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By *eli OP Woman
41 weeks ago

Or not.

On the forums, with people you've met from Fab - are you comfortable with being open?

Would you share personal information with people on here? Your address, surname, job, family etc.

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By *aizyWoman
41 weeks ago

west midlands

People I have met and still me meet know personal things about me, on the forums I am very private I don't really share anything about myself on the forums, definitely not my address!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yes i have but only with a couple of people on the forums.

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By *acey_RedWoman
41 weeks ago

Liverpool

There's a very select few but we have known each other for years.

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By *oeBeansMan
41 weeks ago

Derby

I'm more comfortable being open with people I've met from Fab and occasionally I'll get personal with anecdotes on the forum with regards to family experiences so I guess I'm pretty open in that regard. The only thing I won't share with anyone is my address. Can't have my wife and kids finding out about this... 😳

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I would , but would have to meet them and have a very good friendship with them

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I'm more comfortable being open with people I've met from Fab and occasionally I'll get personal with anecdotes on the forum with regards to family experiences so I guess I'm pretty open in that regard. The only thing I won't share with anyone is my address. Can't have my wife and kids finding out about this... 😳"

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

There are a couple of forumites who know personal details about me (oh and some who have gone UNLOS)

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’ll share with those I call a friend, with whom I’ve met.

I’ll tell stories of life but nothing personally identifying.

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By *hisIsMe58Man
41 weeks ago

Winchester

I can be quite open about the way I feel in the forums, sometimes more so than with people I know. What I'm not open about are personal details about my identity such as name, family, employment etc.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Brum

"Or not.

On the forums, with people you've met from Fab - are you comfortable with being open?

Would you share personal information with people on here? Your address, surname, job, family etc."

Hi there Karen

We’ve not forgotten it’s almost your birthday again, the card is in the post.

Hope you’ve had a good summer on your market stall. Xx

These days not so much.

You’re one of the only forum users left that knows much about us.

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By *lovetoowatchMan
41 weeks ago

Sheffield

I think it would not be wise to share to much about yourself on forum. Having my face is enough for risk to be recognised. There are some weirdos out there

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I have with people I’ve met, because by that stage I want to be honest. There’s a limit of course, and sharing some things I’ve been through are only for close friends.

I think it’s common to keep some things private, just like on other forums and even at work.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester

People I've met and become friends with, I am very open about my life with. I treat friendships I've made here as genuine friendships.

But with people I've not actually met I wouldn't give them my address and very personal identifying information. But I am open about most stuff.

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By *eli OP Woman
41 weeks ago

"People I have met and still me meet know personal things about me, on the forums I am very private I don't really share anything about myself on the forums, definitely not my address!

That's wise Daizy - not been tempted to put your phone number up late at night though?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

With people I have met several times I am open.

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By *eli OP Woman
41 weeks ago

Won't tease about age instead I'll say that's very sensible Joe. Protect your wife, kids and coffee. 🩷

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By *lder.Woman
41 weeks ago

Not Local

If we've not swapped all our generational trauma and dark family secrets within about 30 minutes I will consider myself a conversational failure. What would even be the point of meeting.

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

There's some things I'll share and somethings I won't.

On the public forum, very little.

In person it depends on how well I know them.

There's probably different levels of security clearance

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

No, not at all comfortable sharing face pics, personal details or information with anyone nearby.

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By *eli OP Woman
41 weeks ago

"I can be quite open about the way I feel in the forums, sometimes more so than with people I know. What I'm not open about are personal details about my identity such as name, family, employment etc."

It can be easier to open up when there's a degree of anonymity. That lack of bias. Sometimes I'll use here as a sounding board to make sure I'm not being an utter twunt. 😅

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By *viatrixWoman
41 weeks ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

I am pretty open, on and off Fab.

There are people I’ve met here who know absolutely everything about me. A couple of them are actually emergency contacts.

But on the forum no, I don’t disclose real name, address etc. I am pretty open about my life, eternal pain with my brother, health challenges I’m facing, etc.

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By *eli OP Woman
41 weeks ago

"Hi there Karen

We’ve not forgotten it’s almost your birthday again, the card is in the post.

Hope you’ve had a good summer on your market stall. Xx

These days not so much.

You’re one of the only forum users left that knows much about us.

Hi Tim.

Oh you two. 🥰 The years are passing quite quickly aren't they?

The market stall has been a great success - going a bit more upmarket has yielded great returns. Hope your pub is grand?

Same. I like that though. ❤️

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

I suppose if my tongue is devouring your clitoris, we may have exchanged some more personal information 🤭🥷🤓

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By *ou only live onceMan
41 weeks ago

London

Meli, you'll find me at 29 Acacia Road.

I'll leave the door on latch.

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
41 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I am as open as I can be without compromising the safety of us and our family. Surname, if we're friends I wouldn't feel the need to hide it. It has happened by accident, booking things etc. Address, never. Family, no names but they do come up in conversation.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Chichester

"Or not.

On the forums, with people you've met from Fab - are you comfortable with being open?

Would you share personal information with people on here? Your address, surname, job, family etc."

People know what I want / allow them to know from here

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By *eli OP Woman
41 weeks ago

"Meli, you'll find me at 29 Acacia Road.

I'll leave the door on latch."

After what? Five? Maybe six years you've finally found the confidence to offer me your banana.

I'm on my way.

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By *eli OP Woman
41 weeks ago

"If we've not swapped all our generational trauma and dark family secrets within about 30 minutes I will consider myself a conversational failure. What would even be the point of meeting.

Finally. Someone gets it. Thank you Alder.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

"People I have met and still me meet know personal things about me, on the forums I am very private I don't really share anything about myself on the forums, definitely not my address!

Way too risky sharing personal information especially on the forums.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

I am only happy sharing personal information with people I've known for a while, in general though, I'm very cautious. More so since a person on this site I was chatting too found my personal Facebook account and started adding close family members without me knowing. It really freaked me out.

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By *007ManMan
41 weeks ago

Worthing

Probably not my address until I got to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I am only happy sharing personal information with people I've known for a while, in general though, I'm very cautious. More so since a person on this site I was chatting too found my personal Facebook account and started adding close family members without me knowing. It really freaked me out. "

This still blows my mind 🤯

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Fuuuukkkkk 😕🥷

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By *aizyWoman
41 weeks ago

west midlands

"People I have met and still me meet know personal things about me, on the forums I am very private I don't really share anything about myself on the forums, definitely not my address!

That's wise Daizy - not been tempted to put your phone number up late at night though? "

So many times Meli! My rule is now 12 at night log off, the temptation is too strong otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Only with my 5 friends.

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By *acey_RedWoman
41 weeks ago

Liverpool

That's wild. I'm sorry to hear that.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

That's wild. I'm sorry to hear that."

Thank you and it is fine. I just had to quick thinking and pretend it was some weird troll account. And better to block and delete. I'm more cautious now.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

Fuuuukkkkk 😕🥷"

Yeah I know. Really creeped me out

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By *exxyyDy11Man
41 weeks ago

North West

This still blows my mind 🤯"

Honestly... learnt a valuable lesson. Be very cautious online.

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By *ou only live onceMan
41 weeks ago

London

"Meli, you'll find me at 29 Acacia Road.

I'll leave the door on latch.

After what? Five? Maybe six years you've finally found the confidence to offer me your banana.

I'm on my way."

Meli, my banana has always been yours.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

I’m fairly open. I like to get to know people and for them to know me somewhat if I intend to get naked with them.

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By *oeBeansMan
41 weeks ago

Derby

Won't tease about age instead I'll say that's very sensible Joe. Protect your wife, kids and coffee. 🩷

Yeah yeah, having kids at 12 was a very young age to have them, what am I like? 😂

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
41 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Don't think anyone knows my surname. Used to know my address as I've had loads come to my house, but noone knows this address. Im quite open about certain things but then there are things I dont tell anyone

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
41 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I have been pretty open on here about aspects of my life but not about the details. I’m more cautious now than I was initially too. When I get to know people outside of here too, they learn more about me

Mrs TMN x

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By *oydykeTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Hampshire (they/them)

No one even knows my name hahaha

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By *ellinever70Woman
41 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's the internet and with that comes more than a few unsavoury characters so I keep my cards close to my chest

If I'm sitting across from you chatting, you'll get a little more of me

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By *rectus HumongusMan
41 weeks ago

uranus

I might be misreading this but is o p asking if folk put address in forum?

Apologies i am incorrect

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

I consider parts of myself little gifts to other people. I'm really private about a lot of things so I feel like I'm really open (too open) sometimes but then I'll hold certain things back. But I'll give things away eventually. Not everyone acknowledges or appreciates it but I know when I'm doing it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"I might be misreading this but is o p asking if folk put address in forum?

Apologies i am incorrect"

Christ, don't do that fella 😬🥷🤓

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
41 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Oh in 19 years I've only given my phone number to 5 people though

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

To an extent, only people I get fairly close to get to know more about my personal life etc, some have been to my home. On the forum I'm open ish but play my cards closer to my chest.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
41 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Some know some stuff, others know little and many know next to nothing that’s actually personal about me.

There’s a coupl in here that are privileged to have earned some trust for me to share a lot about me. They will know the real me.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

No … unless there’s something there …

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

We haven't met anybody that we trust enough to share all that information with.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

Trowbridge

No, 4 know my 1st name on here & 1 knows where I live now, that’s it.

1 is on my FB that I’ve known for the whole 18 months I’ve been on fab, my FB doesn’t have my real name on it.

I also have 2 friends that are on my Facebook who I’ve known for years on fab

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