FabSwingers.com forum: Do admin deal with abusive emails

By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I've had a little run on these, from people I have never emailed, met, seen on forums, replied to in forums, or seen in real life

So why they feel the need is beyond me

Do admin issue them with any warnings as I never seem to hear anything back?

Just a question, not a complaint btw!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe they read the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get such a mail there is an option for you to delete and report as abusive, admin then see the mail and if it is abusive BAN the person instantly

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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"Maybe they read the forums"

and your point is?

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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I have reported the messages to admin, just hear nothing back from them with regard the problem

I dont see why anyone would call me an ugly fat slag just because I post on the forums (apart from which it's not true)

I'm a well proportioned ok looking slut!

Seems a tab childish to me and very common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get such a mail there is an option for you to delete and report as abusive, admin then see the mail and if it is abusive BAN the person instantly"

Wish I had done that a couple of weeks back, might have sorted out a Big problem I was having, only joking not really my style

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I have reported the messages to admin, just hear nothing back from them with regard the problem

I dont see why anyone would call me an ugly fat slag just because I post on the forums (apart from which it's not true)

I'm a well proportioned ok looking slut!

Seems a tab childish to me and very common

They probably just deal with these dickheads but might not have time to let you know - you know you're fab so just disregard these small minded, intellectually stunted twits - Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

to me anyone that sends any kind of hate mail is a prat (sorry cant use Wanker i have been told)

Say it in open forum and be man or woman enough to stand by your words

Steve

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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"to me anyone that sends any kind of hate mail is a prat (sorry cant use Wanker i have been told)

Say it in open forum and be man or woman enough to stand by your words

Steve

I am perfectly well aware I am NOT EVERYONES cup of tea, but I don't email them and tell them they're not for me!

I would be busy for a bloody week hahaha

maybe its time of the month and I'm feeling a little sensitive and vulnerble .... she dont tell everyone, even I have feelings! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice hun...

We all know assh*les exist and they proved it.

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

Report their profiles (which you say you have done) and block them.. Abuse is not tolerated on this site in chatroom and equally so in forums/messages..

Can never understand why people have to be so abusive.. They obviously have a problem..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report their profiles (which you say you have done) and block them.. Abuse is not tolerated on this site in chatroom and equally so in forums/messages..

Can never understand why people have to be so abusive.. They obviously have a problem.. "
this is very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read the forums

and your point is?

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As you say, your not to everyones taste and your personal views and attitudes wont be shared by all and those reading the forums feel they have carte blanc to insult you. It happens to us all at some point. We're all entitled to our opinion, nothing stopping someone from putting their views in a forum but they're cowards, so I'd just block and report.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Maybe they read the forums"

Sorry, but that did make me laugh a little bit.

It also depends on what is written in people's profiles... yeah I know it's hard to beleive but some people do read them and make judgements. Why they feel the need to send private messages about it is beyond me, but such is life. I prefer to write my views in the open.

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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

People can make all the judgements they like about me from my forum listings or my profile, I am me, those that don't like me, well enough said.

But why would a fool want to send a message saying I am not what you want?

I see plenty on the forums and in chat that I don't want, and I am sure others feel the same, but we dont feel the need to be foolish about it

Actually the question was more about what exactly do admin do about it, and I still am unaware.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Try check a profile you have reported for sending an abusive message... if it's gone you have your answer... if it's not, you also have your answer... it's not that hard to work out is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the few times I have reported someone either because they have sent abusive messages or abusive chat admin have delt with it very quickly and deleted the profile.

So I only have good things to say about admin since they have helped me when I needed it.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one who was abusive to me the other day, along with a few other girls must have been dealt with!! apparently i was fat?? hmmm no shit sherlock lol!! its the power trip makes them feel that wee bit important!! i especially love it when they have no pics been here for donkeys and say they are straight and their only 2 friends are guys??

in the words of the prophet sod them all!!!

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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"Try check a profile you have reported for sending an abusive message... if it's gone you have your answer... if it's not, you also have your answer... it's not that hard to work out is it?"

no need to sneer

Some of us have better things to do than know every inch of the side upside down and backwards

I asked what admin did and unless you are admin, then you know what.....

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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"one who was abusive to me the other day, along with a few other girls must have been dealt with!! apparently i was fat?? hmmm no shit sherlock lol!! its the power trip makes them feel that wee bit important!! i especially love it when they have no pics been here for donkeys and say they are straight and their only 2 friends are guys??

in the words of the prophet sod them all!!!

sounds like the same eejut love

AW well least hes been dealt with xx

Thanks chick

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"I have reported the messages to admin, just hear nothing back from them with regard the problem

I dont see why anyone would call me an ugly fat slag just because I post on the forums (apart from which it's not true)

I'm a well proportioned ok looking slut!

Seems a tab childish to me and very common

I am trying to find an answer given by Admin when someone asked the question before, but not knowing what the thread was called it is taking a bit of time.

i will keep looking, but basically what they said was there is a process they go through when a report comes in, and every one of them get investigated and if needed dealt with.

You don't get a mail telling you what happened to the complaint though.

I will keep looking for the answer for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i found it highly amusin as i had never spoke to him and his profile. dont let it annoy you he likely one of those people who wouldnt say boo to a mouse in the real world but online turns into the big judgemental god almighty!! xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"to me anyone that sends any kind of hate mail is a prat (sorry cant use Wanker i have been told)

Say it in open forum and be man or woman enough to stand by your words

Steve

You can use swearwords all you like, just not call someone directly

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/help/1724#last

Here you go, the last post on the thread is Admins answer.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Try check a profile you have reported for sending an abusive message... if it's gone you have your answer... if it's not, you also have your answer... it's not that hard to work out is it?

no need to sneer

Some of us have better things to do than know every inch of the side upside down and backwards

I asked what admin did and unless you are admin, then you know what.....

I trust that reply goes to everyone who isn't admin who replied

It was a suggestion.... and one which will give you an immediate answer to your question.

As this was posted in the 'Lounge' (regardless of the title and subject) I am just as entitled to reply as anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rugby got one here for you... just this minute got a mail asking if I want to be a web-cam model but when I checked his profile I can't view it.... hmmmm

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Laine...if he had already sent it to others before you, they may have reported it...and he would be breaking site rules on that one so he would have been disabled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Laine...if he had already sent it to others before you, they may have reported it...and he would be breaking site rules on that one so he would have been disabled."

Cheers Rugby, have also reported it, think that answers the query about admin... they too busy sorting things to reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rugby got one here for you... just this minute got a mail asking if I want to be a web-cam model but when I checked his profile I can't view it.... hmmmm

I got a message just like that the other day the person also called whether I was a real woman into question

oooo I loved that the thought that someone was using my pics to pretend there was a woman in the couple

as if anyone would use my pics other than me

Shona

x x x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"Laine...if he had already sent it to others before you, they may have reported it...and he would be breaking site rules on that one so he would have been disabled.

Cheers Rugby, have also reported it, think that answers the query about admin... they too busy sorting things to reply!

Exactly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still wondering how he would have been able to pay me for my modeling? does he do play-pal accounts hahaha!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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It could well have been a scammer who will get women to cam for him to show him what you can do, then he cums and you won't see him again haha

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I got a message just like that the other day the person also called whether I was a real woman into question

Don't you just pitty people who on first contact feel they need to include some form of manipulation in their messages...

"If you are genuine ...."

"If you are not a timewaster ...."

"If you are a woman ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people get abusive mail..

yu should laugh, consider how sad the sender is, block and delete..

the sender will then return to his/her toys and await for the neighbour's kid to come to the door and ask if he/she is coming out to play...

they havent moved on since primary school playground.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could well have been a scammer who will get women to cam for him to show him what you can do, then he cums and you won't see him again haha"

awww and I was putting on my best flanelette nightie and sunday shawl for him!

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By *xstephbxxCouple
over a year ago

hyde

As you may know, had some serious abuse thrown in our direction by 1 or 2 couples on here, could have got very ugly but we decided to contact the admin of fab and leave it to hem to sort out. Within 12 hours the problem was resolved.

Let them sort it out hun, and ignore the knobhead !!.. way too many genuine people on here to let the odd idiot spoil the fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message just like that the other day the person also called whether I was a real woman into question

Don't you just pitty people who on first contact feel they need to include some form of manipulation in their messages...

"If you are genuine ...."

"If you are not a timewaster ...."

"If you are a woman ...."

Thats the one Polo "webcam if your a real woman" type of message. I said to hubby you go on and answer that one cos he is more diplomatic than me - he said if you wanna direct go into the directors room people there want directed - me I would have said what part of my profile says I webcam for people with no pics and hand out my msn addy to just anyone??

My profile does say I show my face to prove I am real and I have been in the directors room a couple of times but thats my choice when and if I do, not for someone to tell me (not ask btw) what to do and when to do it.

Although I normally subscribe to Views advice block and delete but sometimes a twit will really annoy me and I walk away rather than get myself reported to admin

Shona

x x x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Sorry if this sounds blunt, but why do people let it bother them? block and report if it is bad.

The move on....and sorry to spoil the thread for some, but as all the people being spoke about are members too, they all deserve not to be bad mouthed while any investigations are going on.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I got a message just like that the other day the person also called whether I was a real woman into question

Don't you just pitty people who on first contact feel they need to include some form of manipulation in their messages...

"If you are genuine ...."

"If you are not a timewaster ...."

"If you are a woman ...."

Although I normally subscribe to Views advice block and delete but sometimes a twit will really annoy me and I walk away rather than get myself reported to admin

Shona

x x x "

Try replying... "If I show you my face on cam will you suck my cock?" .... then press 'block' when you feel like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I got a message just like that the other day the person also called whether I was a real woman into question

Don't you just pitty people who on first contact feel they need to include some form of manipulation in their messages...

"If you are genuine ...."

"If you are not a timewaster ...."

"If you are a woman ...."

That has only happened to us once when we first joined,they said "you look lovely......if thats really you"

End of contact from us

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