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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

When is that line crossed? Do we all have different interpretations?

For example; What would me walking naked, comfortable in my baggy skinned, scarred and pasty white body around a club be seen as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is that line crossed? Do we all have different interpretations?

For example; What would me walking naked, comfortable in my baggy skinned, scarred and pasty white body around a club be seen as?"
In that example, I'd see someone confident enough in how they look to say 'to hell with it' I'm gonna walk around naked

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over a year ago

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

having never been to a club im not 100 % on this but I would think it was confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is that line crossed? Do we all have different interpretations?

For example; What would me walking naked, comfortable in my baggy skinned, scarred and pasty white body around a club be seen as?"

I would say the example is neither arrogant nor confident although of the 2 confident is the closest maybe comfortable or unphased is the best descriptive word for your example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is that line crossed? Do we all have different interpretations?

For example; What would me walking naked, comfortable in my baggy skinned, scarred and pasty white body around a club be seen as?"

id see that as confidance

I think arrogance is more a attitude and nothing to do with wether your happy to be seen naked or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else.

Confidence: I am/can be as good as anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had the confidence to get my slightly rotund, pasty and scarred self round a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence in a personailty presents itself in so many different ways and if you want to and dont feel stressed - then go fit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say confidence which is a wonderful thing to have (miss d)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I had the confidence to get my slightly rotund, pasty and scarred self round a club. "

aww come on i'll take you to one, we can sit like to scared rabbits in the corner together lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance: I am better than everyone else.

Confidence: I am/can be as good as anyone else."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I had the confidence to get my slightly rotund, pasty and scarred self round a club.

aww come on i'll take you to one, we can sit like to scared rabbits in the corner together lol"
You're so kind. I'll take ya up on that

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By *ptimum trajectoryCouple
over a year ago

gloucester

I don't think it would be arrogant to walk around a club naked because the act of being able to is beautiful and that is reflected back upon the person with the confidence to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is that line crossed? Do we all have different interpretations?

For example; What would me walking naked, comfortable in my baggy skinned, scarred and pasty white body around a club be seen as? In that example, I'd see someone confident enough in how they look to say 'to hell with it' I'm gonna walk around naked "

Agreed

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

interesting one this .

i was going to put my arrogant bullying ex

has left me with no confidence but looking at some of the replies on here, mean that as i can to to a club on my own i actually

ave more confidence than i think ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm sort of confident I think....not arrogant.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think I'm confident. But some may call it arrogance. (Irony?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"interesting one this .

i was going to put my arrogant bullying ex

has left me with no confidence but looking at some of the replies on here, mean that as i can to to a club on my own i actually

ave more confidence than i think ?? "

I think theres different types of confidance

I go to club alone which I suppose shows some confidance, however I don't rate my looks at all and because of this when I do go to clubs I find it very hard to approach people and more often than not don't play as I feel no one would be interested in me, which shows no confidance which in itself is as unattractive as being arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that arrogant men are usually a disappointment

I wouldnt think it arrogant to walk around a club naked.....unless you were to look down on others x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If a lady came up to me in a club and spoke to me first, I'd think 'wow! confident' and I like that in a woman. I'm not overly keen on shy retiring wall flowers who mouse about looking scared. So a lady making the first move is always good IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance: I am better than everyone else.

Confidence: I am/can be as good as anyone else."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a lady came up to me in a club and spoke to me first, I'd think 'wow! confident' and I like that in a woman. I'm not overly keen on shy retiring wall flowers who mouse about looking scared. So a lady making the first move is always good IMHO. "

would that over ride that fact shes a minger tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"interesting one this .

i was going to put my arrogant bullying ex

has left me with no confidence but looking at some of the replies on here, mean that as i can to to a club on my own i actually

ave more confidence than i think ??

I think theres different types of confidance

I go to club alone which I suppose shows some confidance, however I don't rate my looks at all and because of this when I do go to clubs I find it very hard to approach people and more often than not don't play as I feel no one would be interested in me, which shows no confidance which in itself is as unattractive as being arrogant "
I don't know if I'd go to one alone for my first visit. Never been into one at all yet. A travesty in itself, depriving the fab world of a cheeky one.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Arrogance: I am better than everyone else.

Confidence: I am/can be as good as anyone else."

Omnipotence: You are better than everyone else

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If a lady came up to me in a club and spoke to me first, I'd think 'wow! confident' and I like that in a woman. I'm not overly keen on shy retiring wall flowers who mouse about looking scared. So a lady making the first move is always good IMHO.

would that over ride that fact shes a minger tho? "

Yes. My profile specifically states I prefer 'normal' average people. I like personality. Anyway, no one would know if I was thinking 'omg munter alert' or 'omg sexy woman yummy' so always assume the latter. It's most likely, after all.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Arrogance: I am better than everyone else.

Confidence: I am/can be as good as anyone else.

Omnipotence: You are better than everyone else "

Impotence: you wish you were better than anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets walk around together, and be confident in our arrogance xxx


"When is that line crossed? Do we all have different interpretations?

For example; What would me walking naked, comfortable in my baggy skinned, scarred and pasty white body around a club be seen as?"

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"If a lady came up to me in a club and spoke to me first, I'd think 'wow! confident' and I like that in a woman. I'm not overly keen on shy retiring wall flowers who mouse about looking scared. So a lady making the first move is always good IMHO.

would that over ride that fact shes a minger tho?

Yes. My profile specifically states I prefer 'normal' average people. I like personality. Anyway, no one would know if I was thinking 'omg munter alert' or 'omg sexy woman yummy' so always assume the latter. It's most likely, after all. "

All because someone does not have the confidance to make the first move that don't always mean they have no personality

I like to think im the strong silent type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance: I am better than everyone else.

Confidence: I am/can be as good as anyone else.

Omnipotence: You are better than everyone else

Impotence: you wish you were better than anyone else"

Flatulence: you are full of......

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