?

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Pulls up chair; arranges popcorn 🍿 🤓

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By *igBeardyDanMan
41 weeks ago

Bilston

📝📝📝📝✅️

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
41 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I thought someone was talking about me in the forum. 😁

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Knows that I don’t love compliments about my appearance and instead tells me how funny I am, or likes how my brain works

Makes me laugh

Treats my dog well or is kind to other people

Looks at me like I’m his birthday and Christmas presents all rolled into one

Doesn’t just tell me I’m a priority but shows me

Pulls me in for a hug when I need one

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By *aizyWoman
41 weeks ago

west midlands

The washing up.

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me "

En route 😘🥷🤓

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"The washing up."

Ong yes!!!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

"The washing up."

I do that every night. Whoever gets with me will be one lucky lady.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Not expect a medal if they do anything domestic.

Gently running of fingers down the back of hair and neck.

Sharing a shower and making sure my back is soaped up and cleaned. Then rubbing moisturiser into my whole body.

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
41 weeks ago

nearby

"The washing up."

This one will be tough to beat 🤣 any household jobs are good!

Love an unexpected hot kiss out of nowhere..always leaves you wanting more 🥵

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

When they slather themselves in butter and let me slide them up and down my bath.

When they hellicopter me with there schlong (extra points if theyve drawn a character on it)

Oh and neck kisses

When there jeans and belt are undone and they give me that look . The anticipation of is it going to be them or me getting a good bumming.

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By *ace400Man
41 weeks ago

near knock

I’m good at washing up, even know how to use a washing machine

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By *vaRoseWoman
41 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

When he makes an effort in what he wears for me… like knowing I love certain colognes or attire

Stroking my back until I fall asleep in his arms

Walking on the traffic side of the road and the protective hand on the small of my back in a busy bar

Biting his lip

Making me laugh… this is probably the biggest one

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

I can wash up and use the hoover as a bonus.

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"I can wash up and use the hoover as a bonus. "

Now you are just being kinky

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By *vaRoseWoman
41 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"I can wash up and use the hoover as a bonus. "

At the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Plays with my hair. Esp when its in a pony tail. That turns me on so much

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By *aciallovrMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester

"The washing up.

Ong yes!!!"

What about if he does all the cooking?

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By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.

Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?

They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.

Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

"I can wash up and use the hoover as a bonus.

At the same time? "

I can try

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.

Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?

They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.

Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏 "

Before work. Top banana 🍌 🥷🤓

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I can wash up and use the hoover as a bonus.

At the same time? "

Don't be silly, men can't multi-task.

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.

Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?

They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.

Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏 "

You totally deserve all that

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.

Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?

They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.

Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏

You totally deserve all that

I like the idea of tonguing before work. What stress relief 😋🥷🤓

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
41 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I've got the cooking part under control. And trust me, if I cooked you some of my classic Lasagna, Asian sweet n soure or Aussie Supreme Pizza, I am sure you will opt to do the washing for me. 👨‍🍳

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By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.

Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?

They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.

Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏

You totally deserve all that

I like the idea of tonguing before work. What stress relief 😋🥷🤓"

He likes tasting me for as long as possible to get through his day

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By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I've got the cooking part under control. And trust me, if I cooked you some of my classic Lasagna, Asian sweet n soure or Aussie Supreme Pizza, I am sure you will opt to do the washing for me. 👨‍🍳"

I’m ready to find out!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
41 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Makes you feel like the only woman on earth when your with him and makes you carve him time & time again oh and eye contact is so sexy when in the throws of passion

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Cooks

Cleans

Outdoorsy

Can fix most things, like can dismantle a car engine and put it back together sort of thing.

Patient. Honest.

Has eyes only for me. But not in a weirdo kind of way.

Calls a spade a spade.

Sort of bloke that you know where you are with them.

I could go on…….

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
41 weeks ago

Gloucester

Brings me a morning coffee in bed.

Strokes my hair when I have my head on his chest.

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.

Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?

They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.

Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏

You totally deserve all that

I like the idea of tonguing before work. What stress relief 😋🥷🤓

He likes tasting me for as long as possible to get through his day

He has taste 🔥🥷🤓

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By *orphia2003Woman
41 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Reads and respects what I've written in my profile.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
41 weeks ago

Gloucester

" Stroking my back until I fall asleep in his arms

Walking on the traffic side of the road.

Ohh yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

The bar is so low. Damn

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By *olo180Man
41 weeks ago

Greater London

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me "

✔️ ✔️✔️

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By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!

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By *quirrel!Man
41 weeks ago

Crewe

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me "

Check

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By *quirrel!Man
41 weeks ago

Crewe

"The washing up."

You just want me in those pink marigolds! 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!"

Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it

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By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!

Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it

How revolting. Honestly. Wtf are they doing!! I bet they’re also in the support thread asking what they’re doing wrong 🤯

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
41 weeks ago

North West

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!

Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it

To be fair to everyone. The post title asks for small things ❤️

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By *vaRoseWoman
41 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!

Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it

The bar could be in the fucking underworld and most men will limbo under it

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

When they look at me with a hunger in their eyes that dives deep into my soul.

When they whisper into your ear how much they want you.

The gentle touches in just the right places.

When they hold your face before they kiss the breath out of you.

Yeah I'm gonna stop now 🥵🤣

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By *aizyWoman
41 weeks ago

west midlands

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!

Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it

To be fair to everyone. The post title asks for small things ❤️"

I know Julie, I was only joking, doing the washing up doesn't turn me on, cooking, washing up, drying and putting away tho 🫠

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By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!

Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it

To be fair to everyone. The post title asks for small things ❤️"

This is true! Perhaps it shows the women are after the act of service not everyone sees. Or perhaps that’s what women don’t get to enjoy much.

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By *aple syrupWoman
41 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Knows how I take my coffee

Remembers my birthday

Doesn’t mind me in my pjs and locks up before we go to bed

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
41 weeks ago

Your to do list

Those little kisses on the forehead 🥰

When he slips his hand in yours for a moment while he is driving and the little side glance....makes me melt 🥰

✨️✨️✨️

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
41 weeks ago

North West

Not just any man could do these and turn me on. But the right man…🫠

The moments that show he’s thought about me - the sexy meme he knows I’ll love, a drink brought up to me in bed, the I saw this and thought of you photo, the shared smiles

The eye contact that holds a promise, the touch on my leg, the whisper in my ear while we’re out and about, the way he licks his thumb and holds eye contact when I’m riding him…

There’s a few small things 🥵

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By *attykinsWoman
41 weeks ago

Salford

"The bar is so low. Damn

It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!

Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it

It's definitely been my experience, what a sorry state of affairs

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
41 weeks ago

someplace

When they fly me out

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
41 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Makes me laugh. Like, genuinely laugh.

Sends me pics/videos/memes/quotes because he saw it and thought of me.

Knows that intentions and words mean nothing without actions. Do. The. Thing.

Let's me know when I've been on his mind, and how much he wants (to be inside) me. 🥵

Feels like he never wants to let go when he holds me.

Melts me with a kiss. 🫠

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
41 weeks ago

Reading

I used to see a partner straight from work, if I’d had a bad day he would let me talk, then ask if I just needed him to listen, help find a solution or a distraction. When I asked what he meant by distraction, he knelt down between my thighs and just gave me that look of intent 🥵 needless to say, I forgot all about the bad day…

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By *urdirtylittlesecretCouple
41 weeks ago

somewhere

When he sneaks up behind me and presses himself against me, it winds me up at the time but that’s exactly what makes it so hot. It’s the tease of it all… those little moments when I’m in the middle of doing boring household chores that leave me wanting more when he’s not around.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
41 weeks ago

Chester

Kiss my neck

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

This all seems very doable, as long as stacking, turning on and then emptying the dishwasher counts

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By *hortieWoman
41 weeks ago

Northampton

When we've just got to the pub.. or other social setting.. and for a few seconds he presses against me from behind, his hands on my hips, hard on clearly evident against my butt, he kisses my neck or shoulder briefly then pulls away, knowing there's clearly fuck all I can do about it for a few hours other than simmer in my own juices...

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me

✔️ ✔️✔️"

Got that sexy ?

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"The washing up.

You just want me in those pink marigolds! 🤷🏼‍♂️"

100%

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By *amie HantsWoman
41 weeks ago

Mariana Trench

When they’re good at diy

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me

Check

Why you are my naughty Mr Squirrel!

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By *aizyWoman
41 weeks ago

west midlands

"The washing up.

You just want me in those pink marigolds! 🤷🏼‍♂️"

Too right, especially if you make them make that snapping sound when you pull them on!

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By *rSuave88Man
41 weeks ago

Mirfield

"Kiss my neck "

✏️

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Random touches of leg, body kisses, stops in middle of street to kiss you with intent, cheeky bum slap.

Loads of things

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By *morousCouple8 OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Random touches of leg, body kisses, stops in middle of street to kiss you with intent, cheeky bum slap.

Loads of things

Oooooh the leg strokes 🥵

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By *quirrel!Man
41 weeks ago

Crewe

"The washing up.

You just want me in those pink marigolds! 🤷🏼‍♂️

Too right, especially if you make them make that snapping sound when you pull them on!

They might make that sound when I spank your bum with them! 😉

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By *entlemanG8orgeMan
41 weeks ago

Nearby

Just look at what you have started here hahaha

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By *acey_RedWoman
41 weeks ago

Liverpool

Grabbing and squeezing my hips

Pressing up behind me and kissing my neck while I'm doing something like cooking

Its when they make you feel like you're desired and they don't just want to fuck you because they're horny if that makes sense

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By *KloganMan
41 weeks ago

Ramsbottom

"When they look at me with a hunger in their eyes that dives deep into my soul.

When they whisper into your ear how much they want you.

The gentle touches in just the right places.

When they hold your face before they kiss the breath out of you.

Yeah I'm gonna stop now 🥵🤣"

Scribbles down all of the above ☝️

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By *quirrel!Man
41 weeks ago

Crewe

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me

Check

Why you are my naughty Mr Squirrel! "

Because you gave me the name and I’ll do anything for Madam Moselle Kate!

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By *enelope2UWoman
41 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Smell nice

Put effort in their appearance and wardrobe

Have intelligence and can control the brain flow to both heads

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By *orbidden eastMan
41 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Doing the hoovering

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

"When they look at me with a hunger in their eyes that dives deep into my soul.

When they whisper into your ear how much they want you.

The gentle touches in just the right places.

When they hold your face before they kiss the breath out of you.

Yeah I'm gonna stop now 🥵🤣

Scribbles down all of the above ☝️ "

Oh there's a lot more than just that 😉

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me

Check

Why you are my naughty Mr Squirrel!

Because you gave me the name and I’ll do

anything for Madam Moselle Kate!

C’est Bon

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By *issMeKate2Woman
41 weeks ago

near the river medway

"Be respectful

Good kisser

Go down on me

Check

Why you are my naughty Mr Squirrel!

Because you gave me the name and I’ll do

anything for Madam Moselle Kate!

C’est Bon "

Monsieur écureuil

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By *layful_GaiaWoman
40 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"Grabbing and squeezing my hips

Pressing up behind me and kissing my neck while I'm doing something like cooking

Its when they make you feel like you're desired and they don't just want to fuck you because they're horny if that makes sense"

💯 👆🏼

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