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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

You have a sex session planned this evening, do you have a wank now or not?

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By *LiamMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

Risky buisness

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester

OK, explain to me why you do this? 🤔

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By *ayd100Man
37 weeks ago

clitheroe

Best to save it

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By *oucankeepyoursocksonMan
37 weeks ago

Here n there

No wank, I'd would rather save my spunk for the main event🫡

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
37 weeks ago

Gloucester

Why risk not being able to perform later?

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By *estructionDollyWoman
37 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

It really pisses me off when men do this.

I want you arriving with a full tank please. Or stay at home and have a wank instead.

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By *rjay224Man
37 weeks ago

midlands

You could edge it a little then let it die down so it’s ready to explode when meeting … I wouldn’t wank before

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By *WB85Man
37 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Not a chance.

I always take far to long to come as it is....and with new people its never a given that I will.

Take coming early as a compliment ladies....and men, be ready for round 2.

Mr.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
37 weeks ago

Norwich


"OK, explain to me why you do this? 🤔 "

Cum too quick first time, would you ladies take that as compliment or failure

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By *am3032TV/TS
37 weeks ago

Sutton in Ashfield

I will probably have an excited pre sex edge, but won’t cum. Save a biggest load of cum for the sex. Love feeling very full, excited and sensitive during the meet X

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I'm saving it. I'm a massive cummer so don't want to waste it

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"OK, explain to me why you do this? 🤔 "

Les chance of premature outcome. Gives you more time in bed and keeps you less excited about doing or saying something stupid on the night.

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By *LiamMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands


"It really pisses me off when men do this.

I want you arriving with a full tank please. Or stay at home and have a wank instead. "

I think it's alot to do with the 'only lasted 2 minutes' bashing that men get if they cum too quick

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By *uttley 30Man
37 weeks ago

london

Definitely best to save it!

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By *estructionDollyWoman
37 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"It really pisses me off when men do this.

I want you arriving with a full tank please. Or stay at home and have a wank instead.

I think it's alot to do with the 'only lasted 2 minutes' bashing that men get if they cum too quick "

Well for me sex isn't a one and done. And it's not just about penetration either. So I have no issue with guy cumming quickly as long as he doesn't think that's "game over, I'm off" 😂 even if you can't get your dick hard enough to fuck again, that doesn't mean other stuff can't continue. Sex is much much more than penis in vagina.

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By *ussex_ladMan
37 weeks ago

hastings

Rafter feed her the big load 💦 but the other weekend did wank 2-3 times and loads was all the same tho

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester


"OK, explain to me why you do this? 🤔

Les chance of premature outcome. Gives you more time in bed and keeps you less excited about doing or saying something stupid on the night. "

But isn't that kinda cheating?

You can spend as long as you want in bed with someone, you don't have to be engaged in the act of full sex all the time

Id want the person who's with me to be very excited because they're with me

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By *LiamMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands


"It really pisses me off when men do this.

I want you arriving with a full tank please. Or stay at home and have a wank instead.

I think it's alot to do with the 'only lasted 2 minutes' bashing that men get if they cum too quick

Well for me sex isn't a one and done. And it's not just about penetration either. So I have no issue with guy cumming quickly as long as he doesn't think that's "game over, I'm off" 😂 even if you can't get your dick hard enough to fuck again, that doesn't mean other stuff can't continue. Sex is much much more than penis in vagina. "

I agree with you, I personally would not choose to do this beforehand but that was my explanation for why guys would.

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By *heonixrising500Man
37 weeks ago

Barnsley

Its all for the ladies pleasure

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By *estructionDollyWoman
37 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"It really pisses me off when men do this.

I want you arriving with a full tank please. Or stay at home and have a wank instead.

I think it's alot to do with the 'only lasted 2 minutes' bashing that men get if they cum too quick

Well for me sex isn't a one and done. And it's not just about penetration either. So I have no issue with guy cumming quickly as long as he doesn't think that's "game over, I'm off" 😂 even if you can't get your dick hard enough to fuck again, that doesn't mean other stuff can't continue. Sex is much much more than penis in vagina.

I agree with you, I personally would not choose to do this beforehand but that was my explanation for why guys would."

Oh yeah I get what you were saying 😄 I suppose people have different expectations of sex 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *EAT..85Woman
37 weeks ago

Nottingham


"OK, explain to me why you do this? 🤔

Cum too quick first time, would you ladies take that as compliment or failure

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I prefer a quick first cum, rest and repeat rather than a looooong session if that's my options. If you're one and done you're probably not for me though. I like a session not a means to an end.

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By *dinMan
37 weeks ago

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Either way maybe just count yourself lucky you are getting sex and have such a tough decision to make 🤣

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

I’m edging, best of both worlds, builds up a load and possibly delays cumming we we get down to it.

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"OK, explain to me why you do this? 🤔

Les chance of premature outcome. Gives you more time in bed and keeps you less excited about doing or saying something stupid on the night.

But isn't that kinda cheating?

You can spend as long as you want in bed with someone, you don't have to be engaged in the act of full sex all the time

Id want the person who's with me to be very excited because they're with me

"

It's different now for us as we get older. But it's a habit we got from our 20s where for most of us guys, if the wind suddenly changed direction we would be hard. Now, it's more to do with getting excited about the night ahead as we are amazed we will be getting some, we just can't wait. And again, if we are too excited, we may be too eager before reaching the bedroom and say something dumb like "Fuck I can't wait." 😋

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By *LiamMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands


"It really pisses me off when men do this.

I want you arriving with a full tank please. Or stay at home and have a wank instead.

I think it's alot to do with the 'only lasted 2 minutes' bashing that men get if they cum too quick

Well for me sex isn't a one and done. And it's not just about penetration either. So I have no issue with guy cumming quickly as long as he doesn't think that's "game over, I'm off" 😂 even if you can't get your dick hard enough to fuck again, that doesn't mean other stuff can't continue. Sex is much much more than penis in vagina.

I agree with you, I personally would not choose to do this beforehand but that was my explanation for why guys would.

Oh yeah I get what you were saying 😄 I suppose people have different expectations of sex 🤷🏻‍♀️ "

Yes that's it, I guess being open on what you like helps you get the best out of the meet🙌

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