FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking of someone else during sex

By *sStephenPickle OP Man
3 days ago

Ends

Have you?

Did you say the wrong name?

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
3 days ago

Ends

(Inspired by Ross saying Rachel’s name)

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 days ago

Leeds

I often don't know the names of the men I'm having sex with

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By *carlettsWoman
3 days ago

Harpenden

You never use names during sex Stephen...rookie mistake

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By *pgroupsexMan
3 days ago

Kingston

"Have you?"
When I was much younger, I lived in a pseudo-poly FMF relationship for a few months.

Not what you are thinking with the question posed I know

, but hard not to be having sex with one person while thinking of another there.

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By *yrman57Man
3 days ago

Ayr

Bucking Bronco sex ... Call the Mrs by her sister's name and see how long you can stay on !!!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 days ago

Chichester

"Have you?

Did you say the wrong name? "

Many times. It’s just sex though not said someone’s name though

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 days ago

In fair Verona.

Yep. Been there and done it.

Sarah was understandably upset.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 days ago

In fair Verona.

"Yep. Been there and done it.

Sarah was understandably upset. "

^sorry. *Jane. Jane was upset. Ffs

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By *rNightMan
3 days ago

Coventry

I’ve done this for a while, really does turn me on and not slipped up yet. Sometimes we to it together knowingly

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By *a LunaWoman
3 days ago

o o OO o o

No. But have been with someone else who clearly was as they said her name as they were balls deep in me.

They weren’t balls deep in me a few seconds later - they were flying off the bed

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By *aveyP800Man
3 days ago

Derby

"No. But have been with someone else who clearly was as they said her name as they were balls deep in me.

They weren’t balls deep in me a few seconds later - they were flying off the bed

Sorry about that!

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By *evonFbsCouple
3 days ago

Devon

While J was riding me yesterday she realised i was slightly zoned out and then realised i was imagining how a friends tits would look if she was riding me like that

As we regularly share the friends tits this turned her on more and the ride got exciting

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
3 days ago

Edinburgh

I done it once, not by accident but as a deliberate wind up. Fully expecting a slap and an argument. Yet, she got wetter and we had an imaginary MFF. Once the post nut clarity kicked in, we were able to have an open and honesg chat about sharing/swapping and here I am. 10/10, would recommend 😅🤣

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By *ay h500Man
3 days ago

mansfield

Before sex yes but once started I'm far to focused to think outside the situation lol

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
3 days ago

Norwich

The simple answer is yes. No names though I never say names during sex.

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS
3 days ago

manchester

Always her cousins husband

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I've thought about other people during sex yes, I don't tend to use names during sex very often so never had an issue around saying the wrong name.

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By *orders-cplCouple
3 days ago

middx cpl

used a name once it was his brothers name big mistake

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By *an SummersMan
3 days ago

Near you?

Does thinking about Susan Boyle so I can last a bit longer count?

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By *B334Man
3 days ago

Redhill

Just related a time in a chat when I was fucking my wife with her sister in the next bedroom. Her sis came over every Friday after her husband left her. My wife always wanted to fuck when she stayed, one nigh she said I bet my sister could do with a good fuck. I told her I’d love to give her one just like this and proceeded to fuck her very hard. Both of us came hard.

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
3 days ago

Edinburgh

[Removed by poster at 05/08/25 10:01:07]

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
3 days ago

Edinburgh

"Does thinking about Susan Boyle so I can last a bit longer count? "

Tried that once and instantly blew my load. Its the stubble that does it for me

🤣

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By *illowPrincess89Woman
3 days ago

West Midlands

Yep been there 😂

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 days ago

Basingstoke

"Have you?

Did you say the wrong name? "

Yes

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 days ago

Leeds

Yes.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 days ago

Castlebar

No never.

I've always been focused on the person I'm with otherwise I would call a halt. Its not fair to the person that's chosen to spend their time with you.

Although it's pretty hurtful for someone to tell you that's the reason. Maybe make an excuse and leave.

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By *herry.bombWoman
3 days ago

basingstoke

No but I’ve had someone do it to me

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
3 days ago

Aberdeen

"No never.

I've always been focused on the person I'm with otherwise I would call a halt. Its not fair to the person that's chosen to spend their time with you.

Although it's pretty hurtful for someone to tell you that's the reason. Maybe make an excuse and leave. "

I couldn't have said it better.

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 days ago

The West

I haven't/don't.

I'm way too lost in sensation and focusing on who I'm with to be thinking of anyone (or anything) else.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We role play imagining others are involved, if that counts.

As far as imagining on the sly....doesn't everyone?

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By *peedyGMan
3 days ago

Telford

Yes

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By *appyOldOneMan
3 days ago

Cinderford

Always focus on the person I'm with - feels sort of disrespectful to do different

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By *wo-Of-a-KindCouple
3 days ago

Middle Earth

No never, the person I am with gets my full attention. Don't fantasise about anyone else. Am in the moment and enjoying everything about it (Miss L)

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By *EAT..85Woman
3 days ago

Nottingham

Yup, I've definitely thought about other people while shagging someone else. I've never verbalised the wrong name though

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
3 days ago

North Somerset

I used to always close my eyes and think of someone else with my kids dad 🤣

Had some great sex with some famous people 🤣

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By *og and MuseCouple
3 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Did you say the wrong name? "

Only on purpose because the ‘rodeo’ effect makes you come faster

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By *otsowickedCouple
3 days ago

Galway

Yeah I have before, he's all I could think of!

Never said the wrong name tho

Mrs

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
3 days ago

Someplace

Yes and yes

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
3 days ago

Up North

I can honestly say I’ve never thought about anyone else or said the wrong name. If I’m in that moment I’m fully there.

I’d be absolutely fuming if someone called me by the wrong name 😂😂

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

I often don't know where or who I am, so there's a huge probability that I'd get someone's name wrong too and have done.

I now use nonverbals, to avoid mishaps

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By *sWyldWoman
3 days ago

Edinburgh

Every time I had sex with my ex husband

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By *histle79Man
3 days ago

Guildford

Yeah, definitely thought about other people but never said a wrong name

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By *umagain58Man
3 days ago

London

Many times and even with my wife. Mind you she has done to me. I rather like it perversely

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By *otsowickedCouple
2 days ago

Galway

I have been guilty of thinking of Someone else. Not my proudest moment. But I couldn't get her out of my mind. It was so hurtful to the person I was with but I couldn't help it. Mr

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By *andK999Couple
2 days ago

Loughborough

I love it when Mrs calls me by the names of mens we can not play with

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By *hickthighs25Woman
2 days ago

Stockton

"I can honestly say I’ve never thought about anyone else or said the wrong name. If I’m in that moment I’m fully there.

I’d be absolutely fuming if someone called me by the wrong name 😂😂

Same and 100% this 🤣🤣

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By *ripfillMan
2 days ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Yes … it did not go down well , it wasn’t the only thing that went down !

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By *ensualDivaWoman
2 days ago

Galway, Some sensual out West

Unless it's part of an agreed role play situation I think it's very disrespectful to the person you are with.

And if you aren't thinking of them why are you even there in the first place...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 days ago

Chichester

"Unless it's part of an agreed role play situation I think it's very disrespectful to the person you are with.

And if you aren't thinking of them why are you even there in the first place..."

Our brains can multi task. I am often thinking about 3 or 4 things at once processing . In the background while doing physical things in the forefront taking my immediate focus .

Sex is no different I find .

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By *elshlad85Man
1 day ago

Wrexham

Yeah couple of times 🙈🙈

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1 day ago

prescot

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By *ynamite500Man
1 day ago

Angus

I was having an intimate time with my ex partner a few years ago... And for some reason while I was switching the light off in the bed room, Peter Griffin popped into my head and I let out a quiet....heeeeeeeeeeeee! Needless to say it killed the mood for her and I couldn't stop laughing... It was funny though!!!🥴

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By *elboy1978Man
1 day ago

Jarrow

Yes a couple of times when I was intimate with the ex wife

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By *i married coupleXCouple
1 day ago

Bellshill

A few times we've been doing a role play situation and we've spoke about certain people when having sex but that's just a bit of fun, I wouldn't think about another person cos that's basically wishing it was someone that was fucking you

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By *illowPrincess89Woman
10 hours ago

West Midlands

I've done that a few times 🤭 x

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By *atwick_CougarWoman
10 hours ago

Unknown

God yes lol x

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