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By *ohnnyEnglish OP   Man
37 weeks ago

ACCRINGTON

I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
37 weeks ago

Kingswood

It’s a hard ask good luck in your search

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By *ohnnyEnglish OP   Man
37 weeks ago

ACCRINGTON

Any advice? Lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
37 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Good luck OP.

Most dominant women are very highly sought after and wouldn't be scrapìng the barrel on fab.

But hope is the greatest of all gifts I suppose 💜

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By *ohnnyEnglish OP   Man
37 weeks ago

ACCRINGTON

One can only try. Lol don't know any other sites for that kind of thing. HBU?.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
37 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Sites in general are a rubbish approach. But those more catered towards kink and fetish scenes stand more of a chance. Usually the ones that seek online are only looking for clients.

Meeting them in person is generally considered the best approach for an actual connection. Munches and FemDomme events being the most likely places to come across them 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Good luck OP.

Most dominant women are very highly sought after and wouldn't be scrapìng the barrel on fab.

But hope is the greatest of all gifts I suppose 💜"

Sadly true

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By *layful_GaiaWoman
37 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"Sites in general are a rubbish approach. But those more catered towards kink and fetish scenes stand more of a chance. Usually the ones that seek online are only looking for clients.

Meeting them in person is generally considered the best approach for an actual connection. Munches and FemDomme events being the most likely places to come across them 💜"

Solid advice. Good luck op

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By *ohnnyEnglish OP   Man
37 weeks ago

ACCRINGTON

Well what I'm looking to do..meet in person. Not getting much luck on here. This site was suggested to me ages ago. I don't know any other platforms unfortunately.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
37 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Well what I'm looking to do..meet in person. Not getting much luck on here. This site was suggested to me ages ago. I don't know any other platforms unfortunately."

Like I said. Meet them originally in person unless you're just looking for a professional.

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Hinckley


"I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome. "

Well this would be great. Any local ladies who fancy taking charge of me for their entertainment who can accom

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
37 weeks ago

Frodsham

You never know your luck….

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By *ohnnyEnglish OP   Man
37 weeks ago

ACCRINGTON

That's just it. I gotta find the right person first. I'm stuck at the beginning.lol

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By *ohnnyEnglish OP   Man
37 weeks ago

ACCRINGTON

Unless ur offering then luck ain't on my side.haha

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Dominant women we spoke to seem to all want sub bi men or cucks. We have up after getting that impression.

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By * WillisMan
37 weeks ago

London/Essex


"I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome. "

Just get married you’ll then find you do everything wrong apparently 😂

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
37 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Well. You can lead a horse to water I guess.

Best of luck to those who don't want to take the steps to actually meet dominant women 💜

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
37 weeks ago

Essex


"Well. You can lead a horse to water I guess.

Best of luck to those who don't want to take the steps to actually meet dominant women 💜"

Doesn’t bode well if they can’t follow simple instructions….

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By *ick Weapon-XMan
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I'm surprised people are saying it's hard to find a dominant woman, one of the first and few ladies to message me first was one who wanted me to be her sub project. She was attractive too,I don't see how she would have that hard a time to get a man to be her property, so I was like "No, I'm good" so either it was a hoax, or I'm missing something as it seems dominant women are about here.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

That's a sparkly unicorn

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester


"dominant women wanted - I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome. "

I've only ever been really dominant with hubby and we've been together 24yrs

I've taken control with the BF but never dominated him

I think you need to have a certain level of trust to dominate a man - BF is 6ft3 and built like a truck! - so that's a bit of an ask

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
37 weeks ago

Telford


"I'm surprised people are saying it's hard to find a dominant woman, one of the first and few ladies to message me first was one who wanted me to be her sub project. She was attractive too,I don't see how she would have that hard a time to get a man to be her property, so I was like "No, I'm good" so either it was a hoax, or I'm missing something as it seems dominant women are about here."

Send them my way! I am finding it difficult to find dominant woman, that's happy to take it a bit slower initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"dominant women wanted - I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome.

I've only ever been really dominant with hubby and we've been together 24yrs

I've taken control with the BF but never dominated him

I think you need to have a certain level of trust to dominate a man - BF is 6ft3 and built like a truck! - so that's a bit of an ask "

I don’t get why his height and build make dominating him difficult?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
37 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"dominant women wanted - I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome.

I've only ever been really dominant with hubby and we've been together 24yrs

I've taken control with the BF but never dominated him

I think you need to have a certain level of trust to dominate a man - BF is 6ft3 and built like a truck! - so that's a bit of an ask

I don’t get why his height and build make dominating him difficult? "

My favourite Domme is 4ft11.

Size really doesn't matter 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Well. You can lead a horse to water I guess.

Best of luck to those who don't want to take the steps to actually meet dominant women 💜"

Been to a femdom munch. Cliquey and not diverse. Being on another site doesn’t make success any more likely either. Probably more difficult on there. I think I agree, you’re not going to find a domme on here but I also don’t think it’s going to be easy or likely anywhere unless you go to the munches and hit it off with someone. Maybe go to an event. But that’s the same as telling someone to go to clubs and socials to meet people; it’s just not easy for everyone.

We give advice and people will take the advice that will feel possible or realistic to them

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester


"dominant women wanted - I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome.

I've only ever been really dominant with hubby and we've been together 24yrs

I've taken control with the BF but never dominated him

I think you need to have a certain level of trust to dominate a man - BF is 6ft3 and built like a truck! - so that's a bit of an ask

I don’t get why his height and build make dominating him difficult? "

BF is very alpha male - absolutely no complaints from me there - we've never really had the conversation or situation arise where I can be the dominant one

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester


"dominant women wanted - I'm looking for a local dominant women who likes to take charge for her own amusement. Preferably local to me. Age is no barrier, any age welcome.

I've only ever been really dominant with hubby and we've been together 24yrs

I've taken control with the BF but never dominated him

I think you need to have a certain level of trust to dominate a man - BF is 6ft3 and built like a truck! - so that's a bit of an ask

I don’t get why his height and build make dominating him difficult?

My favourite Domme is 4ft11.

Size really doesn't matter 💜"

I guess it comes down to confidence too

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By *mmaleiaWoman
37 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"I'm surprised people are saying it's hard to find a dominant woman, one of the first and few ladies to message me first was one who wanted me to be her sub project. She was attractive too,I don't see how she would have that hard a time to get a man to be her property, so I was like "No, I'm good" so either it was a hoax, or I'm missing something as it seems dominant women are about here."

I don’t remember messaging you …

😂😂😂

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
37 weeks ago

Norwich

I think I have the makings of domination but I've never pursued it. I also don't know what it involves but would be open to it.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
37 weeks ago

Kingswood


"I think I have the makings of domination but I've never pursued it. I also don't know what it involves but would be open to it. "

For me I would say being a bit demanding, aggressive, selfish (ish), commanding, up front with your desires and not taking no for an answer, that’s what I’d look for in a dominant woman but everyone is different

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