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By *ungbull247 OP   Man
5 days ago

Leeds /west Yorkshire

Do you cheat on your partner and if yes how many times have you done it? Or is it a regular thing?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
5 days ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill


"Do you cheat on your partner and if yes how many times have you done it? Or is it a regular thing? "

I have never cheated on Mr and never will

Mrs

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By *ung-stallionMan
5 days ago

northeast

Never, doesnt sit right with me, playing with a woman’s emotions like that is morally wrong

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By *eys00Man
5 days ago

have boots will travel

Not for me to judge anyone here but personally I would never do it, and have never done it. There are better ways to go about your business

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
5 days ago

newcastle

No never. If I do need to play i ask hubby first. And if its no. Then no xx

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
5 days ago

London

I don't cheat, my partner always has knowledge if on the rare occasion I meet others.

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By *lessandra_BWoman
5 days ago

Here, There & Everywhere

Never!

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By *ouplelovingguyMan
5 days ago

west lothian

Never

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By *eroLondonMan
5 days ago

Soho

As often as immorally allowed and dishonourably permitted. Quite rare these days.

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By *peedyGMan
5 days ago

Telford

I've never cheated on anyone and never would.

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By *arialoueWoman
5 days ago

Doncaster

I never cheat but ive been cheated on , its my golden n no1 rule

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
5 days ago

Norwich

I don't understand cheating. If you're not happy end the relationship.

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By *obert RichardsMan
5 days ago

Here nearby, London

Define cheating x

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By *alandNitaCouple
5 days ago

Scunthorpe


"Do you cheat on your partner and if yes how many times have you done it? Or is it a regular thing? "

I've never cheated on any partner. I can't imagine I ever would.

Cal

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 days ago

Ends

This is crazy work.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
5 days ago

Cumbria


"I don't understand cheating. If you're not happy end the relationship. "

Same

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

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0% of the time.

I wonder if you'll get replies from those who are, OP. Not very many I imagine for some weird reason.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 days ago

Ends


"0% of the time.

I wonder if you'll get replies from those who are, OP. Not very many I imagine for some weird reason."

Nah but when you’re horny you press send on some wild takes let’s be honest

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By *all me FlikWoman
5 days ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I would never cheat but have had people cheat on me and it's a shitty thing to do.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
5 days ago

Gloucester

Never have never will.

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By *round_the_FurMan
5 days ago

Magherafelt

Doesn't count as swinging if it's cheating

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By *dible_KinkCouple
5 days ago

ABERDEEN

I've never cheated on anyone, I'd leave the relationship if I wasn't happy or felt it didn't complete me.

Polly

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By *arysueCouple
5 days ago

West Wales

swinging is not cheating

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By *uttercupWoman
5 days ago

Borders

Never. Next question

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By *onjon123Man
5 days ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Never seen the point in cheating tbh if you're not happy with someone you should be honest with them

My oh always knows if I'm going to meet and if shes not happy for whatever reason with that person she'll let me know and we'll talk it through

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
5 days ago

Edinburgh

Eatin' ain't cheatin'

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
5 days ago

Next Door

I cheated years ago (30yrs) and learnt by this.

I ended both relationships within a few months.

Since then I have been cheated on a couple of times, so know how much it hurts the innocent party.

There no reason to cheat on anyone.

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By *immewillyMan
5 days ago

Dundee

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
5 days ago

Swansea

I would never cheat on my husband. I have no desire to be unfaithful as I take my wedding vows extremely seriously.

Mrs

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
5 days ago

Newcastle

I dont even understand why this is a conversation in a swinging forum.

Im not judging anyone who does, but surely we shouldn't be trying yo justify it or glorify it by putting a number to it.

Just an opinion, if anyone disagrees, feel free to habe a conversation

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By *oongel2760Couple
5 days ago

Preston

Bizarre thread!

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By *EAT..85Woman
5 days ago

Nottingham

For some I can imagine cheating is an adrenaline high and a way of life.

As to the confusion of the question to some, it doesn't seem such a leap to get from people that cheated to people that now swing with a partner for their pleasures. The irony is that to be a swinging couple on here, trust is the keystone that makes these relationships work 🤷‍♀️

And no, I've never cheated on a partner myself.

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By *a LunaWoman
5 days ago

o o OO o o

Another thread where I’m glad I’m single! Fab you’re killing me!

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By *issmorganWoman
5 days ago

Calderdale innit

I've never cheated on my partner, I'd hate it done to me.

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By *eroLondonMan
5 days ago

Soho


"0% of the time.

I wonder if you'll get replies from those who are, OP. Not very many I imagine for some weird reason."

Hence my tongue-in-cheek irreverent post earlier. 🩶

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By *2000ManMan
5 days ago

Worthing

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By *2000ManMan
5 days ago

Worthing

Having worked in a company where there were a lot of women. 90% seemed bored and tried it on with us "suits" many times. It was always the women hinting at taking things further...even if their target was married and/or had children. I did not indulge but some of the others did.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

North West

Just checked the green arrows of the OP. Seems to have a thing for wives/girlfriends cheating on their husbands and boyfriends.

And no, I don't like anyone cheating so I wouldn't do it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 days ago

Central

Never

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By *ustus5555Woman
5 days ago

Mansfield

Cheating is NOT swinging. I'll quite happily block anyone that thinks it is. 😡

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By *ustus5555Woman
5 days ago

Mansfield


"For some I can imagine cheating is an adrenaline high and a way of life.

As to the confusion of the question to some, it doesn't seem such a leap to get from people that cheated to people that now swing with a partner for their pleasures. The irony is that to be a swinging couple on here, trust is the keystone that makes these relationships work 🤷‍♀️

And no, I've never cheated on a partner myself. "

Absolutely 💯%

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By *hoc TitanMan
5 days ago

London/ Peterborough

Everyone’s done it once in their lives , if they say no …lies lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 days ago

Leeds


"Everyone’s done it once in their lives , if they say no …lies lol"

I have never and never would cheat on a partner! Don't tar everyone with the same brush.

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By *artorialMan
5 days ago

weymouth

No partner, when I have or something looks promising I've hidden myself and disappeared from here

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By *avrick180Man
5 days ago

Pontypool

I never have its not right even though my ex done it to me 2 times first time I forgave her 2nd time no way

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By *ools and the brainCouple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.


"As often as immorally allowed and dishonourably permitted. Quite rare these days. "

I say, you cad and bounder. 🧐

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By *tu.xMan
5 days ago

around

Not many going to admit to it

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By *lex46TV/TS
5 days ago

Near Wells

Well I must be the only one then. I’ve cheated my partner a long time ago, it was quite exciting at the time.

But I got found out, the relationship ended and they moved away. I very much regretted what I did and how I’d upset my partner. Luckily they moved back to the area a few years later and we became very good friends again. No sex but someone to talk to and go out with socially sometimes and help each other out when required.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
5 days ago

Ilkeston

Nope never and never would. If your that unhappy that you need company from someone else do the adult thing and end it. No one deserves to be cheated on

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By *rincess peachWoman
5 days ago

shits creek

Been back 35 seconds and find a reminder why I vanished.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy and not getting cheated on

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
5 days ago

Swansea


"Been back 35 seconds and find a reminder why I vanished.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy and not getting cheated on "

It's awesome to see you back!

Mrs

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By *rincess peachWoman
5 days ago

shits creek


"Been back 35 seconds and find a reminder why I vanished.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy and not getting cheated on

It's awesome to see you back!

Mrs"

Shan't be staying, my phone froze a few days ago and instead of waiting for it to catch up I was hammering away at the screen. Pressed umpteen things I never intended to, this being one of them. Then, same thing the next day but looked at my inbox. There was a message from an old buddy so felt I should reply.

Alas, my vag is still on strike. Who knows if it'll ever want attention again.

You good?

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By *ookie46Woman
5 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Been back 35 seconds and find a reminder why I vanished.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy and not getting cheated on "

Ah you were missed

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By *abluesbabyMan
5 days ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

Never have. I'm single at the moment anyway so not an issue but when in a relationship I have never cheated.

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By *rincess peachWoman
5 days ago

shits creek


"Been back 35 seconds and find a reminder why I vanished.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy and not getting cheated on

Ah you were missed "

Like a big ole bowl of vom

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By *estinysswingersCouple
5 days ago

Worsley

Have never and will never.

Our moral compass works.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
5 days ago

Middle England

Usually on other topics you get, usually profile from single guys, stating my wife this... my partner that. And it's only then you realise they're attached.

However, they don't appear to want to have any input on this thread.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
5 days ago

Swansea


"Been back 35 seconds and find a reminder why I vanished.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy and not getting cheated on

It's awesome to see you back!

Mrs

Shan't be staying, my phone froze a few days ago and instead of waiting for it to catch up I was hammering away at the screen. Pressed umpteen things I never intended to, this being one of them. Then, same thing the next day but looked at my inbox. There was a message from an old buddy so felt I should reply.

Alas, my vag is still on strike. Who knows if it'll ever want attention again.

You good?

"

We are great thanks. This ^^ is why you should stick around for a while longer.😂🤣

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By *rincess peachWoman
5 days ago

shits creek


"Been back 35 seconds and find a reminder why I vanished.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy and not getting cheated on

It's awesome to see you back!

Mrs

Shan't be staying, my phone froze a few days ago and instead of waiting for it to catch up I was hammering away at the screen. Pressed umpteen things I never intended to, this being one of them. Then, same thing the next day but looked at my inbox. There was a message from an old buddy so felt I should reply.

Alas, my vag is still on strike. Who knows if it'll ever want attention again.

You good?

We are great thanks. This ^^ is why you should stick around for a while longer.😂🤣"

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
5 days ago

Wolverhampton

Never have and never would.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
5 days ago

somewhere, someplace

On my diet...frequently

On a significant other....never

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By *p4rtanMan
5 days ago

near

Yeah, what everyone else has said….. never have

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By *ynamite500Man
5 days ago

Angus

Never have, never will. I'd rather be honest with myself!

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