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By *inthepink OP   Man
37 weeks ago

Manchester

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I keep messaging singles, Couples that are looking for males to join them. But my massage either gets deleted or no reply. How can I be verified from a meeting if I don’t get the chance. Heeeelllp

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
37 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

You could ask someone for a Cam Verification

A lot of people will say - “Get out to the clubs”

If not for some action, it’ll be an introduction to the scene

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By *partharmonyCouple
37 weeks ago

Tonbridge


"Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I keep messaging singles, Couples that are looking for males to join them. But my massage either gets deleted or no reply. How can I be verified from a meeting if I don’t get the chance. Heeeelllp"

Are your messages any good? The vast majority of messages we get from single men are absolute horse shite, and some of the rest are worse than that. You can be verified and still not get a reply of your messages aren't good.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
37 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Keep doing what you’re doing, we just hope someone will take a chance on you don’t we?

Group socials are handy for a verification of you think that’s the hurdle.

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Tetbury

Loose the legal disclaimer. Are you really going to take someone to court over an image you put in this site? Do you have the money and the time and do you think you would win even if you found a solicitor dumb enough to go to court with you?

Its a big filter for lots on here including me.

Just search the forums for threads on it, most won't bother if they see it.

That will help

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By *estinysswingersCouple
37 weeks ago

Worsley

Your meaningless ‘legal disclaimer’ is longer than your profile text.

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By *rG2025Man
37 weeks ago

B

I’m beginning to come to the conclusion that my profile is shite, my messages are even worse and my face is a bag of spanner’s. I’m a terrible salesman

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Tetbury


"I’m beginning to come to the conclusion that my profile is shite, my messages are even worse and my face is a bag of spanner’s. I’m a terrible salesman "

Its far from the worst, have a think about who you are trying to attract and how to tempt them to message you or how to engage them once you have looked at your profile.

Fit body and a nice hard dick, so you ain't doing bad.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

OP Have you tried any different profile pics ? Maybe some are more successful than others.

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By *ocket and RocketCouple
37 weeks ago

Canterbury

Profile pic and your profile name instant delete for us

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By *rG2025Man
37 weeks ago

B

Haha, must be the face then. Thanks

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
37 weeks ago

Bliss

Accepting that who you like, won't always like you, Is hugely important in swinging.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"Haha, must be the face then. Thanks "

I think they were referring to OP not you with his cock soup packet. That's why it gets confusing when someone asks for advice on another person's thread. It is best to start your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Do the things that people have suggested, but don't expect things to change in a hurry, be patient, have fun on the forums, and maybe something will happen.... Just remember, don't take a lack of interest personally, it's largely a numbers game on here... Personally I've found that chasing has been kind of futile, and the successes I've had has been totally by chance.

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By *rG2025Man
37 weeks ago

B

It was a reply to my post on the thread, but you’re 100% correct about starting my own thread for advice. Not really used the forum before so just feeling my way around. Appreciate the advice

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By *issmorganWoman
37 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Op, make sure you always read a profile before you message, to make sure you'd be what they want.

Just because they're looking for a man to join them, doesn't mean you'll be their cup of tea.

After all we can't be for everyone in life and here is no different.

As others have said, get rid of the legal warning at the end of your bio as its meaningless and maybe tell people what you offer meets and look for etc.

Maybe pop on cam and see if someome will verify you too.

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By *y_CinnamonWoman
37 weeks ago

Hampshire

Go to an organised social, should be one in your area.

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By *inthepink OP   Man
37 weeks ago

Manchester

Thank you for the advice. I have added more photos and changed things around on my Profile. Hopefully I can meet with one of you lovely fabers.

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