FabSwingers.com forum: Passionate sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

What is it?

Is it kissy?

Or is it something else?

Oh and do you like it?

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By *hil most chillMan
37 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

It's kissy, touchy, playful with eye contact, smiles and laughs for me. It escalates as you both get into it and want to keep pleasuring each other. It's fun and hot and gets your heart racing and I love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

"It's kissy, touchy, playful with eye contact, smiles and laughs for me. It escalates as you both get into it and want to keep pleasuring each other. It's fun and hot and gets your heart racing and I love it."

That’s what I need right now

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By *eca-RoseWoman
37 weeks ago

cardiff

Perfect description.. passionate sex is my favourite 😍

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Can't be passionate without kissing, not really really passionate anyways.

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By *arierWoman
37 weeks ago

birmingham

1,000% this

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

It's a feeling. It's that moment where you are on top and you pin them down and your blood gets to a boil and you almost wanna lean in hard and bite into your partner's neck, but instead you hold back and lean in slow and kiss them madly on their lips and both your hand squeeze together and you go hard and slow down at the same time. That moment you look into each other's eyes and your bodies move in synch gaining speed and breathing deeply. In Greece we call that "Pathos".

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By *ace400Man
37 weeks ago

near knock

Passionate sex can be a lot of types from a quickly to a long session. Either can be great

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
37 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I think it’s anything where you’re completely in the moment . Everything feels easy and natural and you’re not thinking, just doing.

Mrs TMN x

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By *estructionDollyWoman
37 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

As others have said, it's about being totally in the moment with that person. And it's all subjective!

But for me, I love the sort of passion where you want to rip eachothers clothes off and tear eachother apart, and the only thing that you are thinking about in that moment is being close to them in every way possible and feeling them touch me and feel them inside me and the weight of them and the feeling of their skin against mine and their arousal and their noises and.... Etc etc

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

For me it's when you are just lost in each other, no thinking about what you are doing, just what comes naturally, just immersed in each other,their kiss, their touch, their smell, their sounds, their reactions. The need to just have them as close to you as you can, to almost become one.

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By *ucka39Man
37 weeks ago

Newcastle

It's hot, sweaty

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By *entleman.kMan
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

It’s losing yourself in the moment and totally enjoying the shared moment with passionate kissing without inhibition enjoying every moment from the build up through to the moment and don’t forget that holding and cuddle afterwards until you both come down from that adrenaline high

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
37 weeks ago

Voldsøy

For me, kisses do make it more passionate. The kind where we really look at each other, taking it all in and savoring how we feel. The attraction is primal, our desire overwhelmingly strong, fueling the intensity. There’s almost an urgency. We’re completely immersed in each other, the tension rising until it explodes.

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

London

"As others have said, it's about being totally in the moment with that person. And it's all subjective!

Yikes 😳

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

London

Passion I guess is different for different people, some like the hot steamy rip eachothers clothes off animalistic, letting go of inhibition and doing what you feel.

Others prefer the gentler kissing playful build up. I'm open to both, sometimes you want the gentle foreplay, other times when I'm horny I want rip her blouse off , yank up that skirt and pummel that vagina into next week 😂

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
37 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

It’s when I say ‘Ta!’ at the end.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
37 weeks ago

North Somerset

Yes yes yes!!!!

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By *iverstMan
37 weeks ago

Rossendale

For me, it just flows. lots of eye contact. Feather light touches to an embrace like an anaconda. The gentlest kiss to WWF tongues 🤣😂

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By *iverstMan
37 weeks ago

Rossendale

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

It's losing yourself in your partners body and vice versa. And yeah, very kissy, all over.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I honestly can't remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"For me, it just flows. lots of eye contact. Feather light touches to an embrace like an anaconda. The gentlest kiss to WWF tongues 🤣😂"

Are you trying to pin their tongue for a 3 count?

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
37 weeks ago

Essex

When someone’s every touch makes you quiver. Every inch of you becomes a hot spot.

You never want it to end. But at the same time you know the point of no return is rushing towards you.

You’re not thinking, or acting - it’s just natural movement. You wonder who is inside who. Where you stop and they begin.

It’s being wholly engulfed in pleasure, desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

When you've been out for the night and the sexual tension has been building since you saw her come down the stairs after getting ready, looking breathtaking. When you get home, you've got each other so wound up your not quite sure what to do next, so you end up rolling around the bed hands and mouths everywhere. Holding their gaze and seeing their eyes widen.

Ahem anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"It's a feeling. It's that moment where you are on top and you pin them down and your blood gets to a boil and you almost wanna lean in hard and bite into your partner's neck, but instead you hold back and lean in slow and kiss them madly on their lips and both your hand squeeze together and you go hard and slow down at the same time. That moment you look into each other's eyes and your bodies move in synch gaining speed and breathing deeply. In Greece we call that "Pathos"."

I mean.. I really like the sound of this “Pathos” 😮😅

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester

"passionate sex - What is it?

Is it kissy?

Or is it something else?

Oh and do you like it?"

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It's kissing, then eye contact, kissing and hugging, more kissing and holding, then touching

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

As enjoyable as passionate sex is in the moment, I often feel a bit "over exposed" as it were afterwards, in that I feel I let my guard down too much. I need to keep on to my angst. I don't wanna be that comfortable with someone. Especially myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

For me passionate sex could be several different things. It could be that sleepy sex that builds from a morning cuddle. Slow and deep, moving and groaning with one another and feeling your clammy skin pressed together. Riding each wave of pleasure. Or, it could be that feral kind of sex when you’re tearing each others clothes off as soon as the door closes and the next minute you’re pressed up against the wall. Either way, it’s all-encompassing and in that moment nothing else matters.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
37 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

"For me passionate sex could be several different things. It could be that sleepy sex that builds from a morning cuddle. Slow and deep, moving and groaning with one another and feeling your clammy skin pressed together. Riding each wave of pleasure. Or, it could be that feral kind of sex when you’re tearing each others clothes off as soon as the door closes and the next minute you’re pressed up against the wall. Either way, it’s all-encompassing and in that moment nothing else matters. "

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By *verageHoesCouple
37 weeks ago

Bessacarr

Definitely this. Whatever the mood, it's that sense of confluence when you’re so in sync emotionally and physically that you’ve almost merged into one another. Breathing each other in, moving as though you share one body and one rhythm.

And that's enough mushy stuff for today 🤢

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I love passionate sex. Been a while since I had that kind of sex as you most defo need a connection with someone for it.

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

London

Next time you engage in number 2, mind if I watch? This is of for educational purposes 🤓

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"What is it?

Is it kissy?

Or is it something else?

Oh and do you like it?"

The most passionate sex I've ever had was when I was married on the honeymoon.

It's the type of sex that you will rarely see in porn.

You never stop kissing, regardless of position.

There is constant full-body contact.

There is constant eye contact.

Constant whispers.

Lots of moaning from both the man and the woman.

Every part of each other's bodies is touched.

You often roll over on each other or lie side by side multiple times. It's male-dominant or female-dominant positioning. A lot of spooning.

It lasts for an hour or more. There is a large amount of edging and foreplay. It's just enjoying your partner's body with no kink or specific orgasmic goal in mind. It's slow and building like a wave.

It's comforting, safe, relaxing, soothing, rejuvenating, caring and trusting.

The clothing ripping hard and fast sex is just lust and horniness to me which results in some explosive orgasms.... but it is more a release of tension than a choreography of passion.

Most swinger sex I've had is frenetic, frantic and frenzied.

Which is why I'm moving towards the rope play which is slow and building with pre-care and aftercare without the orgasmic goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"What is it?

Is it kissy?

Or is it something else?

Oh and do you like it?

The most passionate sex I've ever had was when I was married on the honeymoon.

It's the type of sex that you will rarely see in porn.

You never stop kissing, regardless of position.

There is constant full-body contact.

There is constant eye contact.

Constant whispers.

Lots of moaning from both the man and the woman.

Every part of each other's bodies is touched.

You often roll over on each other or lie side by side multiple times. It's male-dominant or female-dominant positioning. A lot of spooning.

It's comforting, safe, relaxing, soothing, rejuvenating, caring and trusting.

The clothing ripping hard and fast sex is just lust and horniness to me which results in some explosive orgasms.... but it is more a release of tension than a choreography of passion.

Most swinger sex I've had is frenetic, frantic and frenzied.

Which is why I'm moving towards the rope play which is slow and building with pre-care and aftercare without the orgasmic goal."

Ahh those were the days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

I was gonna say what I think it is but impossible to compete with these

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"As enjoyable as passionate sex is in the moment, I often feel a bit "over exposed" as it were afterwards, in that I feel I let my guard down too much. I need to keep on to my angst. I don't wanna be that comfortable with someone. Especially myself."

That's sad in my mind that you feel "over exposed".

As a switch, if I don't let my guard down, I can't care for my submissive/bottom, and I can't give into my dominant/top.

As a nudist, I feel power in being exposed.

As a neurodivergent, I don't often show my emotions but I know there is power in them when I do. There is power in knowing when to let my guard down.

I can't have passion for anything unless I let my guard and fears down.

Unfortunately, there will always be people who take it too far and too fast when you let your guard down but it's always powerful to know when to put your guard back up!

My angst isn't going anywhere as a middle-aged perimenopausal neurodivergent woman in her Karen Era. Lol!

But I know I can't bring angst into intimacy. They don't go together for me even if it works for other people.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"What is it?

Is it kissy?

Or is it something else?

Oh and do you like it?

The most passionate sex I've ever had was when I was married on the honeymoon.

It's the type of sex that you will rarely see in porn.

You never stop kissing, regardless of position.

There is constant full-body contact.

There is constant eye contact.

Constant whispers.

Lots of moaning from both the man and the woman.

Every part of each other's bodies is touched.

You often roll over on each other or lie side by side multiple times. It's male-dominant or female-dominant positioning. A lot of spooning.

It's comforting, safe, relaxing, soothing, rejuvenating, caring and trusting.

The clothing ripping hard and fast sex is just lust and horniness to me which results in some explosive orgasms.... but it is more a release of tension than a choreography of passion.

Most swinger sex I've had is frenetic, frantic and frenzied.

Which is why I'm moving towards the rope play which is slow and building with pre-care and aftercare without the orgasmic goal.

Ahh those were the days"

I'm happy and lucky to have loved and to have lost than to have never loved at all.

I think that's about as much wisdom as I'm going to get. Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"I was gonna say what I think it is but impossible to compete with these "

It's not about competition. I'm not even a competitive person. It's about each experience being valid.

Some people never want to be married, so all that honeymoon stuff is pie in the sky for them.

I enjoy hearing other people's stories and experiences. We can't all be the same.

Variety is the spice of life, which is why most of us are here.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
37 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Can't be passionate without kissing, not really really passionate anyways."
i disagree... ive had plenty of passionate encounters and i dont kiss random people.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"For me, it just flows. lots of eye contact. Feather light touches to an embrace like an anaconda. The gentlest kiss to WWF tongues 🤣😂"

Yup this over and over edging until you crash or slowly surge and ebb away because you've exhausted yourselves emotionally and physically.

Like horizontal pilates. Lol! slow but all-consuming.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Can't be passionate without kissing, not really really passionate anyways.i disagree... ive had plenty of passionate encounters and i dont kiss random people. "

Depends on your definition of "passionate". I think everyone has different definitions and perspectives and of course, different physical and emotional responses.

I can have passionate, animalistic, aggressive fucking where my emotions do not come into it. It's an enjoyable time, it scratches an itch and is based on lust and horniness for me. It never consumes me for very long.

The emotions come into it as above as per honeymoon or a deep relationship connection with a partner and that is all-consuming and long-lasting for me.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
37 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"For me it's when you are just lost in each other, no thinking about what you are doing, just what comes naturally, just immersed in each other,their kiss, their touch, their smell, their sounds, their reactions. The need to just have them as close to you as you can, to almost become one."

Yes for hours.

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