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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a wee nosey in the Events section and gangbangs seem to be the most common event posted.

Are the gangbangers ganging up to have the biggest gangbang as gangbangingly possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might b a contest see who can have the biggest n bestest gangbang its one way of having loads lol

who wud say no if offered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We notice that too, we also noticed its nearly all single men that’s advertising them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We notice that too, we also noticed its nearly all single men that’s advertising them "
and do they ever take place ?????

im guessing not ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We notice that too, we also noticed its nearly all single men that’s advertising them "

I noticed that as well.

Also noticed one who occasionally says GB has to be cancelled at the last minute due to female not being able to attend.

Maybe he gets a kick out of any PM's he gets

If that's the case then what a saddo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We notice that too, we also noticed its nearly all single men that’s advertising them

I noticed that as well.

Also noticed one who occasionally says GB has to be cancelled at the last minute due to female not being able to attend.

Maybe he gets a kick out of any PM's he gets

If that's the case then what a saddo "

i think the problem with a site such as FAB is that it attracts a lot of wannabes ..who hear about the lifestyle and want to join in . Im on here because i cant do the relationship thing and dont want to but i love the company of the kinda guys i would have a relationship with if i wanted too..(does that make sense ??/)

think lots of people think of it as way of getting a decent shag without having to pay for it !!!!......WRONG !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i arranged a private gang bang once, a friend of mine helped me sort it, let me use his home and helped me go thro the mail, we put an advert up and got hundreds of replys, sorted thro them, got back to the ones i was interested in, did the phone called and settled on 15 men, not expecting them all to turn up i was avdised to invite a few more than wanted to account for the no shows

2 turned up on the night

i wasted all that time and affort of 13 guys not to show and not a single one of them called to let me know they wasnt coming they just didnt show

So i went home

i would never arranged another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost count of the amount of gangbangs the "guys" on here say they could arrange but when it comes to the day it is ALWAYS canceled and not by me!!!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"who wud say no if offered "

We would not into GB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i arranged a private gang bang once, a friend of mine helped me sort it, let me use his home and helped me go thro the mail, we put an advert up and got hundreds of replys, sorted thro them, got back to the ones i was interested in, did the phone called and settled on 15 men, not expecting them all to turn up i was avdised to invite a few more than wanted to account for the no shows

2 turned up on the night

i wasted all that time and affort of 13 guys not to show and not a single one of them called to let me know they wasnt coming they just didnt show

So i went home

i would never arranged another one"

one of my friends arranged one for me and it was amazing ..he belongs to a well known group of london guys who are very experienced in the scene and gave me a birthday treat i will never forget !! best way if u want one is to go to the experts ....dont try to DIY !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost count of the amount of gangbangs the "guys" on here say they could arrange but when it comes to the day it is ALWAYS canceled and not by me!!!! "

MOST, and please note men i said most lol men on here are all talk, they like the idea of it, they like talking about it, they like arranging it but MOST will not go thro with it, i'd say a good 70% of the meets i arranged get cancelled on the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i arranged a private gang bang once, a friend of mine helped me sort it, let me use his home and helped me go thro the mail, we put an advert up and got hundreds of replys, sorted thro them, got back to the ones i was interested in, did the phone called and settled on 15 men, not expecting them all to turn up i was avdised to invite a few more than wanted to account for the no shows

2 turned up on the night

i wasted all that time and affort of 13 guys not to show and not a single one of them called to let me know they wasnt coming they just didnt show

So i went home

i would never arranged another one

one of my friends arranged one for me and it was amazing ..he belongs to a well known group of london guys who are very experienced in the scene and gave me a birthday treat i will never forget !! best way if u want one is to go to the experts ....dont try to DIY !!! "

i dont know anybody tho and being single im not really willing to travel miles alone to meet a group of strangers, how i did it would have worked for me as i knew the guy whos house it was, i have had messages from such gang bang groups, i had one from a guy in london who claims he does them all the time but to me, traveling from dudley to london alone to meet a group of guys is stupid for many reasons, one they could be pushy and im alone with noone to help me, they could not all like me there for it would be a wasted journey and also i may not like all of them so again wasted journey, as londons not just 2 mins down the road lol i have never found or heard of such groups in the west mids area, i wouldnt mind going and people not liking me if it was only a few miles away but im not traveling half was across the country on a off chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who wud say no if offered

We would not into GB "
I would say no: not my thing at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've lost count of the amount of gangbangs the "guys" on here say they could arrange but when it comes to the day it is ALWAYS canceled and not by me!!!!

MOST, and please note men i said most lol men on here are all talk, they like the idea of it, they like talking about it, they like arranging it but MOST will not go thro with it, i'd say a good 70% of the meets i arranged get cancelled on the day"

And its men like you said who give guys like myself a bad name.

There is too many 'fantasisers' on this site but that's part and parcel of the package and will never change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost count of the amount of gangbangs the "guys" on here say they could arrange but when it comes to the day it is ALWAYS canceled and not by me!!!!

MOST, and please note men i said most lol men on here are all talk, they like the idea of it, they like talking about it, they like arranging it but MOST will not go thro with it, i'd say a good 70% of the meets i arranged get cancelled on the day"

we've noticed this too, the ones that pester you the most are the worst, can meet anytime etc, mail me when your looking, and anytime your free they're never available, or once they're on our friends list the conversation soon turns to getting me to meet them alone.

Got to keep the chin up as theres some gems out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i arranged a private gang bang once, a friend of mine helped me sort it, let me use his home and helped me go thro the mail, we put an advert up and got hundreds of replys, sorted thro them, got back to the ones i was interested in, did the phone called and settled on 15 men, not expecting them all to turn up i was avdised to invite a few more than wanted to account for the no shows

2 turned up on the night

i wasted all that time and affort of 13 guys not to show and not a single one of them called to let me know they wasnt coming they just didnt show

So i went home

i would never arranged another one

one of my friends arranged one for me and it was amazing ..he belongs to a well known group of london guys who are very experienced in the scene and gave me a birthday treat i will never forget !! best way if u want one is to go to the experts ....dont try to DIY !!!

i dont know anybody tho and being single im not really willing to travel miles alone to meet a group of strangers, how i did it would have worked for me as i knew the guy whos house it was, i have had messages from such gang bang groups, i had one from a guy in london who claims he does them all the time but to me, traveling from dudley to london alone to meet a group of guys is stupid for many reasons, one they could be pushy and im alone with noone to help me, they could not all like me there for it would be a wasted journey and also i may not like all of them so again wasted journey, as londons not just 2 mins down the road lol i have never found or heard of such groups in the west mids area, i wouldnt mind going and people not liking me if it was only a few miles away but im not traveling half was across the country on a off chance lol"

agree with you totally ..i felt really comfortable with the whole thing because a really good friend arranged it and he was in charge of it all ..making sure condoms were used making sure i was ok etc etc...i would never have done it without him ..shame yours didnt work out when u had put so much effort in !! have fun anyway ...im sure you do !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who wud say no if offered

We would not into GB I would say no: not my thing at all!"

I have no interest in them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was a one off thing for me ...always been in the realms of fantasy and i loved it...not sure i will ever do it again tho ....just something to be experienced before u die maybe ???? like seeing the arc de triophe at sunset !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always smile at the ads that say "GANGBANG MY PLACE" on such and such a date.

Then you read it and really nothing is going on. The bloke wants couples or fems so he can have a GB.

Most of these things I wouldnt imagine ever get off the ground. I know someone who tried to get one going for a hotel room and nigh on all the guys didnt show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah the problem is ..

gangbangs are being organised at times that suit the females.. thats where yu go wrong.

should always be to suit the guys and align with wife's bingo, gf's anne summer nite's with pals......

see problem solved..

ask 12 guys... 4 will turn up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ask 12 guys... 4 will turn up lol "

well thats better odd than i got lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ask 12 guys... 4 will turn up lol

well thats better odd than i got lmao"

oops soz xxxx I was generous to em tho..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The ones that make me laugh are the single guys that are putting on a gangbang and only require, lots of men a woman and somewhere to hold it lmao.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to do lots of gangbangs and never had a problem with guys turning up, 13 was my most

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

The Events page has been hoaching with 'I'm having a gangbang - need a female etc' posts for ages.

All it needs is a wee bit of diligence on the part of folks to check on these fishing expeditions in your own locality on a regular basis and report them using the button on the page. Admin are pretty hot at dumping them ASAP once they've been pointed in the right direction even if they don't have the time to trawl through all of them just in case.

If you want to stamp out this sort of anti-social behaviour you have to stand up against it. Just like in real life.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"We notice that too, we also noticed its nearly all single men that’s advertising them

I noticed that as well.

Also noticed one who occasionally says GB has to be cancelled at the last minute due to female not being able to attend.

Maybe he gets a kick out of any PM's he gets

If that's the case then what a saddo "

Having two women is a good idea. You can encourage one by telling her the other is keen but wants another female there. You can then tell the first one that the second one is keen but wants another female there. Then, if one drops out for any number of valid reasons (including biology) you can still go ahead.

Word of mouth is far and away the best way of recruiting guys and goes a long way to ensuring they turn up.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

within half an hour of joining, one of my first PMs was asking if I wanted to go to a gangbang in Aberdeen - it was quickly given a bye x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one and never wanted one.

Altho had loads of offers .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

IF i wanted to do a gangbang via this site (which i dont) I would ask a guy that i knew and trusted to be my "minder" i would then look through guys that had good verifications and would pm them privately i wouldnt be putting it on the events board. I cannot imagine any woman responding to someone who requires a female. Cant imagine going somewhere and having a load of guys there and not knowing any of them.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


".......Cant imagine going somewhere and having a load of guys there and not knowing any of them. "

A lot of people feel that way about clubs.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


".......Cant imagine going somewhere and having a load of guys there and not knowing any of them.

A lot of people feel that way about clubs."

But at least clubs are a far more safe enviroment

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By * THE FILTHSTERS xCouple
over a year ago

Runcorn

i would consider a gangbang but would never post in the events section because of the amount of timewasters that would reply but if there is any well verifyed groups that hold gangbangs in the northwest that would hold one for me then i would definately be interested but would prefer if there was another fem to help me sevice all the guys lol x

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


".......Cant imagine going somewhere and having a load of guys there and not knowing any of them.

A lot of people feel that way about clubs.

But at least clubs are a far more safe enviroment"

Than the home of a guy you know? I don't see the logic in that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be doing something right, as I never had any offers of GBs!

Not my kind of thing at all, however, I would love to be a voyeur at one though!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


".......Cant imagine going somewhere and having a load of guys there and not knowing any of them.

A lot of people feel that way about clubs.

But at least clubs are a far more safe enviroment

Than the home of a guy you know? I don't see the logic in that."

No lol, safer than going to a hotel or to a guys house that you DONT KNOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i were to want a gb then i would much rather have said gb at a club.

Than someones home.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"If i were to want a gb then i would much rather have said gb at a club.

Than someones home.

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Is that a common feeling amongst women members? Isn't the financial aspect a bit distasteful ... or is it part of the excitement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap "

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats their choice and not mine.

If said gb went ahead.

Most guys go along to a club week after week and not all get the chance to play.

Some may go home having no luck at all.

But they still pay their membership etc and carry on going.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


" ..........

Most guys go along to a club week after week and not all get the chance to play.

Some may go home having no luck at all.

But they still pay their membership etc and carry on going. "

Bewildering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a couple and play with several single guys regularly then those are the ones more likely to turn up for a G/B session. You have all the time in the world to sound them out on it and arrange a time suitable for all.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Always wanted to go to a Gangbang....

Can I be the Bouncer....

"Sorry mate... your names not down!"

"No chance wearing trainers!!!"

"No Jeans ya scuffy fecker!!"

Get me bouncer fantasy done......

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

our local club holds greedy girls nights every wed and friday. its the only nights single guys allowed in.

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

"Hotel room on such and such a date, looking for couple or single lady to join me"

Sound familiar? the events section is full of em along with the gangbang ones. Just sad single guys hoping to get their leg over without paying for it down the red light distr ict.

Maybe a bit of censorship is due down there? like only events by couples or single ladies should be allowed??

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play."

Its business....... supply and demand!

And Chams charges single ladies, Nick only gives free entrance to single ladies when certain members hold large socials and thats because single men also get a fairly substantial discount!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats a gangbang ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the worst thing about the EVENTS page is how it gets clogged up with "non-events" like couples seeking single fem or couple seeking couple or single male seeking couples.

Please folks a SOCIAL EVENT is a group of people getting together for a Vanilla evening (perhaps more) normally at a Pub venue.

A Party involves more than 3 or 4 people

A gangbang is when YOU are looking for a number of males not a male looking for a gangbang to join

A Club Event is when someone or a club organise a special night not "we are going to ...... club on Thursday who else is going

If the events board is kept for proper events it's a great source of info for the majority on here.

There is a place in the forums and there is the MEET TODAY section for arranging meets or saying when your available.

And if anyone can help keep them clear by reporting "non events" or "fake event" it all helps the site, there is a report button on the event when you look at it please use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it may be a good idea to add some guff defining what constitutes an event on the page when one tries to add an event, and suggest this to the Admins.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

Its business....... supply and demand!

.............. "

As is child pornography, people trafficking, prostitution .... etc. All business. All based on supply and demand.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

Its business....... supply and demand!

..............

As is child pornography, people trafficking, prostitution .... etc. All business. All based on supply and demand."

Do you not think there is a tiny amount of difference between child pornography, people trafficing, prostituation and paying the entrance fee to a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Admin are aware the events section needs looking at and will be finding some time to spend on making it better

I do go in there on occasion and spend ages deleting the "non events" but could go there an hr later and there would be 100s more

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

Its business....... supply and demand!

..............

As is child pornography, people trafficking, prostitution .... etc. All business. All based on supply and demand.

Do you not think there is a tiny amount of difference between child pornography, people trafficing, prostituation and paying the entrance fee to a swingers club "

Madchick's justification was that it's business based on supply and demand. In that respect there's no difference.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

Its business....... supply and demand!

..............

As is child pornography, people trafficking, prostitution .... etc. All business. All based on supply and demand.

Do you not think there is a tiny amount of difference between child pornography, people trafficing, prostituation and paying the entrance fee to a swingers club

Madchick's justification was that it's business based on supply and demand. In that respect there's no difference."

Isnt all business based on supply and demand? No one is forcing anyone to go to a swingers club, everyone is there through choice and its legal, completly different from the three examples you gave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

Its business....... supply and demand!

..............

As is child pornography, people trafficking, prostitution .... etc. All business. All based on supply and demand.

Do you not think there is a tiny amount of difference between child pornography, people trafficing, prostituation and paying the entrance fee to a swingers club "
More than tiny I would have thought!

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby


"Whats a gangbang ?"

a shootout in east LA apparently...ive never fancied it myself...

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

Its business....... supply and demand!

..............

As is child pornography, people trafficking, prostitution .... etc. All business. All based on supply and demand.

Do you not think there is a tiny amount of difference between child pornography, people trafficing, prostituation and paying the entrance fee to a swingers club

Madchick's justification was that it's business based on supply and demand. In that respect there's no difference.

Isnt all business based on supply and demand? No one is forcing anyone to go to a swingers club, everyone is there through choice and its legal, completly different from the three examples you gave"

We've hade threads on here which seem to suggest that not everyone is there from choice.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"No. The fact the guys have paid to play."

That's a misconception - the entry fee for entry to the premises, and not entry to anything else

Anything else that takes place is at the discretion of the members themselves.

Admittedly there is a small minority of couples and singles who have an attitude of entitlement, but fundamentally there is no "pay to play"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What finacial aspect ?

its free for single ladies in chams most of the time so no outlay what so ever and guys who enjoy said gb often are there on tap

No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

Its business....... supply and demand!

..............

As is child pornography, people trafficking, prostitution .... etc. All business. All based on supply and demand.

Do you not think there is a tiny amount of difference between child pornography, people trafficing, prostituation and paying the entrance fee to a swingers club

Madchick's justification was that it's business based on supply and demand. In that respect there's no difference.

Isnt all business based on supply and demand? No one is forcing anyone to go to a swingers club, everyone is there through choice and its legal, completly different from the three examples you gave

We've hade threads on here which seem to suggest that not everyone is there from choice. "

???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive yet to see anyone at a swingers club with a gun pointing at their head forcing them to be there

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

That's a misconception - the entry fee for entry to the premises, and not entry to anything else

Anything else that takes place is at the discretion of the members themselves.

Admittedly there is a small minority of couples and singles who have an attitude of entitlement, but fundamentally there is no "pay to play"

"

Surely the existence of a door charge is 'pay to play'. The fact that the guy who has paid doesn't always get sex and that the money doesn't go any further than the house is irrelevant.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Ive yet to see anyone at a swingers club with a gun pointing at their head forcing them to be there"

The fact the search function is pretty ropey makes the threads hard to find but they're out there. Comments were made about women reacting badly to the situation and it being clear they were participating in order to please their partner.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

That's a misconception - the entry fee for entry to the premises, and not entry to anything else

Anything else that takes place is at the discretion of the members themselves.

Admittedly there is a small minority of couples and singles who have an attitude of entitlement, but fundamentally there is no "pay to play"

Surely the existence of a door charge is 'pay to play'. The fact that the guy who has paid doesn't always get sex and that the money doesn't go any further than the house is irrelevant."

Its not just guys that pay lol, couples and females pay as well. A swinging club is a club where likeminded people attend, only a few guys will expect its there right to play. Not sure you understand

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Ive yet to see anyone at a swingers club with a gun pointing at their head forcing them to be there

The fact the search function is pretty ropey makes the threads hard to find but they're out there. Comments were made about women reacting badly to the situation and it being clear they were participating in order to please their partner."

And they are very very few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

That's a misconception - the entry fee for entry to the premises, and not entry to anything else

Anything else that takes place is at the discretion of the members themselves.

Admittedly there is a small minority of couples and singles who have an attitude of entitlement, but fundamentally there is no "pay to play"

Surely the existence of a door charge is 'pay to play'. The fact that the guy who has paid doesn't always get sex and that the money doesn't go any further than the house is irrelevant."

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Sorry, I disagree.

As the previous poster had said, the charges are for using the premises and equipment, and for their upkeep.

It does not entitle the payers to play with anyone.

If a gent goes to Chams, pays his 30 GBP admission charge, and find the steam room, sauna, and one of the jacuzzi not working, then he has every right to be pissed off.

However, I do not believe he has the right to be pissed off if he does not score that night!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Ive yet to see anyone at a swingers club with a gun pointing at their head forcing them to be there

The fact the search function is pretty ropey makes the threads hard to find but they're out there. Comments were made about women reacting badly to the situation and it being clear they were participating in order to please their partner.

And they are very very few and far between."

One woman forced to participate in a sex act she is one woman too many.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"No. The fact the guys have paid to play.

That's a misconception - the entry fee for entry to the premises, and not entry to anything else

Anything else that takes place is at the discretion of the members themselves.

Admittedly there is a small minority of couples and singles who have an attitude of entitlement, but fundamentally there is no "pay to play"

Surely the existence of a door charge is 'pay to play'. The fact that the guy who has paid doesn't always get sex and that the money doesn't go any further than the house is irrelevant.

Its not just guys that pay lol, couples and females pay as well. A swinging club is a club where likeminded people attend, only a few guys will expect its there right to play. Not sure you understand"

I understand very well. Again we have posts in these forums about the predatory behaviour and 'expectations' of guys at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the existence of a door charge is 'pay to play'. The fact that the guy who has paid doesn't always get sex and that the money doesn't go any further than the house is irrelevant."

The door charge is to prevent people who have a few beers locally and at the end of the night think, "Hey, let's go and have a giggle in that swingers club down the road."

The fee for membership AND entry is to deter all but those who know what they are looking for from entering.

The fee is higher for single men because of the reason above in so much as it used to be groups of single men that wanted to chance it after a fruitless night pulling in town.

Your suggestion that people 'pay to play' is ludicrous and suggests that once entry has been granted and the fee collected anyone who wishes to play has a right to play because they've paid for it.

We all know that in any circumstance, in a swingers club or elsewhere, right up until the sex act has been completed, a woman can still say 'no' and failure to comply is rape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people will never pay to play, although some clubs have been known to be pay people to play though... anyway, thought this thread was about gangbangs in the events pages

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"people will never pay to play, although some clubs have been known to be pay people to play though... anyway, thought this thread was about gangbangs in the events pages "

Clubs pay people to play? How does that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people will never pay to play, although some clubs have been known to be pay people to play though... anyway, thought this thread was about gangbangs in the events pages

Clubs pay people to play? How does that work?"

Sure you can work that one out

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"people will never pay to play, although some clubs have been known to be pay people to play though... anyway, thought this thread was about gangbangs in the events pages

Clubs pay people to play? How does that work?

Sure you can work that one out "

Nope.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I give up lol. I would say maybe 80% of people on this site have/do attend swinging clubs and i think they usually have a good time i know i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".......Cant imagine going somewhere and having a load of guys there and not knowing any of them.

A lot of people feel that way about clubs.

But at least clubs are a far more safe enviroment"

i agree, as a single woman its a lot safter for me to use clubs than arrange off here, at least in a club the men are already there so noones going to let you down, if any of the guys get out of hand theres always people around to help, ie other women who may be watching or staff, if i went to an arranged gang bang in someones home and i had problems with the guys there i have noone to help me

Its a difficult one as theres so much i would do but feel its unsafe to do, because as sad as it is you have to be sencible and not just run off with your head lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"people will never pay to play, although some clubs have been known to be pay people to play though... anyway, thought this thread was about gangbangs in the events pages

Clubs pay people to play? How does that work?"

Certain clubs 'employ' ladies to ensure that the men have a good time and that couples and single females are not bothered by masses of single men..

But as far as I understand...... that would actually make them a brothel...... but what do I know!

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby

I'm all for the legalisation of brothels....dont know why we havent done it years ago....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people will never pay to play, although some clubs have been known to be pay people to play though... anyway, thought this thread was about gangbangs in the events pages

Clubs pay people to play? How does that work?"

Jim, you are either being deliberately obtuse or you have never visited a swing club. Or both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people will never pay to play, although some clubs have been known to be pay people to play though... anyway, thought this thread was about gangbangs in the events pages

Clubs pay people to play? How does that work?

Certain clubs 'employ' ladies to ensure that the men have a good time and that couples and single females are not bothered by masses of single men..

But as far as I understand...... that would actually make them a brothel...... but what do I know!"

maybe they a bit of a mixture of both, ive been to clubs who have paid women there and i didnt feel i was at a brothel, you dont have to be paid for sex if you go and you dont have to play with the paid women they just an option if you want one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for the legalisation of brothels....dont know why we havent done it years ago.... "

I might be wrong but I thought the law did change recently to permit no more than two working girls to work from the same establishment at the same time. This change in the law allowed prostitues to work from the safety of their own home.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


".... only a few guys will expect its there right to play."

AHEM! Its not just guys that are guilty of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... only a few guys will expect its there right to play.

AHEM! Its not just guys that are guilty of that."

Wher've you been ?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Did I miss the row again, goes to show it ent always me as starts it then dont it hahahahaha

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Did I miss the row again, goes to show it ent always me as starts it then dont it hahahahaha "

It wasn't me....... honest.....!

**Maddie walks off whistling and looking sheepish!**

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You may have missed the abuse I took down.

I suggest people read the rules, abuse isn't tolerated and will result in a ban if people keep overstepping the mark.

If people annoy the hell out of you, ignore them.

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