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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
43 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Would you meet someone who was attached and their partner didn’t know. Just a simple yes or no answer, no need for high horses.

Just doing another survey for Sydney

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By *oung bull500Man
43 weeks ago

dublin

Yeah

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By *sWyldWoman
43 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes

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By *asualfridayMan
43 weeks ago

Highlands

Nah

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By *tsallreal11Man
43 weeks ago

wherever you want

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yep

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By *elpie07Man
43 weeks ago

Grantham

Yeah

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By *eliWoman
43 weeks ago

.

I don't think I would now, no.

I'm guessing you mean more than meeting at a social.

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By *uperSalopian7Man
43 weeks ago

Parts Unknown

No

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By *itter78Couple
43 weeks ago

Spennymoor

No

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
43 weeks ago

Norwich

Yes

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
43 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't think I would now, no.

I'm guessing you mean more than meeting at a social. "

Sorry yes. I mean more than a social x

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By *morousAvocadoMan
43 weeks ago

Somerset

Would entirely depend on context for me!

So in certain situations yes! But mostly no haha

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By *eroLondonMan
43 weeks ago

Mayfair

🇾‌🇪‌🇸‌

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Even a person with the highest morals could have without their knowledge, anyone can claim to be single in a world full of hidden identities. But yes I have previously and probably would again for a hook up, not for a long term arrangement though.

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By *k_123Man
43 weeks ago

.

As above, yes for short term fun x

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By *oochie DeLiciousWoman
43 weeks ago

Wolvo

Nope not intentionally.

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By *orphia2003Woman
43 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Socially, yes.

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By *oelMan
43 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

Yes

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By *netobeextraMan
43 weeks ago

see profile bio for locations / dates

Yes

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By *elloWoman
43 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Yes but I would be judging them

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By *r TenderMan
43 weeks ago

Wirral

No honesty is key but no I wouldn’t

I wouldn’t like it to be done to me

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By *weetiepie99Woman
43 weeks ago

cardiff

No. I have to bite my tongue now I know

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

No, having been on the recieving end of that type of betrayal.

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By *issmorganWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No.

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By *ace400Man
43 weeks ago

near knock

No

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By *luebell888Woman
43 weeks ago

Glasgowish

No

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

Depends on the circumstances but usually no

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
43 weeks ago

Gloucester

No

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

No

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
43 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I used to yes

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By *urious_2025Man
43 weeks ago

Celbridge

No, been cheated on, wouldn't want to do it to someone else

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By *viatrixWoman
43 weeks ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

Yes.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
43 weeks ago

Hampshire

No

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

No

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
43 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Wow more women saying yes than men so far(if I counted right, I did it quickly) I thought it would be the other way round tbh.

I’m a yes so included myself too

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
43 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Yes but I would be judging them "

I like this approach. Feels fair.

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By *ed wineMan
43 weeks ago

Where the streets have no name

Every response needs context. This site is like a Secret Garden for many users, so, what happens in Fabs, remains in Fabs.

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By *gent_of_the_NineMan
43 weeks ago

Holiday Inn

Yes

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By *appy-go- luckyMan
43 weeks ago

pothole city

If more than a social then No.

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By *itgingermanMan
43 weeks ago

Rotherham

Yes

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By *uliette500Woman
43 weeks ago

Hull

I do and have been for 7.5 years

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By *ere4It3000Couple
43 weeks ago

Belgium

No

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By *un couple 2Couple
43 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

For a social or one-off, probably. For anything more than that, no.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
43 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Solo rather than single, but it's a no from me dawg 💜

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By *EAT..85Woman
43 weeks ago

Nottingham

Now, no. In the past, yes.

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By *asty tatsyMan
43 weeks ago

london

Yes

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By *aizyWoman
43 weeks ago

west midlands

Yes.

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By *IXEN200Woman
43 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

Yes

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By *erdyGuy42Man
43 weeks ago

Ask

Yes

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By *estructionDollyWoman
43 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes

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By *ick MastersMan
43 weeks ago

Birmingham

Probably would say yes, but not always

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

Depends on the person so sometimes yes and sometimes no 😬

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yes

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By *ust of the LibertineMan
43 weeks ago

Bridgend

Yes

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By *ookie46Woman
43 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yes

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By *weetiepie99Woman
43 weeks ago

cardiff

I can't look anymore🙈

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By *Silver-Man
43 weeks ago

North Wales

Yep

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
43 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Would you meet someone who was attached and their partner didn’t know. Just a simple yes or no answer, no need for high horses.

Just doing another survey for Sydney "

No.

I don't ask in clubs or events.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yes, everyone has reason for being here and not really our place to judge

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
43 weeks ago

Reading

Yes, context is everything. And I have been on both sides of the equation in the past and know that it is never straightforward for everyone involved.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
43 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"No, having been on the receiving end of that type of betrayal."

Not been on the receiving end or the giving end per se but I've seen the fallout and I believe in Karma and big "T" and little "t" trauma. Just not for me but others can do what they like. What they do is none of my business unless I'm asked directly and I don't like gossip.

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By *unguy2429Man
43 weeks ago

worthing

Yes

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
43 weeks ago

Round the bend

Yes

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
43 weeks ago

Round the bend

Oops im not single 🤣🙈

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yes

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
43 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Oops im not single 🤣🙈"

🤣💕

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By *lexander999300Man
43 weeks ago

ashford

Yes

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By *eliWoman
43 weeks ago

.


"I can't look anymore🙈"

Is it that disappointing?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
43 weeks ago

cardiff


"I can't look anymore🙈

Is it that disappointing? "

Well yes, my illusions of some people are shattered

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
43 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oops im not single 🤣🙈"

Get out!!

🤣🤣

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By *uby19300Woman
43 weeks ago

Oxford

No

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
43 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Oops im not single 🤣🙈"

Lol! Is this the Mr or Mrs?

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By *adbod74Man
43 weeks ago

Dudley

No

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
43 weeks ago

Round the bend


"Oops im not single 🤣🙈

Lol! Is this the Mr or Mrs?"

Mrs 😂

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
43 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Yes.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
43 weeks ago

Round the bend


"Oops im not single 🤣🙈

Get out!!

🤣🤣"

😂😂😂😂

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
43 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Every response needs context. This site is like a Secret Garden for many users, so, what happens in Fabs, remains in Fabs."

Wait what? This is a rule? You neurotypicals never tell us Neurodivergents anything.

I already broke it all my playmates know i'm here and all my fetish mates know i'm here. Hell my sibling knows I'm here.

I haven't told my parents but I can't see them having any interest. My dad is happy watching his porn despite being blind and my mother is happy complaining about my dad watching porn and attending 3 churches... Lol!

As you can see, I'm pretty much an open book. I don't have the spoons to sneak around.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
43 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Oops im not single 🤣🙈

Lol! Is this the Mr or Mrs?

Mrs 😂"

I'm dying with laughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

We would, and do. This is swinging. !!!and think why shouldnt one side any couple not practice what all us couples do. And that is have sex without the attachment.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"I can't look anymore🙈"

Lol.just say yes, you know it makes sense.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
43 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I'd be a hypocrite if I said no!

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By *ingle singleMan
43 weeks ago

Hull

Yes

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod

43 weeks ago

Central

In some circumstances, yes. Not to date though

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By *inxalicious_MWoman
43 weeks ago

Oadby

Nope 👎

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By *egnMaxCouple
43 weeks ago

East Midlands

Yes.

Though haven’t done it yet.

😘

Meg

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By *oomlMan
23 hours ago

Fareham

No.

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By *ittleteaseWoman
23 hours ago

Norfolk

Yes

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By *innamon_flameWoman
23 hours ago

london

Yes

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By *hickthighs26Woman
23 hours ago

funky town

Yes

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By *ambslass54Woman
23 hours ago

Yaxley, Peterborough


"Yes"

No

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By *ormal real manMan
23 hours ago

huddersfield

Yes

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By *ullrunMan
23 hours ago

Bradford


"Would you meet someone who was attached and their partner didn’t know. Just a simple yes or no answer, no need for high horses.

Just doing another survey for Sydney "

Yes

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
23 hours ago

London

Yes

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By *allnHandsome12Man
23 hours ago

Teesside

Yep

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By *arierWoman
23 hours ago

birmingham

No

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
23 hours ago

Bradford

No not a chance

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By *orksguy1965Man
23 hours ago

Howden

Yes, everyone as needs

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By *ondon JoyBoyMan
22 hours ago

Camden


"Would you meet someone who was attached and their partner didn’t know. Just a simple yes or no answer, no need for high horses.

Just doing another survey for Sydney "

Yes

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By *oxy-RedWoman
21 hours ago

pink panther territory

No

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By *gent CoulsonMan
21 hours ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A no from me

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By *agicm696Man
21 hours ago

High Wycombe

Yes

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By *all me FlikWoman
21 hours ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

No

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By *akedOrangeMan
21 hours ago

Oxford

Yes

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By *luebell888Woman
21 hours ago

Glasgowish

No

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By *hortieWoman
21 hours ago

Northampton

No.

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By *viatrixWoman
21 hours ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

Yes.

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By *uicyboobiesWoman
21 hours ago

Newtownbutler

No

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By *otBunsHunWoman
20 hours ago

The North where we do what we want

Yes

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
16 hours ago

Telford

No

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By *ilverjagMan
16 hours ago

swansea

Yes. As it's not for me to judge, and things are far less likely to get complicated if someone is married.

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By *andadbodMan
16 hours ago

Liverpool

yes

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By *igBeardyDanMan
15 hours ago

Bilston

Yes

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
15 hours ago

SW

No

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By *lectrictouchMan
15 hours ago

inverarary

I have yes

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By *ornyguy666Man
15 hours ago

Nottingham

YES

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By *eb1973Man
15 hours ago

Kings Lynn

Yes

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By *elboy1978Man
13 hours ago

Jarrow

Yes

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
13 hours ago

Paradise, Herts

Blimey this thread was brought out of the woodwork!

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
13 hours ago

IPSWICH

Yes

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
13 hours ago

Nope

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
12 hours ago

North West

Yes

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By *otstuff77Woman
12 hours ago

to close for comfort

Yes

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By *uin80Man
12 hours ago

Fareham

Yes, but I would like to know in advance so I know what I am getting into

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By *acavityMan
12 hours ago

Redditch

I prefer honesty.

But every situation is different.

More likely to meet an attached woman behind her partner’s back.

Attached men who are meeting other men in secret generally have a few more issues, especially when they have ‘straight’ on their profile. Generally not worth the hassle.

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By *uttercupWoman
12 hours ago

Borders

No!!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 hours ago

Birmingham

Yes

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By *irefly75Man
12 hours ago

nearby

Yes

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
12 hours ago

Paradise, Herts

I was gonna have a count up but half of them have left 🤣

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
12 hours ago

Paradise, Herts


"I was gonna have a count up but half of them have left 🤣"

Like how many men how many women say what etc

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By *ormal_ManMan
11 hours ago

Harrogate

Yes.

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By *hehighlander88Man
10 hours ago

inverness

In honestly yes but I would prefer if they knew

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By *007ManMan
10 hours ago

Worthing

No.

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By *edR1dingHoodWoman
10 hours ago

Cumbria

No

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By *akedOrangeMan
10 hours ago

Oxford


"I was gonna have a count up but half of them have left 🤣

Like how many men how many women say what etc "

What was your answer?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
9 hours ago

cardiff

You can really go off people. And no.

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By *ino200Man
9 hours ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

I have done yes

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By *ay9971Man
8 hours ago

Rochdale

Yes

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By *mf123Man
8 hours ago

with one foot out the door

No but only cos i dont wanna be around people im too seductive but if i was i dont care why should i be judge of someone seaking there pleasure at my expense if i get my quota in all is good

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By * L RipleyWoman
8 hours ago

Buckinghamshire

No

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By *onin25Man
8 hours ago

Durham

No

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