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By *esires and fantasies123 OP   Couple
4 days ago

shropshire

Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

Nope

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
4 days ago

Swansea

We had one of those earlier, saying they are parked up the mountain and waiting. Well he's going to be there forever if he thinks we respond to nonsense messages like that.

Mrs

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
4 days ago

Manchester

Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
4 days ago

Chatham

I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. (I only know the address because I'm there frequently myself)

Cause they need support if they think that's gonna work.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
4 days ago

Norwich

They are so insulting a lot of the time too.

I had a guy who messaged me and said his son had been at a basketball tournament at The UEA, which is a university near me.

He said he was charging his car locally and was I free?

The cheek. Yes I'll drop everything, even my knickers, for a guy I've never met or spoken to before and will never see again. Sure yes I'll sprint there now!

Where in profile does it say I'll be remotely interested in that? Some men are unbelievable.

Ffs!

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Reckon it could probably work on my ex 🙄

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
4 days ago

Basingstoke


"I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. (I only know the address because I'm there frequently myself)

Cause they need support if they think that's gonna work. "

Love that! I may adopt something similar... Maybe the local sexual health clinic 🤔 mwah ha ha

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
4 days ago

In fair Verona.


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no."

Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh


"I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. "

Glorious. 🤣👏

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By *mmaleiaWoman
4 days ago

Trowbridge

Nope, not interested

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
4 days ago

Manchester


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.

Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know? "

No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.

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By *FallenAngel-Woman
4 days ago

Home

Nope and never would

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
4 days ago

In fair Verona.


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.

Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?

No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case. "

The M60 is public.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
4 days ago

Debauchery

Never, in fact it makes me dryer than the Sahara those messages. The exception is if I’ve already had sex with them and had a good time with them I may be tempted if I was able to. Strangers definitely not .

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By *obert RichardsMan
4 days ago

Here nearby, London


"I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. (I only know the address because I'm there frequently myself)

Cause they need support if they think that's gonna work. "

That's where I know you from x

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
4 days ago

Gloucester

Nope never

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
4 days ago

Manchester


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.

Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?

No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.

The M60 is public. "

But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved!

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
4 days ago

Gloucester


"I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. (I only know the address because I'm there frequently myself)

Cause they need support if they think that's gonna work. "

Haha what an amazing idea!!

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
4 days ago

In fair Verona.


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.

Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?

No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.

The M60 is public.

But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved!"

I was just messing, I wasn’t being serious. 🙏

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By *morousCouple8Couple
4 days ago

Cumbria

Pulled up to a club and updated my location. Immediately got a message to say his dick was out in a car in the car park waiting.

Terrifying

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By *carlettsWoman
4 days ago

Harpenden

All the time and press delete. I do wonder if any women respond "yeah come on over" or "I'm coming, on my way"?

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
4 days ago

Voldsøy

Nope. We would never.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
4 days ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill


"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"

Get them quite often and never meet them.

The other favourite is if we have a meet up and someone we’ve never spoken to just asks for our address.

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
4 days ago

nearby

I’d love to think that there’s a woman out there with the same mentality of me

If I was a woman with someone offer that I would say yes to them, build up a longish chat going with them so they think it’s definitely going to happen and arrange a meet up point (ideally in sight of a coffee shop) have a brew and see how long they wait there for before realising

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By *forfuntimesCouple
4 days ago

Sheffield

We also get these regularly - most of the time we just ignore, however, when i (Mr) am feeling particularly jovial after a few drinks of a weekend - i do sometimes reply - absolutely - come round now (not meaning it of course)... 99% of the time no response....lol

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
4 days ago

Durham


"We also get these regularly - most of the time we just ignore, however, when i (Mr) am feeling particularly jovial after a few drinks of a weekend - i do sometimes reply - absolutely - come round now (not meaning it of course)... 99% of the time no response....lol"

Haha we do this, it's great fun winding up the thirstier ones 🤣🤣

Gave a guy the address to the local comedy club once 😬

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
4 days ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge


"We also get these regularly - most of the time we just ignore, however, when i (Mr) am feeling particularly jovial after a few drinks of a weekend - i do sometimes reply - absolutely - come round now (not meaning it of course)... 99% of the time no response....lol

Haha we do this, it's great fun winding up the thirstier ones 🤣🤣

Gave a guy the address to the local comedy club once 😬"

We did that. Gave him the address of Glee in Brum and said to tell his jokes in there 😂

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By *he Silver FuxMan
4 days ago

Uttoxeter

I’ve received three or four, one from a group of single women at a hen party at a lodge, a single woman on a business trip staying nearby and a couple of couples who were in hotels, feeling frisky / let down by a meet.

I’ve maybe sent out a handful of… ‘fancy meeting up if you’re free’ invites; some have resulted in meets.

They’ve all been quite exciting actually.

Never underestimate the power of the horn, a fuckitwhynot attitude and likely facing a boring evening alone; it brings people together 😈🔥

It helps if you don’t look like an axe murderer, have a good profile with nice pictures other than just your cock from 20 different angles and have good verifications

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By *he Silver FuxMan
4 days ago

Uttoxeter

You people that agree to meet and then send a fake address are absolute arseholes 😠 - regardless of the “FAF now?” and otherwise shit messages. Just ignore / block.

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By *carlettsWoman
4 days ago

Harpenden


"You people that agree to meet and then send a fake address are absolute arseholes 😠 - regardless of the “FAF now?” and otherwise shit messages. Just ignore / block.

"

Agree i've never stitched anyone up regardless of what a twat they are. Just block

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 days ago

Leeds

Received the message - yes.

Decided to meet - absolutely not, I've no intention of being the next netflix documentary.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

It only worked, when it was someone I know well.

Randomers no, instant delete.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no."

So picky

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

My other half was once driving past a local landmark. Later when he checked he'd got a message from a bloke saying "here now". It was a delete lol.

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By *inks_apeyCouple
4 days ago

Staffordshire

Never have, never will, we tend to just delete them and block

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By *ace400Man
4 days ago

Ballyhaunis

I would never send that to a lady but if I received it from a lady I think it’s horny

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By *wnedslut-KittyWoman
4 days ago

Kittys Lane

I have had quite a few of those messages.

I just delete them

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By *punk n gushCouple
4 days ago

deal

Messages like that are an instant block to us

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
4 days ago

Midlands

I hate these messages 😒

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By *an JuniperoCouple
4 days ago

North East

Would much prefer a "meat now?" message. We love a bbq! 😂

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By *nnCeeWoman
4 days ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Would much prefer a "meat now?" message. We love a bbq! 😂"

I mean, I might be tempted by a BBQ...

Anything else? No ta

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 days ago

North West


"We had one of those earlier, saying they are parked up the mountain and waiting. Well he's going to be there forever if he thinks we respond to nonsense messages like that.

Mrs"

No SOS to help him then? 😂

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
4 days ago

stanley

Well dammit that’s my whole fab plan in pieces lol 😂😂😂😂

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By *itgingermanMan
4 days ago

Rotherham

Only if met before and want a good sorting out by you’re truly again 🤣

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By *ugar kittenWoman
4 days ago

Workington


"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"

Oh sh1t, is that how we are supposed to respond??? Think I've been doing this site all wrong

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 days ago

Altrincham


"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"

Nope! That's not what I'm looking for

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
4 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

Ah come on, give us some credit!?

It's "FUCK NOW XX"

You forgot the XX, makes all the difference

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
4 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

All jokes aside, I've never sent one & never will

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By *hamboCouple
4 days ago

Gloucestershire


"We had one of those earlier, saying they are parked up the mountain and waiting. Well he's going to be there forever if he thinks we respond to nonsense messages like that.

Mrs"

Hurry up it’s freezing up here🤣

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By *othi30Man
4 days ago

Wakefield

Damn 🔥

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By *elloWoman
4 days ago

alpha centauri


"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"

I've never respond to those messages but I'm ashamed to say I have sent a message like this once or twice men do seem a little more accepting to this type of message than ladies are.

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By *luttynutterCouple
3 days ago

Peterborough

Occasionally when I’m feeling like I need a laugh I’ll reply to those lovely messages with a ‘Oh yes please, I’d love nothing more!’ Or something along those lines 😁 The crazy thing is - they actually believe me 🙄 I do finish my message with a very polite no though…

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By *zChiefWoman
3 days ago

middle of somewhere

No nope n no again

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
3 days ago

London

I get loads of those type of dms OP from total strangers

i.e.........

"Meet Now"

"Fuck Now"

"I'm In Your Area, Meet Me At My Hotel"

"Come Over" (with their full address attached)

& Similar type dms

(Mainly from a certain Country 🤭 & it's not the UK)

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By *inger_SnapWoman
3 days ago

Hampshire

Sometimes I'll reply and be over enthusiastic, or just a bit sarcastic.

Then they realise their mistake 😂

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods

100% no

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
3 days ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I get these with monotonous regularity. Yes, I'm sitting fully dressed, made up and douched, all ready to slide down your pole like a demented crossdressing firefighter!

When I, in exasperation, said something like this to one if these guys the other day (and pointed out that my profile says I'm not meeting), his response was, "don't dress then". 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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By *upersonic SamMan
3 days ago

wigan

You'd be surprised how many I get of these from couples. Never once one from a single lady though. It always seems to be late evening or early in the morning, if I were a sceptical man I would say they are off their tits through drink or drugs. Not a chance I'm responding.

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By *arleycplWoman
3 days ago

Leyburn

Had them yes, instant delete

Marie

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
3 days ago

London

I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread

Crazy Isn't It!

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By *asty tatsyMan
3 days ago

london

I wouldn’t personally send a message like that, but I do wonder if they have had success from sending it or is it a case of someone must say yes 🤣🤣

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By *rown.studMan
3 days ago

Thornaby


"I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread

Crazy Isn't It!"

Complete weirdos

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 days ago

Chichester

When I lived in London I met a couple of women that sent messages asking if I wanted to hook up asap .

One of them was in same road as me but at a hotel other was just 20 min on tube

Very rare though. Now men I get messages constantly asking for meet now from Portsmouth to Brighton

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By *.hrisMan
3 days ago

Bath

I've had a nearby couple message with something similar. We got chatting and ended up meeting up within the hour. They were a hot couple too!

I much prefer people getting straight to the point with me, I'm not here for endless conversations.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 days ago

Uttoxeter


"

(Mainly from a certain Country 🤭 & it's not the UK)"

Switzerland?

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
3 days ago

London


"I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread

Crazy Isn't It!

Complete weirdos "

One guy isn't even meet verified, & he actually expected me to go to a Hotel today & meet him, We never ever chatted before.......(stranger danger)

I did reply & said "you're having a laugh yea" but he said he wasn't & that he could meet me @4pm 😲

Sometimes I'm not sure if I'm amused at the sense of entitlement of some Men........

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 days ago

North West


"I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread

Crazy Isn't It!"

I don't get it. What do they expect you to do? Drop everything you're doing right this instance and a meet a stranger, you've never spoken too nor interacted with?

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By *ayjay39777Man
3 days ago

Warrington


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no."

I was offered sweets to get into a van once.

They never asked me again as I wouldn’t share the bag 😅

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By *istr3ssWoman
3 days ago

Stockton-on-Tees

It happens quite often. These messages result in a block & delete

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By *lfa RomeoMan
3 days ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Anyone want to meet now, I'm got sausage and chips with lashinga of mayonnaise 😉😂😂😂😂

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By *estinysswingersCouple
3 days ago

Worsley

Absolutely never.

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By *ot Pins2000Woman
3 days ago

belfast

Yes received all the time but not my thing. Like to have met the person first. But either I ignore or give a polite ‘no’

Now if I’m out and had a few drinks… lol

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
3 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

How about "MEET NOW IN A MINUTE" from our Welsh friends?

Can't turn that down surely?!

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By *eeKeeGeeMan
3 days ago

Barnet


"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”

I've never respond to those messages but I'm ashamed to say I have sent a message like this once or twice men do seem a little more accepting to this type of message than ladies are. "

But alpha centauri is so far away (even at warp speed)

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By *he shed guyMan
3 days ago

derby

Reply to them with a random what3words address

Silly.daft.person

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
3 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"

Agree a time & place to meet them, tell them you want them to wear fancy dress so you know it's them and send a pic of themselves when they're there

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By *aniel886Man
3 days ago

london

I’m all for a meet now situation, considering the majority of people on here love to just fantasise behind there screens

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
3 days ago

Niche


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.

Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?

No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.

The M60 is public.

But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved!

I was just messing, I wasn’t being serious. 🙏"

🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

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By *arialoueWoman
3 days ago

Doncaster

Nope n never will meet ,especially like that

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By *aniel886Man
3 days ago

london


"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.

Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?

No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.

The M60 is public.

But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved!

I was just messing, I wasn’t being serious. 🙏

🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭"

sounds sketchy. A disaster waiting to happen

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
3 days ago

Niche

If a guy asks that it immediately outs them as having zero appreciation for a really fine, top quality experience.

Because if he did, he'd know the effort a woman goes to for a man she wants to enjoy and be enjoyed by.

End of story.

A grubby grabby fumble in a layby with a 2-pump wonder is nowhere on my to-do list.

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By *aniel886Man
3 days ago

london


"If a guy asks that it immediately outs them as having zero appreciation for a really fine, top quality experience.

Because if he did, he'd know the effort a woman goes to for a man she wants to enjoy and be enjoyed by.

End of story.

A grubby grabby fumble in a layby with a 2-pump wonder is nowhere on my to-do list."

I hear that but what you need to take into consideration when a the site we’re on. It’s a site to hook up and fuck if we’re being honest. But I totally get your point

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
3 days ago

Niche


"If a guy asks that it immediately outs them as having zero appreciation for a really fine, top quality experience.

Because if he did, he'd know the effort a woman goes to for a man she wants to enjoy and be enjoyed by.

End of story.

A grubby grabby fumble in a layby with a 2-pump wonder is nowhere on my to-do list.

I hear that but what you need to take into consideration when a the site we’re on. It’s a site to hook up and fuck if we’re being honest. But I totally get your point "

I don't accept crappy efforts in anything. Do a thing well or don't bother.

Bad sex is not a goal

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

They think I appreciate little to no effort . Fuck off muppet

I leave them as it can make sending further messages more trouble

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

Perhaps the senders should be referred to this thread

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