FabSwingers.com forum: FWB

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

Would you/have you introduced a fwb to other vanilla friends/family?

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
37 weeks ago

Bliss

No. I have 2 longterm fwb and we have been enjoying each others time for over 6 years now.

My nilla mates/fam wouldn't get my poly lifestyle as they are 100% mono

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By *unguy2429Man
37 weeks ago

worthing

We all like a fwb

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By *nthony50069Man
37 weeks ago

yesh near oldham

"Would you/have you introduced a fwb to other vanilla friends/family? "

No I keep it close to my chest as my nilla fan wouldn’t get it either

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

No.

My family are so very old fashioned, and would never understand such practices that are indulged here.

As for friends, even easier to say no, as I don’t have any real friends that I’d confide something like this to.

My sex life is something I wouldn’t discuss with any of them even if they were cool and open minded enough to understand.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
37 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Only one of the ladies I’ve known for years. We’re very good friends anyway. Nobody knows about the benefits though haha.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Only one or two friends know I'm in this lifestyle

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By *layful_GaiaWoman
37 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I probably wouldn't see a reason to

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By *oxy-RedWoman
37 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Yes I would,all my friends know I'm on fab

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
37 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Absolutely not.

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By *ewtfaceMan
37 weeks ago

Bracknell

No ~ but it could be done. But I think I'd introduce her as a "friend" not as a "FWB"

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

I'm single so it wouldn't be awkward to introduce people to my FWB. Shame I don't have one though.

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By *ace400Man
37 weeks ago

near knock

My eldest daughter (who’s 19) boyfriend’s friend put me on fab. Don’t know if she knows about it might just think it’s a dating app as she has put me on tinder etc. ( this is far more enjoyable). But none of my friends know only people I have met on here which I feel are friends in more ways than one 😜

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Absolutely would.

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By *issmorganWoman
37 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
37 weeks ago

Telford

No I keep that separate

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By *entleman JayMan
37 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes I have. Family and friends on both side. We were seeing each other for 2 1/2 years though.

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By *ewtfaceMan
37 weeks ago

Bracknell

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By *eddy004Man
37 weeks ago

Toy Town

The introduction was more along the lines of bumping into her while out with the family. I'm known to chat with many people so was no surprise that I knew her locally and we casually chatted away.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

No, but cos I am chatty I can reference something interesting/funny about one of my 'friends' which then leads to questions about how do i know them.

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By *partharmonyCouple
37 weeks ago

Tonbridge

I have not been in that situation but I can't see that I'd have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I am looking for the fwb first 😂😂

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By *verageHoesCouple
37 weeks ago

Bessacarr

I have done in the past

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
37 weeks ago

someplace

No cos they're an fwb not my boyfriend

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By *mmaleiaWoman
37 weeks ago

Trowbridge

My FBW of 6 years was a good friend, we often went places together & met each others friends, it wasn’t any bodies business but ours what we did in private

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

No I keep my fwb private. She does the same

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester

"FWB - Would you/have you introduced a fwb to other vanilla friends/family? "

I started to tell my friends about my FWB/BF situation and it didn't go down well, so I backtracked pretty quickly and never talked about him again, which is a shame because I'm sure they'd love to hear about him

he's my secret now

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By *agic.MMan
37 weeks ago

Kent/London

I have...and would. For me a FWB is not just someone I have sex with, and if I choose someone as a FWB - that means I trust them enough to introduce them to friends and family... they are what I like to call a "special friend"

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
37 weeks ago

North Somerset

Probably not family but friends i might.... although I'm very open with my friends and family with what I get up to/fab life, I'm actually quite reserved to let you into my family circle, my partner hasn't even met my family yet and we've been seeing eachother just over a year but a relationship about 8 months, he is meeting some in a couple weeks at a family wedding, I'm excited and maybe a smidge nervous ha ha.... but they will love him just as much as I do I'm sure....

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By *i versMan
37 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Love fwb, just want more now

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By *heelerMan
37 weeks ago

Northants

Still looking for one after all these years

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By *uzzieboyMan
37 weeks ago

Somerset

Well my last FWB we known each other for years and know each other’s family and was kept close to our chests

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By *layful_GaiaWoman
37 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"I probably wouldn't see a reason to

Following on from this - I might not intend to, but as they are a friend, I'd just treat them like any other friend meeting others in my life in general, so it wouldn't be a big deal

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
37 weeks ago

Hampshire

I haven't done, but that's only because my friends groups and my family generally don't mix anyway. In the extremely unlikely event a FWB and I bumped into anyone in my vanilla social circle, I'd simply introduce them as a friend. No need for any further information.

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By *penminded7Man
37 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Would luv a FWB

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By *ax6593Man
37 weeks ago

tyneside

Yes please

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By *ace400Man
37 weeks ago

near knock

I would love a FWB but that’s easier said than done. If anyone is looking I’m available

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
37 weeks ago

Niche

This is actually one of my internal questions I ask myself before I make plans with anyone.

'Would I be comfortable if they met someone/anyone from my life?'

If it's a no, if I'm not proud to be with them openly? Well then I know they're not right for me and clearly I'm thinking with the tiny brain and need to calm my libido down a bit and move on.

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By *he MinionMan
37 weeks ago

Surrey

I havent introduced my fwb to my friends or family but i have met quite a few of my fwbs family and friends. Even been invited to attend the wedding of one.

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By *ookie46Woman
37 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Absolutely I would

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By *uzzieboyMan
37 weeks ago

Somerset

Well I’d love another FWB applications sent via inbox lol 😂

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By *dible_KinkCouple
37 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes, i have to my friends and family. He was given a warm welcome, no issues at all with it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

One of mine has met my daughter and has become a bit of a mentor to her. I talk to my daughters about my fwbs.

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By *akedMMan
37 weeks ago

Witney

Would love a FWB , please apply

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

London

Unfortunately my family wouldn't understand, I'm already the black sheep of the family when I left their religion.

I've no qualms about it, I just know that some of them are too uptight about sexual matters. Ultimately I wouldn't want to be denied access to my family.

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

London

"My FBW of 6 years was a good friend, we often went places together & met each others friends, it wasn’t any bodies business but ours what we did in private "

Was? Is there a vacancy for a new one, more to the point where do I apply?

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By *arialoueWoman
37 weeks ago

Doncaster

Im done with having an fwb now , im looking for something more meaningful

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

London

"I haven't done, but that's only because my friends groups and my family generally don't mix anyway. In the extremely unlikely event a FWB and I bumped into anyone in my vanilla social circle, I'd simply introduce them as a friend. No need for any further information."

Can I be one of your 'friends'?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Interesting. So now I’m wondering whether someone who calls me a FWB actually sees me as a friend or a FB. Because why wouldn’t your friend be able to meet your friends?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
37 weeks ago

North West

Well I would yeah. Just like I would any other friend. If we have been seeing each other for a while, I don't see the issue in an introduction to other friends and family.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

I've introduced all of mine to other friends as at the end of the day they are my friends too...just with added benefits that no-one needs to know about.

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By *oeBeansMan
37 weeks ago

Derby

No, I don't think I would. I pretty much keep this part of my life separate to real life and would find it awkward to explain how we met. And even if I didn't keep it separate, my friend groups never really mix anyway so the situation wouldn't really come up.

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By *ray_BTWMan
37 weeks ago

Worcester

I need a FWB in my life.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
37 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅

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By *exxyyDy11Man
37 weeks ago

North West

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅"

50 FWBs?? May as well host a party 😂

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
37 weeks ago

Bliss

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅"

That was bloody hilarious

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
37 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅

50 FWBs?? May as well host a party 😂"

Not exactly that more people on the scene 😆

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
37 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅

That was bloody hilarious

For everyone else not me 😂

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By *eriScotMan
37 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

Yes, she’s been one of my best mates for years so known my family and friends a long time. Just so happens we like to fuck if we’re both single 😂

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
37 weeks ago

Bliss

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅

That was bloody hilarious

For everyone else not me 😂"

The look of pure horror and panic on your face was more amusing, than when you fall over stuff

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By *ookie46Woman
37 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅"

This was too funny, still laugh smile about it now 🤣

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
37 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅

That was bloody hilarious

For everyone else not me 😂

The look of pure horror and panic on your face was more amusing, than when you fall over stuff

We have since agreed to never mention it again as long as we live 🫣😂

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
37 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅

This was too funny, still laugh smile about it now 🤣"

Don't you start 😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Would you/have you introduced a fwb to other vanilla friends/family? "

Yes my Mrs introduced me to her family and friends while we were FB’s before we officially got together and come to think of it I introduced her to my family too

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By *entleman JayMan
37 weeks ago

Leeds

"I probably wouldn't see a reason to

Following on from this - I might not intend to, but as they are a friend, I'd just treat them like any other friend meeting others in my life in general, so it wouldn't be a big deal "

This.

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
37 weeks ago

North East

I’ve introduced them they’ve also met them on there way out on mornings 🤣 in another life

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By *orny IrishMan
37 weeks ago

North Wiltshire

I would need a FWB first. But realistically no I wouldn't.

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By *nthony50069Man
37 weeks ago

yesh near oldham

I’m still looking for one

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By *ustBoWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I have he is a friend first and foremost,what we do on private is our own business. I wouldn't be a very good friend if I was embarrassed to be seen with him by anyone I know.

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By *asha86Couple
37 weeks ago

walsall

For us we keep it separate. We do have close friends on the scene that we have met each other's family.

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By *ustinMan
37 weeks ago

near chester/welsh border

Yes as a friend they are the same as other friends, no one needs to know the details of a friendship so the private part stays private

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
37 weeks ago

Right up your street

Nope. For me it’s a completely different entity

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
37 weeks ago

The lost village

Yes. Because they are always a friend first, thats the most important part.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

I've also introduced fwbs to other fwbs.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
37 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Interesting. So now I’m wondering whether someone who calls me a FWB actually sees me as a friend or a FB. Because why wouldn’t your friend be able to meet your friends?"

This!!!

Nobody but the two friends needs to know there are benefits. It's just another friend circle isn't it??

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

London

"Interesting. So now I’m wondering whether someone who calls me a FWB actually sees me as a friend or a FB. Because why wouldn’t your friend be able to meet your friends?

This!!!

Nobody but the two friends needs to know there are benefits. It's just another friend circle isn't it?? "

Man, I need to find me 'friend' in Basingstoke 😂

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